*There’s no winning in life*

For the longest time, I believed in winning. I I’m writing this not because I don’t want people to
believed that in any competition, someone has to win and that I encourage people to lose. I simply
lose so that one can win. When we compete, the want to emphasize that in this life, in this game,
goal is always to win. don’t focus on winning. Focus on learning
And why is that? The winners always take it all— because that’s all there is in this life. Whatever
the trophy, the medals, the honor. And if you go we do, we will have to take another game and
home losing, it’s depressing, it’s painful, it’s just that will happen until our last day.
one of those things we can’t really be proud of. We can’t win in life. And we can’t finish the game
Of course, people would pacify your sadness by alive. But every day in every game, big or small,
telling you, it’s OK. You can try again next time. we have the opportunity to learn. You don’t have
We believe them. So we would join the to win to be happy. You just have to learn. Maybe
competition again. This time, we believed we are that’s enough reason to move on—knowing that
better and therefore would have a greater chance you’ve learned and you can face another game
of winning. Regardless of the result, people with the lessons in your heart.
would always have something to say whether we
win or lose.
All our lives, we are made to believe in winning.
That, should we want to really be happy, we have
to win. They didn’t really require us to win big.
Winning is sometimes enough. Just win because
losing isn’t good. Losing means you are weak,
unprepared, disorganized. You are less when
you lose, they say.
So everyone now wants to win. Whatever
happens, the goal is to win. Yes, sometimes
whatever it takes.
Today, allow me to say what I discovered. In life,
there’s no winning. There’s only learning. We
can’t win in life. But we can only learn.
When we were still in pre-school, we were told to
pass to enter the primary school. We did. And
then we were told to go through another six years
so we can go to high school. We did. And then
we were told to study for another four years or
more so we can either get a job or start our own
business.
In all those years, have you won? Oh, yes. You
certainly did. You won in different levels. But you
won.
But have you also noticed that this is a never-
ending game? That whatever you do, how much
you believe you are winning, you are always on
to another game? That however good and worthy
you have become, you will end up starting a
brand new level again. That every now and then,
something new is about to begin and that this life
is a never-ending game?
I saw it.
It may appear that we are winning but in truth, we
are not. We are just learning. And even losers
get the same chance to learn. That explains why
some losers now become winners of tomorrow
and some winners now become losers in the
future.