What Does The Word Love Mean To You?

Paper Dolls

Make a paper doll that each student will use to name

their first child. Make boy dolls and girl dolls with
dresses. This causes them to think of one of the
consequences of premarital sex – pregnancy.

Pull-aparts

This demonstration shows the damage that premarital

sex does to a teenager’s emotions. Take 1 page of blue
construction paper and 1 page of pink. Glue them
together leaving ½ inch unglued at the top. During the
seminar ask 1 boy and 1 girl to each hold one side of the
unglued part and try pulling the papers apart without
damaging the pages. It’s almost impossible!

When people engage in premarital sex, the separation

The small red heart is given to each student before
creates brokeness. Like two pieces of paper glued
Starting the booklet, to write their won description of
together and torn apart, some parts remain with the other
what they believe is true love. This “icebreaker” will
pieces and some parts are torn.
get them talking and ready to start the booklet.
Pull-aparts
 Pull-aparts

This demonstration shows the damage that premarital sex

does to a teenager’s emotions. Take 1 page of blue
construction paper and 1 page of pink. Glue them together
leaving ½ inch unglued at the top. During the seminar ask 1
boy and 1 girl to each hold one side of the unglued part and
try pulling the papers apart without damaging the pages. It’s
almost impossible!

When people engage in premarital sex, the separation

creates brokeness. Like two pieces of paper glued together
and torn apart, some parts remain with the other pieces and
some parts are torn.
 Make it Bloom!

The Rosebud Activity – buy rosebuds (P20 each even 2 or 3 still affordable)

Why wait? Would you…

 Eat chicken raw? Or wait for it to cook? What could happen if you eat raw chicken?
 Wear your clothes wet? Or wait for them to dry? What’s the results of wearing wet clothes?
 Open a rosebud? Or wait for it to bloom?

And let 1 boy and 1 girl try to open it into a full bloom without destroying the flower. It’s practically impossible to do.

It’s only right to wait for the right time to have sex, when you are married. What could result from sex before
marriage?
Sad to say, most of us seek to fill our intimacy vacuums with
the wrong fillings…

Fill 2 water glasses half full of water. When the boy says,
“Give me love,” pour the water from one glass to fill the
other. But now the girl’s glass is empty and when she says,
“Give me love,” pour all the water back into the other glass.

Continue the dialogue between the two as they try to fulfill

each other’s need for intimacy. But they are never fulfilled
because they don’t know that each of us is born with a “God-
shaped vacuum that can only be filled by a relationship with
Jesus Christ. Until that spiritual vacuum is filled, their
emotional intimacy vacuums will never be satisfied!