Children vary widely in their social readiness.

Some children are naturally

social, effortlessly interacting with others. Other children may seem shy,
anxious, or even aggressive in social situations. Differences in temperament
usually account for these variations, but a little education can go a long way in
your child's social development, building confidence and increasing the
chances for social success. Teach your child how to say hello, look someone
in the eye, or ask to play, just as you would teach your child how to wash his
hands or put on his coat. Use playdates to help build your child's social skills.
Give your child the words to say and model how to initiate a social interaction,
e.g., “Tap your friend on the shoulder and say, ’Can I play with you?’"