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DOWNTOWN
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Winter 2019

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And this time of year, we think about them a lot. work hard enough— and she has shown them by example that you should
Those we find under our Christmas trees — or enjoy for Hanukkah — never, ever surrender a dream.
come wrapped in pretty paper with glittery bows. Her gift is teaching spirit, a love of music and the confidence that comes when
We have shopped for them for weeks and can’t you know that you have someone who believes in
wait to see the joy in the recipient’s eyes. you, too.
No matter how old you are, that thrill never goes We also introduce you to someone you might
away. We call it the spirit of giving. very well already know.
And who could come up with anything better Margaret Boothe Baddour has been behind the
than watching the wondrous moment when a curtain and on stage for literally hundreds of pro-
child hears the story of Santa Claus and his eight ductions at Wayne Community College and local
reindeer for the first time? theaters across Wayne County.
We call that Christmas magic. She is an accomplished actor, director, writer
And then there is the reason for the season — the and, well, an art enthusiast.
gift born in a manger under a single, shining star. But you might be surprised — or maybe not
We call that joyous. — to learn that after decades of sharing a love of
But what if there are less celebrated gifts out there theater, literature and other artistic expressions
that are just as precious? What if we get them every with her community and college students she still
single day without realizing it? has a dream she is pursuing.
It is that spirit of giving that was the inspiration She has tirelessly worked to make sure that
behind this issue of “Eastbound and Downtown.” Wayne County never forgets the color and richness
We celebrate the gift of hope by sharing the story the arts add to our lives — and has shared that
of R.J. Allen, whose message of renewal, second passion and knowledge with generations of young
chances and possibilities inspires people not only here at home, but people, including her own children.
around the country. Her gift is opening eyes, expanding minds and helping to make this place we
His gift is the ability to change lives. call home more colorful and beautiful.
And this time, our Dinner with Friends should read Dinner with Heroes. And, of course, we are sharing again the achievements of our local athletes —
We took some of the famous Adams Roadside BBQ to a local firehouse this time basketball.
to share a meal with a group of men who save lives not for money or They display their athletic gifts for the enjoyment of their fans — and in
recognition, but because they felt called to serve. honor of their schools and the generations of alumni who still bleed their alma
All of them are volunteers. maters’ colors.
And all of them are ready at a moment’s notice to help their neighbors All of these are just a few of the many people who give to our little slice of
through some of the scariest moments of their lives. Eastern North Carolina every day.
Their gift is selflessness that comes when duty calls. They are our heartbeat.
And, of course, we share a little of the magic that makes Adams barbecue They are our souls.
some of the best in the state. And they are why this is such a special community.
Their gift is serving up the best of who they are with their community. There are people who give in small ways and in grand gestures. All of them
If you have ever had a teacher who changed your vision of your future, matter.
and of yourself, you will know singer and choral teacher Victoria Atkins’ gift. So we thank you — all of you — who work so hard for others.
She shows young people that pride comes from standing strong when Your gifts are the best part of Wayne County — during the holiday season
others are intent on seeing you fall — and that loving who you are starts and all year long.
with believing you can be anyone you want to be. Thank you for sharing them with all of us.

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A dream and a prayer
With six simple words, R.J.Allen
started a movement — turning his
friends, neighbors and students
into dreamers who now believe
anything is possible.

By KENNETH FINE

R
J Allen’s daughter had held it in for seven years.
But now, having finally confronted her abuser,
she was ready to heal — and that meant leaving
both her family and the small Eastern North Carolina
town she had grown up in behind.
Hearing that at age 11, his little girl had been “One of the guys said, ‘Think you’re going to “We had $10 in our bank account. I didn’t
sexually assaulted — that she was going to Illi- marry this girl?’” Allen said. “But I said, ‘No. know how we were going to make it,” Allen said.
nois to work through nearly a decade of pent up She’s a wonderful, wonderful young lady, but I They found themselves on welfare, with
trauma — was just the latest of many breaking want to marry someone like Marjorie.’” Marjorie driving her husband to work in Wil-
points in Allen’s life. Marjorie, a girl he met at Meadow Lane Ele- son, their daughter bundled up in the back seat
He had battled since the day she was born mentary when they were 7 years old. A girl who because the heat didn’t function.
to provide his daughter with the life he felt she walked across campus with a Bible in hand. A But that inner voice kept telling Allen to stay
deserved. girl who, when Allen returned to Wayne County the course, to continue to fight.
He fought to go back to school and achieve his sophomore year, took his breath away. “At that point in my life, I said, ‘I’m not going
financial stability — to ensure the many chal- “I remember seeing her when I got back,” to live this way. I’m not going to give up,’” Allen
lenges he and his wife faced in the past were Allen said. “I was like, ‘Wow.’” said. “I wanted to be the one who overcame.”
behind them. After graduation, she went to college in After about a year, they had pulled themselves
So, when he felt he had failed to protect his Florida and he attended East Carolina up to the point where they were no longer on
child from a predator, it was the darkest of many University. But that voice inside him told him government assistance. And then, Allen got a
seemingly insurmountable moments he had that they would be together one day. And when job offer from Target.
experienced since his teenage years. they returned to Goldsboro for summer break, “We went from maybe $20,000 combined
He was, he said, “broken.” they fell in love. income to $45,000 just by myself. Overnight,”
“When she left, it really hit me. I was like, They were married soon after. Allen said. “That’s kind of when things started
‘What’s happening?’ I wanted to go find this But to start their new life the way they taking off.”
guy and rip him apart. All those emotions you planned it, they dropped out of college. They That job would lead to an opportunity at
think you would have, you have,” Allen said. “I worked, but Allen said “a lot of bad financial Walmart that paid significantly more. But it
was just devastated. All I wanted to do was fight. decisions” nearly tore them apart. took hard work, some 70-80 hours a week, to
I had all this rage inside of me. That’s when, I When their daughter was born, they were realize the financial stability he wanted for his
know it sounds odd, but I heard a … voice.” broke. family. SEE DREAM, Page 6
What he heard that day wasn’t overly pro-
found.
But those simple words, in the years since,
have become both his personal mantra and a
rallying cry for others facing their lowest points.
“Start fighting. Dream big. Pray hard. Never
quit.”
“It told me to take what has happened to me
and turn it into a positive for everybody else,”
Allen said.

Allen, a military brat whose father was sta-


tioned at Seymour Johnson Air Force Base, had
a fairly carefree childhood.
His family left Wayne County when his father
was transferred to Minot Air Force Base, North
Dakota, but he would return as a high school
sophomore and graduate from Eastern Wayne.
Allen played football and had a steady girl-
friend, but even back then, he was guided by gut
feelings, by an inner voice.
He remembers riding with his teammates to
the beach one weekend. A friend asked him if
he saw a future with the young woman he had
been dating for several years.
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teacher. So when he got his master’s, he applied excel in college — each crediting their former

Dream to various colleges and universities to become a


professor.
“Nobody was interested,” Allen said. “But I
teacher with making them believe they could
make their dreams come true.
“When you hear that you’ve made an impact
Continued from Page 5 knew teaching was what I was meant to do, so I on a young person’s life, it’s an incredible feel-
And just when it seemed as though he was said, ‘Maybe I should teach high school. Young ing,” Allen said. “I think teachers live for stuff
planted securely on the right path, he collapsed. people could really benefit from hearing my like that.”
Allen woke up in the hospital. story.’” So, he brushes off those who don’t buy into
“The doctor said, ‘Look, you’re going to be In 2013, Charles B. Aycock principal Dr. Earl his philosophy.
dead by the time you’re 50 if you don’t change Moore gave him a chance. “I’ve had some people like, ‘Who do you think
your life. You need to stop,’” he said. And his approach seems to be working. Now you are? Dream big? Really? You think you’re
The voice that had guided him so many in his seventh year, Allen’s classes are always really going to make a difference?’ The eyes roll.”
times before told him to use the nest egg he had nearly full. He doesn’t listen. He knows that what he is
built during his years at Target and Walmart to He has coached football, wrestling and girls’ preaching is helping people.
“break the cycle” tennis. Allen gets emotional when he talks about a
— to become the He is seen, by those message he received one day on Facebook.
first member of his young men and wom- A cleaning woman at a local hotel, a self-de-
family to graduate en who come into scribed recovering drug addict, was facing
college. contact with him each adversity and was “thinking about using again.”
So, he went back day, as a mentor and But then she went into a room and found one
to school to show one of those educa- of Allen’s wristbands.
his daughter that tors who makes a real “Someone had left the wristband in the room.
you can remake impact in their lives. She looked it up online and found my Facebook
yourself time and Perhaps it’s because page and sent me this long message about how
time again — that he tells them his story finding that wristband got her through the day,”
a person can con- — how a middle-class Allen said.
stantly evolve until kid made a few bad The two still communicate.
they get to where decisions and nearly “People like her, they never even knew
they are destined lost everything. they were doing it, but they gave me that jolt
to be. “They need to I needed. We’ve all had those moments where
Marjorie did the know the story we’ve said, ‘I just can’t do it anymore. I just can’t
same. because, in high do it.’ And then we hear something, or we see
Both now have school, I played foot- something, and it changes everything,” Allen
master’s degrees. ball and had friends, said. “And if that’s what ‘Dream Big, Pray Hard,
But diplomas, alone, didn’t satisfy Allen. He and everybody probably thought, ‘This guy, he’s Never Quit’ is, if it gets them out of the slump,
wanted to give back, to inspire others to lift going to go on and have a normal life,’” Allen that’s what it’s all about.”
themselves up and chase their dreams. said. “I had no idea about the struggles I’d go •
And when he was asked to speak at gradua- through. So, I tell these kids, ‘Look. It’s tough For some, it will be about dreaming big.
tion, a phrase flowed out of him that he didn’t out there. When you graduate and you’re out Allen can testify to the many dreams he’s had
expect. there, people expect results.’” that were realized — from marrying Marjorie to
Six simple words. But ever since he started the “Dream Big. Pray getting his bachelor’s degree.
“Dream big. Pray Hard. Never Quit.” Hard. Never Quit.” movement, their bond has Others will connect to his message about the
“That was the first time I had ever said it,” only strengthened. importance of prayer.
Allen said. “It just came out. I said, ‘One day, I’m If you walk the CBA halls or show up at a “It was created out of a Christian ministry, so
going to do something with this. I don’t know football or basketball game, you’ll undoubtedly that’s certainly going to be a big part of it for a
how. I don’t know when. But I’m gonna do see dozens of students wearing Allen’s wrist- lot of people,” Allen said.
something with this.’” bands. But for the creator of the movement, perhaps
• If you tune in to his YouTube channel, you’ll the most important message — the one that
Back when he was in high school, something hear testimonials from former students who speaks to people across racial, religious and
told Allen that one day, he would return as a have gone on to start their own businesses or to socioeconomic lines — is the power of
perseverance, the notion that by refusing to give up, But in his mind, it’s the possibility of leaving the if that’s all there is, I’m OK with that. But I really
you can accomplish anything. world a better place that pushes him to speak in believe I can help other people be able to say the
“(My wife and I) did nothing out of the ordinary front of local organizations and same thing.”
except work our butts off,” Allen said. “You’re talking congregations — to use his spare time to sit in front
about two people who dropped out of school who of a green screen and spread his message. To learn more about Allen’s mission,
went back to school and did this. I always tell people “All it takes is one person and everything can visit dreambigprayhardneverquit.com
to break the chain, break the change,” he said. “My life is an
cycle, be the one who makes example of what I’m trying to
the difference.” promote. I can say, ‘Look. I’m
And in doing so, he has seen a redneck kid from Goldsboro,
his own family thrive, despite North Carolina, and I’m living
all they have been up against. my dream. Living your dream
“What you do for you cata- doesn’t always mean you’re rich
pults your family to a different and famous. It means you’re
level. If people could under- happy and you’re doing exactly
stand that, the world would be what you want to in life.”
that much better,” Allen said. Just imagine, Allen said,
“My daughter, after everything what the world would look like
she’s been through, she grad- if everyone found that spark
uates from (the University of and worked tirelessly to plant
Mount Olive) in December. themselves on a fulfilling path.
She’s done phenomenal because she never quit. “We could literally see the world get better,” he
That’s what it’s all about and I’m so proud of her.”
So just what does the future hold?
said.
And even if “Dream Big. Pray Hard. Never Quit.”
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VICTORIOUS
Music lifted Victoria Ruffin Atkins
out of the city’s housing projects.
Now, she’s teaching her students
that they, too, can be saved from a
life on the streets.

By KENNETH FINE

A
microphone in hand, Victoria Atkins stands
near the edge of the Goldsboro High School
auditorium stage.
The lights accentuate the pink streak in her hair. The students, meanwhile, begin singing “The Cir- “We came from the same environment and the
They dance off the glitter around her eyes and the cle of Life,” the opening track from “The Lion King.” same home. And I love my sister, but I had a lot of
sequins on her dress. They sway back and forth, their eyes fixed on a teachers backing me saying, ‘You can make it. You
She’s wearing a gold cape — a costume choice woman who has made it her mission to be not only don’t have to be another statistic,’” Atkins said. “My
that perpetuates her reputation within Wayne Coun- their teacher, but also a de facto mother. sister, on the other hand, she had the brains, but
ty Public Schools as both a diva and almost royalty. And when she brings the microphone to her lips, there were different people in her ear, so she got
There is no doubt that her presence is felt when her expression hardens and her eyes grow wide. into the streets. My thought process was, ‘I’ve got to
she walks into a room. “We are not those words.” make it out of the hood.’”
On this October night, it’s no different. • But she found that words of encouragement
People in the audience, having seen her lavish Atkins is, in her own words, a product of “the weren’t always enough — that, while teachers were
outfit, are whispering and raising their cellphones hood.” blown away by her stage presence and singing ability,
into the air. She lived in nearly every one of Goldsboro’s hous- they had to go the extra mile to show her the possi-
Those who know Atkins have found that nearly ing projects growing up, attended Goldsboro High bilities waiting for her after graduation.
every time she performs — from local churches and School, and watched as her friends were lost to the “When I was here at school, I didn’t know what
retirement homes to the county fair and GHS — a streets. college was. I’m not trying to be funny. I thought I
viral video might be in the making. So, she finds that she has instant credibility with was here to graduate and then go learn to do hair
But for now, she waits — listening as her students the young men and women who enroll in her class. and then get famous,” Atkins said. “But (one of my
read from a script she created. But more importantly, she knows they need sav- teachers) took me to auditions. He took me to East
“Y’all can’t keep no principal,” one said. ing — and uses her own experiences to do for them Carolina and Fayetteville State. He showed me this
“You can’t keep no teachers, neither,” another what was done for her. world I didn’t know was out there.”
added. “I think we had some of the same challenges. A lot And thanks to his guidance, she attended Fayette-
“They should just shut it down,” a third ex- of us came out of single-parent homes. The streets ville State University with an eye on returning to
claimed, before asking if “anything good” could were out there for us,” Atkins said. “But I think a GHS one day as a teacher.
“come from GHS.” lot of times, it’s about the choices we make. And But the music never left her.
Some in the crowd gasp. Atkins isn’t moved. it’s about who’s in your ear helping to guide those She remembers hearing about a singing competi-
On her face, she wears an expression somewhere choices.” tion that would see a student at every Historically
between mourning and anger. When she was in high school, she and her sister Black College and University in the country earn the
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ATKINS
Continued from Page 9
chance to perform for Patti LaBelle — how she went
straight from working at the university cafeteria to
sing for the judges.
“Hairnet still on my head, I showed up and showed
out,” Atkins said.
She performed her “go-to song,” CeCe Winan’s
“Alabaster Box,” and brought the crowd to its feet.
She would go on to perform for LaBelle and, in
the years that followed, made the final round during
several “American Idol” auditions.
“I always make it to the final audition rounds but
never quite get to the TV show,” Atkins said. “It took
me to a dark place. It was so bad that I was mad with
God. I was like, ‘I’m tired of getting to the finish line
and someone else gets the crown every time.’ It was
like, ‘Let me win. Let me win one time.’ It makes you
feel like, ‘When is my turn?’”
But in 2007, when she began teaching in Wayne
County — surrounded by young people facing the
same challenges she once faced — she found solace
in being a guiding light for those at-risk students
Victoria Ruffin Atkins instructs students at Goldsboro High School ahead of the group’s “Homecoming” performance
with the most to lose.
at Goldsboro High School. Atkins attended GHS and grew up in some of the toughest neighborhoods in the city, before
“It is definitely soothing,” Atkins said. “It is a part attending Fayetteville State University.
of my healing process to watch my kids succeed
— you know, when they kill it, when people in the When their teacher speaks, they listen. It is clear can be great. I want people to remember that I was
audience cry their eyes out.” that there is only one person in charge of Atkins’ over there in the hood and I made it.”
• space. If the GHS choral program is a family, she is •
Some come to school hungry. undoubtedly the matriarch. It’s a late November evening and Atkins is stand-
Others don’t have a stable place to call home. Others see it as a ministry of sorts, with Atkins ing along the edge of the Goldsboro High School
They might have behavioral issues or family prob- working the room and bringing every bit of energy auditorium stage.
lems that are so extreme they make education seem, out of those watching her preach. She smiles and waves at various people who
at times, irrelevant. Either way, her influence spills outside of her own showed up to take in the school district’s annual
But when students enter Atkins’ classroom, she classroom into the others her students find them- choral showcase.
demands that for those 90 minutes, they let it all go. selves in during the school day. And then, they take When it’s time for her students — the GHS “Show
“Music was an escape when I was in school, so the example she has set for them back home — Stoppers” — to perform, she looks at a friend in the
when you step into my classroom, when you cross many, to situations that bring far less hope than they front row and winks.
that line, every fight you got into, all your letters and leave her room with. She knows exactly what’s about to happen.
numbers — EC, 504 — it goes away,” Atkins said. That is her power. Over the next dozen minutes, the young men and
“We are all the same. You leave all labels outside the “When I leave here, I want them to remember that women under her command are singing and danc-
door and we come together for the love of that music you can defy labels. I remember being in high school ing with such gusto that those in the audience are
to be healed.” and looking up these statistics about people. For my either holding their phones in the air to record the
They are free to express themselves and find com- age and for a child who came out of a single-parent performance or standing and cheering them on.
fort in the surroundings. home, they had all these things you were supposed Some are shouting and dancing in the aisles.
They can sing and dance to forget, if only for an to be. I say, ‘No. I’m not any of that,’” Atkins said. At one point during the performance of “This is
hour-and-a-half each day, what is waiting for them “So, since that day, I’ve used that. No. I am not going Me” from the film “The Greatest Showman,” a wom-
when the dismissal bell rings. to be what you say I’m supposed to be. I am more an in the audience breaks down when these words
But Atkins also teaches them lessons she hopes than your labels. So that’s what I tell them. You don’t are sung:
will stay with them for the remainder of their lives. have to be what society says you’re going to be. You “Another round of bullets hits my skin
Lessons like respect. don’t have to be what the media says you are. You Well, fire away ‘cause today
I won’t let the shame sink in
We are bursting through the barricades and
Reaching for the sun
We are Cougars
Yeah, that’s what we’ve become
I won’t let them break me down to dust
I know that there’s a place for us
For we are glorious
When the sharpest words wanna cut me down
I’m gonna send a flood, gonna drown them out
I am brave, I am bruised
I am who I’m meant to be, this is me”
What that woman didn’t know was that her re-
action was almost choreographed by Atkins — that
she chose that particular song as a rallying cry for a
community on the fringes.
“I tell them, ‘Y’all can do Beyonce and Cardi B
and Jay-Z on your own time. I might even give you
a little bit of that every now and then, but when you
come into my classroom, I want songs that are going
to stick with you — that you’re going to remember
at your lowest points,’” she said. “When they are 80
years old, you’re going to remember when you sang
“This is Me.” And their faces light up when they sing
those lyrics.”
The faces of those who watch them sing those
words reflected different emotions.
Some, like that woman, wiped tears from their
eyes.
Others strained to contain smiles that stretched so
wide they looked almost painful.
And when the emcee addressed the room after a
lengthy standing ovation, his reaction spoke vol-
umes.
He was, he told those in attendance, speechless.
“The kids they label as bad kids and thug kids,
they’re just up there singing and dancing and people
can’t believe it. We came to that show with some-
thing to prove,” Atkins said. “I told them, I want you
to show out — and want them to know who you
are when you leave that stage. Music can do that. It
can heal you and it can heal your community. They
healed our school that night. They showed all those 116 West Mulberry Street
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A Curtain Calling

Were it not for the


many hats worn by
Margaret Boothe Baddour
over the last several decades,
the local arts scene as we
know it wouldn’t exist.
I
t started simply enough Mrs. Baddour began teaching at Wayne Commu-
nity College, where she stayed for 16 years.
productions over the years and remain good friends
to this day.
— a toddler, maybe 2 or “I taught humanities, all the arts — creative
writing and drama,” she said.
“More often, I have been the director and he has
been the leading man,” Mrs. Baddour said.
3 years old, performing Off and on for 25 years, she did a lot of Readers’ And perhaps one of the most memorable collabo-
Theater — actors sitting on stools with their scripts rations came at a moment when the community —
for her family. on music stands. and the arts — needed them most, when the iconic
Back then, Margaret Boothe Baddour had no idea It was not about fancy costumes or elaborate Paramount Theatre burned in 2005.
what the word “legacy” meant — that one day, her staging, she said. She and Hulse performed “The Mystery of Irma
community would not be able to think about local “You are leaving your body behind,” Mrs. Baddour Vep” as part of a fundraiser to rebuild the theater.
theater without her name surfacing. said. “You rely on voices and expressions.” “Geoff and I each played four characters,” Mrs.
Sure, she had passion. And she avoided participating in traditional the- Baddour said, smiling as she reflected on what
But at such a young age, she had no way of con- ater until one day, when her friend, Rosalyn Lomax, unfolded on stage. “I had six to eight moustaches,
ceptualizing a lifetime of sharing that love of theater whom she calls “my sister in theater,” came to see and they would slip. People would just slap another
and the arts with audiences, actors and students. her. moustache on me.”
It was, and remained for these many years since, “We need a Witch No. 2,” Lomax said. “You’ve got And thanks, in part, to support from people like
just her way. to do it.” Hulse and Mrs. Baddour, the theater was rebuilt —
“It’s always been theater and writing for me,” she Mrs. Baddour resisted at first — not sure she ensuring future generations could experience the
said. wanted to be on stage. magic of that stage on Center Street.
Mrs. Baddour majored in theater arts at Stephens The rest is theater history. •
College, but a few months of summer stock made “I ended up doing a lot of shows,” she said. Mrs. Baddour has spent much of her time in the
her rethink her dream of a career in performing. • shadows, directing everything from dramas to com-
So, she switched her vision to teaching and trans- Mrs. Baddour’s career has been two-fold — both edies, helping generations of actors reach audiences
ferred to the University of North Carolina, where as an actor on stage and as the director making vari- and fostering a love of theater in her community.
she earned her master’s degree in English education. ous playwrights’ visions come alive. She said her love of the arts reflects her love of
Theater was no longer in her future plans — at And when she is the director, one of the actors on writing and literature.
least not a life on stage. stage is often Geoff Hulse, a well-known attorney “I love bringing literature to life,” she said.
She moved to Wayne County in the late 1970s to and fellow lover of the arts. But directing is not easy.
take over as director of the Arts Council. The two have worked together in various
SEE CALLING, Page 14
And it was here, in Goldsboro, that she met an
attorney, her now husband, Philip Baddour Jr.
But he had children, already.
“So I gave it all up to be a stepmom,” she said.
And when she and her husband added a daughter,
Helen, to their clan, she decided to make working
with the arts community and serving on boards a
secondary job to raising her family.
Still, some of her favorite memories are from those
days spent with Helen and her boys.
And she found that like her mother, her daughter
had a bit of the acting bug, too.
Helen, now 31, made her debut at age 3, with
Stagestruck, as Tinkerbell.
She was in many productions throughout her
school years and even had a leading role in “Miracle
on 34th Street.”
Mrs. Baddour says Helen, who is now a lawyer
like her father, thanks her often for exposing her to
theater and creative writing.
“She uses them all the time,” Mrs. Baddour said.
But her impact on Wayne County’s youth has,
over the years, stretched far beyond the walls of the
home she and her husband made here nearly four
decades ago.

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CALLING Margaret Boothe
Continued from Page 13 Baddour and
Geoff Hulse attend
Getting all the parts to sync and pulling the best the DGDC’s annual
out of her actors, while making sure all the sets are awards banquet in
perfect and the business side of the production is character to promote
covered, is exhausting and exhilarating, she said. their October
“You have your ups and downs in a production,” performance of
Mrs. Baddour said. “But when it comes together and “Blythe Spirit” —
you see it on stage and watch the audience react … a show that was put on
it’s very gratifying.” to raise money for the
And then there is the quality that Mrs. Baddour county’s arts community.
still has in abundance and why so many actors are
drawn to the stage.
“Extra energy,” she said. “It is something that some
of us have that needs to be expended.”
But after so many years as a director, it is not husband and family, she finds she needs to keep She has never written a play, but says it is not out
always easy for Mrs. Baddour to sit back and be just busy. of the realm of possibilities.
an actor in a show. “I needed that schedule,” she said. She is not finished dreaming just yet.
It goes back to wanting to offer her audiences her That is part of the reason she stays involved with “Life is full of things I might do,” she said.
best. the theater community. But she has a mountain left to summit — one that
“I want it to be right,” she said. “I love it,” she said. “I am a goal-oriented person.” has been part of her life for years.
Retirement hasn’t been effortless for a person with • Mrs. Baddour is working on a novel.
energy and who is used to a very busy schedule. Mrs. Baddour’s talents do not end at the stage. “I have been carrying it around in canvas sacks
And while she loves spending time with her She is also an accomplished poet. SEE CALLING, Page 40

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Charles B. Aycock

Golden Falcons
We are
Family
Ready Pikeville
to proud!

Soar
Falcons eye a hot start
The last twelve games of the 2018-19 basket- helps with players (who are joining the
ball season gave Charles B. Aycock head coach basketball team after the football sea-
David Elmore plenty to build on. son) because they have experienced that
His team won nine of those matchups and success,” Elmore said. “So, they’re going
played its best against conference opponents. to come into basketball with some con-
So coming into this season, his message is fidence. Hopefully, them playing with
fairly simple. confidence on the football field will roll
Keep the momentum going. over onto the court.”
“We started out really rough … but ended up Moore hopes it will. Because as a senior, Nov. 22: Goldsboro
on a hot streak, especially in our conference,” El- he understands that his high school days
more said. “So, I want the guys who are return- will soon be behind him — that this is the
Nov. 26: Cleveland
ing to take what we did at the end of the season last chance he’ll have to play with young Dec. 3: @ Goldsboro
and roll it into the beginning of this year.” men who are more like brothers than Dec. 4: @ Fike
Doing so will be important, as the Golden teammates. Dec. 10: @ Beddingfield
Falcons host Goldsboro High School Nov. 22. “I just tell all my boys, this is our last Dec. 11: Fike
But if they play within Elmore’s system, run together, so it’s time to put on a show,” Dec. 13: West Johnston
Aycock, he says, has a chance to run with any he said. “And we have to want it because
opponent. at the end of the day, if we want it, we can
Dec. 17: South Central
It starts with basketball IQ — playing be the best team out there every night.” Dec. 19: @ South Lenoir
smart, controling the ball and being efficient on Fellow senior Charles Walker agrees. Dec. 27: @ South Johnston
offense. He wants to be able to say that in his Jan. 3: Southern Wayne
“Making sure we get the best shot we can and final season wearing a Golden Falcons Jan. 6: New Bern
trying to limit turnovers,” Elmore said. jersey, he gave it everything he had. Jan 8: @ J.H. Rose
And they want to control the tempo by play- So he and his teammates got together
ing aggressive team defense — to limit oppo- this summer to put in extra work.
Jan. 10: @ D.H. Conley
nents’ opportunities to run up the score. “A lot of us got together in the gym, so Jan. 21: Eastern Wayne

e
“We would be more like Virginia than a North I think our chemistry is going to be a lot Jan. 24: @ South Central
Carolina. I tell the guys all the time, ‘I don’t care better to start off the season,” he said. “We Jan. 28: @ Southern Wayne
if the score is 24-20 every game as long as we got a feel for each other, and we know our Jan. 31: @ New Bern
have 24 and get the win,’ Elmore said. “That’s the strengths and weaknesses.” Feb. 4: J.H. Rose
style of play that’s going to make us successful.” And he plans on taking more personal
So is having battle-tested leaders on the responsibility for his teammates on and
Feb. 7: D.H. Conley
court — seniors like Alijuan Moore and Charles off the court. Feb. 11: South Lenoir
Walker. “This year, I’m going to try to be a lot Feb. 13: @ Eastern Wayne
Moore’s athleticism makes him a matchup more vocal so the young guys know how
nightmare, but Elmore believes that this year, he to be a team and stay together,” Walker * Conference Tournament Begins Feb. 17
brings an intangible to the lineup that can’t be said.
taught.
A star football player on an Aycock team
And if everybody plays his role — and
the team plays for each other — some- Mascot — Golden Falcons
that enjoyed success this season, he has been a
winner this fall.
thing special could happen in Pikeville.
“We’re still one of the teams in the Head Coach — David Elmore
“Football having success this year, I think that county to keep an eye on this year.”

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Eastern Wayne
Warriors
E Dub
S p r i nt
or sit
Fear
the
Spear
The Warriors are hungry
Wesley Case wants to prove his critics wrong. will give Eastern Wayne a legitamate shot
And he wants to beat Goldsboro High School. at turning some heads this season.
In their house. “What he just said is what a coach loves
For the Eastern Wayne senior — an electric to hear. If they play as a family, anything
scorer and the player opposing fans love to hate is possible,” he said. “I’m really optimistic

b
— there are plenty of goals to achieve during his about this season. I feel like we’ve got a
senior season. lot of experience coming back. I feel like
He hopes to showcase his defensive skills. we’ve got as much athleticism as we’ve
His desire to be taken seriously as a leader is had in a while. But we don’t go any farther Nov. 20: @ North Pitt
strong. than these two young men take us.” Nov. 22: Hunt
And his head coach, Bill Manning, says his Case takes that responsibility seriously. Nov. 26: @ Greene Central
star guard has put in the work to accomplish all Over the summer, he hit the gym and
Nov. 27: @ Kinston
those things he hopes will come to fruition as he the weight room to transform his body
suits up for the Warriors for one final run. into one that can withstand the type of Dec. 3: Greene Central
“Wesley has an incredibly high ceiling. Lots punishment he is known for taking night Dec. 4: @ Hunt
of people out there think they’ve seen the best in and night out. Dec. 6: Goldsboro
version of Wesley and I’m going to tell you they “I’ve gotten a lot tougher. A lot tougher. Dec. 13: @ Goldsboro
have not,” Manning said. “Wesley is going to More aggressive,” he said. Dec. 20: Kinston
show everybody this year that he’s more than a And as he matured, he has become
Jan. 3: @ South Central
scorer. He’s going to be able to show people this more aware of the need for him to get his
year that he’s a complete player.” teammates involved. Jan. 6: Southern Wayne
But Case is not the only senior hoping to “Complete players rub off on every- Jan. 8: @ New Bern
make noise on the hardwoods this winter. body,” Manning said. “It brings everybody Jan. 10: @ J.H. Rose
Devin Brown, a towering young man who will up.” Jan. 17: D.H. Conley
start at center for the Warriors, possesses a rare And if his senior guard lives up to his Jan. 21: @ Charles B. Aycock
combination of size and skill. potential, no dream is too big — not even
Jan. 23: North Lenoir
Just don’t look for him to play for statistics — sweeping GHS this season.
even if he’s more than capable of putting up 20 So Case will continue to work to ensure Jan. 29: @ North Lenoir
points and 10 rebounds every time he steps on his game is ready when the season opens Jan. 31: @ Southern Wayne
the floor. toward the end of the month. Feb. 4: New Bern
For this particular senior, helping to lead his And he will push himself — allowing Feb. 7: @ J.H. Rose
team to a memorable season means more than the chip on his shoulder to motivate him Feb. 11: @ D.H. Conley
any personal accolades he could achieve. to shock young men across the county
Feb. 13: Charles B. Aycock
“My main goal is for us to be the No. 1 team who have played against him since he was
in the conference, to make it to the playoffs a freshman.
and go far in the playoffs,” Brown said. “Going I’m just trying to prove everybody * Conference Tournament Begins Feb. 17
20 and 10 is possible for me, but getting every- wrong,” Case said. “I’m just trying to be
body on the team involved and getting the win
is more important. Right now, all I’m thinking
the best I can be this year.”
He knows his best — and Brown’s —
Mascot — Warriors
about is getting the team straight and working
together as a family.”
could result in something special.
And special is the only way he wants his
Head Coach — Bill Manning
And Manning believes it is that attitude that storied career to end.

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Goldsboro
Cougar Pride
The Boro

Push
the
G Boys
ball
This Could be Their Year
When Christian Bullock is running the point, perfect mix of youth and experience —
anything is possible. that has Croom believing this could very
After returning last year from a knee well be the year Goldsboro cuts down the
injury, Goldsboro High School’s senior guard nets.
put Wayne County on notice with an electric He also has Bullock — a humble, driven
junior season on the hardwoods — from dishing leader who performs inside the classroom
alley-oops to his teammates to knocking down as well as he does on the court.
clutch 3-pointers and taking it to the basket. “Ever since he’s been at Goldsboro, he’s
“I’m excited to get back to playing at my full been a winner. He’s a rare talent,” Croom Nov. 22: @ Charles B. Aycock
potential — being able to finish out being at said. “I have no doubt in my mind that
Goldsboro as a winner.” this year, this is going to be his year. Last
Nov. 25: Southern Wayne
And this year, he’ll have plenty of help after year, he put everybody on notice, but this Dec. 3: Charles B. Aycock
leading the Cougars to the second round of the season, and he showed it this summer, Dec. 6: @ Eastern Wayne
state playoffs last season. whenever he steps on the floor, he’s more Dec. 9: @ Southern Wayne
High-flying wingman Xavion Atkinson is set than likely going to be the best player out Dec. 13: Eastern Wayne
to return to the starting five. there.” Dec. 26-28: @ UMO Winter Classic
Lockdown defender Jae’Quan Graham is back, True to his personality, Bullock shrugs
too. off the notion that he is somehow more
Jan. 3: @ Spring Creek
And a pair of freshmen — Demaj Oates and special than his teammates. Jan. 7: @ Midway
and Takorrie Faison — have already impressed But he understands that as the leader Jan. 9: Kinston
college scouts. of this particular team, he has to be every Jan. 10: Wallace-Rose Hill
Goldsboro head coach Jamaal Croom said bit as electric as he was last season ... and Jan. 14: @ East Duplin
he believes he has the personnel to play the then some. Jan. 17: Clinton
aggressive, run-and-gun style that could see the “I know after last year, my role is going
Cougars repeat as conference champions and to be that I’m one of the go-to guys,” he
Jan. 24: Midway
make a deep run in the playoffs again this year. said. “So, I’m going to have to be scoring, Jan. 28: @ Wallace-Rose Hill
“We play fast and we’ve got the bodies to play but also looking to get my teammates Jan. 29: @ Kinston
up and down like we want to,” he said. “If we involved.” Feb. 4: Spring Creek
sacrifice, we can make it all the way to the state And if, as Croom says, the team lives up Feb. 7: @ James Kenan
championship.” to the enormous potential they showed Feb. 11: @ Clinton
The Cougars impressed their coach during during the offseason, his senior point
summer play, but Croom said January 9 is when guard might just live out a dream he has
Feb. 13: East Duplin
he will know just what his team’s ceiling is. been chasing since he was in middle
On that night, they will host Kinston. school: to be a high school champion. * Conference Tournament Begins Feb. 18
“When you say a team like Kinston, when “That’s the goal. That’s always the goal,
you say that name ... they are one of the top pro- but this time, it feels kind of different,”
grams in the country,” he said. “When you can Bullock said. “With the guys we’ve got
compete against that type of talent — being that
they produce pros — if you can compete against
coming in and the guys coming back, this
is the team right here. This team, we’re go- Mascot — Cougars
that, hey, that’s the bar right there.”
But it isn’t just the number of quality players
ing to win. We’re going to win a lot. And
we could win a championship. So as far as Head Coach — Jamaal Croom
returning — or the fact that he has a seemingly being a leader, I take that real seriously.”

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Rosewood
Fly, Eagles ... FLY!

D e f e n s e Stay
together
All eyes
on Princeton
Eagles have perspective
The coaches at Rosewood would tell you that It also spills over into the classroom.
sports are not really about winning and losing. “We try to hold them to certain stan-
Sure, the school’s athletic programs enjoy dards. They know that they’ve got to
success, but from football and wrestling to perform in the classroom before we’ll let
basketball, the same lines naturally flow out of them perform on the basketball court,”
the mouths of those leading the young men who Mitchell said. “In student-athlete, the
sport the purple and gold. student comes first.”
They seem to understand that when young And he has found that academic
people participate in athletics, it gives mentors success can translates into increased bask-
another opportunity to teach them values they teball IQ — that when his players under- Dec. 3: @ North Johnston
can carry with them for the rest of their lives. stand the importance of effort in all they
So even though head coach Daniel Mitchell do, the sky is the limit.
Dec. 6: Spring Creek
had plenty to say about the Eagles’ upcoming “As long as the effort is there and the Dec. 9: @ West Johnston
basketball season, he stressed that when it’s all attitude is right among our young men, Dec. 13: @ Spring Creek
said and done, he’s more concerned about who I feel like we’ll have a good chance to
those young men become away from the court. compete.”
Dec. 20: Union
“I tell them, and they don’t understand right Among the Eagles’ goals this year are Jan. 2-3 Tournament: @ N. Johnston
now, but I say that one day, I want them to be a conference championship, but Mitchell Jan. 7: @ Lakewood
good fathers. I want them to be good husbands. knows the road to cutting down those
I want them, when basketball is over, to decide nets goes through rival Princeton.
Jan. 10: North Duplin
what type of young men they’re going to be,” he So it’s no great shock that the two times Jan. 17: @ Neuse Charter
said. “My hope is that playing sports here for me those teams meet — one of their meetings Jan. 21: @ Princeton
is going to have a positive impact through me will be on the Eagles’ Senior Night — are
teaching those life lessons.” among the most anticipated games of the
Jan. 24: @ Hobbton
And, like all coaches, he hopes that building season. Jan. 28: @ Union
character will result in wins. “I think that’s the (opponent) that’s Jan. 29: Hobbton
The Eagles have several returning players, circled on the schedule,” Mitchell said.
including some underclassmen who were thrust “You don’t overlook anyone. You take
Jan. 31: Lakewood
into roles last season. them one game at a time. But we all Feb. 4: @ North Duplin
“So in that respect, we’re looking forward to certainly think those are going to be big Feb. 11: Neuse Charter
seeing what those guys can do,” Mtichell said. games.”
And he plans on sticking to the style of play But they won’t only be significant be-
Feb. 13: Princeton (Senior Night)
that has seen Rosewood battle Princeton for the cause they represent rivalry clashes.
conference title the last two seasons. This particular season, the other seems * Conference Tournament
That, he said, starts with defense. to be the only school standing in each
“I would say for me, in the past, we’ve empha- team’s way of a championship.
Begins Feb. 18
sized defense quite a bit. Our personnel we have “I hope at the end of the season that
can change from year to year, but defense is a we’re competing with Princeton for the
constant,” Mitchell said. “Defense is all about
effort, so that’s definitely something we work on
conference championship. That’s where I
want us to try to be. I feel like that’s going
Mascot — Eagles
every day at practice.”
Because when the effort is there, it spills over
to be our main goal. We won it two years
ago, finished runner-up to them last year.
Head Coach — Daniel Mitchell
into every aspect of the game. So yeah, those games are big.”

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Southern Wayne
We want It ALL

L e t ' s g o Ballin
Saints!
A rebuild in Dudley
Dwight Smith knows that he is in the middle Leach’s ability to lead his team will be
of a rebuild — that having lost seven players tested from the start.
from last year’s team, the best he can hope for Of the other returning players, many
during conference play is for Southern Wayne to are young men who didn’t see a lot of
run somewhere in the middle of the pack. playing time last season.
But he also noted that the Saints have plenty “A lot of the guys coming back, they
of firepower on this season’s roster — including didn’t play much last year, so they’re going
senior Jamari Leach — and that he expects his to be thrown into the fire and they’re
team to be able to run with anyone. going to have to learn on the run,” Smith Nov. 19: @ North Lenoir
So he will stay true to the system that has said. “Hopefully, those guys can step up.” Nov. 22: North Lenoir
defined Southern Wayne basketball for the last They have the talent, their coach noted, Nov. 25: @ Goldsboro
several years. adding they have demonstrated an ability
“We want to play up tempo and put pressure to rebound and push the ball up the floor. Dec. 2: @Jones Senior
on you. We want you to rush on your shot. We But filling the shoes left by those seven Dec. 4: Jones Senior
want to play up in your face,” he said. who won’t suit up for the Saints this year Dec. 9: Goldsboro
And he will try to make his players under- will still be a daunting task. Dec. 11: @ Cape Fear Christian
stand that if they buy in, they have the potential “Whether they can play or not, it’s about
to hold their own in what he characterized as a mentality,” Smith said. “We have to find Dec. 13: Northern Nash
“one of the most competitive counties in the some guys who believe they are going to Dec. 17: @ D.H. Conley
state.” step up and take their place.” Dec. 26-28: FCA Christmas Tournament
“Goldsboro, Eastern Wayne, Aycock, you can’t Three of the Saints first four games are Jan. 3: @ Charles B. Aycock
sleep on any of them. Everybody has to bring on the road — including a rivalry match-
their A game against those guys,” Smith said. up against Goldsboro High. Jan. 6: @ Eastern Wayne
“But if we do what we’re supposed to do on the How the team responds to the adversity Jan. 8: South Central
court, we should be OK. We’ll win some, but it’s surely awaiting them will say a great deal Jan. 17: @ New Bern
not all about winning. about what kind of team Southern Wayne Jan. 21: J.H. Rose
“We want to compete. We want to get better really has.
every game. Every time we go onto the floor, we But Smith feels the most significant Jan.24: D.H. Conley
want to be able to say this team is growing every game on the schedule won’t be played Jan. 28: Charles B. Aycock
minute, every second on that floor.” until the middle of the season. Feb. 4: South Central
And he wants to ensure his playmakers, like It will be how his players respond to Feb. 11: New Bern
Leach, have the opportunity to put the Saints in South Central that will say the most about
the best position to win. where this program is. Feb. 13: @ J.H. Rose
“He’s fully healthy now and he’s going to bring “They haven’t lost a conference game in
a lot to the team this year,” Smith said. “That the last three years,” Smith said. “So, this * Conference Tournament
young man is a player.” year, even if we can’t beat ’em, we want Begins Feb. 17
Leach said he has been thinking about the to be able to play pretty close with them.
start of basketball season for months and said How we are or aren’t able to do that is
poise will be key to winning games.
“We’ve just got to compete and keep our atti-
going to tell me a lot about where we are
as a program. And I really think by then,
Mascot — Saints
tudes right,” he said. “If we do that, I think we’re
gonna surprise some people.”
if we do what we’re supposed to be doing,
we have a shot.”
Head Coach — Dwight Smith
E&D Winter 2019 Page 25
Spring Creek
Gators
Welcome
to the
S W A M P

Dont CHOMP!
sleep on CHOMP!
the Creek CHOMP!
Sleep at your own risk
It doesn’t seem to matter how many 20-win offense. What we do doesn’t change. We do
seasons they earn. it the same way every time. So our oppo-
For some reason, people always tend to sleep nents, they know what we’re going to be
on Spring Creek. running, but if we execute, we’re going to
Maybe, their head coach, Taylor Jones said, present you with some problems.”
it’s because the school’s football team hasn’t It doesn’t hurt that their one returning
established a winning tradition. starter was one of the best players in the
Perhaps it’s because the size of the school county last season.
makes it more difficult to find more than a Tyrese Artis proved that on any given Nov. 25: South Lenoir
handful of tremendous athletes to fill out the night, he can go toe to toe with anyone.
Dec. 3: Princeton
basketball team each season. “He’s as good as any player around here,”
But in reality, the Gators are often the team Jones said. Dec. 4: @ South Lenoir
people don’t think about until they pull off a And he has the right mentality, his coach Dec. 6: @ Rosewood
win against a school like Goldsboro High. added. He understands that the only way Dec. 10: @ Princeton
Jones likes it that way. to win is to use his many talents within the Dec. 12: @ North Duplin
He knows just how powerful a motivator it Spring Creek system. Dec. 13: Rosewood
can be for the young men on his team to know “I just try to go out there and win every
Dec. 26-28: @ UMO Winter Classic
that they don’t get the respect they feel they game. No matter who’s on the schedule,
deserve. I’m gonna play the same,” he said. “So, I’m Jan. 3: Goldsboro
And it also provides Jones with the opportu- not going to try to go out there and do too Jan. 7: Wallace-Rose Hill
nity to showcase what can happen when players much because that’s not how we do things.” Jan. 9: East Duplin
buy in to a system instead of relying on a few So just how do the Gators do things? Jan. 10: @ Clinton
high-flying athletes to carry a team through a They focus on rebounding and defense. Jan. 17: James Kenan
season. Jones teaches his players to be “great
Jan. 21: @ Midway
“We like that they underestimate us and we passers” and to play free on offense by tak-
know we don’t have what everybody else has,” ing advantage of their strengths. Jan. 24: @ Wallace-Rose Hill
he said. “So we don’t try to do what everybody And he will rely on Artis to be a second Jan. 28: Clinton
else does. We try to be us and do things our coach out there on the floor — to ensure Jan. 31: @ East Duplin
way. And if we do that, we can beat anybody.” the younger players who will be joining Feb. 4: @ Goldsboro
So even though the Gators only return one him in the starting lineup see him as a Feb. 7: Midway
starter from last year’s team, Jones isn’t overly confident, poised leader in the face of
Feb. 11: @ James Kenan
worried about his group’s chances against one of adversity.
Feb. 13: East Duplin

!
the toughest basketball conferences in this part “I know that I can’t fold out there. I can’t
of the state. ever fold,” Artis said. “Because I know my
When they play Spring Creek basketball, any- teammates are going to be looking to me. * Conference Tournament
thing is possible. So, I’ve just got to keep my head high and Begins Feb. 18
“I tell my guys, there is no area of the game I stay poised. If I can do that, I think we have

! want you to be an expert in, but I want you to


be good at everything. Great offense is going to
beat great defense, but we’re going to play great
defense. So, we want to be able to defend — to
a chance to be successful.”
Jones agreed.
“People used to laugh when they saw
us on their schedule,” he said. “They don’t
Mascot — Gatros
Head Coach — Taylor Jones
shut you down — and we want to be free on laugh anymore.”

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Wayne Christian
Flyin’
Trust Eagle
High!!! s
Your
Brothers

A higher
purp ose
Eagles are stronger together
There is something a little different about the Senior guard Jaylon Wallace agrees.
pre-season mentality reflected inside the Wayne Winning is something he and his
Christian gym. teammates will strive for, but they know
Sure, the players and coaches want to win the only way they can do so is to play for
games. each other — to be a family.
But when they talk about their goals for the “Everything we do is about family. That
upcoming season, it’s clear that they have a dif- gives us more strength. We know that we
ferent perspective than many of the other high can count on each other,” Wallace said.
school basketball teams in Wayne County. “We put our faith, 120 percent, on every- Nov. 25: @ Christ Covenant
They don’t have the size that some of their body on this team.”
Dec. 3: @ Southside Christian
public school counterparts have. So they compensate for their relative
They don’t have players identified by scouts as lack of size with hustle and unity. Dec. 6: Bethel Christian
potential Division I superstars. “I think a lot of teams think they’re so Dec. 10: @ Neuse Christian
But they insist that by playing together — good because they have size. Size is just
Dec. 13: @ Friendship Christian
by living out the Wayne Christian mission there something that’s there,” Wallace said.
on the hardwoods — they have a real shot at “But if you don’t believe in and trust your Dec. 17: Dash Homeschool
proving they, too, can have a special 2019-20 teammates, size ain’t gonna help you.” Dec. 20: @ Liberty Christian
season. And they don’t bother circling any one
Dec. 26-28: @ UMO Winter Classic
First-year head coach Paul Brenner said he is game on the schedule because to them, it’s
“as competitive as anybody else,” but when you about showing up to every game with the Jan. 3: Wayne Country Day
talk to him, it seems as though he would be con- same mentality. Jan. 7: Greenfield
tent to witness his group of student-athletes play When you play together, the Eagles
Jan. 10: @ Teach
the right way — and have fun doing it. would tell you, anything can happen.
“If we lose the fun aspect of this game, I think And when the season comes to end, Jan. 14: Friendship Christian
it becomes really, really tough,” he said. “That no matter what record they boast — no Jan. 17: John Paul II (Homecoming)
doesn’t mean we’re not going to play hard. I’m as matter how many games they win in their
Jan. 21: @ Wayne Country Day
competitive as anybody else is. But we’re going conference or against local rival Wayne
to have fun doing it.” Country Day — they will be able to hold Jan. 24: @ Greenfield
And they are going to remain committed to their heads high, knowing that they Jan. 28: Lighthouse Eagles
higher causes — asking themselves questions played the game the right way.
Jan. 31: @ John Paul II
that stretch far beyond the court. A way that reflects what Brenner says
“We’re out there going hard and the question is just the way of life at Wayne Christian
we ask ourselves is, ‘Can the guys around me — from the classroom and football field * Conference Tournament
trust me?’ Because they’re hanging out together to the gymnasium that doubles as an
Begins Feb. 3
all day … they just get to know each other at a auditorium.
much deeper level,” Brenner said. “Our mission “We’re going to do everything we can
here really goes beyond building character. Our to get as far as we can and once we get to
mission is to partner with parents and churches
to teach a biblical world view. We don’t look at
the end, we’re going to leave it out there,”
Wallace said. “We’re gonna leave it out
Mascot — Eagles
basketball or football or soccer or any of those
sports as extra-curricular. It’s co-curricular. This
there knowing that we did our best.”
And in that respect, that means the
Head Coach — Paul Brenner
is all about the entire process.” Eagles have already won.

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Country Day

Charge
rs

Unfinished
Business
Locked
in

Bro t h e r h o o d
Chargers want it all
At a practice in early November, the Wayne very well meet Goldsboro High School in
Country Day philosophy was on full display as the University of Mount Olive Christmas
head coach Keith McLawhorn addressed his tournament — they can let their play do
team. the talking.
The Chargers have plenty of talent, with at McLawhorn runs an NBA-style spread
least three current players destined for Division offense and puts an emphasis on ensuring

s
I basketball careers. his team can get up and down the floor
They were within shouting distance of a state quickly to disorient the other team.
championship last season. “We’re going to get up and down the Nov. 8: @ Grace Christian
But in order for this particular team to realize floor and we’re going to get up in your Nov. 12: Lighthouse
its dream of cutting down the nets at the end of face on defense,” he said. “We’re going to Nov. 15: @ O’Neal
the season, they can’t play as individuals. run transition. It all starts with transition.” Nov. 19: Thales-Rolesville
“You have to be a team. You have to play for And then, they are going to let their
Nov. 22: Weldon
each other,” McLawhorn said. “If you do that, playmakers make plays.
Nov. 23: Westchester Country Day
every one of you is gonna get yours. I promise Like Linwood Grandy, a pure scorer
you that. But we won’t accomplish our goals if who is poised to play at the next level. Nov. 25: Parrott Academy
we fall apart.” “He’s a (Division I) player. The kid can Nov. 30: Northwood Temple Academy
In reality, WCDS has one of the best — if not score. He’s an offensive threat,” his coach Dec. 3: Fayetteville Academy
the best — team in Wayne County. said. “We’re still trying to get him to fully Dec. 5: @ Harrells Christian
But because they are a private school, they are buy in to the defensive end. If he does, he Dec. 7: @ Northside Christian Dec. 10:
often overlooked when local residents discuss could be a major player. But he can defi- @ Cape Fear Academy Dec. 14:
high school basketball. nitely score with the best of them.” Broughton (@ Faith RM) Dec. 19: @
So players come into every season with a chip And should he embrace his role as one Rocky Mount
on their shoulder. of the leaders of his team, he has the abil- Dec. 26-28: @ UMO Winter Classic
“We want to be respected in the community. ity to help them close the deal this season Dec. 30: Trinity
We want to let people know that we have a good and bring a championship back to Wayne
Jan. 3: @ Wayne Christian
program, so I remind my kids every day, people County.
think that just because we’re a private school, we Skill alone won’t do it, McLawhorn said. Jan. 7: @ Friendship Academy
don’t play good teams and we don’t play hard,” There are plenty of examples of talented Jan. 8: Harrells Christian
McLawhorn said. “They think we’re not that teams that didn’t gel and missed out on Jan. 10: @John Paul II Catholic Jan. 14:
good. So we have a point to prove.” opportunities to go all the way. @ Fayetteville Academy Jan. 17: @
You would think that making it to the state And that was the message he preached Green ield
title game last season would have proved it. at that early November practice — that Jan 21: Wayne Christian
But losing that game gives the Chargers even only by becoming a unit would the Char- Jan. 24: Friendship Christian
more motivation. gers take the next step on a journey that Jan. 28: John Paul II Catholic
“We’ve been waiting for this since July. We’ve nearly earned them a place in the history Jan. 31: Green ield
been grinding and working hard. I think, last books last season.
year, we had a taste of success, but we also had a “It’s not about the skill sets. It’s not
taste of failure because we lost that game. So we about the system. We just have to play Mascot — Chargers
use that to get our guys fired up.” together. We have to trust each other,”
And when they play the public schools people he said. “And I’m confident that we’ll get Head Coach — Keith McLawhorn
seem to be talking about — the Chargers could there. But we still have some work to do.”

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Dinner
with
Friends
The boys at the Patetown Volunteer
Fire Department don’t always get the
thank-yous they deserve. So we took them
some of the best barbecue in North Carolina —
and learned about just why they serve.

By KENNETH FINE

S
ome have been watching others
serve since they were old enough to
talk — waiting for their chance to
do the same.
Others saw fighting fires and responding to car smoked brisket and, as one firefighter put it, So, when they told us about just what led
accidents as an extension of previous careers in the “perfectly seasoned” collard greens. them to volunteer their time to help their neigh-
military. But it was the fellowship — the conversation bors through some of their darkest moments, it
There was even a young man who saw it as way to had over what we agreed wasn’t all that surprising
satisfy his craving for rushes of adrenaline. was arguably the best
to find that their reasons
For the meal itself, they likely would have been barbecue for miles —
were fairly similar.
content to throw some Brightleaf hotdogs on the that made this meal so
grill — to make some sandwiches and heat up a few fulfilling. Marvin Perkins has
cans of soup on the stove to warm them on a chilly We talked about high been a firefighter for
November day. school football and the nearly 50 years.
But given the theme of our second edition of East- county school system. “I grew up in Saul-
bound & Downtown — and knowing just how much We discussed politics, ston, and all the young
they do for their community not for money or glory, family values and how we boys, that was just the
but for the way serving others makes them feel — we could better position lo- thing that you did. All
thought sharing some of the best barbecue in Wayne cal youths for the future. the fathers were farmers,
County was the least we could do to thank the un- And it hit us that these so everybody just did it
sung heroes at Patetown Volunteer Fire Department. types of conversations no
because it was a commu-
It’s worth noting that, even though we delivered longer happen as much
nity,” he said. “You were a
this edition’s Dinner with Friends, there is plenty to as they used to.
say about the atmosphere Scott Adams has created at That, we would find, member of Saulston Fire
Adams Roadside BBQ. is what makes places like Department and you were
If you’re driving down U.S. 70 just past Rosewood Patetown VFD so special. a member of Saulston
with the windows down, you can smell the smoke It’s not a sprawling facility, but there is a greater Church. Everybody was
billowing out of one of the simplest restaurants in sense of community inside that simple station than a part of the community and was in it for the
the state. you find in many neighborhoods across the county. community. Sadly, you’re starting to find that’s
And if you’re a barbecue connoisseur, you know It’s a family — a diverse family — that believes not always the case these days.”
that is usually a telltale sign that something special is that some traditions are worth preserving.
waiting at the end of that rainbow.
SEE ADAMS, Page 34
Some grab their food and eat right in the gravel
parking lot.
Others take a seat at one of the rustic wooden
picnic tables.
Either way, first-timers and loyalists seem to
agree that while other county barbecue joints have
been written about for decades, Adams still seems
to qualify as one of the best kept secrets in Eastern
North Carolina.
On this particular Saturday, we drove away with a
variety of must-taste offerings — from beef brisket,
pulled pork and chili to mac and cheese, collard
greens, boiled potatoes and a variety of breads.
And if the smells circulating through the car’s
heating system were any indication of what was to
come, we were confident the Patetown crew was in
for a treat.
Once inside the firehouse, we opted to go family
style.
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While many take their
Adams Roadside BBQ
to their cars and eat
right there in the gravel
parking lot, others enjoy
the experience of dining
at one of the picnic tables
to the left of the front
door. Either way, while
you enjoy your food, you
can see smoke billowing
out of the smokers in
the back and smell the
brisket and pork being
prepared by Scott Adams
and his crew.
Don’t have time to drive out to Adams Roadside,
but still want to experience the food?
A second location recently opened in
downtown Goldsboro. Try the nachos.

For Mark Going, a Vietnam veteran who spent 30

$219,900
years in the military, suiting up with the boys from
Patetown is an extension of his military career.
“Hey, I did it for my country and it’s that same
sense of duty,” he said. “It came natural.”
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“You do it because you feel it’s something you
need to do for your community,” Going said. “You
feel that need to contribute.”
He has witnessed men and women answer that
call for as long as he can remember. Like when his
father volunteered his time to serve as a firefighter.
Ryan Kearney did, too.
“I grew up in it,” he said. “I’ve been in the fire
station since I was (a toddler).”
And somehow, hearing these men talk about their
values — the traditions and the unspoken code that
binds them — was the perfect ending to a meal
that requires those preparing it to invest long hours
alongside a smoker.
SEE ADAMS, Page 36
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ADAMS
Continued from Page 35
What’s happening at Adams Roadside BBQ is, at
its core, an extension of a community pig pickin’
or neighborhood potluck from those bygone days
about which older generations reminisce.
Adams would likely tell you that his food philoso-
phy is not so different than the mentality Goings has
when he shows up to a structure fire or car accident.
“Treat everybody like they’re yours,” Going said.
“Treat it like it’s your mom. You treat ’em like they’re
family.”
Our second Dinner with Friends is about dedica-
tion and service — from the smoker to the firehouse.
And it was a reminder of the many seemingly simple
contributions so many across Wayne County make.
Both the restaurateur and that group of firefighters
seek to enrich the lives of those around them.
And if both do their jobs properly, the end result
is a plume of smoke.
They all followed their respective passions.
And all of them have uplifted those they’ve served.
For those firefighters, it might be as simple as
the reaction they get when they place a plastic fire
helmet on the head of a child who has just been in a
terrifying car accident.
And for Adams, he realized his impact as we wait-
ed for his crew to pack up our meal.
Proudly serving
A customer had pre-ordered two whole briskets Wayne County
and was standing at the counter waiting to load
them into his truck. since 1992
He told Adams that he drove two hours to get
his dinner — that he was feeding the construction
workers who have been rebuilding his home ever
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The Texas native told him that he was in Wayne
County on a mission trip several years ago and tast-
ed his brisket — that it was more than an authentic
take on the Longhorn State’s staple, and he’d been a
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loyal customer ever since.
Adams was humbled. Follow us on
“We really do appreciate you,” he said. “Sure do.” Facebook to see our
It was a poignant reminder that one’s passion has Black Friday deals
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that one man’s leap of faith on a simple roadside
barbecue joint lifted up a stranger during his darkest
hours.
And it was another sign that Wayne County is a
community worth fighting for, that the many gifts
our residents bring to the table can change the
world, one plate — or one first-response — at a time.
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ATKINS
Continued from Page 11
And he keeps a notebook in his classroom — and
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pages.
“It’s just between you and I,” Sasser said.
Atkins’ eyes light up.
“That’s powerful,” she said. “That right there is
powerful.”
She knows that when those Dillard students feed
into Goldsboro — when Sasser’s students become
hers — that because of the example he set, they will
have that much more of a chance to make it.
Their influence combined could spark a genera-
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“You have to break that cycle. That’s the only way
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CALLING
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since before there were even computers,” she said.
It is a literary novel, set in the 1950s.
The main character is a newspaper reporter. The
plot flashes from the past to the present as it follows
the main character’s life story.
“It is very much autobiographical,” she said.
Mrs. Baddour grew up in Greensboro next door to
the home her family ran for those who were recover-
ing from alcoholism.
Over those years, she met a lot of people with a lot
of interesting life stories.
“It helped make me curious,” she said.
That interest in the human condition and the sto-
ries that reveal the details of a person’s life, as well as
the characters she met, all those experiences are part
of Mrs. Baddour’s story, she said.
The novel is her chance to share it.
“I am proud of it,” she said.
But that is not all Mrs. Baddour has on her “to-do”
list.
She would like to perform Shakespeare, probably
“A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” in a unique way.
“I see it like a moveable fest,” she said. “We would
do one act here and one act there — the audience
would move to different venues.”
It is all about adding interest to theater and giving
a new dimension to showcasing the classic works
that she loves so much.
“This would take it to another level,” she said.
But her dream role — the one that she thinks
would be a challenge — is not a traditional lead or
the star of a show.
Her thespian ambition reflects the way she has
lived her life — with a passion for the characters and
the subtle touches that make a play come alive.
“The fool in ‘King Lear,’” she said. “I think it would
be fun.”
It is just another chapter in the life of a woman
who truly is, and always will be, an artist, a perform-
er and a writer at heart.
So just what Mrs. Baddour’s next act will be is
anyone’s guess.
But whatever it is, you can be sure hundreds who
live in Wayne County will ensure they don’t miss it.
To many, Mrs. Baddour is more than a local icon.
She is an inspiration to never slow down — to
never stop handing down knowledge and sharing
one’s passion.
And she’s someone they know will supply them
with many more acts before the final curtain falls.
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High school marching bands and JROTC units will make their
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queens and civic organizations will be in the holiday spirit, too.
Dec. 3, 10, 17 — 6-8 p.m.: Santa and, perhaps, even the Grinch will make appearances. And,
most importantly, residents from all walks of life will come
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community organizations.

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