Am I a good listener?

Usually = U, Sometimes = S & Rarely = R.

Situation: When taking part in an interview or class or seminar I:

1. Prepare myself physically by facing the speaker and making sure I can hear.

2. Watch the speaker as well as listen to him.

3. Decide from the speaker’s appearance and delivery whether or not what he says is
worthwhile.

4. Listen primarily for ideas and underlying feelings.

5. Determine my own bias, if any, and try to allow for it.

6. Keep my mind on what the speaker is saying.

7. Interrupt immediately if I hear a statement I feel is wrong.

8. Make sure before ensuring that I have taken in the other person’s point of view.

9. Try to have the last word.

10. Make a conscious effort to evaluate the logic and credibility of what I hear.
Scoring:
For 1, 2, 4, 5. 6, 8 and 10

U = 10
S =5
R =0

For 3, 7 and 9

U =0
S =5
R = 10

Assessment:

Below 70 = Bad listening habits.

70 to 85 = You listen well but could improve.

90 or more. = Excellent listener.