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Culture, Conflict and Communication
Non-verbal communication
Non-verbal elements of speech
Communication process and Effective Communication
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Introduction
Communication is central to conflict and its resolution. Both conflict
and conflict resolution almost inevitably involve the use of
communication: verbal and non-verbal, direct and indirect,
symbolic and concrete, interactive and one way. Most conflicts
have their origin in communication or lack of effective
communication. The absence of clear and effective communication
can escalate a conflict. Conflict resolution is a communication
process, and its success is determined by the understanding of
communication, language and interpersonal behaviour.
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Communication
Communication could be carried out verbally and non-verbally.
Verbal communication includes the use of various words to express
how we feel about a situation. Interpersonal communication and
mass communication are types of verbal communication. Verbal
elements include language, idioms, and registers. All these
elements are deployed by a speaker during conflict resolution
process to convey their feelings and emotions.
Non-verbal communication
In addition to verbal elements, communication also has non-verbal
elements. Either in mediation or negotiation, non-verbal elements
must not be taken for granted or be interpreted based on opinion
as stated in the various literature. For example folding of arms may
suggest defensiveness in some instances, it may also mean that
the person is cold. Verbal communication varies from one individual
to another, from one group to another and from one culture to
another.
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Pauses are mini silences; they can add to and change the
meaning. For example: ‘It is not my intention to reconsider your
assessment, but [pause]…’ Pauses may suggest thought and
reflections: ‘I see [pause]. Perhaps we ought to…’. Unusual pausing
often suggests tension or nervousness as the individual strives to
maintain control in a highly emotional situation. Pauses are very
useful in implying tentativeness, or openness to suggestion or offer
(particularly at the end of unfinished statements).
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Communication process
Elements of communication are a sender, a receiver, a message, a
process by which the message is sent, a context and an
environment within which the message is sent. The
communication process is initiated be the sender who sends a
message to the receiver. The message may be something entirely
new or a continuation of an already established relationship or
process between the parties. The message from the sender may
not be what is intended. Certain conditions might have influenced
or overwhelmed the sender that affects the content of the message
he has sent. For example, if a legal secretary has been instructed
by his principal to send a message to a client but does not feel
comfortable sending it the message may not be clear or distorted
because it is borne out of obligation or compulsion. Similarly, if the
sender is fearful of the consequences of the message; it may be
vague or unclear. Again, the message can be distorted by the
process through which it is sent, or by the content with which it is
sent.
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Goals of communication
For it to be effective, the act of communication should involve
motivation to communicate, effective disclosure, clear, precise
messages, assertiveness clarity of thought and language, empathy,
effective listening, and an appropriate environment. Effective
communication begins when not when words are first used, but in
the thought processes that precede speaking or writing.
Preliminary analysis and reflection are essential, especially when
preparing to communicate on complex, sensitive, difficult, or
potentially contentious subjects. Identifying the goal of the
communication is an essential, prerequisite, and should be followed
by identification of the key messages. Unrealistic goals – for
example, to change the behaviour of the other person – should be
avoided. The focus should be on practical, attainable goals; for
example, an explanation of one person’s feelings about other’s
behaviour.
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Reflecting on how the receiver of the message may feel – that is,
being emphatic – will help in deciding how to make the
communication more effective, and in considering possible
difficulties in advance.
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Communication Loop1
Communication is teamwork. Good communication is always
interactive and requires those involved to form what is, in essence,
a partnership in communication. We have to help each other to
communicate especially when we are in conflict. Parties in
communicating in a conflict would not connect just because of
listening but by learning to communicate with each other. Each
disputant must learn how to decode messages he was receiving,
how to deliver his own ideas so that they would be understood, and
how to develop a suitable atmosphere for communication. Beyond
that, they all need to find a way to cue each other when they were
grasping what was being said and what they felt they were being
heard.
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http://communicationtheory.org/communication-loop-the-process-of-communication/
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