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7 Habits Successful

People Avoid
We all have bad habits that we struggle with, but are your habits
preventing you from being successful? I’m not talking about biting
your nails or fidgeting, but rather habits you may not even be aware
that you have.

If your goal is to be successful in your endeavors, read this list closely


and try to identify if you have any of these bad habits — and then see
how you can try to fix them.

1. Perfectionism

It’s almost become a joke that people think perfectionism is a “good”


bad habit. But it’s really not. True perfectionism often means fear of
doing something badly can prevent us from even beginning or trying
anything new.

Successful people understand that success comes with a great deal of


failure, false starts, first drafts, and do-overs.

2. Waiting on opportunity

Opportunity doesn’t always knock; and those people who tend to sit
around and wait for it for it often miss the opportunities that are
waiting if they just put in a little effort. This sometimes also manifests
as someone waiting around for the “easy button” scheme that will
help them do the thing.

As Thomas Edison said, “Opportunity is missed by most people


because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.” Successful
people understand that opportunity is fueled by work and putting
oneself out there.

3. Driven to distraction

If you jump (and salivate?) every time your phone dings, and start to
feel itchy and unsettled if you’re unable to check it right away, you
might have a distraction problem. Social media, texts, emails — all of
these tasks pull us away from focusing on what you should be doing.

You’ll find that many successful people turn off notifications on their
devices — if they even have those distracting apps at all. Many
choose to opt-out from these distractions in order to focus on their
more important tasks.

4. Letting others set the agenda

Not having your own priorities, or putting your priorities behind


someone else’s is one of the worst habits of the unsuccessful
person. Of course, doing the work your boss asks you to do, helping
out family and friends, etc. are things that everyone should do — but
successful people understand where their priorities fit in.

Successful people tend to be the ones with the guts to say no to an


invitation or a request to volunteer when they really don’t have time.
They also tend to be the ones who write the book, get the promotion,
start the business, or go on that trip of a lifetime, because they kept
their priorities front and center.

5. Procrastinating

If you tend to put off your most important work until later, spending
the first part of your day answering emails, browsing the internet, etc.,
you’ll have trouble being as successful as you can possibly be. For
most people, their most productive time is when they first start
working, and so that’s the time you should tackle your most
challenging tasks.

If you can train yourself to “eat the frog” — that is, do your most
challenging work first — you’ll likely produce better work, more
efficiently, and in turn be more successful.

6. Resisting change

No matter your age, if you find yourself reluctant to adopt new


technology, learn new skills, or try new ideas, you are, unfortunately,
doomed to fall behind. Today, the world is moving and changing
faster than ever, and those who refuse to change will not have the
tools to succeed.

In contrast, successful people are open to learning and trying new


things. This isn’t to say that they jump on every bandwagon when
something new comes along, but rather that they’re open to new
possibilities and willing to learn and try — and then make a decision
about whether the old way or new way is best.

7. Multitasking

How many tabs do you have open in your internet browser right
now? How many apps running in the background on your phone? If
you find yourself constantly switching between tasks or jumping at
every interruption (see No. 3), you won’t ever be able to do your best
work, or truly focus on any one thing.

Multitasking often results in errors and time wasted because our


brains need at least several seconds to switch contexts, and those
seconds add up over time. Focus is critical for producing your best
work and, ultimately, succeeding.

The great thing about habits is that they are changeable. While it may
be challenging to overcome an ingrained habit, it can be changed —
which means that your fate is not sealed, and you can increase your
own odds of being successful.

What additional bad habits would you say prevent people from being
successful? I’d be interested in reading your additions to the list in the
comments below.

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