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Guias - Kama Sutra PDF
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TOUCHING AND CARESSING Aj A a ¥ i _ BUTTOCKS Mote your hands in a decisive circular motion over yoter partner's biatocks, re pressing fomly at first—most people enjoy downward presstere here—and chen increasingly lightly nl your hands ore just brushing de skin, Then knead and squeeze each buttock in tem, ARMS AND CHEST ‘Starting at the front of the shoulders, work your wary down the chest to the Hand act domen, and lightly massage the breasts and nipples. Then massage the bibarteory arms, using a genile kneading action and again working downward. After ‘move your hands in circular fash this, work your way ip from the thighs teng civculay viowemen hands (the right hand clockwise, the lft hand counterclockwise). Knead che thighs and the groin and move slowly to the pribic area and navel, where aentle pressure is very pleasterable, Pass over the vibs, then trace the shape of the breasts or pectoral with your fingertips and massage them genulyMASSAGE FOR SexuAL AROUSAL You can make love better when your body ts hosened up by 3 massage, but if you want to use massage to arouse, rather than just to relax each other, switch fiom the more vigorous tech- niques to very gentle actions. For example, tracing a line with the fin: xertips kack and forth across the nip- piles and chest, or the lower abdomen, can be far more exeiting than the more fxcefal movements of conventional massage Many other areas rspond to an insistent, “feathering” touch; these include the earlobes, the sides and nape ofthe neck, the insiks of the ams and thighs, the navel, the but- cocks, the calves, and the toes. You need not restrict yourself to using your hands: lie on your partner and rub your body against his or hers, it tse your feet and toes to explore hid den crevices and provide each of you with novel sensations. Ifthe right chemistry exists berween couple, almost every area of the bedy is high- ly sensitive to the erotic touch of the lover and can be stimulated so as togive pleasure and sation. THE UPPER BACK When you massage the upper back, work on the muscles between the shoulder blades and at the base of the neck, Then bring poe ris Bue as nsf ui ponte? sides wah ‘your fingertips. Knead the shoulders and, reducing the pressure, the back of the neck.SCRATCHING While acknowledging thar lovers often use their fingernails to express passion on parting or meeting, of on reconciliation after a quarrel, the Kama Sutra says that pressing and scratching with them during lovemaking are techniques restricted to those who find them pleasurable. In the India of the Kama Sutra, as in other cultures before and since, marks of passion on a young woman's breast or throat served to tell the world that she was spoken for. Such marks excite admiration, Vatsyayana explains, so that “even when a stranger sees at a distance 4 young woman with the marks of nails on her breast, he is filled with love and respect for her.” The same goes for a man bearing nail marks, Marks are also exchanged, says the Kama Sutra, to remind lovers of each other when they are apart: “If there be no marks of nails to remind a person of the passages of love, then love is lessened in the same way as when no union takes place for a long time.” Wives, however, should not be seen bearing such mementoes of love, although it is acceptable for a married woman to have them on her private parts. “In short,” Vatsyayana concludes, “nothing tends to increase love so much as the effects of marking with the nails and biting.” Nail pressure Press hal enough eau mules but shard as eo real the sinSCRATCHING While i oes nor sugges dha sg the fingers eo everyone's taste, itis clear that the Kama Sutra regards them as\ > ” : J y - = - CLITORAL STIMULATION a Self-stimulation ees braid The clitoris is probably the most sensitive part of a woman's body, and ie Yesponds best nipples ta give yourself to guntle stimudation from the lips and eongue. Position yourself so that yoxu can stroke ge Sour time upward over the shaft amd head of her clitoris. Your parmer can be suaniing, sitting, or Iyingem her back; f she s one of the many women who enjoy protracted cunnilingus and can expcrience a series of orgasms from ity she will wsualy be sine comfortable lying down. Stimulate each side of the clitoris i tu, always from smdemeath: Use featherlight strokes on the head of the elsoris, ancl try licking che CLITORIS AND underside of the shaft from side to side with the tip of your tomgue. PERINEUM STIMULATING THE PERINEUM , = eS () Wee When she opens her legs wide, you can get between them to lick her perineum. The J | i: erinctn is the area between the vagina anud the anus, and in mist women iis rich nove endings anu so & very sensitive to being touched. stroke, or licked. Stimulation of the perineum can be highly erousine: LickING THE CLITORIS } Lick upward, and always be gentle because the clitoris is Licks TH pers a Using the tip of your tongue, —_ make feaherlight stokes up 5 anal down her perineum.GENITAL KISSING When you give your lover oval sex, a good wey to create a slow but highly erotic crescendo of arousal is to hiss ain lick her abdomen; her lower belly, and the insides of her thighs, slouly tworleng in tonsard her genitals. Mowe on from this to kissing and licking her pubic mound, the outer lips of her vagina, andl then her clitoms. A gradual approach such as this, perhaps even starting at her breasts and nipples and then working downward helps buid sexual tension, and is also use if she is a lztle unsure abo induding i oral sex dnd need a gene introduction to genital kissing LABIA AND VAGINA. o / ft vy | LicKING THE LABIA PENETRATING STROKES Run your tongue along and Use heeh deep and shallow between the labia (large lips) strokes, moving your tongue vp ‘fer vagina, and kiss them. and down aa well as in and ostSTIMULATION AND VAGINAL LUBRICATION woman's vagina produces a natural lubricating uid when she issexually stimulated, and cunrulingus is one of the best ways of simulating her. This lubrication, besides allowing the vagina to receive a fully erect penis without discomiore, actually changes the way in which genisal to experienced, making it plea and fll of sensuality, The actus stimulation doesn’t have 1 be focused exchisively on the vagina itlf, although ic i usually more stiective when itis. The sexiest and mest erotic method of getting a ‘woman to lubricate is through forpplay and by just tuming her on. ‘Those women who do nor produce very much natural lubricant should use one of the many water-soluble creams and jellies that are specially fortwlated for we as vaginal lubricants. These ate inexpensive, and available from any pharmacy. TONGUE INSERTION After arousing your lover by kissing and licking he clitoris and perineum (see page 57), mcrease the stimulation by also darting ‘over tomgue in and out of her vagina. Stare off by using just the tip of your tongue, then use the blade, and laver aleernate between shallow srokes with the ip nd deep stokes with the blade. One cf the secrets of giving good cunnilingus is to vary the strokes to sive hevan ever-changing range of sensations. Don't continue fort long with the same stoke tiles she asks you to, Relax Lie back, velas, and enioy the paste hes giving yon Hand action Use your hands to ie her exra stemaationFELLATIO While the Kama Sutra devotes far more attention to fellatio than it does to cunnilingus, its coverage of the former is nevertheless strange from 4 modern point of view. Vatsyayana deseribes Auparishtaka, or “mouth congress,” as an activity predominantly practiced by eunuchs on their masters. He tells how cunuchs = > “disguised as females" led the life of courtesans, whose duties included fellatio, while “eunuchs disguised as males keep their desires secret, and when they wish to do anything they lead the life of shampooers.” Vatsyayana goes on to explain how, under the pretense of shampooing (washing and massaging the body), the cunuch fondles and excites his master, eventually pleasuring him with eight kinds of fellatio, one after the other. Master and servant play a tantalizing game in which “at the end of = each of these, the eunuch expresses his wish to stop, but when one of them is finished, the man desires him to do another, and after that is done, then the one that follows it, and so on.” lowadays, gay ten continue to share the pleasures of fellatio, but at the same time it is a highly satisfying complement to cunnilingus in a heterosexual relationship. Put her in charge Try to yea and let your LICKING THE PENIS peer dee ot how she ‘wants to pleasure you Start your fellatio by licking his penis as though it were an ice cream come. Hold its base in one hand and then, using the lade ‘of your tongue, repeatedly lick upward, firston one side and then on the otherTHE BUTTERFLY FLICK ‘This highly effective fellatio technique consists of flicking sour tongue lightly along the relge on the underside of his penis. At fast, you may need wo hold the base of his penis when you perform this move, bur when you are adept at it, you will be able co perform it without using you hands, leaving them free to caress ana fondle him FELLATIO <> USING YOUR LIPS ‘Tite NOMINAL CONGRESS ‘Take his penis in your band, place ie between your lips end BING THE SIDES (Cover the end of his penis with ‘your fingsrs, then kiss and gen. tly nibble the sides, ‘move it around in your mouth Pressine OUTSIDE Press your lps against the ens ‘offs penis, a kiss 8 if deawing it ou “Take his penis inco your mouth, ‘pees ie with your lips, and then take ir outORAL SEX ETIQUETTE LICKS AND KISSES If your partner is going to give you fellatio, make dre that your’ perita is ecrupulouély élean. Daring fellatio, always let your partner know if you feel that you are about to climax, so that she can withdraw your penis before you do so if she does not want you to ejaculate in her mouth, Ruweine. Kissing After kissing his penis, lick it Holling wrtongue —_kissit ing his a SUCKING THE PENIS Some women want to share this intimate pleasure with their partner boner gagging during fellatio, particularly when he becomes excited and wants to thrust ling the penis with one or both or both hands before Aissing licking, or sucking the end, In this wey you will be in control ofthe depth to which w goes to You can overcome this wter mouth. There is no need to tale in the whole penis to give youer armer intense plea: re, because the glans (the bulbous end) is the most sensitive part. — PRACTICING THE KEGEL EXERCISES The PC (pubococeygeal) muscle exercises most commonly used to tone vaginal response are named after Dr. A. H. Kegel, the American gynecologist who popuilariced their use. You can do these simple but very effective exercises anywhere and at any tie—in the office, in the home, in the garden, To find your PC muscles, practice stopping the flow of your urine next time you go to the bathroom. The muscles that you use to stop the flow are the PC muscles. Practice stopping the flow several times, to get used te controlling the muscles. Then li down slipa finger into your vagina, and contract the PC muscles again. See if you can feel the contractions = The main Kegel exercise consists of contracting the PC muscles for three seconds, relaxing them for three seconds, then repeating. Try doing thisten rimes on three separate occasions every day * Do the exercise faster so that ‘your Vagina “flutters.” Do this ten tes, three times a day. Pretend thavinside your vagina aan elevator. Your job isto move it to the top of yout vagina, making three stops on the way. When it reaches the fourthand highest stop, hold it there for awhile before letting it descend to the “ground floor,” again pausing ac each stop on the way. Try this exercise twice 4 day ‘Testing your muscle contractionsTHE HALF-PRESSED POSITION From the Rising Position (see page 77), the woman stretches See niles cone leg straight out, past her parmer’s side, and bends her other If halding your leg seaight leg at the knee, placing the sole of her foot om his chest, Because Pomme ore en at this position consericts the vagina, the mam should take care not on his burtcks to rust too hard; ocherwise, she woman will feel discomyore rather th intone pleasure \ ING OUT one leg, che woman gives her clitoris intercourse—which she cannot do in the Pressed Position By stmere) (see opposite) because her clitoris is tucked away between, her thighs. Stretching is in itself a sexy sensation, and this may encourage the woman to move carefully under her man so thar the shaft of the penis gets some extra vaginal vibra- tion. Having one of the woman’s feet flat on his chest is \ ike it does when, at other times, she tenderly places her hand or A to increase the intensity of the man’s feelings, just as head there. It can be a surprisingly loving gesture should he choose to eatess her foot, possiily even raising ito kiss asa demonstration of afiection. Vary yor strokes As ya thru, Yotate Sour hips and vary the power and dec of yor strokes Caresses Use ae hand wo fondle her foot and the ether to Stroke the dnside ofthe thigh Apf . se Use your toes ee Push the sles of yon fet against hr, el res Sour wes io his chst es RerLexonocy According to the thoory of Foot manipulation Gently squeese andl fonead her ankles and the tops of her feet —_ reflexology, foot massage has beneficial effects on other parts of the body. The man should take each of his parcner’s feet in turn, massage it, and then hold t behind the ankle with cone hand an slowly sorace it with the other. This will create Aan arousing sensation in the woman's pelvis andl groin, —__ Caressing ‘is thighs Fonale ond seoke his thighs, eoing per Raed to much the shyt of hs thrusting THE PRESSED Pos ITION Instead of putting only one of her foet on the man's chest, as in the Half-Pressed Position, the swoman draws her thighs back to her chest, Bends her legs atthe knee, and places the voles of both her feet against his chest. The sensations for both partners will be subily different from those produced by the Half-Pressed Position, but the man must find a depth and force of penetration thar avoids causing pain to her shortened vagina. THs POSITION, LIKE the Half Pressed, is one in which the woman assumes a submissive posture: This can create arousing subconscious emotions in both partners, enabling the woman to feel vulnerable and the man to feel powerful.ACROBATIC POSITIONS The lovemaking positions shown here form a sequence of rather acrobatiq noyfes in which the woman diligently folds and unfolds her legs during the liaibof I don't think they should be taken too seriously; for example, most wonfer} wouldn't be able to assume the lotus position under normal circumstandes let alone during sexual intercourse. THE SPLITTING OF A] AIMBQO This aptly named position calls for a simple evoleabh frown Ae bab} ‘mian-on-top posture, yet requires considerable supplepreft in the }ombh. 5 raises one leg and fauts it on her partner's shoulder fin that leg down and raises the other. This sequence can ‘over again. “Splitting the bamboo” in this way makeb tht vagind tqueeke ens anc, whatever the rate at which the woman chs po fh legs, itis a stimulating cycle of mowements fp Ith kup th fringe cay POSITIONS SUCH AS THIS remind me of the way yf bodies and have fun inventing crazy sex position] of their physical relationshi Lean forward Kenge end lean forsee er rather than seetchin]FIXING OF A NAIL Instead of putting her leg on her parmer's shoulder, «sn the Splitting of a Bamboo, the woman places her heel on his forehead. Her leg and fot then resemble a harwner driving in a nail, represented by his head HAVE FUN Waite miking love—no one has decrved that sex should be a solemn business. Positions such as this are meant tobe enjoyed in a lighthearted manner. ‘Maimaining thytlin Toke 304 heep your Falmes and matiain the rhythm while youare thrusting, hold Ter dees agaase THE LOTUS-LIKE POSITION Imitating the familiar yoga position, the woman ‘draws in her legs and folds one over the other as neatly as posible, and agin the vagina is pulled up to meer the pens Most woMeN who try this challenging position find that they they can achieve ir at all nnot hold it for long, if indeed KAMA SUTRA <=> Leg mnement As you crust, hor raised uall move, alering the teasion between vagina and penis and varying the sensations THE CRAB’S POSITION In this highly pleastwable position, which comstricts the vagina arotend the penis, the woman bends and draws in both legs and rests her thighs on her stomach, rather like a crab retracting its claws. The ‘man again thrusts from a kneeling position. PLAY ISAN uPORTANT PART of the early stages of any relationship, and play in sex is no exception, When indulging in playful behavior, for instance by adopting positions such as this, we subconsciously learn a lor about each other.THE TURNING POSITION Supporting sour body. nee biesibiet salen ioe eon When a couple is makinglowe in the basic man-on-top sour upper bady clear of ner parmer postion, the man cart, with practice lift ome leg and turn aronel wwithou withdrawing from her DURING LOVEMAKING, varying a position can often be used to increase the feeling of closeness. In this ease, when the man turns around, hispartner can demonstrate tenderness toward him by embracing or caressing, his hack, shoulders, and sides. First stace “The first stage in the series of enoves that make up the Cavesses and strokes ‘Tuming Position isto begin your lovemaking in the Use your hands wee li basic man-on-top (“‘missionary*) position, The man arousing civesses ding should lie with both legs between these of his partner. his eicky maneuvers Buttocks mde his buctcks and seokethe | bucks of is chiksKAMA SUTRA > SecOND STAGE The tnan lifts fist his left leg ara then his right leg over her right leg, without withdawiyg his penis. Thro stace He supports himself on his artns nd moves both legs round, again withoue withdrawing his penis, until his body is at aright angle 10 hers. Legs lightly parted If your lgs ae slighly apa, i tall ease for hi opis penis side sour vagina —_— \ Sty stil To help mairtain Peernatiom, ie sell Enjoy the feeling thou thrusang Lie hack and enjoy the novel eganse him sensations of this tnuswal | angle of penetration FounTH Stace Inthis final stage, he ends un with Bis body beeween her fegs and one legen either sid of her shoulder. Whether or noe he manages to rensh thisstage, he wil certainly agree with Vateyayan’s content tht thie pesition is Farmed only through practice BEROTIC SCULPTURES Over many centuries, the Kama Sutra, the Ananga Ranga. J and the other classic Eastern texts on love placed great emphasis on the standing positions. The special status of these positions is reflected in the fact that they appeared far more commonly than lying or sitting positions in the erotic sculptures that p traditionally adored temple walls Tight hold THE SUSPENDED CONGRESS The man leans aga ta wall, the woman pus her ‘arms around his neck, anal he lijes her by holding her thighs or by lacking his hands beneath her bottom. ‘THiS 18.4 POSITION THAT calls for a fair amount of strength in che man. If the woman is light, however, he may he able to support her with one arm around her waist, using the other hand to caress ber. Thigh grip Gap his waist with you thighs ard push our feet agunst the walHiictir pirvenexce Making love while standing face-to-face ccan be difficule ifthe ‘mus ch taller thai the woman (ce vice versa). The problem can often be alleviated by him standing with his feet spartan bending bis ¢ ‘ knees lightly, of by \ ll her standing on tip- we tog, Fut most people find i imposible to maintain these pos tures tor very long 4 Thousting Hold her eigh wo elp ccomerol your movements when you thrust Deeper penetration Spread yx thighs by wrabing ‘one of your legs around Nis for deeper penetration THE SUPPORTED CONGRESS ‘The lovers achiewe the sipport referred to in this fost’ fais ether by Brit shemscls ast one another or by leaning against a wall. SOMETIMES, WHEN SUDDEN passion overwhelms them, a couple may prefer todispense with the preliminaries and make love standing up. The advantage of leaning on a wall is that with the woman firmly supporced, the man finds iteasier vigorously. Balance Stard with your feet lightly apart Be for extra balanceWOMAN-ON-TOP POSITIONS The Kama Sua recommends three movements for use when, for one reason or another, during lovemaking the woman adopts a position on top of her partner (“acting the part of a man”). She is most likely to do this either as a variation for its own sake or when her partner is tired but she is still not satisfied. Vatsyayana sees these positions as transitional, with the man eventually resuming the active role. THE Top According to Vatsyayana, this movement requies ceusiderable dexterity and is achieved only through practice. While sitting astride her parmer, the woman ‘raises her legs to clear his body and swivels around fon his penis. While she ts perfecting this maneuver, the woman should take care not tolose her balance; otherwise, she may hurt both herself and her partner. Tits POSITION AND its variant, the Swing, although just about possible, really have to be the ancient Indias idea of a joke: Most of the Steady yourself damage the moves could cause would be endured ae ea by the male partner. In the cdse of the Top, he your Balance could end up with an injured penis. This is not a position ro be encouraged. Change angles By leaning forwuad or back sow ea change the age of penetration and sly try the sensors for both of youTHE SWING The Kama Sutra suggests that, in this variation on the Top. the ran should le with his back arched. Ho feasible ifthe man has a strong hack, and even then i is unlikely vey, this is only ‘hat he coud sustain the posture for very long. Tt is mone practical for him either 10 ie flat or, us here, to prop. himself rep on his arms THe ORIGINAL version of the Swing, is described in the Kama Suva, is not really practical option, and there is a real chance of him hurting his back The version shown here, however, is perfectly safe 4 THE PAIR OF TONGS With her legs bent at the knee, the weman sits astride and facing the man, who lies flat on his back. She draws his penis ineo her and, squcecing it repeatedly with the muscles of her vagina, hos it tight for a long time. Pe ration is deep, ‘Tis postrion is perhaps the most practical of the three woman-on-top positions, By using her v anal muscles (see Kegel exercives, page 77), the woman may stimulate ber man while also arousing herself Some women uise vaginal fluttering to give pleasure, and combining this with alle movement can be gentle method of sexual enjoyn©® A man should gather from the actions of the woman of what disposition she is, and in what way she likes to be enjoyed.” THE ELEPHANT POSTURE Th one of nuember of “antinal” postures listed in the Kamat and, He che Congress of a Cow (see opposite), it ala described in the Ananga Ranga. The woman lies with her breasts, stomach, thighs, and feet all sxuching the bed, and the ‘mane les over her with the small of his kack arched inward. Once he is inside her, the woman can intensify the sensations for bath partners by pressing her thighs closely vagether REAR-ENTRY POSITIONS allow deep penetration, but the Kama Suera makes it quite clear that itis the association in’ Ss = the immagi positions an extta evoticistt, This is very different front tion with animals mating that gives these ‘4 modern thinking about animals and sex, where fantasies _ about a day at the 200 would definitely be considered starcling Penetration Pass your peas between hae slghay pred lags ‘nd intb her vagina Liftctear Support soselfon your handsTiming By holding hor hip seas, you can push cand pull her time with yoy cn Firm support | Keep seu feet apart and he pans {of son hands fa om she fl THE CONGRESS OF A Cow The powerful symbolism of mating animals can serve to heighten passion for many couples. In this challenging variation om the more common rearentry postures in which the woman kneels, she supports herself on her hands and feet and her petrtner mounts her like a bull. 1¢ makes deep penetration possible and allows the ‘man to control the depth and power of his chrasts. Bre positions achieve a special aspect of arousil for both men ULATING THE INTERCOURSE of animals, rear-enry and women, Although itis muuch harder for a woman to enjoy orgasm in these positions, the additional stimularion provided by the man’s fingers reaching around the frone of her thigh to stroke her clitoris (perhaps in the same rhythm as his thrasting) can be bighly erotic. So, t00, can the sensation of his front pounding against her buttocks, close to her sensitive perineum andl anus S THE POWER OF THE IMAGINATION In his chapter on sexual congress, ‘Vatsyayana, the author of the Kana Sura, implicitly acktowl impossibility of listing every known lovemaking position. Instead, he suggests that, by seeking inspiration from the mating habits of the animal kingdom, imaginative lovers can greatly extend their repertoires. After his description of the Congress of a ‘Cove, Vatsyayana says that “in the same way can be carned on the congress of a dog, the congress of a oat, the congress of a deer, the forcible mounting of an ass, the congress af a eat, the jump of a rie the pressing of an elephant, the rubbing of a boar, and the mounting ofa horse. Atsd in all these cases the characteristics of these different ‘animals should be manifested by acting like them.” theANANGA RANGA POSITIONS The Ananga Ranga shares common origins with the Kama Sutra, but was written up to 1,500 years later, probably in the late 15th or early 16th century. Therefore, it is much closer in time to the Arabian classic The Perfumed Garden, although it is culturally very different. The Ananga Ranga was wanslated into Arabic; as.a result, it exerted a strong influence on the sexual attitudes of the Islamic world. The late- medieval India of the Ananga Ranga was, like the Arab world, much more ordered than that which produced the Kama Sutra. Sexuality yeas freely expressed within and outside marriage in the time of Vatsyayana, but Kalyana Malla, the author of the Ananga Ranga, reflected a rigid society that censured extramarital sex, The major practical difference between the two Indian classics is that the Kama Sutra was written for lovers, married or otherwise, while the Ananga Ranga does not question the sanctity of marriage and explicitly offers instruction to the married man. Equally clear is the author's motive for writing the Ananga Ranga in the first place—to protect marriage from the sexual tedium that, then as now, can so easily set in.KNEELING/LYING POSITIONS In the Ananga Ranga, the various lovemaking positions described are divided into five main groups, known as bandha or asana Those positions in which the woman lies on het back, and the Leg position Pat yours on cher 2 ee uttana-bandha, or supine postures. paler — man enters her while kneeling between her legs, are termed LeveL FEET POSTURE In this position, the first uttana-bandha, the man lift Ais parmer’s body, bracing himself against her, and places her pwer his shoulders. If the —— farmers are just the right demanding, itis less mutually stimadatng id that the ‘The man (COUPLES WHO LIKE DEEP penetration uetana-handha positions are good on gets a sense of eomtrol because he ean move her into the most comfortable shape to suit his need to penetrate, while she acquires a sense of helplessness thar ean be powerfully erotic Increase the pressure Close yon thighs deep, estore hia wiging pensTHE FOUR BASIC POSTURES In the Taoist book T’ung Hstian Tzu, the author, Li T'ung Hstian, describes 26 postions for lovemaking, nearly all of which are variants of four basic postures. These basic postures are the Intimate Union (man-on-top); The Unicorn’s Horn Attachmei (woman-on-top); Clo: (side-by-side and face-to-face); and The Fish Sunning Itself (rear-entry). THE DRAGON TURNS | S 4 This posicion is one that allows thie maximean possible penetration, so the man should not cutempr:zo enter his partner until she is fully aroused and her vagina has eridorged 10 its fullest extent ‘Twus POStTION 1s A pretty impersonal way for the male co find satisfaction. Bye contact is blocked by the woman’s upright legs, the strain on her legs makes the whole experience uncomfortable for het, and the fact that her legs are held tightly her and upright ensures that her elioris ges virtually no stimulation from his penis. I'd vores distinct “no” on this one. Legs up Keep your logs to right as you ca Manipulation Use ome hand wo push her legs back asf as is comfortable for fer, and he other eo gue you penis eo her uaymaRAISED FEET POSTURE Lying om her back, the woman bends her leg ar the knees amd draws ther buck, in the words of the Ananga Ranga, “as far as hes haiy.” Her parmer enters her fom the kneeling position BrcAUSE THE MAN is kneeling, he does not need to use his hands to support himself or to mer and fondle maintain his balance, so he can comfortably use his hands to caress his p her breasts, And by raising her hips with both hands, he ean penetrate hee at an angle that allows his penis to stimulate the front wall of her vagina, sitive G-spot. along which is located the highly s Caress her breasts Because your hands are free, you can use them 10 ana fone her breast THE REFINED POSTURE = Instead of resting om her partner's shoulders, as in the Level Feet Posture, the waman’s legs pass on either side of his waist, This allows deep penetration, and greater stimulation is possible if the man raises the woman By using his hands to support her buttocks WHEN HE IS LIFTING HER and supporting her buttocks, he ean apply litle gentle presure to draw the buttecks away from the anus and petineum. This will provide her with extra enotic sensation. THE G-SPOT vagina’s front woll; the G-spot &s about-a half t ewosthirds of the way i. If pressed firmly (by thepenis ora finger), ir creates a powerfully eronc senstion. Research wndicanes chat ot all women pesiess G-spor but rmuany of those wha have one oe dit can be capable of triggering ongism Stroke his chest Reach up ond stroke his chest, shoulders and nipplesKAMA’S WHEEL The man sits with his legs outstretched and parted, and his panther lowers herself onwo his penis, extending her legs over his. He then passes his arms on either side of hey body, keeping them straight. In this way he complews the spoke-like pattern of limbs that gives the position is name Kaxa’s weer illascrates a dimension of sexuality that most of us simply don’t practice and probably find hard co comprehend. It's a dimensions thac allows sex, like a type of medication, to bring Ws to a of well-being. The object of the Kama’s Wheel és not to’ build erotic in a balance of mind asi, It is rather to ¢ high level of awareness, a sharpness of appetite, and an increased sense feeling, oF to achieve o that feels clear, calm, and happy This ps you to kiss wich as and enjoy looking atANANGA RANGA <> THE INTACT POSTURE While lying on her back, the woman raises her legs and bends cha th ey th thay ae ei ae pao chest when he kneels between her thighs. Before entering her. he puts his hands below her buttocks and lifts her up slightly ©The pvTACT POSTURE IS another lovemaking position where the woman is reared like a package an the man makes the moves. If contiol and helplessness are important aspects of your relationship, then this could be extremely arousing inentally, although in sexual terms 46 no particularly satisfactory for the woman. Extra stimutation ‘Afier penewation, support her om ote thighs so that your hands are free to give extra simulation eo her ‘elitr orto caress her breasts THE PLACID EMBRACE According to the Ananga Ranga, this position received ts Hand hold Reach up and clasp your » name from the poets of old. and was “a form of congress much ee in vogue.” The woman lies on her back and the man, krieel- ing, lifs her buttocks and enters her. By crossing her ames behind his back, she can draw him closer to her and increase the feeling of intimacy. ‘Thi OVERRIDING FeRLING associated with this move is that of great tenderness. Ir encompasses a pure embrace in that she twines both her arms and her legs around her lover as an expresion of love and trust Back support Lean forward, aad slip your hands sunday her backTHE EFFECTS OF AGING ON MEN It isnow believed that as many as fone in three cases of male sexual dysfunction is caused by physical problems, many of which ate the ult of the aging process. We know that the effects of aginy eas include damage tothe arteries that supply load to the penis, which may cause impotence. Aging can also infic weakness of the valves of the veins that hold the Hlood in the erect penis, ind this ray cause loss of ere: tion. In addition, itis likely that the hormonal changes that are apart of aging result ast lower sex dive an less genital sensation, There are methods of repair and cure for some of these conditions; jencing such problems should always seek medical advice any man expe Arch your body Place pillows or cushions vender yn onver back 0 ‘axch your by THE GAPING POSITION Pillows or cushions are used to arch the woman's body and to raise the man to the required height. The opening of the vagin receives strong stimulation, and for this reason some women value the position as a prelude to deeper penetration. RAISING THE PELVIS with cushions, so that the genirals are more open than they are when she is lying flat, was a favorite sex therapy technigue ih the 1950s for women wh didn't each orgasm. The theory behind this technique is that ifthe clitoris is exposed to the thrise of intercourse is more likely to be stimulated. However, stimulation is usually achieved more efficiently by nimble fingerwork Height adjustment Keel bees her legs bf eu center he, and se a cushion or pala if necessary trae Yona to the right heightHigh arousal THE ENCIRCLING POSITION {frame you eins, the psition can be highly arousing for both of you —— Acedding 10 Kalyana Malla, the Encrcling Postion is "ver sel ited for those burning with desire.” While lying on her back, the woman raises her foot off the bed litle and crosses her calves so that her legs form a diamond shape. Then the men lies ver her and enters her, ast the simple ‘man-on-top position. FoR Hex, THERE ARE shades of bondage attached to this position svhich, combined with the fact that her pelvis ie opened wide and her You might also like
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