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Phase I : Ego Syntonic Phase II : Ego Dystonic Phase III : Ego Syntonic
Negative Self-View Ambivalent Self-View Positive Self-View
(unhealthy stance) (healthier stance) (healthy stance)
[this stage is often achieved via therapy]
Bad is fused with self In the process of separating from the Bad is replaced by good
(introjection of bad) : (introjected) bad : (introjection of good) :
“ I am bad. ” / “ I am not OK. ” “ I am not always bad. ” / “ I know it’s “ I am good. ” / “ I am OK. ”
not OK to think I am bad. ”
( ╪ OK ) ( ╪ / = OK ) ( = OK )
“My water is clouded and I’m OK with “I’m aware that my water is clouded “My water is clear and I want to keep it
it (as it is normal to me)” (“I may not and I know it should not be clouded” that way!”
be aware that my water is clouded!”)
◄ Absence of Self Relational Object Permanency ► ◄ Self Relational Object Permanency ►
* “Negative narcissism” is also known as negative self-concept / defectiveness schema / hyper self-criticalness / self-loathing.