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WINTER SOLSTICE
by Orrinda Stockton
Winter Solstice. Longest night of the year. Blue Christmas. A worship service intended to
comfort those grieving during the holidays. Held on the Saturday before
Christmas. One of the last days to finish that holiday shopping. It was now
too late to mail anything. Some of us are still attempting to shake off the
Thanksgiving food coma. The Christmas deadline has once again driven
those compulsive/perfectionist types into a near state of catatonia. And it
was storming.
I had not participated in a Blue Christmas service before and had no real
idea what to expect. I knew I was having grief issues but the pain was coming from
sources other than the loss of both my parents within a nine month period. That should
have been enough of a reason to seek aid and reassurance during this season fraught
with relationship woes. But I hadn't figured out how to express that grief, so it just sits
there--waiting, I am sure, for some truly inopportune moment to rear up and mow me down
I drove the ten miles to my little church wondering who would brave the rain. We are a
mostly elderly congregation and a number of our more active members live across the
border in Oregon. There were three of us: the pastor (retired, quarter-time), the pianist
(runs a "fresh to your door" grocery service), and me (a 70-something grandma with
authority issues).
I eschewed my usual seat in the back row and planted myself in the front. When it became
obvious that we were it, we started following the order of service. Then we realized we
justneeded to share with each other what was burdening our hearts. We laughed, we cried
(of course, I put on mascara that morning), and we lit candles as memorials to the loss we
were feeling. It was cathartic and much appreciated.
What came out for me was an intense feeling of grief for the state of our world, our country
and the church I have called home my whole life. The divisions, the rampant "me first"
attitude so prevalent in our society, the blatant disregard for the health and safety of those
coming to our borders seeking refuge, the dismantling of social justice. I am distraught. I
am in mental pain. I feel like the small steps I take to improve life around me are too small-
-insignificant--maybe even useless.
But then I am reminded, especially during Advent, that I (like Jesus) am a child of God.
That when struck by despair and grief, I have that cosmic shoulder to cry on and to lean
against until I can breathe again. In Jesus, I have the ultimate role model for the cause of
social justice. And I don't have to save the whole world--just be available to help out in my
corner of it.
"Wherever two or three are gathered, . . ." We were three and we were mighty.
Orrinda Holloway-Stockton
Smith River UMC, Smith River, CA
UMRA Western Jurisdiction Rep
Since 1940, the United Methodist Rural Advocates has been active at General Conference
to be a voice to General Conference and its delegates reminding them that our way of "being
the church" needs to be applicable not just to suburban places with large congregations, but
also to rural places where perhaps only a few dozen gather as the
community of faith.
United Methodists across the globe will gather in Minneapolis in May
for General Conference 2020 Again, the United Methodist Rural
Advocates will be there. I invite you to check out some of the legislation
that the United Methodist Rural Advocates is proposing to General
Conference 2020 at our web site which is
www.umruraladvocates.org. Click on the GC 2020 tab to see
information about what the United Methodist Rural Advocates will be
working on there. We covet your prayers and support for the work we
will be doing at General Conference 2020.
As Ford explained it, some homeless individuals spend the night in their car
and leave in the morning.
But as of Friday, Ford counted 52 people living behind the church. Of those,
30 are family units. Those who stay on the church property have 24-7 access
to the downstairs bathrooms, though the rest of the church remains locked.
Ford checks in on the camp every morning to ask how everyone is doing and
what their plan is to move forward in finding permanent housing.
"I repeat to them that this is not a long-term situation," he said. "And I remind
them that there is only one rule, which is to treat others the way you'd like to
be treated."
To read the full article about the work happening at Harmony UMC in Coos Bay, Oregon,
please click here.
The room, where I am creative, is a mess. But it's my room and I don't have to clean
up for anyone. But it bugs me. I am basically a neat and orderly person, and clutter is a
bother.
Sitting in this room, and not wanting to see things as they really are, I pick up one of
my prized possessions...a kaleidoscope. Not one filled with pretty colored stuff, only
mirrors. That way I can look at ordinary things and transform them into geometric objects
of beauty.
The myriad colored tissue boxes, used for craft items, become marvelous
patterns that change subtly as I move the kaleidoscope up and down, right
and left. It is beautiful.
Suddenly I know! This is the way God looks at us...through the eyes of Jesus.
Because we are forgiven, He doesn't see us as we really are, but only the orderly beautiful
parts of our lives. There are still scars and disorder, but unseen through the forgiving eyes
of LOVE. It must be a sight to behold. I like the idea. When God looks at me, through the
eyes of my Redeemer, I am beautiful, orderly, and there is pattern to my life. I don't have
to apologize for being a mess. Because my real self is what I am in the eyes of God. And
that's all that matters.
Oh, Lord, thank You that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder Amen.
Thought for the Day: Need a new outlook? Change your point of view.
Beverley Holloway was the mother of Michele Holloway and Orrinda Stockton. She passed away January
22, 2019. This devotion is part of a booklet that she and Michele compiled in 2005. This is in honor of her
memory.
INTERESTED IN UMRA?
by Michele Holloway
We are looking for a few jurisdictional representatives to join us on the Board
of UMRA.
Are you interested? It's not a big time commitment over the year but we are
usually busy the two years leading up to General Conference. If you would like
to know more about who we are and what we do, please go to the website:
www.umruraladvocates.org and check out the job descriptions not only for
volunteers for GC2020 but also for serving on the national board. You can also
find the work we have done in legislation for the upcoming General
Conference.
GC2020
General Conference will be upon us before we know it. If you are interested in participating
in GC2020 with United Methodist Rural Advocates, check out our website and the GC2020
page. On it you will find the petitions that have been submitted from UMRA, plus the
petitions from the National Fellowship of Associate Members and Local Pastors.
You will also find an interest page of what you might do in conjunction with UMRA while at
General Conference.
UM Rural Advocates
• RURAL MINISTRY WEBINARS are not sponsored by UMRA. These are available
until May 2020 through Garrett-Evangelical Theological Seminary. There are six
webinars posted and titled Backroads in Rural Ministry.
• LAY ACADEMY FOR RURAL CHURCH MINISTRY in affiliation with UMRA. Check
out larcm.org for ongoing and upcoming training opportunities.
NETworX INFORMATION
Submitted by Debbie S. Rice, Ph.D., MSW
Director of NETworX USA
NETworX-Securing Well-being Together
If you are interested in hearing more, contact Alan Rice, a member of the UMRA
Executive Committee at 336-239-1526 or visit www.NETworXUSA.org
Please contact Treasurer Judy Hill to learn more. Contact information is listed below.
Email: judyh@plainstel.com
Cell Phone: 970-630-0320
5. Network and collaborate with other rural groups and agencies around issues of concern for the rural
church and rural places.
4. Utilize technologies which will help us build relationships, share information and resources, and connect
rural leaders.
2. Be part of an organization which creates and advocates for General Conference legislation that has had a
positive effect on the rural church; such as NOW (Nurture, Outreach, Witness) leadership format,
development of "Born Again in Every Place," and the Certified Lay Minister. An Organization which will
continue to create and advocate for General Conference legislation that may affect ministry in rural,
town, and country churches and their communities.
1. Together we can make a difference as we advocate for the work of Jesus Christ in rural and town and
country communities.
UMRA membership provides not only voice and vote in the organization, but also includes a subscription to
the UMRA E NEWSLETTER.