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Cold reading
Routines Handbook
Congruency is key
something you wouldn’t normally do in order to
win someone else’s approval, you are supplicat-
Lessons about the game from Neil’s book tour ing.
One of the things I enjoy most about book tours guys after studying attraction. They begin to un- So instead of becoming social artists, some men
is that it’s a chance to meet many of you. And derstand how things work, and change the way end up just becoming better supplicators.
I’ve notice lately that a big difference between they dress, act, and behave around women. They
Stylelife students and other attraction students is do things that they have learned cause attraction This doesn’t mean you can’t change. But you
that you guys are, by and large, a cool bunch. in women: push-pull, demonstrating value, cocky should change because it makes you a better,
funny teasing, role-playing, disqualifying, and the happier person – not because it will make people
There are certain guys I’ve met in the community like you more.
line.
who I’d never be able to take to dinner with my
regular friends or family, because there’s some- Yet even though they’re learning so much, going One of the subtleties of the game, which sepa-
thing about them that just makes people uncom- out so much, and changing so much – especially rates the champs from the chumps, is being cen-
fortable. compared to before the game, when they rarely tered in yourself, and going out to have fun and
even approached women – they’re not improv- learn new things rather than show off for anyone
For a long time, I could never figure out what else.
ing at the pace they should. Especially considering
the difference was. I thought those guys were just
all the work they’re putting in.
not cool or too cheesy or not interested in any- If you do the “Ring Finger Routine” or “The
thing in life but pick up. Here’s why: Cube,” for example, with the expectation that
a woman will be impressed by your knowledge
But then I realized the difference, and I want to What’s one of the biggest turn-offs to women?
and thus find you interesting, it will usually fall
share it with you all in this newsletter because it’s
I mean, besides a massive buildup of ear wax and flat. If you do the “Ring Finger Routine” or “The
an important trap to avoid.
nose hair. Cube” because you’re interested in learning it or
Most of us got into the game because we want you’re curious to know more about the person
Right – it’s neediness. you’re talking to or you just find it fun to do, then
more success with women. And the reason for
many of our failures, besides approach anxiety, you’re far more likely to create a real connection
So then what’s one of the biggest mistake guys
was that we were too needy and desperate with her.
who are deep into the game make?
around women, and didn’t understand how at-
The same goes for push-pull and disqualification
traction worked and how to generate and em- They replace one form of neediness with an-
and cocky-funny. If you’re making these bold
body attraction. other.
statements and then expecting a reaction from
But a strange thing happens to a certain subset of In other words, they no longer buy girls drinks her, they’re going to seem needy. And she’s going
I
to become uncomfortable, because she’ll sense you want or expect something
from her. But if you’re doing them because you’re truly confident, and you un-
derstand and appreciate her, and you enjoy pressing her buttons because you’re CONTENTS
in such deep rapport, they become powerful tools of attraction.
Introduction: Congruency is the key
And this is why some guys you will meet in the community you may not want
By Neil “Style” Strauss
to bring out to dinner with your friends and family. It’s not that they aren’t cool.
It’s that they’re needy, and in every social interaction they’re trying to prove
something or impress someone or get a certain reaction. And so they end Page 1 The Esoteric Arts Overview
up making the people they want to validate them uncomfortable. Thus, they By Evolve
never get the validation they’re seeking, and begin to grow negative and bitter
and incongruent with the fun, successful, happy, and confident personality they Page 3 Cold Reading Basics
display. Their personality becomes a theater mask, hiding a very different sort By Evolve and Gypsy
of person underneath.
Page 4 Blood Type Cold Reading
The game is an art form full of ironies. One of them is that to attract a woman
By Evolve
who isn’t interested in you yet, you can’t let her know that you’re attracted to
her. Another is that the harder you appear to be trying, the worse you’ll do.
And a third – and the lesson for today – is that in order to get the best reaction Page 5 Hands of the Gods
from a woman, you can’t appear to be seeking a reaction. By Neil “Style” Strauss
And, the truth is, this irony is a good thing that will help you become a better,
Page 6 I Heart Routines
happier, more successful person. Because your power, your self-esteem, and
By Evolve
your enjoyment of each moment are yours to keep. Don’t give them away
every night to complete strangers.
Page 7 The Guide to Tarot Cold Reads
By Evolve and Gypsy
STYLE
II
The Esoteric Arts
The
overview
By Evolve
By Bolshevik
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rapid fire banter. The riotous laughter and smiles
Know the history of your art. Mentioning a few facts about confirmed that we were a hit. But it was time to
the roots of your art will add to the perception that you are a master. Many press on.
esoteric arts have been around for hundreds if not thousands of years, so
We walked proudly up the street charged from
there is plenty of history to choose from. A master should always know
Red Bull and attention and arrived at the hottest,
where his art came from.
most prestigious club in Hollywood. After flirting
Develop a root. Every social artist should have a story that explains shamelessly with some gorgeous, short skirted
how he became interested in an art that most people disregard. The story Astrology women lingering in front of the club we made
you come up with could involve a best friend who became interested in an ill-conceived attempt to skip the entire line
Western: The first evidence of astrology dates back to 3000 BCE. How-
astrology, a mother who taught her son to read Tarot cards, or an interest and waltz right in. Apparently, the bouncer didn’t
in Viking culture that led to learning rune reading. This story helps flesh out ever, it wasn’t until the Greeks adopted it from the Babylonians that it be-
share our view that four men in Snuggies are akin
the perception that you are truly interested in the esoteric arts, and not just came what most of us know as astrology today. Western astrology is the
to celebrity and deserve instant access to the
a guy trying to pick up women. Be sure to include some of the art’s history most common form of star reading. What you read about in magazines and
most exclusive nightspot in town. We even tried
as well as a personal story that supports your interest in which ever art in newspapers is a small fraction of Western astrology.
to convince him we were “Snuggie VIP’s” but he
you’ve chosen. didn’t go for it and we went rambling on com-
Vedic: Vedic astrology comes from India and is referred to as Jyotishi. Sev-
pletely offer
eral universities in India actually unfazed.
degrees in astrology, due to its cul-
Learn the variations. Astrology exists all over the world in many
different forms. The same is true for many of the other arts. A pick up art- tural importance. The Vedic system is similar to Western astrology in many
Our walk along Hollywood Boulevard was con-
ist who practices the esoteric arts will eventually run into women who talk aspects. It shares the same 12 signs that western astrology does (Aries,
stantly interrupted by partygoers stopping us to
about very specific styles of an art. If you know at least a few facts about the Taurus, Gemini, etc.) as well as the same planets (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars,
pose for pictures. We were quite the rambunc-
most common variations of the arts, you’re ahead of the game. etc.), however the difference is that its 28 degrees behind the Western
tious crowd: Gypsy singing improvised Snuggie
zodiac, meaning that, if you are a Scorpio in the Western zodiac then you’d
melodies, Mike flirting and enjoying all the at-
Have Personal Experience. Whether you read the stars or read be considered a Libra in Vedic.
tention, and Sneak riffing an endless barrage of
the stones, it’s crucial to have stories about other people whose fortunes
Snuggie jokes. A strange thing occurred as we
you’ve told. Comparing one person to another helps an esoteric artist flesh
stepped through the door of the next bar on our
out the world that he’s created. The best way to obtain this information is
tour: the crowd instantly burst into applause as if
by doing as many readings as possible, including your own.
they had somehow been expecting us. We piled
ASTRO-Disqualify through the door all at once with huge smiles
negative traits for each of the signs to help you tease the women of the on our faces and everyone in the bar laughed
universe.
and clapped as a single unit. We felt obliged to
Aries: Competitive, CHILDISH libra: CO-DEPENDENT, INDE- Tarot Decks perform so we broke out into a spontaneous
Arrogant, overconfident CISIVE, VAIN
dance and hopped around to the rhythm of the
Rider Waite: The famous Rider Waite deck is one of the most popular
music. People loved us. We even picked up our
Taurus: Lazy, self-indulgent, scorpio: MANIPULATIVE,
Tarot decks in the world. The cards contain an immense amount of astro-
first groupie. Unfortunately, he was a guy. He fol-
insatiable CRUEL, DEPRESSING logical and occult symbolism and are one of the best decks for any beginner
lowed us around like a puppy dog for the rest of
Tarot reader.
the night just standing there in numb amusement
gemini: Judgemental, sagittarius: NARCISSISTIC,
manic-depressive, bitchy PROMISCUOUS, EXCESSIVE Thoth: Aleister Crowley,and laughing
a world at our
famous antics.and influential member
occultist
of an early 20th century occult group called “the Hermetic Order of the
The next bar we entered was a dimly lit dive but,
cancer: Moody, cRY-BABY, over- capricorn: COLD, MISERLY, Golden Dawn” created this deck based on a number of different occult
like most spots in L.A., filled with lovely women.
protective MISERABLE, REPRESSED systems. It features symbolism from cultures the world over. The deck has a
Gypsy and Mike wasted no time and were each
book of interpretations that accompanys it called The Book of Thoth.
chatting up sexy blondes within minutes of walk-
leo: Egocentric, obnoxious, Aquarius: DETACHED, OVER
DRAMA QUEEN ANALYTICAL, WEIRD ingstyles
The others: Many other in theofdoor.
decksGypsy
exist.had hisagirl
From Lordhanging
of theon his
Rings
every
deck to a fairies deck. These word, her
alternate sets body language
are used completely
much more fix-
like rune
Virgo: FOLLOWER, obsessive pisces: WISHY-WASHY, FLAKY,
ated
stones where each card has on him
a more as she significance
personal seemed entranced by the
rather than fas-
a spe-
COMPULSIVE IRRESPONSIBLE cific meaning. cinating mind of this charismatic man in a fluffy
monk robe. Mike and his blonde snuck off to the
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STYLELIFE
Sound Bytes:
Always think about the words you use. They should sound mystical
and deep. They should also make the person you’re reading feel like
everything is specifically about them. Here are a few common sound
bytes to think about when cold reading:
Personal Journey…
Imply specificity by comparing this person’s Act like everything you say is true. People agree with positive statements about
traits to everyone else’s. themselves and disagree with negative state-
Don’t doubt what you say.
ments about themselves. Merge the two prin-
Say, “Though most people don’t think before Do say everything like you’re the authority.
ciples.
they act, you almost spend too much time
thinking before acting. Say, “Some people think you lack confidence,
when you’re really a confident person. Gen-
erally, they confuse the fact that you like to
watch and learn before you speak.”
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Instant
Cold reads
Blood Type
Cold Reading
By Evolve
Type A
People with blood type A are known for being able to stay calm under pressure. They like to keep the
peace and live comfortably. They feel like they’re outcasts which leads to an amazing artistic quality,
but also shy and sensitive personality. They secretly crave success and are known to be perfection-
ists.
“They say that Type B’s are the most dependable of the blood types; they can be counted on to finish any project they
start. They always try to find their own way to complete a task, although they are good at following
women with directions. They’re minds are one track, always focusing on what they’re working on at that moment
bangs like that are and nothing else. They can seem cold because they tend to stick to the logic rather than emotion when
dealing with people. They are individualists who can sometimes seem selfish.
a lot. Supposedly People with Type O blood are known for being energetic and social. They are said to be flighty and un-
dependable especially when working on a project that doesn’t interest them. They love attention, and
that means you’re listen well to others. They say what’s on their mind (sometimes without thinking) and are extremely
your glass is inter- • Some girls hate blood, if they don’t want to talk about it, turn pale, or pass out – then you might
want to stop the routine and move onto something else.
esting. It means • Some people don’t know their blood type. If the girl you’re speaking with doesn’t know hers you
you’re really confi- can still run a story telling routine using only “the root” section of this Underground that segues into
a different cold reading paradigm, like astrology or tarot.
dent.” • If you have a pivot, I’d suggest having her come up and agree that it’s right on and that she couldn’t
believe how accurate it was.
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Notice a gleam of metal on her fingers (a ring) nant person.” (Wave your index finger at them trace a line from her finger up her arm as you
and say, “I have to ask before I run: Why did like “no no no” or “don’t do that.”) It represents say this.)
you chose to wear that ring on that particular power and immense energy.
finger….Interesting…Do you always wear those “The pinky is represented by Ares. who is the
Your middle finger is represented by Dionysus God of war, and that’s why you see mobsters
rings on the same fingers?” Note: Of course they
who is the god of wine and partying. He is a very wearing pinky rings, It represents conflict.”
always do, because that’s where they fit.
irreverent God. So if you have a ring there, it
Then continue, “I have a friend who’s a spiritual means you tend to do what ever you want and If she is wearing a pinky ring, ask, “Did you buy
type, and she just told me that the fingers you can be less about what others think.” (Then lift that yourself or did someone give it to you?” If
choose to wear your rings on says something your middle finger up on its own and give the she bought it herself, it means she is sometimes
about your personality…” bird and say, “It’s like fuck you to the world.” at war with herself and has some inner conflict,
When they are wearing a ring on that finger, they maybe an emotional conflict or something she is
If she is not wearing any rings, just ask instead, not comfortable with herself about. If she was
always laugh at this.)
“Out of curiosity, and I’ll explain why I’m asking given it by someone ask, then ask by whom and
in a second, when you do wear rings, what fin- “Your ring finger is of course represented by Aph- tell her there may be some tension below the
gers are they usually on?” If she normally doesn’t rodite. She is the goddess of love, and that is why surface between the two of them, some unre-
wear wings, ask, “Well, if you were to wear a we wear our wedding rings on that finger. (You solved problem that she just hasn’t solved yet.
ring, and it wasn’t a wedding ring obviously, what can add all kinds of romantic cold-reading lines
finger would it be on?” here, like, “When you fall for someone, you tend If a woman asks, “How do you know this?” You
to fall completely for them.”) may respond, “An ex-girlfriend of mine was into
Then go on to explain: mythology and taught it to me.”
“Interestingly, it is the only finger that has a vein
“Each one of these mounds” – the pads on the If she has a ring on her wedding finger ask, “Is
that goes straight to the heart without branching
palm where the fingers join the hand -is repre- that an engagement ring or do you just wear that
off, and so when someone puts a ring on that fin-
sented by a different God, and in Greek culture, to keep the womanizers away?” You’ll be sur-
ger, they’re actually making a direct connection
you wear a ring on that finger to praise and pay prised how often the latter is true.
with your heart.” (If she is comfortable, you can
homage to that particular god.
The Ring Finger Routine Map
“For example, the thumb represents Poseidon
which as you know is the god of the sea. And he
Ares, representing conflict, aggressiveness, com-
was very independent. He was the only god who petitiveness
us
ter
are therefore very individual and independent Dionysus, representing irreverence, rebellious-
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travel, expansion
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of all gods, and the God of Thunder and Light-
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Technique
By Evolve
To set up this cold read simply, grab a napkin, a pen, and a girl. Ask her to draw a
broken Heart:
heart on a piece of paper. Be sure to “root” the cold read. In other words, let them
know why you know this game, for example:
“I want to try out this little psychology test my friend taught me.”
Quickly falls in and out of love
Now simply cold read her based on the heart she drew. Pay attention to the size, Lives for adventure.
shape, and line structure. Understands “the big picture.”
Lives for the moment.
The Basic Shapes: Uneven, Perfect, and broken Not concerned with details.
The ends justify the means.
Uneven: One side is larger than the other. Cutting and quick witted.
Extremely social.
Meaning: indicates some sort of imbalance in her life, you can easily associate
it with right and left brain behavior, the larger side being more dominant. (Left:
logic Right: creativity)
Perfect: both sides are even, the heart is full and round
Meaning: indicates a perfectionist, talk about how she has a need for control
over situations concerning their love life and professional life.
Meaning: indicates someone who thinks and acts quickly, talk about how they
are impulsive in relationships and outside of them.
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By Gypsy and Evolve
GUIDE TO TAROT COLD READS
When you first get your cards take them out of the
pack and play with them as much as you like. New
decks can be very stiff and they require a period of
breaking in before they can be shuffled and dealt
with relative ease. Try to keep your cards clean
and stain free. Do not expose them to liquids as
this will warp cards and affect your dealing of the
cards. Find a nice way to store your cards that says
something about your personality. I personally keep
mine in a decorated silk bag that a friend got me
from Thailand because it references my interest in
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Asian art and massage. I know other Tarot readers Wands, Cups, Swords and Pentacles (sometimes much as possible and when they are speaking be
that keep their cards in beautiful carved wooden also known as coins). quiet and listen attentively. People will often lead
boxes. When you retrieve your cards for a reading you and the cards to the correct answer to their
the receiver may view the receptacle for storage so Pre-read setup and patter own problems just by discussing it aloud. When-
make it a meaningful one that can be commented ever, the receiver is done manipulating the cards
upon and displays that you care for your important Set the mood: in any way she seems fit, urge her to take her
possessions. As with performing magic and other fortune time, have her hand the cards back to you.
telling rituals the environment and presentation
Preparing to Read: Giving your reading
of your Tarot reading will definitely effect the
Become as familiar as possible with the short and perception of the receiver. Set the mood with The Gypsy Easy Spread:
pertinent themes provided in this document for dim lighting (not too dim that you cannot see
each card. Initially, you do not have to have every There are as many placements or spreads of
the cards clearly), scented candles, incense and
meaning for each card memorized. With Tarot, just Tarot cards as there are cards in the deck. For
music that is evocative, relaxing and exotic. This
as with attracting women, you will learn exponen- my beginning days with Tarot I kept things ex-
sort of environment is also conducive to kino
tially as you do. Keep the sheet of card themes that tremely simple so as not to complicate my read-
escalation for after your reading.
is provided here close to you when you do a read- ings and to focus more on learning how to read
Give a quick explanation of Tarot: and experiencing giving actual readings. I use a
ing and feel free to reference it if need be. As long
as the receiver of your reading is aware that this is a very simple four cards spread with one leader
Let your receiver know that the history of Tarot
new passion of yours than you should not be called card placed face down above three cards follow-
is a rich and powerful one. It is a tool that has
out for referencing your “cheat sheet”. ing placed faced down below it. (Pg. 16, Fig. 1)
been used for ages to solve problems and por-
tend the future for everyone from peasants to The leader card will be the first card that you
Vocabulary of Tarot Terms: presidents. Tell them that the Tarot deck also draw off. Then proceed to deal the three other
works in mysterious ways and often chooses cards and place them in a row as pictured above.
Receiver:
its own best answer for the receiver’s question After having dealt all four cards you will turn over
The individual receiving the reading of the Tarot (this line allows you to be more creative in your the leader card first and begin your reading.
cards for the Tarot reads. The receiver’s input reading). You will be the humble interpreter of
and reception of the cards is vital to an insightful the Tarot’s message as it guides you to the an- The leader card will set the theme of the read.
reading. swer for the receiver’s query. You must relate it to the question of the receiver.
For example let us imagine that this read is for a
Reader: Involve the receiver:
receiver asking how an on-again-off-again rela-
The individual reading and interpreting the cards tionship with a boyfriend should be ended. The
Hand the deck of the 22 Major Arcana cards
for the receiver. theme card is the Justice card. (Pg. 16, Fig. 2) You
to your receiver. Tell her to shuffle and cut the
know form the short themes given above that
deck anyway that she feels appropriate. She
Major Arcana: the Justice card denotes a need to find balance
must manipulate the cards and lend some of her
The 22 special face cards (not the suit royalty in life. So the eventual dissolution of this chaotic
own energy and spirit to them. As she does this
cards) of the Tarot deck. These cards are num- relationship means that it will put the receiver’s
action the receiver must also ask the Tarot her
bered 0-21 beginning with “The Fool” as zero life back into balance and focus. However, the
specific query aloud. In general, most people’s
and ending with “The World” as twenty-one. In Justice card also warns their relationshipis should
questions can fall into four easy categories:
a sense the Major Arcana cards can be the most be ended in a fair manner that offers equality to
health, wealth, relationships, and travel (which
powerful in the deck. Important life issue read- each party.
is sometimes somehow included in or related
ings that need immediate and powerful answers to one the other three categories). After many
As you turn over the next card the story of the
are often done with only the Major Arcana. The readings you will have experienced most of the
read will continually unfold.
twenty-two cards are a visual metaphor for the possible permutations of questions again and
experiences encountered in life’s journey. again and your calibration at reading will greatly The next card revealed is the Death card. (Pg. 16,
improve. Get as much information from your re- Fig. 3) Using our quick reference guide again we
Minor Arcana:
ceiver as possible and feel free to ask follow up know that the Death card although it appears
The 56 suited cards, including both the court questions about his/her main original question. ominous is really a card that marks a vital change
cards and the numbered cards. The suits are Encourage your reader to participate verbally as in the life of the receiver. Certainly a break-up of
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this sort is a major change. The important thing As you weave the story that the cards reveal For example, if my receiver drew, the Two of
is how the receiver deals with this change. Con- be attentive to your receiver and listen to all Pentacles (minor arcana), the Knight of Wands
vey to the receiver that this change is imminent that he/she has to say. They will help guide you (court card) and Judgment (major arcana) the
and must be received in the most positive light in as much as the Tarot cards do throughout the reading might go something like this:
• The major arcana are the theme If the receiver draws an ace. Read it as raw energy
and have them chose another Minor Arcana card.
• The court cards are the characters
Interpret the ace like so; “you’re going to put in a lot
• The minor arcana are the events in the story of [ego (wands), thought (swords), your material
It is your job as the reader to put these pieces self (pentacles) or emotion (cups)] into this story
together in a way that makes sense to the re- if you haven’t already.” Use the Ace card to em-
ceiver. phasize any other card with a matching elemental
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quality, or use it to emphasize the lack of a specific V. The Hierophant: issue is solved. It is one of the few cards that are
elemental quality. not represented by a human looking figure. The
The hierophant represents the spreading of se-
wheel is above man, it exist outside our world. It
cret knowledge to the people in portions. He
Tarot Card Interpretations brings fortune from the divine.
sits in front of the people in his religious gar-
Major Arcana ments spreading the words of his spirituality. He XI. Justice:
is the connection between the message and the
0. The Fool: The Justice card conveys the need to achieve
people. He represents education in a system of
balance in the receiver’s life, in particular the bal-
The fool is above reality. He playfully moves to- belief as well as conforming to an idea.
ancing of the mind. Also, represents a need to
ward the edge of the cliff fearlessly to fall into resolve unfinished life issues with a sense of fair-
VI. The Lovers:
the realm of worldly things. He represents silent ness (e.g. when ending a romantic relationship
intuition. When his card is drawn it usually rep- This card represents division as well as symme- the receiver should be sure that his/her partner
resents new beginnings and taking chances. try. It can relate to any interpersonal relationship is told respectfully and given the opportunity to
where one person is another’s counterpart. It express his/her feelings about the break-up). If
I. The Magician:
can relate to both equal and opposite partners being interpreted as an individual in the receiv-
The magician can be seen with the four objects in any relationship: lovers, friends, business part- er’s life it may be someone that brings balance
of the minor arcana on his table; he has one hand ners, and enemies alike. and fairness, perhaps a strong female figure of
in the air and one pointing to the earth. He rep- an authoritative stature or position.
VII. The Chariot:
resents a connection between heaven and earth,
XII. The Hanged Man:
as well as the world around us (represented by The chariot represents using will to exert con-
the four objects on the table). He generally rep- trol over an emotional state. It is usually present The Hanged Man represents a waypoint in the
resents the transition of knowledge from source when the receiver is needs to come to grips with receiver’s journey. This point will require a vol-
one to another, the experience of power, and the state of both their ego and their emotions. untary sacrifice to be made by the receiver in
signals a need to be active. It represents direct action and control, as well order to make a gain towards a life goal. The
as confidence inherent in a strong positive emo- card itself is a strong metaphor for the sacrifice
II. The High Priestess:
tional state. of control as the hanged man evidently is bound
This card is feminine in nature and is a sign of and has no control over his destiny. The card
Viii. Strength:
emotional receptivity. She sits balanced between may also represent a need to sacrifice a particu-
the sun on her crown and the moon at her feet; This card is representative of both inner and lar way of viewing life in general or a particular
on either side she has a pillar of light and of outer strength. It can relate to strength in all subject. The Hanged Man after all is strung up
darkness. She represents a need for people to aspects: physical, mental, or spiritual. This card with his head pointing down suggesting a com-
look deeper in themselves into the unconscious can be associated with compassion and patience, plete 180 degree change of perspective.
hood and beauty. It can represent the creation The hermit lives alone, he is drawn away from so- them that this card does not always represent a
of new life and the abundance of pleasing things. ciety in order to spend his time in introspective physical death but rather signifies a coming life
She represents a great number of material quali- thought. This card if drawn represents searching change or the need for one. It should be empha-
ties as well as a number of spiritual qualities. for guidance. If it is drawn it may mean that the sized that the Death card represents not just an
receiver is in need of some serious “alone time” ending but a new beginning as well. The receiver
iV. The Emperor: in order to gain guidance through introspective must be prepared to accept these endings in
thought. life’s journey and begin anew.
The emperor is a figure of strength and fortitude.
He is representative of maleness, both as a fa- X: Wheel of Fortune: XiV. Temperance:
ther figure and as a political authority. He can
represent a need for organization as well as an This card deals with fate, fortune, and luck. It Demonstrates the importance of moderation
assumption that one has both power and con- is a positive card that can mean good fortune and toleration. If this card is dealt after a card
trol over a specific situation. for the one who draws it as long as a specific that resonated strongly with the receiver than
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Temperance shows that the previous card’s sug- of the moon nothing is as it really seems. The XXI. The World:
gestion should be received or dealt in a mild receiver must be careful to inspect all things and
This card represents the end of a journey and
manner. The temperance card by itself suggests relationship closely on his/her journey lest he/
the reaping of the knowledge from that jour-
to the receiver that he/she ought to cooperate, she be betrayed.
ney. This card can be interpreted to the receiver
compromise, practice patience and tolerate the
XIX. The Sun: as the light at the end of the tunnel; whatever
differences of others.
path or life complication he/she is engaged in a
A polar opposite of The Moon card. In the sun-
XV. The Devil: finite end will be reached and wholeness and an
light all things are as they are and it is not at time
understanding of one’s place in the world will
The devil represents man’s attachment to the for deception and betrayal but rather for lively
be achieved. The World does not represent
material world. A man and a woman are chained activity, enjoyment and clear perception. The
the complete end of life but rather the end of
to a block of stone. The stone represents the Sun card foretells a promising new day to come
one life cycle so that another may begin. It may
material world. Above it sits the devil. He is for the receiver. A day when all of the receiver’s
also be interpreted on a microcosmic scale as a
the ruler of all things material, and reminds us hard work is reaped and is bountiful. This card
physical journey to come to another geographi-
that, as humans, we are forever attached to this may also predict a particular festivity to come,
cal location, perhaps a vacation or a visit to a
world. The man and woman are depicted as perhaps it is a future moment for the receiver
loved one in need.
having horns to let us know that on this earth to shine amongst all his/her loved ones and
we are his creatures; that we all have limitations friends.
WANDS (FIRE)
and we are all subject to lust and desire. It also
XX. Judgment:
represents the things we must get done in order Also known as rods or staves
to move on. Can signify the final settling of a matter that has
thus far gone unfinished in the receiver’s life. On Wands are representative of fire. Fire, in most
XVI. The Tower: esoteric systems, represents ego or willpower.
a larger scale it can symbolize a reckoning of the
Many people initially interpret The Tower as an receiver’s karma. There may soon be an occa- Wands usually appear when there are issues
ominous card. The truth is that it is no more sion in which the universe will take into account concerning identity. Fire can also represent ac-
ominous than any other card. The Tower is a the receiver’s good and bad deeds, hard work or tion, as well as the will to act.
card foretelling that an immediate and dramatic lack there of, and reward or punish accordingly.
Ace of wands:
change is going to happen to the receiver. This This is the evaluation of one’s journey.
change that strikes like a lighting flash will be no- Raw fire, the creation of an identity, the motiva-
ticeable but it may be for the good or the bad tion to action.
there is no way of telling. Whether the outcome
Two of Wands:
is negative or positive depends on how the re-
ceiver reacts to this change. A man looking out to the sea with the world in
his hand. This card represents power given to
XVII. The Star:
man in its most raw form, as well as the will to
Indeed a truly promising card. It represents a go fourth and be great. It is the firs step in a new
strong meaning of hope and inspiration. The Star creative process and almost always has to do
can be seen as the receiver’s muse reinvigorat- with newfound power.
ing his/her life with her pitcher of crystal water,
Three of Wands:
a universal sign of knowledge. Other meanings
are personal renewal of life forces, strong op- A man looking out from the sea to the moun-
timism and joy. The Star can often represent a tains. This card represents the exploration of a
person of these particular qualities entering the newfound power. The man is looking to explore
receiver’s life particularly if their question to the the mountains in an effort to find and explore
cards pertains to seeking romance. himself and find his true identity.
Five men each with their own wands, all in dis- Represents a charming, excited, and creative PENTACLES (EARTH)
agreement. This card is representative of strife. character. He is extremely individual. He repre-
Also known as Coins or Disks
The wands, which were once held by one indi- sents a person that can fuel his or her own fire.
vidual, are now split between many. It is a sign of Someone who can inspire others while inspiring
The key thing to remember about the Pentacles
disagreement and dissention. themselves.
cards is that they are related to the receiver’s
Six of Wands: Knight of Wands: money and/or possessions. These cards are
more wealth and physical related than any other
A man wearing laurels rides with other men. This card represents a person with an unpre- cards. Pentacles represent earth and the mate-
This card is a sign of victory and recognition. The dictable nature. This character is impulsive and rial world.
men who were once in dissention now have a passionate. He is an extremely self-confidant
leader. This card represents the recognition of Ace of Pentacles:
crusader who is willing to risk everything in or-
a success. der to succeed. At times he can be much to full
Signifies the beginning of a prosperous endeavor
of himself. When someone stands on the other
Seven of Wands: or the aquisition of material goods.
side of his ideals he can be cruel and bigoted.
A man stands on a hill fending off others. This Two of Pentacles:
card represents a drive to make a stand. The Queen of Wands:
leader of other men now uses his power to try The juggler or fool depicted is juggling funds this
A self-assured adaptable character. She is often
and change the world; he must now face the too may become the receiver’s future fate or be
impatient due to her overabundance of energy.
masses. It can also be seen as an individual who his/her current state. It may also suggest need-
She is the initiator for all of her friends and lov-
was once known for something being pushed ing to get a handle on a business or financial situ-
ers. She is creative, energetic and generally opti-
into the background. ation that is beginning to get out of control.
mistic. She is a competitive person who tends to
The wands shine down like rays from the sun. King of Wands:
In this card an artisan’s work is being admired by
This card represents the wands as a message to
This card represents a theatrical character, onlookers. Soon the receiver will be recognized
the people or a person. It represents a message
someone who can easily communicate their for his/her own business endeavors and be clos-
or an action from outside of ourselves.
enthusiasm, especially when it has to do with er to reaping the rewards related to them.
Nine of Wands:
A bandaged man uses the wand for support. The Tarot Cards and Astrology
wand representing a philosophy is now a crutch By Evolve
for this battered soldier. He clutches the wand
Almost every culture in the world has had some sort of system
because it is the source of whatever idea caused
for using the stars to divine answers about people and society.
his injuries, it is the rational behind his suffering. So it’s no wonder that astrology was incorporated into the The astrological
symbol for Venus
It is the defense of an idea in order to feel that tarot decks.
any trials and tribulations faced were not in vain. Many of the cards have very obvious symbols incoprated into
the art. Some appear in the form of planetary glyphs. The em-
Ten of Wands: press card, for instance, has the glyph for venus on it. Alternaely,
the justice card has a man holding the scales - a sybmol of the Venus as it appears
A man carries the heavy wands to the city; he in the Empress card
zodacal sign Libra. from the rider-
carries them in front of his face blinding him as Once quick way to DHV and prove that you are a master tarot
waite deck.
he stumbles forward. The power has become card reader is to point out the astrological symbols on the cards The Empress is representative of the planet
venus from astrology. Both the planet and the
a great burden. He lets the power blind him as as you read them. With a little research this techniuqe could
card signify love, relationships, and beauty.
he pushes himself too hard. This card is a sign make your tarot reading more powerful than ever before.
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Four of Pentacles: profession and the rewards that will follow. The ing one’s self firmly in the throne of financial
only caveat to the receiver form this card is not security.
This card expresses a strong financial foundation
to remain overly focused on one task so that he/
rightly earned, symbolized by the man’s solid
she misses other opportunities. SWORDS (AIR)
stance and firm grip upon the pentacles. It can
also portend a warning to be wary of monetary Nine of Pentacles: The swords represent the mind. They are associ-
attachment. Do not let it rule in the face of all ated with the air element, which corresponds to
The woman in the card is dressed opulently and
other life endeavors. intelligence and communication. They represent
has a serene sense about her. This card shows
all things on an intellectual level.
Five of Pentacles: that self-sufficiency and financial independence
will be eventually achieved. Ace of Swords:
Describes a position of poverty due to neglect.
The stained glass window with shining pentacles Ten of Pentacles: This card represents, raw intelligence, justice,
is a sign of hope in the future if it is embraced. and logic. It is pure air and therefore, raw men-
This card is a representation of great wealth and tal energy.
Six of Pentacles: can portend a large purchase such as a house or
Two of Swords:
automobile.
Indicates a new wealth coming to the receiver.
This new prosperity could come in many diverse A woman sits blind folded with swords crossed
Page of Pentacles:
forms: a promotion, a raise, inheritance or lotto against her chest. This card represents peace
winning are just a few of the many possibilities. The page can be seen as an image for the receiv- and balance. Arms crossed at the heart and
er who is entering into or ahs recently entered eyes blindfolded she sits alone blocking off all
into a new financial or business endeavor, pro- outside stimuli both physical and emotional. She
fessional career or new job. The page displays awaits coming change.
the hope and optimism of this new journey and
Three of Swords:
looks forward to the rewards, represented by
the pentacle in his hand, that might be received. Three swords driven through a heart. It repre-
sents the heavy truth. It can represent the heart-
Knight of Pentacles:
break that can occur when the honest truth is
revealed.
A step above the page in a business or financial
endeavor. The Knight represents a growing in Four of Swords:
one’s business position (perhaps even a promo-
tion), showing that the receiver will begin upon The tomb of a knight or saint. This card repre-
the road to mastery of his/her trade or begin to sents the manifestation of intelligence in the ma-
understand more clearly the benefits and nega- terial world, the creation of dogma and author-
tives of investments and other financial endeav- ity in the intellectual realm.
ors.
Five of Swords:
Queen of Pentacles:
A man gathers the swords of his defeated friends.
Shows a further blossoming in the receiver’s This card can represent open betrayal and dis-
business/financial life. The receiver has already honest defeat. The defeat may also be due to
Seven of Pentacles: or will begin to realize how to get more from lack of action or a tendency toward pacifism.
his/her career or investments. The benefits will
Reflects the end of a hard labor that will eventu- Six of Swords:
become bountiful and the receiver’s life will be
ally reap many profitable rewards. The farmer
well managed. The card depicts a child with a pilgrim or mis-
in the card is contemplating his many labors and
sionary being brought to a new land. The boat
the harvest he will soon realize. King of Pentacles:
has in it six swords representing the ideas that
Eight of Pentacles: Represents the ultimate in financial and career the missionary brings with him to the new land.
mastery. The King of Pentacles is a symbol of This card is representative of the movement of
Shows a gaining of great experience at one’s having conquered the material world and seat- thought, a change in ideas that is brought from
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one place to another. It represents a new frame and emotion is no longer valid. This card repre-
of mind. sents a complete loss of feeling due to do pro-
cedure and routine. A change needs to be made
Seven of Swords:
in order to preserve the mind. It can represent
A man runs away from a military camp with depression, regret and worry, as well as an in-
swords in his hands several are left in the back- ability to forgive yourself and others.
ground. He finds their battle to be futile and
Ten of Swords:
runs away to save his own skin. He no longer
pays attention to the ideas of others; he has his A man lies dead, on cracked, dry land with ten
own plans and his own thoughts. He looks back swords stuck in him, the sea is in the background.
to remember what thoughts he is running from. This is the logic of madmen. Emotion is no lon-
The Seven of Swords represents the betrayal of ger part of the system. This man’s mind has been
an idea. destroyed by lack of feeling. The cracked land
represents this mans lack of water or emotion.
Eight of Swords:
This is where the idea has so many variables that
This card depicts a lone woman bound and it no longer continues to make sense. The idea
blindfolded within a prison of swords. This card dies because it has been thought out too much
represents intelligence blinding us. The woman and has become convoluted and confusing. This
represents intuition, feeling and emotion; the card represents the end of an idea or frame of
swords represent intelligence and logical thought. mind.
Dogma and policy binding our hands and blind-
Page of Swords: his ideas honestly and with clarity. He can be a
ing us from the truths that emotion may bring.
harsh judge of morale or intellectual matters.
This character is known for bringing “the news”
Nine of Swords:
no matter how positive or negative the news
Intelligence, reason, and routine have over- may be. The problems they bring will usually re- CUPS (WATER)
whelmed this man. He cannot sleep and is on quire logic, and intelligence to solve rather than,
These cards are related to the emotions and
the verge of madness. He is intelligent yet un- emotion. This character generally materializes
feelings of the receiver. Cups are associated
enlightened. Reason has taken control of his life whatever ideas you may have had about a situ-
with water, which is generally symbolic of the
ation.
emotion and intuition.
Knight of Swords:
Ace of Cups:
This character can appear emotionless as he
As the first card of the suit of Cups it is a repre-
judges the world around him with only logic and
sentation of the beginning of the opening up of
reason. He is a diplomatic character, who is in-
the heart. The receiver will begin to allow new
tolerant of stupidity and will always be prepared
emotion and possibly romance to enter his/her
to voice his opinion.
life.
Queen of Swords:
Two of Cups:
The queen of swords is a character of truth. Be
assured that this character will “tell it like it is” The card shows two individuals exchanging cups
revealing the truth even if it’s unwanted. She is representing the beginning of a new friendship
witty and perceptive. She can often come off as or relationship and the exchange of emotion
Nine of Cups:
will learn to master his/her own emotions just
rEAD HER CARD
as the receiver will calm an existing uneasy emo-
This well known Tarot card is commonly called tional situation. After she tells you about her first im-
pression of the card it will be your
the wish card. The wish card is a card of strong
turn to read the card for her. Start by
affirmation. If a receiver is asking a pure yes or describing the images on the card. For
no question and this card turns up, it can be example, if the card looks like an angel
raising the dead then say, “It’s an angel
viewed as an emphatic yes. It portrays that all
raising the dead.” Now combine what
that we dream can be realized especially when she told you about her first impression
dealing with emotional satisfaction. with some basic metaphors for the card
to create a short but intriguing cold
read. -Evolve
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Figure 1. The four card placement, with the leader card at the top. Figure 2. The Justice card is revealed as the leader card and sets the
theme for the reading.
Figure 3. The Death card is revealed, and the story continues. Figure 4. The final cards, Teperance and The hanged Man are
turned over taking the reading to it’s end point.
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Apologia Esoterica
Always have a better answer: how to defend a cold reading.
By Gypsy
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It’s okay, I expected that from a Libra.