Friend's New Wife Overshares About Couple's Married Life

The problem here is that maybe you're afraid your husband will be mad at you.
because he thinks you want to separate him from his friend or you don't want his
friend to be happy again.

For me the solution would be for you to find the humblest way to explain to your
husband that the behavior of his friend and his wife are not to your liking. because
they get to a point where you find it uncomfortable and it makes you a little disgusted.
There could be the benefit of your slob to understand the situation and talk to his
friend and stop making the ridicule in public places.

The best place to tell her is at home when you're alone after making love to your
husband, you could tell her the problem and the possible solution. possibly the
moment will make the problem not so great.