Who are you

without your
job, role,
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or title?
 I'm about to get married.

Yes, I'm happy.

But then I overthink.

Will I lose myself now that my
situation is about to change?

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 I’m afraid that
once I’m married,
I won't be able to work
as much as I want.
That was my a-ha moment.
Do I only define myself by my job?

Or is this "new" fear

a symptom of
something more
fundamental?
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 I realized that I have to
deal with it, or else I might
truly lose myself.

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 I took a step back and started
with a simple question,

“Why do I feel
this fear?”

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 Then I followed it up
with more questions:
- Have I felt this fear before?
- When exactly did I feel this
fear before?
- What were the triggers that
made me feel this fear?
- What did I do to overcome
this fear before?

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 It turns out that my fear of
losing myself has a pattern. It
resurfaces every time my life
is about to level up.

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 Knowing this pattern helps me to
deal with this fear easier.

Now I know that whenever I feel the

fear of losing myself, that means my
life is progressing.

I know I can always adjust and scale

myself up.

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 Sometimes we just need to have
faith and take that big leap to
see the beauty on the other side.
I can assure you, most of the time, it’s worth it!

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 I know I’m not the only
one who feel this.

Do you have any friends who

might relate to my story?
Please share it to them, so they know that their
fear is valid and there's always a way to overcome it.

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