It is common for a person to push his failures into the shadows,
the conditions in which she or he looks ugly, since this herself causes not very pleasant feelings. To my mind, this is normal. Although, we must take into account the inflection, when a person only lives so that everyone likes and earn more likes. Everyone wants to show only the best side of themselves, and that's okay. But you need to see the difference between a photo of a real life and a photo of a "perfect" life. Someone wants to show that his life is perfect. Obviously we do not know what lies behind that perfect picture. On the grounds that maybe some girl posts stories all day long and photos of her smiling and having fun with friends, and in the evening she comes home and cries in her bedroom, because she really feels lonely. To like everyone and be perfect - this is a desire that an adult needs to get rid of. Because such an aspiration often has an inner void. This inner void may be due to low self-esteem, constant comparison of oneself with others, lack of support from loved ones. It is typical for people to constantly strive for an ideal image in order to prove to themselves and others their importance. It is difficult for them to accept alternative points of view, it is important for them to always be right and first. To a certain extent, Instagram is trying to impose on us how we should look, spend our time and even our lives. As a general rule, if you don’t have a lot of likes in a photo or video, you are doing something wrong, in addition to this your life is boring and far from ideal. I created my instagram account when I was in 11th grade and I still remember how surprised people were when I said "I don't have an Instagram account". I always thought and still think so that you do not need to chase after likes, perfect photos, etc. It is necessary to live now, to spend that beautiful moment, not to look for a phone to take a photo, and then to edit it for hours. In social networks, many are trying to be better than they really are. People edit their photos and upload only those pictures in which you can see exceptionally healthy food or their funny pets. One gets the impression that our friends only relax and enjoy life. I am inclined to believe that in reality these photos don’t illustrate their real life at all.