Cherry A.

Tagama

12-STEM-01A

Why I want a husband

Husband is a married man and a lifetime partner in marital relationship. He is a
mature individual who promises his unparalleled and unconditional love, devote his time
and effort and spend the rest of his days for better or worse with his wife and provide
everything or something that will make her relived. Both husband and wife has its own
rights to make them feel free to do anything they want and has their own sets of
responsibilities to fulfill as one being in a marital relationship.

Many people think that husband is superior in the marriage and wife becoming
passive in the home that they chose not to speak out in order to avoid misunderstandings
and conflicts in their relationship and not to bring tension between them. It has some
speculations that husbands are being irresponsible in dealing intricate situations, neglecting
their roles as a husband and tolerating to let their wife do the household chores by herself
and resulting to quarrel or isolation.

On the contrary, people had some different understanding about the husband’s
treatment to their wife. The role of a husband is also difficult and weary part of every man
because they work hard enough to sustain the needs of his wife and children, they give
everything and exerts their entire vitality and effort to keep them at ease. A husband makes
facility to his own family and exposes how he absolutely committed and make implication
as a good husband that builds a good nature to his wife and children.

I want a husband that is willing to listen to my thoughts because he can give me

advice, helps me with my hardships and trials, the one who will protect me and defend me
when somebody insult me. I want a husband who will care for me when I am sick and
sympathize with my pain , can be considerate when things gets tough and is there when I
need someone to lean on, help me with my works, and always there to encourage me, love
me more the way I do, keep me and makes me feel relieved and happy.
 It is important to choose the right person to lead a happy marriage life. You must
find a partner that is honest and has a respect because it is important to have a relationship
that no one hides anything to his partner and very much open to express one's feelings. In
addition, you must look a person that has commitment, the one that is committed towards
your future, fulfilling his promises and remain loyal. Furthermore, a person that has a good
sense of humor which he makes you laugh when you feel stressed or even at your worst
mood leading to deal your problems with ease. It is also important that person is being
more considerate which he value you and does not persecute your shortcomings or
mistakes. Healthy relationship work together which both supporting each other's common
goals to reach it.