BEHIND THE SCENE

Stories are usually made. Either naturally or intentionally. By some individuals, a group of
people and sometimes by yourself. One story is not enough to describe one life. Most people
judge, some may reflect, others don’t care. Honestly, most of the time I usually don’t care and I
don’t have any plan to meddle on someone else’s life but, certain things happen. For a reason not
to be called the ‘cold one’ or the ‘one who doesn’t know anything’ and especially because I am a
friend and I am a listener. I won’t share my story but I’ll tell what I felt for those who were left
behind their own story.
There’s this famous quotation from anonymous saying “your life, your own story” and I
strongly believe on that for God had given us a life to live for our own and not for anyone. From
what I observe people these days, meddling on someone else’s life, spreading rumours for their
own pleasure, not minding how it felt to be talked behind their backs. We have these habits,
gathering information’s of anyone updating the issues and trends for some purposes but have we
thought about those who were involved being uncomfortable. Yes we hear lots of stories but was
it really everything? We tend to understand the actual situation like for example, two people
arguing about betrayal. Basically we felt sympathy for the person who was betrayed and anger
for the ones at fault. But do we really have to pick sides, decide who to blame when we partially
knew the situation? That’s what we commonly react and for the time when we knew everything,
would everything be changed? Practically, it always depend on someone’s perspective but for me
always remember to see beyond the picture cause every story has it’s behind the scenes.