3. Proactive means taking responsibility for one’s own life.

It is about the freedom and the power to

choose. Reactive people are often overly affected by outside forces, such as changes in the weather or
the bad attitudes of their coworkers. In fact, when we are doing a job, if we are learning and thinking
something proactively, it will be better than the passive learning, passive thinking. You may learning
something much more from active learning. For example, when we play volleyball, if we are playing
volleyball while we consider about the layout and why we want to use this method. Over time, the
progress you make will be faster than others. You have also learned more than others

5. Many things cannot be planned when we just sit there. We have to experience them in the real world.
When I was in China a few years ago. I heard that a new park has been built, so I checked the bus route
on the Internet and found that there are three bus routes available. For the place where our family lives,
every route is not direct to the park, I need to change to other bus. Finally, I chose the first route. But
when I reached the terminal by bus, there still is a long way from the park, so I had to walk to there. But
then someone told me that the bus on the other routes could go straight to the new park. If I had not
experienced it myself, I would have regarded the first route as the perfect one and probably
recommended it to others. It is like planning something all day. but not able to put it in our real life.