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Run Your Race

Stay Focused

Dy Wakefield
Copyright © 2017 EMPOWERING YOU EVENTS, LLC. AND DY
WAKEFIELD. All rights reserved. No portion of this book may be
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Unless otherwise noted, all scripture is from the King James Version of the
Bible.

To learn more about Empowering You Events and its owner Dy Wakefield
visit her website:
www.EmpoweringYouEvents.com

Limits of Liability and Disclaimer of Warranty


The author and publisher shall not be liable for your misuse of this material.
This book is strictly for informational and educational purposes.
Warning – Disclaimer
The purpose of this book is to educate and entertain. The author and/or
publisher do not guarantee that anyone following these techniques,
suggestions, tips, ideas, or strategies will become successful. The author
and/or publisher shall have neither liability nor responsibility to anyone
with respect to any loss or damage caused, or alleged to be caused, directly
or indirectly by the information contained in this book.

Cover Image: From Big Stock Photo Company


Take your heels off, loosen up your bra strap, rest
your crown and scepter, sit and visit with me for a
while as you delve into my book.
~Dy Wakefield

Photo purchased from Big Stock


Dear Queen
As your Queenly duty you must rule righteously on the throne
therefore this book will empower you to rule successfully by
setting regal standards in you Queenpire, Queendom or
Queenasty.
According to Genesis 1:26, “Then God said, “Let us make man
in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion over
the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over the
livestock and over all the earth and over every creeping thing that
creeps on the earth.”

The scripture is stating that you were born to rule and reign by
taking dominion on this earth and you can do this through your
businesses creating wealth not just for you and your family for
generations but also to impact your community. To be able to do
this you have to have God in the center of everything.
I decree I declare you walk in your Wealthy Place!

Sincerely,

Queen Dy Wakefield

To God Be the Glory!


Empowering Women to
Perceive their Destiny TM
Awake O Queen, from
slumbering! Arise, and sit
on your throne to decree.TM
 Queen Dy
Contents
Introduction ............................................................................. 8

On your mark, Get set, Go!................................................. 10

Stay in Your Lane .................................................................. 21

Cross the Finish Line ........................................................... 38

The Prize is your Purpose ................................................... 43

Journal ..................................................................................... 46

Decree of “Now” ................................................................... 52

In Closing…............................................................................. 53
Run Your Race

Introduction

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Do you not know that in a race all the runners run,


but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to
get the prize. 1 Corinthians 9:24

You were born with a purpose and to be able to walk in it


you will have to stay the course. You have to train your
mind to what God called you to by being staying single
focused.

Whatever lane (purpose) you have been called to you will


need to make sure others don’t get in it. You must keep all
hindrance and distraction out and keep moving forward.

Your purpose is through your business so this book will


show you how to run your race, stay in your lane, cross
your finish line and receive that prize.

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Run Your Race

On your mark, Get set,


Go!

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You just entered the race to your Business Purpose now all
hell is about to break loose.

On your mark, get set, Go!


Flash Back:
You just heard from God about starting a business and you
are so excited. Your imagination is running with visions of
what your business would look like and how successful it
would be. Your child-like imagination has come back and
you can see yourself doing feats you would have never
thought of.

On your mark, get set, Go!


You decide to write down that vision that is buzzing in
your head; you began getting a clear vision of what route to
start. You are just so excited then you tell everybody about
this business dream of yours.

On your mark, get set, Go!


Uh oh:
You just made a mistake; in your excitement you shared
your dreams to the wrong person.

On your mark, get set, Go!

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The wrong person: Well I don’t think you need to start a


business. Do you know starting a business is very risky?

A bystander: Oh yeah I had a friend start a business and


she lost all her money she wasn’t able to recover any of the
loss.

The wrong person: You better leave that business stuff


alone.

A bystander: Yeah I agree you need to leave that business


s stuff alone.

On your mark, get set, Go!


You: I think I will change my mind with starting a business
for right now. [Fear has just set in.]

The Holy Spirit: Queen I told you I will never leave you
or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Take dominion in the
business world.

You: God maybe they are right starting a business right


now during this recession is not a good idea.

The Holy Spirit: He who has an ear, let him hear what the
Spirit says (Revelation 3:6). Start your business!

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You: Holy Ghost I am not trying to be disobedient but I


don’t know about that.

On your mark, get set, Go!


Scene Location: Empowering You Event Conference
“The Queen in You” 2017

Queen Dy: Listen Queen you have been born with a


purpose God created you as Queen and Priestess and you
are to take dominion. You are to create and have Business
Queendoms. Do you know through your Business
Queendom you can be blessed? Girl I am talking about the
best of everything. God wants you to reflect Him on earth.
So if He is King you are His child. You are a child of the
King. You are no longer a princess you are a Queen. Stop
listening to all those haters. Pick up your crown, put on
robe and sit on your throne and decree.

The Audience: Yes I am Queen!

You: I am a Queen!

Audience member: I know that’s right I am Queen


everybody better recognize whose presence they are in.

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Queen Dy: God is not just going to bless you so you can
hog all the wealth He wants you to help others and impact
your community. Yes girl get your debts paid off, get your
house or houses, get your car or cars, save back for raining
days, save back for fun time and leave an inheritance for
future generations. Now with that extra money you need
to ask God how can you impact this world.

Audience member: Wow that was deep. God would


bless me to be a millionaire and have nice things and even
for my generations and help out my community. That is
great I always wanted to have a shelter for women and
children to escape from domestic violence. I would name
the shelter after my friend who died by the hands of a
violent boyfriend.

You: Hmmm! I always wanted to start a school for kids


who have been bullied. Teen suicide is too high in my area
all because of bullying.

You: Maybe that’s not a good idea. By having a successful


business I can have a school built in my name for students
who are being bullied so they can be at a no bully zone.
What if the business fails?

You: No, my business want fail the Holy Ghost told me to


start it. I don’t know!

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Queen Dy: Queen don’t let doubt or fears enter your


mind. God wants you to think big. If you have ideas that
are bigger than yourself then those are God ideas so you
will need Him to help you reach those goals. If you can do
it all yourself you wouldn’t need God.

You: Yes, I am going to start a school for kids who are


being bullied.

Queen Dy: Let me tell you Queen giving comes easy to


you. Your compassion is like a GPS and it shows you
where thing are not right so you will go and help. Yes you
could see in your area domestic violence is high and you
want to put a stop to it by having a shelter. Maybe you
want to start a school.

Audience member #1: You took that right out of my


mouth. God is confirming to me to start a shelter.

You: Wow, start a school that was on my mind I know she


was talking to me.

Audience member #2: I never thought that I could


impact my community but I do see changes that are needed
there.

Audience member #3: Money with a purpose okay I get


it I can use my business for a purpose.

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Queen Dy: God has called you to business so I suggest


taking time out daily and sit and just listen for Him to
direct and guide you. I take time out and just sit waiting to
hear from God. It was hard at first because I wanted to get
on the internet or just do something else. I would be like
okay Holy Ghost I need to hear from you. Then He would
give me ideas. Sometimes it may happen instantly or later.
To me it like downloads from Heaven of ideas in the route
to go for my business. Did I get it right every time, girl no
but I stayed in the lane. Just start off getting quiet for 10
minutes and ask the Holy Ghost show you what you need
to do today toward your business.

Queen Dy: When I started my business I wanted to give to


missions to Israel but since then my vision has gotten even
bigger. I have been inspired by other business people who
use their business to impact their communities. For
instance, Toms Shoes this cat started his business to help
provide shoes to people in need. He started a shoe
business so with every shoe sale he turns around and gives
a pair to those in need. Queen I want you to think socially,
basically you are setting yourself as a ‘Social Entrepreneur.’

The Audience: Social Entrepreneur! Social Entrepreneur!


I Am a Social Entrepreneur!

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Queen Dy: As I stated my giving vision has broaden to


being a blessing to women and girls in 8 philanthropic areas
globally. In one of those areas, I focus on Women’s
Economics which support entrepreneurship, advocacy and
eradicating poverty, homelessness, and hunger and blessing
widows and orphans. But it goes further than that my
company gives to organizations whose mission is to
empower women in impoverished and war torn countries
to succeed in their economic conditions so they can impact
their communities. Some of these women have started
their own businesses.

Queen Dy: As a Business Queen you can be the agent of


change.

Audience member #1: Agent of change?

Audience member # 2: Yeah, I am an agent of change.

You: Agent of change?

Queen Dy: Think about this Queen you could come up


with a beauty products that combats dry skin and then you
can take some of those products and donate it to cancer
patients that are taking chemo that makes their skin dry to
give them relief. There are so many ways you can create
your social entrepreneurship.

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Queen Dy: You know I must go there. For all of you who
are familiar with me I am a Tax Strategist. I received a
Bachelor in Science degree in Accounting and a Master in
Finance specializing in Financial Planning. I have to always
share with you the tax benefits for doing anything in your
business. The IRS tax code was specifically designed for
businesses because businesses stimulate the economy by
providing jobs and impacting communities. Charitable
donations are tax deductible. You will be able to help
those in needs and the IRS will award you will deductions
and credits. This is a win-win.

You: Social Entrepreneur!

Queen Dy: God will bless you with a business and I tell
everyone to honor Him back through your company
finances by giving a tithe off your revenues to your local
church and give donations to a charity of your choice. To
me this is like sealing in your trust to God and telling Him
you accept Him as your business partner and you will listen
to His guidance.

You: Oh wow, okay Holy Ghost let’s do this business


thang but first I want you to be my business partner. I see
now that the enemy brought those two people in my path
to get me off my business course.

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Queen Dy: I want to thank you for coming out you are
reaching while some other women are contemplating their
life’s purpose you made a decision to do something about
it. You came to this conference. Please check out the
others speakers we have for these three days. You will not
be disappointed.

On your mark, get set, Go!


Scene Location: Home

You: Thank you Holy Ghost for leading me to this


conference I really needed to go to a place that wasn’t
negative and be around other positive people. I really
learned a lot from all of those speakers. Several of those
business speakers’ stories were empowering.

You: I really like the Lifestyle section of the conference I


learned some etiquette and beauty tips. I was glad it wasn’t
just all business it was a mix of business and pleasure.

You: I noticed Queen Dy had a few programs that I am


interested in I am deciding between the partnership,
membership or protégé program. I need all the support I
can get.

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You: Okay Holy Ghost I am all in I am not going to say I


am not afraid because I am. I do not know what the path is
going to take me to but I will trust you.

The Holy Spirit: I didn’t give you the spirit of fear but
power love and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). Lean not to
your own understanding I will direct your path (proverbs
3:5).

On your mark, get set, Go!

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Stay in Your Lane

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You got a good pace going on let’s speed it up some


though.

Stay in your lane


HINDRANCES

You will need to come up with a time management


system for you. Things are becoming a distraction to
you. You have to make a decision to turn off the
television, not answer the phone and stop checking your
emails every few minutes.

Hey I see you stop web searching if it does not pertain to


the business stay away.

Stay in your lane


Okay trying to do it on your own isn’t helping let’s get
some reinforcements how about someone to keep you
accountable. Maybe you need a mentor. You know what
Mary Kay Ash talked about Time Management she
would get up at 5 am every morning and take time to
check over any emails and get some work done in that
quiet morning without hindrance or distractions.

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Naw! you don’t need a mentor yet let’s follow Mary Kay
Ash’s advice. Set you alarm for 5 am. Okay she also
said before she goes to bed she make out a list of six
things that needs to be done the next day.

Write down six things that must be done tomorrow. Start


with the most important first. You got your list done.
Enjoy the rest of the night and I will see you in the
morning.

Beep Beep Beep: Alarm Clock


Get up sleepy head. Go do you bathroom thang and meet
back here.

Okay you look awake now. What I would suggest first is


take time out and spend with God praying and reading
the word first.

Okay its 6 am is it too early for breakfast. Oh yeah you


eat breakfast at 8 am. Okay well we got two hours to do
some work.

What is the first thing on your list? You said you don’t
want to do that first. Why not? Because it is too hard.
Okay let’s get this done then first for sure.

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Oh my goodness. You see that wasn’t hard you just


needed to motivate yourself. It seemed like a lot of work
but once you got started you finished. Yes it took a little
bit longer about two hours but aren’t you glad you did
this first. Okay let’s go to step two. Oh wait eat breakfast.

Let’s tackle the second item. Do you want to hear some


music in the background? Sometimes music gets the
worker bee in you working. Sure! Okay.

You are looking restless why don’t you get up and walk
around. Take a break. How about going outside and get
some fresh air.

Right now your body doesn’t want to conform so you


have to push against it and make it conform. You have to
be in control not your mind/body controlling you.

It’s 10 am. You need some type of motivation. You


haven’t gotten off of the second item yet.

Go chill out on the sofa and open up the laptop. You


signed up for the Membership Program from the
Empowering You Event right. Okay let’s see what in that
program that will motivate you. There is a magazine you
can download. Oh here are some audios and videos you
can listen to or watch.

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How funny here is a video on Time Management. What


is this, How to get things done in a hostile environment?
No, you don’t need that one. This title look good, Setting
yourself up for Success: 8 tips to follow through on your
assignments. Let’s check this one out.

Do you feel empowered? Yes, okay let push through.


Wait? Why? Oh you want to see what else is offered in
the membership. Let’s see oh they do a live session with
Queen Dy. Okay if you have questions you send a
message to her. Oh here is a community you can ask
question for general questions.

So you want to finish up the second step and call it a day.


Sure. Why? Oh you are tired. Oh you are not used to
getting up at 5 a.m. Okay, what time did you go to bed
last night? 1 a.m.? You can’t do that. You should try
going to bed maybe around 10 p.m. or 11 p.m.

You finished. Okay Mary Kay states when you do not


finish with the items on your list just make another list
for the next day and bring those items to the top and add
to the list making it a total of six items.

Stay in your lane

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DISTRACTORS

Distractor # 1: I see you are working from your home


now. Could you take me to my doctor’s appointment? I
don’t have a ride.

You: Sure

You: {thinking out loud} If I wasn’t working from home


who would take her to the doctor.

Distractor #1: Girl you are the best thank you for taking
me to my doctor’s appointment. I have another one next
week would you take me to that one.

You: Sure!

Stay in your lane


Distractor #2: Could you help me plan the church
program?

You: Sure

Distractor #2: Since you have the computer and printer


could you just create the program? You will really be
helping me out.

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You: No, problem.

You: {thinking out loud} Who has been doing the church
programs before she came to me? She just doesn’t want
to pay Kinkos. This sucks.

Distractor # 2: Thanks for doing the church program for


me. I am sorry I couldn’t stay to help you.

You: Um hmm!

Distractor #2: Is everything okay?

You: Sure.

Stay in your lane


Distractor #3: Hey girl I didn’t know you work from
home I don’t have a baby sitter for Little Ray Ray do you
mind watching him while I look for a job.

You: Sure!

You: Little Ray Ray stop crying I need to get my work


done. OMG!!!!!!!

You: Little Ray Ray where is your mama. I need you to


stop crying.

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You: {thinking out loud} This sucks she only brought a


few diapers and she didn’t even leave a car seat.

You: {thinking out loud} I haven’t gotten anything done.


Why hasn’t she come back to pick up little Ray Ray. I
need to get things done. This boy has been crying all
day.

Distractor #3: Thank you for watching Little Ray Ray

You: I thought you went to look for a job.

Distractor #3: I did

You: It’s 7 pm what place is open this late

Distractor #3: Hey cuz I also hung out with some


friends

You: Yeah cuz but you forgot about Little Ray Ray and
he ran out of diapers.

Distractor #3: Oh yeah about that I hoped you would


have picked him up a bag.

You: How could I since I didn’t have a car seat.

Distractor#3: Oh yeah about that (silence)

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You: Oh I am sorry but I have to finish up on my work I


will see you later. [ticked off]

Stay in your lane


You: I just wasted practically this week dealing with all
these relatives, friends and people I don’t normally deal
with especially if I had a 9 to 5.

You: Let me go back to my Membership site.

You: Let’s see. “Removing Distractors from your Life.”


I definitely need to watch this.

You: Oh my goodness I just gave into all these people I


need to learn to say no. What if they get mad at me?
Well that might be a good thing then they want come to
my door anymore. What if my aunt call my mom and tell
her I have been mean? Blood is thicker than water,
right? There’s a sucker born every minute. SMH!

You: Decisions, decisions, decisions.

You: In that teaching video “Removing Distractors from


your Life,” step one, states to say no. Step two, states
take courage and let them go.

You: I have to do this.

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Stay in your lane


Distractor #1: Ring, Ring, Ring

You: I am not picking up this phone

Distractor #1: message “Sorry I didn’t catch you I want


to ask if you could take me to another doctor’s
appointment I have tomorrow sorry it is last minute.”

Distractor #1: Ring, Ring, Ring

Distractor #1: message “Once again it’s me. I really


need you to call me back I need a ride to the doctor
tomorrow.”

Distractor #1: Ring, Ring, Ring

Distractor #1: message “You would really be doing me


a favor if you could take me to the doctor tomorrow. I
will try your mom to see if you are there.”

You: Oh hell no now she is putting my mama in this.

You: Ring, Ring, Ring

Distractor #1: Oh I am so glad you called me back I was


just about to call your mom to see if you were over there.

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You: I am sorry but I can’t take you to the doctor.

Distractor #1: silence of unbelief

You: Oh did you hear me.

Distractor #1: Yes. Why can’t you take me?

You: I will not be able to take you tomorrow or next


week you need to find another sucker person.

Distractor #1: Oh please you don’t understand I have no


one to take me after George died it is hard getting to my
appointments. [crying]

You: Before I had a home based business how did you


get to your doctor’s appointments.

Distractor #1: I would take the bus

You: Well I guess you need to start taking the bus I will
not be taking you to anymore doctor’s appointment. I got
to go. [mad as hell]

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Stay in your lane


Distractor #2: Girl that program you did for me last time
was good. I love how you added all those extras in it. Do
you think you can help me create another one?

You: Excuse me. Help you create another one. You


never created the first one. [bitter]

Distractor #2: Girl I am sorry I didn’t mean that. You


know I was just kidding. I know you did it all.

You: Yeah but you probably told everybody you did it.

Distractor #2: Girl you crazy you know I didn’t.

You: I hope not because I put my name all over it. Oh I


guess you didn’t read it all the way through.

Distractor #2: silent

You: Is everything alright?

Distractor #2: Sure girl! Do you think you could help


me out?

You: No

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Distractor #2: No, why not?

You: Because I said so.

Distractor #2: Are you mad at me?

You: You damn right I am mad at you. You come up


here with this bull crap asking me to help you and I did
all the work. You ask me to help you all in the Name of
Jesus. That’s bull. Sorry God.

Distractor #2: You have issues

You: Yeah it’s called you trying to leech off me but I am


not having it anymore. [1, 2, 3, 4 counting to calm down,
mad as hell]

You: Get the stepping!

Stay in your lane


Distractor #3: What’s up cuz I brought Little Ray Ray
for you to watch him while I go look for a job.

You: I’m sorry what!

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Distractor #3: Oh yeah I forgot to call you last night to


see if you would watch him for me but hey I am here
now let us in.

You: Nope you are not welcomed in my house you and


Little Ray Ray will have to go somewhere else.

Distractor #3: Do you want me to tell my mama?

You: What does that mean to me?

Distractor #3: Because she will call your mama and tell
her you were mean to your own cousin.

You: No you have no respect for me. You brought your


bratty ass son up in my house with only a few diaper and
no baby food and expecting me to buy his diapers. Hell
no. [1, 2, 3, 4 counting to calm down]

You: OMG! [1, 2, 3, 4 counting to calm down]

Distractor #3: Are you okay? You look like you are
going to have a heart attack.

You: [1, 2, 3, 4 counting to calm down]

You: You know what you need to leave.

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Distractor #3: Who’s going to watch Little Ray Ray?

You: The people who were watching him before I started


my home based business. [door slams]

You: #$@&%*!

You: Father God in Jesus Name I repent for literally


going off on those people. I repent for becoming bitter
toward them. I just couldn’t take it anymore. Thank you
Father for forgiving me I receive my forgiveness and
cleansing.

You: I feel so bad I need to call them to apologize

The Holy Spirit: These people were put in your life to


cause havoc if you call them they would think they got
you where they want you and try to continue to use you.
Just let them go and Stay in your lane.

You: Wow Holy Ghost that seems kinda harsh.

The Holy Spirit: You remember where you read when


Jesus was mad and kicked out those merchants from the
temple. You have to kick out wrong people from your
life (Matthew 21:12).

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Stay in your lane


Scene: Dr. Mike Murdock Periscope

Dr. Mike: “It is answer to prayer when God does a


spiritual enema in your life flushing out the wrong
people.”

You: That was funny!

Dr. Mike: “Wrong people rarely leave voluntarily,


release them.”

You: Say what!

You: “Wrong people rarely leave voluntarily, release


them.”

You: Wow, I needed to hear this word Holy Ghost.

Stay in your lane


You: Let’s get back on track!

You: I need some empowering!

You: Wow I feel kinda free

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You: Wait a minute those chicks were stressing me out

You: Because I am happy! [dancing and singing]

You: Oh shoot I need to get back on track. Holy Ghost,


help me?

Holy Ghost: Just do what I told you to do in the first


place.

You: Oh yeah let me get my goal sheet

Stay in your lane

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Run Your Race

Cross the Finish Line

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You have writing out your daily, weekly, monthly and


yearly goals.

Cross the Finish Line


Daily
Monday - Bam, done!
Tuesday - Bam, done!
Wednesday - Bam, done!
Thursday - Bam, done!
Friday - Bam, done!

Weekly
 Okay I meet my weekly goal.
 You go girl!

Monthly
 Wow the business is coming together.
 Look at the progress I made.
 I introduce the Product One.

Notes:
 Had a little setback but kinda expected that when I
wrote my goals so I allowed myself some leeway.
 Implemented some marketing strategies

Cross the Finish Line

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Daily
Monday - Bam, done!
Tuesday - Took a day off for Me Time
Wednesday - Bam, done!
Thursday - Bam, done!
Friday - I think I will work 4 days a week

Weekly
 Okay I meet my weekly goal.
 I am thinking about hiring a part-time assistant

Monthly
 Working on another prototype
 Little stressful but this prototype is coming along
nicely

Notes:
 The sales for the Product One aren’t selling like I
thought it would.
 Back to the drawing board on Product One
 Employed Guerilla marketing tactics hopefully this
will work

Cross the Finish Line

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Daily
Monday - Bam, done!
Tuesday - Bam, done!
Wednesday - Bam, done!
Thursday - Bam, done!
Friday - Off

Weekly
 Okay I meet my weekly goal.
 The assistant is working out fine thinking about
hiring her full-time.

Monthly
 Prototype was manufactured
 My time was freed up was able to spend more time
listening to the Holy Ghost’s directions.

Notes:
 The sales for Product One has picked up the
Guerilla marketing tactic with the t-shirts helped.
When people saw the t-shirts they inquired.
 I am very surprise Product Two sales went through
the roof right off that bat.
 Having my assistant come up with an online
questionnaire to see why Product Two is so
popular. I am not complaining but I really like
Product One.

Cross the Finish Line


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Daily
Monday - Bam, done!
Tuesday - Bam, done!
Wednesday - Bam, done!
Thursday - Bam, done!
Friday - Off

Weekly
 Okay I meet my weekly goal.
 The assistant is full-time and I offered her some
nice incentives to keep her she is a vital asset.

Monthly
 Just created another product off of Product One
 The Holy Ghost showed me an idea to branch off
of Product One now I have Product Three

Notes:
 Enjoying the sales I am able to pay myself.

Cross the Finish Line

Stay Vision Focused, you can Party Later!

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The Prize is your


Purpose

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Your purpose is anything you are dedicating your life to


help fulfill a need in someone’s life. ~Dy Wakefield

The Prize is your Purpose


You went to your county’s planning commission for
plans to have a school constructed in your community.
You have followed all legal and educational procedures
for this school to be implemented.

Your purpose is dedicating your life to stop bullying and


give children a chance to grow and learn in a safe and
bully free environment to help them expand their
horizons to be productive citizens. You used your
business as a tool to fulfill your life’s purpose.

The Prize is your Purpose


You don’t just stop in your community. It’s okay to pat
yourself on the back but you have to think bigger.

The Prize is your Purpose

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You: I believe I will build these types of schools in each


county within my state.

You: Let me write this vision down

You: You know what, I have a Big God! I will plan to


have these school built within all 50 states and even
globally.

The Prize is your Purpose


You: This moves my heart to be able to create wealth
and help those in need.

The Holy Spirit: Queen, remember God for He is the


one who give you the ability to create wealth
(Deuteronomy 8:18).

You: God I got you!

The Prize is your Purpose

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Decree of “Now”

If you laid down your dream, you know, that business, that ministry,
those dance shoes, that baby, that ball, that tool, pick it up.

Pick it up I say, Pick it up!

You are in the Spirit of Now.

Now I can have that Business.


Now I can have that Missions Ministry.
Now I can Dance.
Now I can have that Baby.
Now I can play Pro Basketball
Now I can be a Mechanic
Now! Now!

Say Now and Pick it Up!

Decree over your life! Decree that whatever dream you let die or put
aside that you pick it up Now. Decree you will get goals for it.
Decree you will find a mentor to help you. Decree over your life!

- Dy Wakefield

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In Closing…

Run your race. Stay the course. Stay in your lane. Cross
the Finish line. Get your Prize.

I bless your customers and clients. I bless them to pay your


expertise prices. I bless them to be a blessing to you. I bless
your business to be a blessing to the community and the
Kingdom of God. I bless your business to make money 24/7
because according to Isaiah 60:11 your gates shall be open
continually; day and night they shall not be shut, that people
may bring to you the wealth of the nations, with their kings led
in procession.. I bless your staff to help you fulfill your
business dreams. I bless you with creative ability and wisdom.
I bless you and your family for more quality family time
together. I bless you in the Name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.

I decree Psalm 1:3 & Jeremiah 17:18 over your life and
business "[You and Your Business] will be like a trees planted
by the rivers of water that brings forth its fruits in its season; its
income sources shall never wither or [stop streaming] and
whatsoever your business does shall prosper. [You] won't fear
when [competition] comes, and [Your Business] leaves will be
green [prosperous]. In a year of drought [recession, depression]
[You] won't be concerned, nor will [Your Business] stop
producing fruit.

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Contact

Website: www.EmpoweringYouEvents.com

Email: contact@empoweringyouevents.com

TESTIMONY:testimony@empoweringyouevents.com

Social Media

Facebook: www.facebook.com/EmpoweringYouEvents

Twitter: www.twitter.com/EmpoweringYouEv

Instagram: www.instagram.com/EmpoweringYouEvents

Flickr : www.flickr.com/photos/empoweringyouevents/albums

For Inquiries:

EmpoweringYou Events, LLC.

501 Old Greenville Hwy Ste 8 PMB 393

Clemson, SC 29631

Telephone 864.986.0588

Prayer Request 864.506.8593

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God as your Business Partner

If your tired of trying to do things your way in life and


business, how about giving Jesus a try? Ask Jesus to be the
Lord and Savior over your life and business. Allow Him to
come into your heart. Be sincere. Be fed up with how
your life and business is going now and tell Jesus you will
try Him. All I ask is for you to just try Him. Your life will
never be the same. Give Him a try.
Please repeat after me, “Jesus come into my heart, I am
tired of living the life I am living now. I confess that you
died on the cross for my sins and rose again. Jesus I
choose you to be the Lord and Savior over my life. God I
also want you to be my Business Partner in the Name of
Jesus Christ of Nazareth.”
A gift for you
If you’ve accepted Jesus as your Lord, Savior, and
Business Partner, please write to me or email me [See
Contact Page] to receive your gift book “New Beginnings
as Queen and Priestess.”
In your letter or email include your full name, address and
phone number. (We will only call you if we have issues with
mailing of your book).

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Prayer for Healing

Lord according to Isaiah 45:11 I command your hand to stretch


forth according to Acts 4:30 and to cast out unclean spirits from
this Queen, heal every sickness and disease and resurrect things
in her life and that signs and wonders may be done by the name
of thy holy child Jesus. Jesus identify with this Queen as a baby
in her mother’s womb at the time she was experiencing seeds of
rejection which took root and clouded her whole perception of
life. Heal her heart and set her free. Awaken this Queen and
remove scales from her eyes. Lord forgive her of any sins of
commission and omission. I apply the blood of Jesus, deposit
the Dunamis Power and shine the Glory Light of Jesus in her
soul in the Name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Be healed and be
made whole Queen!

Faith Confession:
But [Jesus] saw (me) and he called (me) and said to (me),
“Woman, you are released from your affliction.”

Forgiveness
To really be set free and healed you must forgive. Start off with
your parents (if you know them or not) but say Lord I forgive
my parents of their sins against me. Then ask God to reveal to
you people you need to forgive. When He shows you ask Him
to give you the power to forgive them and one by one forgive
them from what they did to you so you can be free.

Acknowledgement: I want to thank John and Paula Sandford for


their teaching “Healing prenatal wounds and sins” which was a part
of the prayer. .

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Walking in your Queenly Authority


PLEASE NOTE: You must be saved or in other words you must
have accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior by confessing
that with your mouth before you can be baptized in the Holy Spirit.

ACTION STEP
Please repeat after me, “I am now reborn! I am a Christian - a child
of Almighty God! I am saved! You also said in Your Word, “If ye
then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children:
HOW MUCH MORE shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit
to them that ask him?” (Luke 11:13). I’m also asking You to fill me
with the Holy Spirit. Holy Spirit, rise up within me as I praise God.
I fully expect to speak with other tongues as You give me the
utterance (Acts 2:4). In Jesus’ Name. Amen!”
Begin to praise God for filling you with the Holy Spirit. Speak
those words and syllables you receive - not in your own language, but
the language given to you by the Holy Spirit. You have to use your
own voice. God will not force you to speak. Don’t be concerned
with how it sounds. It is a heavenly language!
Continue with the blessing God has given you and pray in the spirit
every day. You are a born-again, Spirit-filled believer. You’ll never
be the same!

Acknowledgement: This Baptism in the Holy Spirit prayer is from


Kenneth Copeland Ministry my spiritual parents and partner.

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Show Your Commitment

Think about documenting your commitment to God as


your Business Partner. Commit to giving 10% of all your
business revenues to your local church as Tithes. Commit
to give a portion (per your discretion) of your revenues to
help the poor (God’s Heart is to the poor). If you do not
have a church, ask God to direct you to the right church.
As a Business Partner He can direct you in the right
products and services, right pricing levels for your products
and services, who to hire and who not to hire, who to fire,
who to have as clients or who not to deal with. God can
reveal things to you that you cannot discern with your eyes.
Let God lead you and watch Him accelerate your business.
One thing to remember, do not forget that God is the one
that gave you this wisdom and enablement. Praise God in
all you do. Always share your testimony to others of the
Goodness of God in your life.
Empowerment
Business women who have God as their Partner:
 Mary Kay Ash - Mary Kay Cosmetics
 Madam CJ Walker - Black Hair Care
 Mary C Crowley - Home Interiors and Gifts

 Dy Wakefield - Several Companies

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About the Author

Dy Wakefield, The Queen of Wealth Advice ™ is an Author, Speaker,


Radio Host, Tax Strategist, Social Entrepreneur, and Network Marketing
Expert.
Dy is the founder of Wealthy Woman Dy Investments, Inc., Dy
Wakefield International, LLC. and Empowering You Events (EYE).
Dy has over 20 years in Accounting, Bookkeeping, Tax Preparations and
Business Start-Up. Dy received her BS in Accounting from Clemson
University and a Master in Finance specializing in Financial Planning from
Kaplan University.
Dy has dedicated her life to empower women by awakening the Queen
inside into leaders to own businesses and to be world changers. To help
them achieve their destiny through a balanced life and excellence.
Queen Dy’s passion for helping women stems from personal experience
of being under paid and underappreciated in corporate America. She wants
to break the cycle by helping birth out leaders. 'Dy' is the acronym for
"delivery" and she calls herself the midwife for business women. Being a
double minority Black and Woman, Dy at times felt like she was at the
bottom of the totem pole but she knows that it is God's grace and faith that
elevate you not what society has limited you to.
Queen Dy passion to help women has led her to puts on annual
EMPOWERING YOU Events. These events are live seminar geared
toward Women who are interested in starting a business or already have a
business. This event is a sisterhood to EMPOWER. TRAIN. CREATE to
be Wealthy and Healthy. This event will focus on the importance of
balance in FAITH, FAMILY, FITNESS and FINANCE as women
embrace the role of Queen ruling and reigning in their business Queendom.
The events motto is Empowering Women to Perceive their Destiny™

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EYE Partnership

To learn more about what each partnership level’s offers and its
pricing please go to
http://eyepartnership.weebly.com/

I promise to do the following for you:


1. Offers per partnership type [GO TO WEBSITE TO SEE
THE OFFERS]
a. One-time Partnership
b. Monthly Partnership
c. Royal Partnership
d. Queen of Sheba Partnership
2. Monthly email Empowerment Blast
3. Monthly Partner Letter
4. Commit to pray for you, your family and business daily
5. Commit to stand in agreement with your prayers to God and
your faith
a. *Note: Make sure you are praying with the right
motives
 When you ask, you do not receive, because
you ask with wrong motives. James 4:3

I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all
of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership.
Philippians 1:3-5

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Books by Dy Wakefield
Empowering You Events, LLC.:
www.empoweringyouevents.com
1. Empowering You Decrees: Moving you into Now!
2. Successful Business Women: You too can be One
3. Delegation: Organizing your Company and Beyond
4. Run Your Race: Stay Focused

Wealthy Woman Dy Investments, Inc.:


www.wealthywomandy.com
1. How Individuals Can Save On Taxes: Year End Strategies
2. Start Your Own Business and Create the Lifestyle You Want
3. Quotes for Aspiring Business Owners: Inspiration to Start a
Business
4. Quotes for Small Business Owners: Inspiration to Run your
Business
5. Queen Dy’s Decree: 7 Decrees to walk you in your Business
Wealthy Place
6. Aspiring Business Woman: Start Your Own business
7. The Queen in You: 3 Steps to your Business Queendom
8. 3 Types of Business Queens: Which One are You?
9. Charitable Queen: Tikkun Olam-Using your business to Heal
the World
10. The Ezine Years: Compilation of Article by Dy Wakefield
11. Be the Business Queen you were Born to Be: Stop living your
life as a Movie or TV Character

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12. Business Tax Strategies: Multiplying your Business


Queendom’s Wealth
13. How to Protect your Real Estate Assets: Worry Free Estate
Taxation
14. Owning Property with Tax Lien Certificates: Low Risk
Investing
15. Empowering Queens: Birthing out the Entrepreneurial Spirit
16. The Queen on the Throne: Ruling Successfully in your
Queendom
17. Ruling as Queen: Inspiration from Queen Esther
18. How to Write a Book: A 7 Step Guide
19. Expanding your Queendom: Creative Ideas for other Streams
of Income
20. Power is in your Purpose: Emancipation to a Queendom
Reign
21. Power, Purpose, Position, Place and Power: 5 P’s of a
Successful Queen
22. The Queen in You Journal: A Companion Journal to The
Queen in You book
23. Aspiring Business Woman Journal: A Companion Journal to
Start your Own Business
24. Establishing your Business Queenpire from the Kingdom of
God
25. Awake O Queen from Slumbering!: Arise and sit on your
Throne to Decree
26. Throne Cleaning: Removing the Wicked Officials - How to
Identify Toxic and Difficult Employees
27. Shaved my Legs and Nowhere to Go: What is keeping you
from your Business Destiny?

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28. Queen, are you dealing with Stress? Managing Stress in your
Queendom
29. Increase: Preparing your Queendom
30. Your Queendom the Territory you Control: How to make it
Prosperous?

Dy Wakefield International, LLC.:


www.dywakefield.com
1. How Dr. Mike Murdock Inspire Me to be a Millionaire
2. I Am Myself Again: How to Break Free from Controlling
People
3. When All Hopes Are Lost: Empower Yourself
4. Your Gratitude Determines Your Blessings: A 30 Day
Gratitude Journal
5. Couponing 101: Compilation from Wealthy Woman Dy Blog
6. Dream Journal: Awake to the Mysteries of the Night
7. 10 Minutes with God: Shutting everything down to hear
from God
8. Be Healed in Jesus Name: Demanding your healing from
Heaven
9. How Dr. Mike Murdock Inspire Me to be a Millionaire
10. I Am Myself Again: How to Break Free from Controlling
People

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11. When All Hopes Are Lost: Empower Yourself


12. Your Gratitude Determines Your Blessings: A 30 Day
Gratitude Journal
13. Couponing 101: Compilation from Wealthy Woman Dy Blog
14. Dream Journal: Awake to the Mysteries of the Night
15. 10 Minutes with God: Shutting everything down to hear
from God
16. Be Healed in Jesus Name: Demanding your healing from
Heaven
17. I Am Myself Again Journal: A Companion Journal for
Breakthrough
18. Soul Vacation: Taking Time out to Heal your Soul
19. Stop Giving your Control Away: A Complement to “I Am
Myself Again” book
20. A Biblical Account of Financial Prosperity: Scriptural
Immersion
21. Hiding behind the Auto Correct: Living with Dyslexia
22. Faith, Family, Fitness and Finance Decrees: Achieving
Balance
23. I know who I Am, I know Whose I Am: Building up Your
Faith to be Confident in Who You Are

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Queen Dy is a Charitable Queen

Eight (8) Philanthropic areas of Empowering Women and Girls

Our Global Division


Women's Economic - support entrepreneurship, advocacy and
eradicating poverty, homelessness, and hunger

Dy is bridging the gap by helping women in war torn and


impoverished countries through Economic Empowerment so they
can impact their communities.

Our United States Division


Women's Health – encourage annual checkups, research, education
and advocacy
Women's Education - support accredited, post-secondary
institutions in South Carolina, support organizations for literacy and
learning disabilities
Women in Arts - support fashion, etiquette, literature, performing
arts, media arts, and visual arts
Women's Protection - support eradicating modern slavery and
South Carolina domestic violence shelters
Women with Guns - support and honor women in the military,
women working in the field of homeland security, women forest
rangers, and police women
Women who Fly - Supporting organizations that encourage Women
in Aviation
Women in Sports - Supporting Women in Sports

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You no longer have


to work for The Man
you can be the
WoMan!TM
- Dy Wakefield

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The Fly Queen

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Piper Warrior II PA128-168

[Photos of me in front of the plane were taken by Leo Berbue


my flight instructor.]

Come Fly with Me!


For all of us, life means death without adventure and
adventure only comes to those who are willing to be
daring and take chances. ~Prince 1985

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CHOOSE
LIFE
Deuteronomy 30:19
[When you make a decision to ‘Choose Life’ you are
deciding to Live and Be Blessed. If you decide to choose
the other way you are deciding to Die and Be Cursed. To
make it easy for you God is saying ‘CHOOSE LIFE’.]

Choose Life to live and fulfill your destiny on earth! Don’t


give up on life by choose the other alternative. There is a
vision inside of you that must be fulfilled. Choose to
follow your purpose!

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