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Spiritual Self
Spiritual Self
Stage 1 – Anything Goes: This stage represents undeveloped spirituality; individuals in Stage I of
spiritual growth are manipulative and self-serving. Though they may pretend or even think they
are loving toward others, they are narcissistic and don’t really love themselves or others. There
are no values (such as truth or love) important enough to these people to override their own
desires, hence there is a lack of integrity and a chaos to their existence that they remain
unaware of.
Stage 3 – Questioning: Those who move beyond Stage 2, suddenly find themselves questioning
all the doctrines of the framework which they have previously adopted. This is a difficult,
troubling stage as what we have taken to be sacrosanct is now being challenged. The biggest
stumbling block in this stage is the fear that we are falling back to Stage I and hence we often
retreat into the perceived safety of the second stage. Whereas, whilst many people in this stage
describe themselves as atheist or agnostic, in reality they are active seekers of truth. People in
Stage 3 are actually more spiritually developed than most of those content to remain in Stage 2
because they are seeking the truth and internalising their own values rather than simply
accepting an external authority.
Stage 4 – Free Flowing: Through the struggle and insecurity of Stage III, either suddenly or
slowly, we emerge into the final stage which is characterised by an acceptance and peace with
who we are. We discover an alignment with the flow of life. We recognise, not as an intellectual
concept but as a lived experience, the true unity and interconnectedness of all things.
Spirituality
Spirituality can mean different things to different people. For some, it's primarily about
participation in organized religion. For others, it's a non-religious experience that involves
getting in touch with their spiritual selves through private prayer, yoga, meditation, quiet
reflection, or time in nature.
An instinct toward spirituality appears to be deeply ingrained in humans. People can't help but
ask big questions—research shows that even declared skeptics can't stifle a sense that there is
something greater than the physical world they see.
As the brain processes sensory experiences, it naturally looks for patterns—and people's
conscious selves often seek meaning in those patterns. This can lead to the phenomenon
known as "cognitive dissonance," which describes how, once one believes in something, one is
strongly inclined to try to explain away anything that conflicts with it. Cognitive dissonance is
not unique to religion or spirituality, but often occurs in the context of such beliefs.
PETER L. CALLERO
VIDAL,MARIANNE C.
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