Professional Documents
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Do you really want a happy and satisfied life? Yes
of course. But have you every thought for it? I think
never.
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PREFACE
First of all please excuse me if you won’t like any
thing in the book or the way it is written. I do not
have any writing experience. So I just expressed
what I think, what I have realized about life and
have tried to make you realize, May be your views
are much different than me but I just want you to
think on it and follow the things what you think is
right, and encourage your surroundings to do so.
It will be beneficial to our society in long run. And
it will also increase the convenience and happiness
of our social life.
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yourself on most of the things written in the book
for better understanding of culture.
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CONTENTS
Author Message. 1
Introduction. 2
Preface 3
Contents 6
1. Exploration of "Right and Wrong”. 8
2. Basics of Culture. 10
3. Evolution of culture. 18
4. Various possible systems of society. 24
5. Religion and Happiness. 27
6. Make yourself clear on….... 32
a) Society 34
b) Politics 37
c) Society and Politics 41
d) Family 43
e) Education 46
f) Freedom 49
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g) Conservativeness 54
h) Development 57
i) Modernity 59
j) Money & Professional life 60
k) Virtue and Vice 61
l) Fashion 62
7. Concept of Conflict Margin. 64
8. Finally let's search happiness. 71
a) Reason for unhappy Environment 72
b) Creating a Happy Environment 73
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1. Exploration of “Right and Wrong”
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2. Basics of Culture
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And if you are an old person most probably you
would have a clear idea on it and definitely thinking
it a necessary thing for the human beings and must
be getting frustrated seeing youngsters deviating
from culture.
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Some time people say nothing is wrong in war and
love. But what I believe is “nothing is wrong in this
world” even If someone kill the other person and
ate up, then also it is not wrong as survival is the
only truth of the Nature. Then what is wrong, what
is right? Answer is simple, we are not animals we
are civilised people. We live in groups, so for our
convenience and mutual help we have setup some
rules and guidelines. So if we break the rules then
we are doing wrong relative to that group if
following then we are right.
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It’s very simple, you would say to reduce accidents
and trip time. Means this rule is beneficial for us
and drastically increased our convenience it might
have decreased our freedom to some extent.
Think if there is no rule of going from one side then
what would be the seen.
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In short we can say that the rules we follow in
our social life is our culture and the aim of our
culture is to provide happy social life. Culture
is set of some rules or guidelines to increase
our convenience and will be beneficial to us,
some in short run and others in long run.
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for an old person or a lady. And even on road you
help others. If you see everyone doing this then you
won’t be having tension for your family member as
there are many people to take care of them even
they are outside.
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3. Evolution of culture
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4. Various possible systems of society
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Let’s consider the basic needs of an individual for
survival, its food, shelter, care, love, sex, loyalty,
freedom recreation and many more things.
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That’s why we need to think a new system or a
structure with proper guidelines and rules so that
any individual will be able to full fill all his need.
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5. Religion and Happiness
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Even different religion has different story on God
but bottom line in every religion is same, and is to
provide happy social life to its followers in long
run. So every religion has its own culture, traditions
and guidelines. And religion followers follow them
to have happy social life. In some religion these
guidelines are followed very strictly where as in
some religion it’s very liberal. Many people follow
the rules by faith and few in fear of God. But now
days it seems that peoples have forgot the basics
behind religion, even some time religious leaders
are also not able to understand simple message of
religion “To provide happy life not only to its
followers but to all”. And also it needed for smooth
and continuous running of human lives on earth.
Now days few religious representative instead of
focusing on cultural balance (which is primarily
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needed for happy social life) focusing on religious
conversion, religious war and also in race of
proving there religion as best. Different Religions
are not there to discriminate or divide the peoples,
its just different ways to achieve a common or
single goal of having happy social life. Religion is
one level above to boundaries of our countries;
boundaries of our thoughts, its area of research
where study and research is need to be done to
improve human social life and happiness. Instead
doing research as above, many religious
representatives are working how to spread their
religion and how to prove it best. Yes, it’s good too
but not by forgetting basic one.
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and for every relation, which very much helps
individuals for leading a happy social life.
But now many things have changed, individual are
not able to get proper guideline to lead a happy life
or these guidelines are outdated and not fitting in
present scenario. So a new set of guidelines need to
be formed keeping individuals happiness in mind.
So a proper research need to be done on it and not
only by few person but every one should involve in
to it to form a new system new culture where goal
of having pleasant pass time over life will be
optimum for every individuals.
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6. Make yourself clear on….
a) Society
b) Politics
c) Society and Politics
d) Family
e) Education
f) Freedom
g) Conservativeness
h) Development
i) Modernity
j) Money & Professional life
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k) Virtue and Vice
l) Fashion
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Society:
But when we talk about society, many of us think
why be bothered of it and suggest doing the things
what you want even if it affects society. But before
this we need to understand what society is? What’s
the basic behind it? How we are related to it, how
our activities going to affect it, and at last how
society is going to affect us?
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Politics:
Politics is the area in which we deal, we study and
we form a system to take care of society, means an
administrative system in which all the needs of an
individual are taken care, where the primary goal
(pleasant and convenient time pass over life) of an
individual is taken care.
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society. Or we can say we will be able to feel
heaven itself on earth in that society.
Since evolution of culture we can see different type
of political system. But because of selfishness of
few people and lack of wisdom it has not reached to
its optimum level.
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Society and Politics:
Society is the simply collection of individuals. It is
spread over smallest unit family to over world. First
individuals are grouped in the family, then a
village, city, state then country and finally to world.
And this society has formed a system to take care
of happiness and development of each individual.
That system we know as Government. And this
society has given the power or right to the
government to make laws to take steps which are
good for society. And the study of these things is
called political science.
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Family:
There could be many ways (system) to live the life;
for example individual, in a large group or in a
family structure. In which most optimized and
stable solution on the basis of social happiness,
satisfaction and to keep human lives running on the
earth, is family system, but degree of freedom for
any individual is least in this system. On the other
hand degree of freedom is maximum in concept of
individuality but is worst in reference of social
happiness and satisfaction. Today most of people
are migrating to individuality without knowing its
effect on them or on to society, only they are seeing
high degree of freedom, freedom to live in own
way. Most of the animals live individually. As their
only need is food, some time sex (not exactly, in
animals, sex is the mean of reproduction not the
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mean of recreation) so it’s not problem for them to
live individual. Dependency is very less in animals.
In few species we see couples living together and in
few species animals live in small group. But in case
of humans dependency on each other is very much
as for human beings need is not only food but many
other things too.
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Education:
First of all we need to understand what is education
and its need. To achieve the goal of an individual to
have a pleasant time pass over life and also for
overall development of human beings we need to
know few things, we need to know what is right
what is wrong for us in long run and we need to
learn few things. This is what education is.
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But for a happy and satisfied society in log run we
should not ignore any of the main responsibility of
education. So present education system must
include social guidance, political responsibility, and
few other things which are needed for a good
society
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Freedom:
In short Freedom is the condition of being free; the
power to act, speak or think without externally
imposed restraints.
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Most of us care the things which directly harming
to others or to our self, but the activities which is
harmful to society we do not care as we do not see
any bad effects directly. As we are the part of
society so anything harming to society will some
how harm us, most of the time we could not see it
directly. Let’s take an example, pre marital sex, in
most of country pre marital sex is legal. If we think
in perspective of freedom it is okay, it is not
harming to any one directly at present. Now think it
in perspective of a family based society, in long
run, it encourages the social corruption, it disturbs
marital life so decreasing the social happiness some
time pre marital relation may hurt to your spouse’s
sentiments (If he/she did not have any pre marital
relations) which you had never thought at the time
of making pre marital relations. So pre marital sex
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or relations is having lots of bad effects on a family
based society and in our family life, which we do
not understand at the time of entering in the
relation. It was just an example to understand
our freedom in actual sense.
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Let’s take other example, an adult girl of some ones
family want to involve in prostitution, as legal in
many countries, but will her family allow her? But
why not, it’s her freedom if more than 18 year old.
Actually mature person in her family knows that in
long run it will some how harmful to her, to her
family and to society that’s why restricting her.
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Conservativeness:
Some time few people used to say my thinking as
conservative thinking. But the things I do or
suggest do not have any harmful effect on society
or on anyone, and also I do not stop any one doing
the things which are not harming to society (may be
someone would be thinking I am lying, but that was
the result of love and jealous not of
conservativeness).
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Development:
I think we have forgotten the meaning of it. We
think it as advancement of infrastructures and
facilities. But if we see in respect of individuals
happiness and satisfaction do we really advancing?
I think no, instead of going forward we are moving
back. Then what is the true meaning of
development?
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Money & Professional life:
On these we need to be more clear. Money is
simply a mode of service exchange among the
peoples. We are earning money means we are
earning buying power to get service from other.
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Virtue and Vice:
Virtues are not to just make us admirable but also it
helps to increase happiness in the society and of
ourselves. And vice is nothing but absence of Gyan
(knowledge) and it decreases the happiness in the
society and also of us.
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Fashion:
You might be thinking why I am discussing it here.
Because fashion has given great impact to our
culture and some how degraded it. Actually we
have deviated little bit from its actual meaning or
necessity. Fashion is needed to optimize or enhance
beauty or appearance of a particular person. But
now most of the people think it as costumes which
are in trend or resulting in attraction with opposite
sex. But few costumes are not good for society as
having sex appeal, which leads to wrong ideas.
But it’s not all the time men are wrong, few times
costumes worn by females arose sexually to men,
which is very harmful for the society based on
family concept.
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7. Concept of Conflict Margin
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Amount of Conflict = gap between the thoughts or
–ve margin.
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This situation is not only present in the offices, but
every where in the society, in the market, on the
road, in our home and everywhere.
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How to create a +ve margin environment?
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8. Finally let’s search happiness
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Reason for unhappy Environment:
Lack of education (can’t be able to see long
run benefit)
Cultural degradation.
Lack of uniformed social guidelines for all.
-Ve Conflict margin environment
Above are the main causes of unhappy
environment. Actually lack of education is the main
cause; Reason for Cultural degradation and –Ve
conflict margin is it self lack of education. Due to
lack of education few more things are resulting and
causing an unhappy environment as:
Unfair system
Unequal distribution of workload and
resources
Running towards glamour
And many more….
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Creating a Happy Environment:
Understand the “right and wrong” and do
accordingly.
Try to realize the need of culture and be a
good cultured.
Understand the Conflict Margin, try to create
+ve margin environment.
Follow the small but happy home concept…..
Do justice where you get the chance, most
importantly in political election.
Understand “Money” and “professional life”,
both are there so that one can improve his
personal life, but most of the time we do it
reverse.
Be modern & be bold, but in real sense.
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