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CALLED
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JOHN L. MASON
(UPDATED VERSION)
LOOKING
INWARD
NUGGET #1
Being on the offensive and taking the initiative are master keys that
open the doors of opportunity in your life. Learn to create a habit
of taking the initiative, and d on ‟t ever sta rt your day in neutral.
Every morning when you feet hit the floor, you should be thinking
of the offensive, taking con tro l o f you r d a y a nd yo u r life. D o n ‟t
become like some people who lose an hour in the morning and
spend the rest of the day trying to recover it.
By pulling back and being defensive, you usually enhance the
problem. Intimidation always precedes defeat. If you are not sure
which way to go, pray and then move toward the situation if faith.
Be like the two fishermen who got trapped in a storm in the middle
o f a lake. O n e tu rn ed to th e o th er a n d a sked , “ S ho u ld we pray or
should w e ro w ? ” H is w ise co m p a n io n resp o n d ed , “ L et‟s d o b o th !”
One of the most neglected areas in many lives is the gift that God
has placed within them. It is amazing how some people can devote
their entire life to a field of endeavor or a profession that has
nothing do with their inborn talents. In fact, many people spend
their lifetime trying to change how God has made them. They
ignore their God-given abilities while constantly seeking to change
their natural makeup. As children of God, we need to recognize
our innate fits, talents and strengths and do everything in our
power to build on them.
O n e g o o d th in g ab o u t G o d ‟s fits a n d ca llin g is th a t th ey a re
permanent and enduring. Romans 11:29 sa ys, “ T h e gifts and
calling of God are without repentance. The Greek word translated
repentance in this verse means irrevocable. God does not take
away His gifts and calling in your life. E ven if you ‟ve n ever d on e
anything with the, even if you „ve failed time and time again,
G od ‟s fits a n d ca llin g a re still resident within you. They are there
this day, and you can choose to do something with them, beginning
right now.
As Christians we need to make full use of all the gifts and talents
that God has bestowed upon us so that we do not abound in one
area while becoming bankrupt in another. There is a saying, “ If
the only tool you have is a hammer, you tend to treat everything
like a na il.” D o n ‟t m ake th at mistake; use all of the gifts God has
given you. If you choose not to step out and make maximum use of
the gifts and talents in your life, you will spend your day on this
earth helping others reach their goals. Most people let others
co n tro l th eir d estin y. D o n ‟t a llo w an yo n e to take o ver th e d river‟s
seat in your life. Fulfill your own dreams and determine you own
life‟s co u rse.
Never underestimate the power of the fits that are within you. Gifts
and talents are given to us not only so that we can fulfill to the
fullest the call in our won lives, but also so that we can reach the
souls who are attached to those gifts. There are people whose
lives are waiting to be affected by what God has placed within you.
So evaluate yourself. Define and refine your fits, talents, and
strengths. Choose today to look for opportunities to exercise your
unique, God-endowed, God-ordained gifts and calling.
NUGGET #4
DO M O RE…
Have you ever noticed there are people you know who are literally
at the same place today as they were five years ago? They still
have the same dream, the same problems; the same alibis, the
same opportunities, and the same way of thinking. They are
standing still in life. It‟s like th eir watch stopped five years ago,
a n d so did th ey. G o d ‟s w ill fo r u s is to g ro w , to co n tinu e to lea rn
and improve. The biggest room in our house is always the room for
self-improvement.
A fa m o u s sa yin g rea d s: “ It„s what you learn after you know it all
that co u nts.” . I m u st a d m it th a t I a m so m ew h a t o f a fa n atic a b ou t
this. I hate to have idle time in which I am not learning anything.
Those around me know what I must always have something to read
or write during any idle moment that might arise. In fact, I try to
learn from everyone. I learn what to do. Learn from the mistakes of
o th ers. Y o u w o n ‟t live lo n g en o u gh to m a ke a ll th e m ista kes
yourself. You can learn more from a wise man when he is wrong
that a fool who is right.
G o eth e sa id , “ E veryb o d y w a n ts to b e n o b o d y w a n ts g o g ro w . “ I
a g ree w ith V a n C ro u ch : “ Y o u w ill n ever ch a n g e yo u r a ctio n s u n til
yo u ch a n g e yo u r m ind .” A n im p o rta n t w a y to keep g ro w in g is to
never stop asking questions. The person who is afraid of asking is
ashamed of learning. Only hungry minds can grow.
We should learn as if we will live forever and live as if we are
g o in g to d ie to m o rro w . H a rvey U llm a n sa id , “ A n yo n e w h o sto p s
learning is old, whether this happens at twenty or eighty. Anyone
who keeps on learning not only remains young, but becomes
consistently more valuable regardless of physical capacity.”
T im o th y is in stru cted : “ S tu d y to sh o w th yself a p p ro ved u n to
G o d … ” (2 T im o th y 2 :1 5 ). It‟s fu n to keep lea rn in g . L ea rn in g
brings approval to your life.
Learn from others. Learn to see in the challenges of others the ills
you should avoid. Experience is a present instructor that keeps us
from repeating the past in the future. Life teaches us by giving us
new problems before we solve the old ones. Think education is
expensive or difficult? Listen to D erek B o k: “ If yo u th in k ed u ca tio n
is expensive- try ig n o ra n ce.”
NUGGET #6
Indecision is deadly. Have you ever noticed that some of the most
miserable people you know are those who can never make a
decision? When the mind is in doubt, it is easily swayed by slight
impulses, opening the door to many wrong decisions. Many times
indecision causes things to go from bad to worse. The middle of
the road is the most dangerous place to be.
No one can defeat you unless you first defeat yourself. Self-image
sets the boundaries and limits of each of our individual
a cco m p lish m en ts. C h a rles C o tto n sa id , “ W e a re su re to b e lo sers
w h en w e q u a rrel w ith o u rselves; it is civil w a r. “ If yo u d o u b t
yourself, listen to Alexander Dumas: “ A p erson who doubts
himself is like a man who enlists in the ranks of his enemy and
bears a rm s a g a in st h im self.” T im R ed m o n d o b served , “ D o n ‟t
commit treason against your own life and purpose.”
Do you put off until tomorrow what you should have done
yesterday?
When you kill time, you kill those callings God has placed within
you. T h e livin g B ib le‟s versio n o f Ecclesiastes 1 1 :4 sa ys, “ If yo u
w a it fo r p erfect co n d itio n s, yo u w ill n ever g et a n yth in g d o n e.”
SAFETY LAST!
A dream that does not include risk is not really worthy of being
ca lled a d rea m . H a lifa x sa id , “ T h e m a n w h o lea ves n o th in g d o
chance will do, few things badly, but he will do few things.” If
yo u ‟ll n ever ta ke risks, yo u ‟ll n ever a cco m p lish great things.
Everybody dies, but not everyone has lived.
D O N ’T A SK T IM E W H E R E IT ’S G O N E ; T E LL
IT WHERE TO GO
All great achievers, all successful people, are those who have been
able to control their time. All human beings have been created
equal in one respect: each person has twenty-four hours each day.
We must give our best time to our most challenging situation. It‟s
h o w m u ch w e d o th a t m a tters; it‟s h o w m u ch w e g et d o n e. I
rem em b er m y d a d a lw a ys tellin g m e.” D o n ‟t sp en d a d o lla r‟s
worth of time fo r ten cen t‟s w o rth o f resu lts. “ W e sh o u ld ch o o se to
watch our time, not our watch.
Make sure to take care of the vulnerable times in your day. These
vulnerable times are the first thing in the morning and the last
th in g a t n ig h t. I‟ve h ea rd a m in ister sa y that what a person is like
a lo n e a t m id n ig h t an d a lon e in th e m o rn in g revea ls th a t p erso n ‟s
true self. These are the most potent times of the day, when
productivity and idea generation are at their maximum.
If yo u a re sa yin g , “ I co u ld b e d o in g b ig th in g s if I w eren ‟t so b u sy
d o in g sm a ll th in g s,” th en yo u n eed to take co n tro l o f th e tim e. The
greater control you exercise over your time, the greater freedom
you will experience. T h e p sa lm ist p ra yed , “ So teach us to number
our days, that we may apply our hearts u n to w isd o m ” (P sa lm
90:12). The Bible teaches us that the devil comes to steal, to kill,
and to destroy (John 10:10), and this verse applies to time as well
as to people.
I o ften h ea r p eop le sa yin g ; “ I‟d g ive a n yth ing to b e ab le to … ” If
you have said th is, yo u sh o uld a d o pt th e” 6 × 1 = 6 ” lea d ersh ip
principle. If you want to write a book, learn to play a musical
instrument, become a better tennis player, or do anything else that
„s im p o rta n t, th en yo u sh o u ld d evo te o n e h o u r a d a y, six d a ys a
week, to the project. Sooner than you think it will, what you desire
will become reality. There are not many things that a person
cannot accomplish in 313 hours a year! Just a commitment of one
hour a day, six days a week, is all it takes.
We all have the same amount of time each day. The difference
between people is determined by what they do with the amount of
tim e a t th eir d isp o sa l. D o n ‟t b e like th e a irlin e pilot flying over the
P a cific O cea n w h o rep o rted to h is p a ssen g ers, “ W e‟re lost, but
w e‟re m a kin g g rea t tim e!” Remember that the future arrives an
hour at a time. Gain control of your time, and you will gain
control of your life.
NUGGET #11
Persistent people begin with their success where most others quit.
We Christians need to be known as people of persistence and
endurance. One person with commitment, persistence, and
endurance will accomplish more than a thousand people with
interest alone. In Heb rew s 1 2 :1 (N IV ) w e rea d : “ T h erefo re, sin ce
we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw
off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and
let u s ru n w ith p ersevera n ce th e ra ce m a rked o u t fo r u s.” T h e
more diligently we work, the harder it is to quit. Persistence is a
habit-so is quitting.
Never worry about how much money, ability, or equipment you are
sta rtin g w ith ; ju st b eg in w ith a m illio n do lla r‟s w o rth o f
determination. Remember: It‟s n ot w h a t you have; it‟s w hat you
do with what you have that makes all the difference. Many people
eagerly b eg in “ th e g o o d fig h t o f fa ith ,” bu t th ey fo rg et to a dd
patience, persistence, and endurance to their enthusiasm. Josh
B illin g s sa id , “ C o n sid er th e p o sta g e stamp. Its usefulness consists
in its ability to stick to something u n til it g ets th ere. “ Y o u a n d I
sh o u ld b e kn o w n a s “ p o sta g e sta m p ” Christians.
In the Far East the people plant a tree called the Chinese bamboo.
During the first four years, they water and fertilize the plant with
seemingly little or no results. Then the fifth year, the again apply
water and fertilizer-and in five weeks time the tree grows ninety
feet in height! The obvious question is whether the Chinese
bamboo tree grew ninety feet in five weeks or five years? The
answer is that it grew ninety feet in five years. If at any time during
those five years the people had stopped watering and fertilizing the
tree, it would have died.
T.L Osborn says, “ A lw a ys tell the truth, and you never have to
rem em b er w h a t yo u sa id .”
Lie not to one another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with
his deeds: and have put on the new man, which is renewed in
knowledge after the image of Him that created him.
D O N ’T W A ST E YOUR T O M O RRO W S
WANDERING ON YOUR YESTERDAYS
In Luke 9:62, Jesus said, “ N o man, having put his hand to the
p lo u gh , a nd lo o kin g b a ck, is fit o f th e kin gd o m o f G o d .” If w e a re
not careful, we will allow the past to hold us. The more we look
backward, the less we are able to look forward. The past is not the
only determining factor of what God can do for us today.
That is the beauty of the Christian life. Even when we fail, we can
ask for forgiveness and be totally cleansed of and released from
our past actions. Whatever hold the past may have on us can be
broken; it is never God who holds us back. We hold ourselves back
by allowing the past to keep us from living to the fullest in the
present and future. Failure is waiting around the corner for those
who live off of yesterd a y‟s su ccesses a n d fa ilu res. We should
choose to be forward-focused, not past-possessed. We should
learn to profit from the past and to invest in the future.
N O A H D ID N ’T W A IT F O R H IS SH IP T O
COME IN- HE BUILT ONE
Doing the best at this moment puts you I the best place for the next
moment? When can you live if not now? All the flowers of
tomorrow are in the seeds of today. Seneca said, “ B eg in at once to
live.” E llen M etca lf rem a rked , “ T h ere a re m a n y p eo p le w h o a re a t
the right p la ce a t th e rig h t tim e b u t d on ‟t kno w it.” It is o ka y to
take time to play, but when the time of action has arrived, stop
thinking and go for it!
T h e B ib le sa ys, “ T ea ch u s to number our days, that we may apply
o u r h ea rts u nto w isd o m ” (P sa lm 9 0:12). Marie Edgeworth said,
“ T h ere is n o m o m en t like th e p resen t. T h e m a n w h o w ill n o t
execute his resolutions when they are fresh on him can have no
hope from them afterwards; for they will be dissipate, lost and
perished in the hurry and scurry of the world, or sunk in the slough
of indolence.
Know the real value of today. I agree with Jonathan Swift when he
sa id , “ M a y yo u r live a ll th e d a ys o f o u r life.” The future that you
long and dream for begins today. Ralph Waldo Emerson said,
“ W rite it o n yo u r h ea rt th a t everyd a y is th e b est d a y o f th e yea r.”
The regrets that most people experience in life come from failing
to act when they have an opportunity. Albert Dunning said,
“ G rea t o p p o rtu n ities co m e to a ll, b u t m a n y d o n o t kn o w th a t th ey
have met them. The only preparation to take advantage of them is
to w a tch ea ch d a y b rin g s.” H eed 2 C o rin th ia n s 6 :2 : “ N o w is th e
a ccep ted tim e.” I a g ree w ith M a rtia l w h en h e sa id , “ T o m o rro w life
is to o la te; live to d a y.” W a yn e D yer o b served , “ N o w is all we
have. Everything that has ever happened, anything that is ever
g o in g to ha p p en to yo u , is ju st a th o u g h t.” T o d a y, w ell lived w ill
prepare you for both the opportunities and the obstacles of
tomorrow.
Few know when to rise the occasion. Most only know when to sit
down. Many spend too much time dreaming of the future, never
realizing that a little of it arrives everyday. I agree with Ruth
Schabacker when sh e sa id , “ E veryd a y co m es bearing with its own
g ifts. U n tie th e rib b o n s.”
NUGGET #18
Fear is a poor chisel for carving out tomorrow. Today, if you are
viewing your future from a position of fear or worry. I want to let
you know that view is not accurate or correct. Instead, view your
future from a position of fa ith . T ha t‟s th e tru th . W o rry is sim p ly th e
triumph of fear over faith.
“ B ed ‟s h a rd ,” th e m a n resp o n d ed
Seven years later-twenty-one years after his initial entry into the
monastery- the man met with the abbot for the third and final time.
“ A n d w h a t a re yo u r tw o w o rd s th is tim e? ” th e a b b o t a sked .
“ I q u it.”
Contrary to what you may have heard, talk is not cheap. Talk is
expensive! Our words are powerful. What we say affects what we
get from others and what others get from us.
NUGGET #20
VERSUS
In G a la tia n s 6 :9 (N IV ) w e a re to ld , “ L et u s n o t b eco m e w ea ry in
doing good , for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do
n o t g ive lip . “ L o o k a t th is verse ca refu lly. It u rg es u s n o t to
become weary, assuring us that we will not might, will-reap a
harvest if we do not give up.
One of the best scriptural examples of a person who did not quit is
Joseph. He had many reasons to justify giving up. When he was
trapped in the pit where his brothers had thrown him because of
their jealousy, I a m su re h e sa id to h im self, “ T h is is n o t th e w a y I
d rea m ed m y life w o u ld w o rk o u t!” Later, he had a marvelous
opportunity to become discouraged and quit when he was thrown
into prison for a crime he did not commit. Again he could have
said to himself, “ T h is is n o t rig h t; I‟m n o t su p po sed to b e h ere.”
Although Joseph did not understand the steps through which the
Lord would lead him, he remained true to his God. Despite the
trials he faced, he did not quit. Eventually the dream that God has
given Joseph became reality. He was elevated from a prisoner to a
prime minister.
The only way we can lose is to quit. Quitting is the only decision
w e ca n m a ke th a t ca n keep u s fro m rea ch in g G o d ‟s go a ls in o u r
lives.
NUGGET #22
The vision must be written. When you keep a vision in your mind, it
is not really a goal; it is nothing more than a dream. There is
power in putting that dream on paper. When you commit
something to writing, commitment to achievement naturally
follows.
God wrote His vision for us in the form of the Bible. He does not
rely only on the Holy Spirit to guide us; He put His directions in
writing. We are told to make the Word of the Lord plain upon
“ ta b les” (ta b lets) so that the visio n is clea r an d “ so tha t h e m a y
ru n th a t rea d s it.”
The bigger the challenge you are facing, the more enthusiasm you
need. Philippians 2:5 (NIV) says, “ Y o u r attitude should be the
sa m e a s th a t o f C h rist Jesu s.” I b elieve th a t Jesu s w a s a m a n w h o
had s a smile oh His face and a spring in His step.
M a n y p eo p le sa y, “ W ell, n o w o n d er th o se p eo p le a re happy,
confident, and positive; if I had their job and assets, I would be
happy too!” Su ch th inking fa lsely a ssu m es th a t su ccessfu l p eo p le
are positive because they have a good income and lots of
possessions. But the reverse is true. Such people probably have a
good income and a lot of possessions as a result of being positive,
confident, and happy.
T h e L o rd ‟s jo y a n d lo ve a re yo u rs- so smile!
NUGGET #24
There have always been people who have tried to make excuses to
the Lord. Some knew that their alibis were not true. And there were
those who made excuses and actually believed them.
In Luke 14:18-20 (NIV) Jesus told a parable of the great end time
banquet and the men who were invited to the L o rd ‟s T a b le:
These men made excuses and missed out on salvation. All of them
made the mistake of believing their alibis rather than God.
Moses and Gideon made excuses to the Lord, yet they recognized
that their excuses were not the truth. In Exodus 4:10-12 (NIV),
Moses said:
An alibi is egotism turned inside out. It puts you first and takes
G o d o u t o f th e p ictu re. T h a t‟s n o t th e p la ce to be.
NUGGET #25
D O N ’T Q U IT A F T E R A V IC T O R Y
There are two times a person stops; after a defeat and after a
victory. Successful people understand that there is greater
opportunity right on the other side of the victory.
One of the greatest lies people like to believe is that we are not
responsible for own actions. We blame our mother, employer, our
neighbor, the government, or society. But in Romans 14:12, the
Bible clearly indicates who is responsible and accountable for our
deeds: So then every one of us shall give account of himself to
G o d .”
God sends people across our paths to bless and help us, but we
should be directed by God and be very cautious when entering into
any partnership. We must be sure that the reason for the
relationship is right, and be sure that we are not merely looking
for a shortcut.
Here is the key to being free from the stranglehold of past failures
and mistakes. Learn the lesson and forget the details. Have you
ever noticed that he devil reminds you of the lesson? He only wants
you to remember the details. Gain from the experience, but do not
roll the minute details of it over and over I you mind. Build on the
experience, and g et o n yo u ‟re yo u r life.
T H O SE W HO D O N ’T T AKE C H A N C ES
D O N ’T M A K E A D V A N C E S
People whose faith ran ahead of their minds have made all the
great discoveries. Significant achievements have not been obtained
by taking small risks on unimportant issues. Do not ever waste
time planning, analyzing, and risking on small ideas. It is always
wise to spend more time on decisions that are irreversible and to
spend less time that is reversible.
Learn to stretch and reach out to where God is. Aim high and take
risks. T h e W o rld ‟s a p p ro a ch is to lo o k fo r th e p o ten tia l, n o t b e
restricted by the past. Those who make great strides are those who
take chances and plan towards the challenges of life.
We need to be people who put our faith into action. One individual
with faith and action constitutes a majority. Do not wait for your
ship to come in; swim out to it! Thomas Edison said it best:
“ O p p o rtu n ity is m issed b y m o st p eo p le b eca u se it is d ressed in
o vera lls a n d lo oks like w o rk.” T ru e fa ith h a s h a nd s a n d feet; it
takes action. It is not enough to know that you know. It is more
important to show that you know.
Work is not a vague spiritual concept. The word work appears 564
times in the Bible. When faith and works operate together, the
result is a masterpiece. We should choose to keep our faith
w o rkin g a ll th e tim e. G eo rg e B ern a rd S h a w sa id , “ W h en I w a s
young, I observed that nine out of every ten things I did were
fa ilu res. S o I d id ten tim es m o re w o rk.”
When you surround yourself with the right kind of people, you
enter into the God-ordained power of agreement. Ecclesiastes 4:9-
10 (TLB) states:
Two can accomplish more than twice as much as one, of the results
can be much better. If one falls, the other pulls him up, but if a man
falls when he is alone, he is in trouble. And one standing alone can
be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and
conquer; three is even better, for a triple braid cord is not easily
broken.
D O N ’T M E A SU R E YO UR SU C C E SS BY
W H A T O T H E R S H A V E A N D H A V E N ’T D O N E
Several years ago I met with a friend who I have known for over
ten yea rs. H e lo o ked a t m e a n d sa id , “ Jo hn , I see a ll th e great
things that God has done in your life, and how He has caused you
to increase in every way. But as I began to look at your life, I
became full of doubt as to what God was doing in my life. He said,
I saw what God was doing in my life. He said, I saw what He had
done in yours, and I began to doubt that God was really working in
m in e, b eca u se I h a d n o t h a d th e sa m e su ccess th a t yo u h a ve.”
You will find that God rarely uses people whose main concern is
what others are thinking. I believe that Jesus saw judging others
halt progress. Judging others will always inhibit your forward
motion.
If you think you are doing better than the average person, you „re
an average person.
Why would you want to compare yourself with someone average?
T o o m a n y p eo p le seem to kn o w h o w to live everyb o d y‟s life b u t
their own. We need to stop comparing ourselves to others.
NUGGET #32
Stop talking constantly about the situation you are going through.
Decide to get through. it! Do not accept your present, temporary
situation as your permanent condition. Make up your mind to get
on with your life and to fulfill your divine purpose despite your
current circumstances.
Some people stay in the same hopeless situation their whole lives,
never making a firm decision to see God and His power in order to
get through the circumstances they face. The commandment that
tells us to be longsuffering does not require us to stay in a
miserable situation one second longer than is absolutely
n ecessa ry. H ere is h o w w e p o ise o u rselves to b rea k th ro ug h : “ A n d
be not conformed to this world, but be ye transformed by the
renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and
a ccep ta b le, a n d p erfect w ill o f G o d ” (R o m a n s 1 2 :2 ). B e
transformed by renewing our mind with the Word of God. Then
you will know the good and perfect will of the Lord, and you will
be able to get through- once and for all what you have been going
through for so long.
NUGGET #33
HAVE
If you are only looking out for yourself, look out! Wesley Huber
sa id , “ T h ere is n o th in g q u ite a s d ea d a s a self cen tered m a n - a
man who holds himself up a self made success, and measures
himself by himself and is pleased with the result.” Is you r fa vorite
letter “ I” ? L isten to E d C o le‟s w o rd s: “ T h e co re o f sin is „I‟ n o
m a tter h o w yo u sp ell it.” T h e o n ly rea so n p rid e lifts yo u u p is let
you down.
N o rm a n V in cen t P ea le o b served , “ T h e m a n w h o lives fo r h im self is
a failure. Even if he gains much wealth, power or position he still a
fa ilu re.” C o n ceit m a kes u s fo o l:. “ D o yo u see a m a n w ise in h is
o w n eyes? T h ere is m o re h o p e fo r a fo o l th an fo r h im ” (P ro verb s
26:12 NIV). The man who believes in nothing but himself lives in a
small world. The best way to be happy is to forget yourself and
focus on other people. H en ry C ou rtn ey sa id , “ T h e b ig g er a m a n ‟s
h ea d g ets, th e ea sier it is to fill h is sh oes.” A swelled head always
proves there is plenty of room for improvement.
Alexa n d er P o p e o b served , “ T h e g rea test m a g n ifyin g g la sses in th e
w o rld a re a m an ‟s o w n eyes w h en th ey lo ok up o n h is o w n p erso n .”
Egotism is the only disease where the patient feels well while
making everyone else around him feel sick. Egotism blossoms but
bear no fruit. Those who sing their own praises seldom receive an
encore. C h a rles E llio t in to n es, “ D o n ‟t th in k to o m u ch o f yo u rself.
Try to cultivate the habit of thinking of others. Try to cultivate the
habit of thinking of others; this; will reward you.
Selfishness always brings its own revenge.
There are three things that we know about the future: First, it is
not going to be like the past. Second, it is not going to be exactly
the way we think it is going to be. Third the rate of change will
take place faster than we anticipate. The Bible indicates that in the
end times in which we are now living – changes will occur more
quickly than ever before in history.
B E IN G A SE V A N T W O N ’T M AKE YOU
FAMOUS, JUST RICH
This is true. There is always room at the top for anyone who is
w illin g to d a y, “ I‟ll serve,” a nd means it.
Being a servant is not always the most natural thing to do. We are
all conditioned to think about ourselves. That is why 97 percent of
people will write their own names when they are offered a new pen
to try. Despite our tendency toward self-promotion, it is always
true that more is accomplished when nobody cares who gets the
credit.
When you give of yourself to help other people, you cannot help;
but be abundantly rewarded. The rewards and blessing of being a
servant always extend far beyond the scope of what you can see or
hear. The give always gets.
NUGGET #38
For every obstacle you face, God provides a scripture for your
a n sw er. M ike M u rd o ck sa ys, “ If G o d ‟s cu sh io n ed you r every b lo w ,
you would n ever lea rn to g ro w .” In stea d , d o n ‟t let your problems
take the lead. You take the lead. The problem you face is simply an
opportunity for you to do your best. Conflict is good when you
know how to move with God.
What attitude do we need to have toward difficulties? William
B o etcker sa id , “ T h e d ifficu lties a n d stru g g les o f to da y a re b u t th e
best price we must pay for the accomplishment and victory of
to m o rro w .” L o u H o ltz a d vised , “ A d versity is a n o th er w a y to
measure the greatness of individuals. I never had a crisis that
d id n ‟t m a ke m e stro n g er.”
STAND OUT; D O N ’T B LE N D IN
D o n ‟t b e p ersu a d ed o r d issu a d ed b y g ro u p o p in io n . It d o es n o t
make any difference what anyone else believes; you must believe.
Never take direction for your personal life from a crowd. Never
choose to quit just because somebody disagrees with you. In fact,
the two worst things you can say to yourself when you get an idea
a re: “ T h a t‟s n ever b een d o n e b efo re,” a n d “ T h a t‟s b een d o n e
before!” Someone else‟s fa ilu re in a certa in a rea d o es n o t
guarantee your failure.
Be a pioneer and stand out! Do not be afraid to get hit with a few
arrows!
NUGGET #40
Something that is good and something that is right are not always
th e sa m e th in g . A g o od id ea is n o t n ecessa rily a “ G o d id ea .” O u r
responsibility as Christians is always to do the right things.
As you read the title of this nugget, past experiences and present
situations probably come to mind. You probably recall many
situations in which no or not right now would have been the right
answer. Learn from them, and keep yourself from a multitude of
mistakes and distractions.
Yes and no are the two most important words that you will ever
say. These are the two words that determine your destiny in life.
How and when you say them affects your entire future.
Did you know that the best shortcut you can ever take is to do
what God says in His timing? Shortcuts outside the will God invite
compromise and create strife and confusion.
There is a story about a beautiful bird that was known for its
greatest singing. It would sit at the top of a tree and make lovely
melodies. One day a man walking through the woods passed by the
tree and heard the beautiful bird singing. The bird saw the man
that he was holding a box.
“ W h a t d o yo u h a ve in th e b o x? ” th e b ird a sked th e m a n
The bird and the man repeated the process over the course of many
days, and soon the bird no longer had more beautiful feathers with
which to pay for worms. Furthermore, he could no longer fly, nor
was he still pretty. He did not feel like singing beautiful songs, and
he was very unhappy.
Like the foolish bird, we are always tempted to look for shortcuts,
ways to get ahead and obtain the results that we desire. But as the
foolish bird learned, there is a price for taking shortcuts.
Eventually we still learn that there is no shortcut of success. One
of the hidden truths of life is that the path to the prize is always
more valuable than the prize itself. Shortcuts rob us of those
valuable lessons that we need to learn along the way. When you
are presented with a shortcut- a way that is not of God- say no. Be
persistent and stick to the path on which the Lord has placed you.
NUGGET #43
D O W H A T O T H E R S SA Y C A N ’T B E D O N E
Until you give yourself to some g rea t ca u se, yo u h a ven ‟t rea lly
begun to fu lly live. H en ry M iller co m m en ted , “ T h e m a n w h o lo o ks
for security, even in the mind, is like a man who would chop off his
limbs in order to have artificial ones which would never give him
p a in o r tro ub le.” Nothing significant is ever accomplished by a
realistic person.
Know the rules and then break some. Take the lid off. Melvin
E va n s sa id , “ T h e m en w h o b u ild th e fu tu re a re th o se w h o kn o w
that greater things are yet to come and that they themselves will
help bring them about. Their minds are illumined by the blazing
su n o f h o p e. T h ey n ever sto p to d o u b t. T h ey h a ven ‟t tim e.”
If you really want to defend what you believe, live it. Dorothea
B ra n d sta ted , “ All that is necessary to break the spell of inertia
and frustration is this act as if it were, im p o ssib le to fa ll.” D o a n
about face which turns you from failure to success. Keep this
formula in mind: a lw a ys a ct a s if it‟s im po ssib le to fail. One of the
greatest pleasures you can find is doing what people say you
cannot do.
NUGGET #44
Many people are not moving with God today simply because they
were not willing to take the small steps He placed before them. If
you have received a call into any, particular area, you should leap
at the opportunity no matter how small to move in the direction in
which the Lord has called. If you are called to be a youth pastor
and are sitting at home waiting for an invitation from some large
church, you should know that it will never come. You need to find
the first young person you can, put your arm around him or her,
and begin to minister.
Nobody can ever make you feel average without your permission.
Ingratitude and criticism are going to come; they are part of the
price you pay for leaping past mediocrity. When you make your
m a rk in life, you ‟ll a lw a ys a ttra ct era sers.
Jesus Himself, after healing the ten lepers, was thanked by only
one of them (Luke 17:11-19). Learn to expect ingratitude.
If move with God, you will be criticized. The only way to avoid
criticism is to do nothing and be nothing. Those who do things
inevitably stir up criticism.
The Bible offers this great promise concerning criticism: The truth
always outlives a lie. T h is fa ct is b a cked b y P ro verb s 1 2 :1 9 . “ The
lip of truth shall be established forever: but a lying tongue is but
fo r a m o m en t.” Also, Hebrews 13:6 we are told that we may boldly
sa y, “ T h e L o rd is m y h elp er, a n d I w ill n o t fea r w h a t m a n sh a ll do
u n to m e.”
Never judge people by what is said about them by their enemies.
Kenneth Tynan has provided the best description of a critic I have
ever h ea rd . “ A critic,” h e said “ is a m a n w h o kn o w s th e w a y b u t
ca n ‟t d rive th e ca r.”
We are not called to respond to criticism; we are called to
response to God. It‟s th e still sm a ll vo ice w e sh o u ld h eed , n o t th e
deafening blasts of doom. Often criticism will present the best
platform from which to proclaim the truth.
Most of the time, people who are critical are either jealous or
uninformed. They usually say things that have no impact
w h a tso ever u p o n tru th . T h ere‟s a fa m o u s a n o n ym o u s sa yin g th a t
describes this situation p erfectly: “ It is u seless fo r th e sh eep to
pass resolutions in favor of vegetarianism while the wolf remains
o f a d ifferen t o pin ion .” If w ha t yo u sa y an d d o is o f G o d , it w ill no t
make any difference if every other person on the face of the earth
criticizes you. Likewise, if what you are doing is not of God,
nothing other people say will make it right.
P a y n o a tten tion to n eg ative criticism . “ T ru st in th e L o rd , a n d d o
g o o d ” (P sa lm 3 7 :3 ), kn o w ing th a t in th e en d w h a t yo u d o in th e
Lord will be rewarded.
NUGGET #47
The way you look at any obstacle in your life makes all the
difference. Let each new obstacle force you to go to the next level
in God. No obstacle will ever leave you the way it found you. You
will be better, or you will be worse.
Someone said that obstacles are what we see when we take our
eyes of the goal. Keep your eyes on the goal and remember that
yo u a re n o t a l o n e in yo u r stru g g le ; fo r “ w e kn o w th a t in all
things God works for the good of those who love him, who have
b een ca lled a cco rd in g to h is p u rp o se” (R o m a n s 8 :2 8 N IV )
IF IN D O U B T , D O N ’T
One day a hunter came across a bear in the woods. The bear said
to th e h u n ter, “ I w a n t a fu ll sto m a ch .”
One tail on duty at the rear can reach that fly behind the car
But two tails when arranged with proper craft can do the job fore
and aft.
Your decision to launch past mediocrity will pull others up with
yo u . C h o o sin g G o d ‟s w ill in o u r lives a ffect o th ers a nd m akes th em
b etter. W illia m D a n fo rth sa id , “ O u r lea st va lu ab le p o ssessio n s a re
th o se w h ich w h en d ivid ed a re d im in ish ed .”
I have a challenge for you. Take a few minutes this week and send
a note to people who greatly affected your life. Also, take a few
minutes to help someone else get ahead. You will find this to be
o n e o f th e m o st sa tisfyin g exp erien ces yo u ‟ve h a d in a lo n g tim e.
The point of this humorous story is that you must be the person
God has made you to be.
The call of God upon our lives is the provision of God in our lives.
We do not need to come up to the standard of anyone else. Average
people compare themselves with others, but we should always
ourselves with what God has called us to be. Our standard is
G o d ‟s u n iqu e ca ll an d d esign for our lives. How the Lord chooses
to deal with others has nothing to do with His call for us.
You and I can always find someone richer than we are, poorer
than we are, or more or less able than we are. But how other
people are, what they have, and what happens in their lives have
no effect upon our call. In Galatians 6:4 (TLB) we are
a d m o n ish ed , “ L et everyo n e b e su re th a t h e is d o in g h is very b est,
for then he will have the personal satisfaction of work well done,
a n d w o n ‟t n eed to co m p a re h im self w ith so m eo n e else.”
God made you a certain way. You are unique. You are one of a
kind. To copy others is to cheat yourself out of the fullness of what
God has called you to be. Imitation is limitation.
So choose to accept: and become the person God has made you to
be. Tap into the originality and creative genius of God in your life.
If yo u ‟re n o t you, then who are you going to be?
NUGGET #52
T R U ISM S T H A T A R E N ’T T R U E
How do you know the difference between ideas that come to your
mind and direction from God?
Be sure to look for areas out of which God is calling you and into
w h ich H e is ca llin g yo u . T h ere is a d ifferen ce b etw een G o d ‟s w ill
in ou r lives a n d G o d ‟s w ill fo r o u r lives. G o d ‟s w ill fo r ou r lives
includes those things that He intends for every person- salvation,
stren g th ; h ea lth , p ea ce, jo y, etc. B u t G o d ‟s w ill in o u r lives is
unique to each individual. One person may be called to live in one
place for life while another is called to move six times within ten
years.
IT ’S A S IM P O R T A N T T O K N O W W H A T G O D
C A N ’T D O A S T O K N O W W H A T H E C A N D O
HE IS ABLE!
NUGGET #56
Replace regret with gratitude. Be grateful for what you have, not
reg retfu l fo r w h a t yo u h a ve n o t. If yo u ca n ‟t b e th a n kfu l fo r w h a t
you have, be thankful for what you have escaped. Henry Ward
B eech er sa id , “ T h e u n th a nkfu l… d isco vers n o m ercies; b u t th e
tha nkfu l h ea rt… w ill fin d in every h o u r, so m e h ea ven ly b lessin g s.”
T h e m o re yo u co m p la in , th e less yo u ‟ll o b ta in .
E p icu ru s reflected , “ N o th in g is en o ug h fo r th e m a n to w h o m
en o u g h is too little.” It‟s a su re sig n o f m ed io crity to b e m od era te
w ith o u r th a nks. D o n ‟t fin d yo u rself so busy asking God for favors
that you have to time to thank Him. I related to what Joel Budd
sa id , “ I feel lik e I‟m th e on e w h o w rote A m a zin g G ra ce.”
R o b ert W o o d s o n ce co m m en ted , “ W e d o n ‟t th a nk G o d fo r m u ch h e
has given u s. O u r p ra yers a re to o o ften th e b eg g a r‟s p ra yer, th e
prayer that asks for something. We offer too few prayers of
th a nksg ivin g a nd o f p ra ise.” D o n ‟t fin d yo u rself a t th e en d o f yo u r
life sa yin g , “ W h a t a w o n d erfu l life I‟ve h a d ! I o n ly w ish I‟d
appreciated a n d rea lized it so o n er.”
W H IL E O TH ERS FO LK S G O H U N G R Y , W E ‟R E E A T IN G
PRETTY WELL
G O D ’S C A LL IS H E A R D N O T SE E N
We must eliminate all foggy areas in our lives. This is the key to
being able to see and think dearly. Fog, especially spiritual fog, is
very dangerous go drive into.
Look beyond what you see with your natural eyes. Listen with your
sp iritu a l ea rs. K eep yo u r a n ten n a u p fo r G o d ‟s p erfect d irectio n in
your life.
NUGGET #58
The Bible finds us where we are, and with our permission will take
us where we ought to go. Other books were given to us for
information, but the Bible was given to us for transformation. A
person who merely samples the Word of God never acquires much
of a taste for it. Psalm 35:27 declares that God is always a plus
factor. He is never a disadvantage to you. He is always an asset.
He wants you to succeed, and He has pleasure in the prosperity of
His servant.
ST A N D F O R W H A T ’S R IG H T T H E N Y O U
WILL WIN, EVEN IF YOU LOSE
The biggest mistake you can make in life is not to be true to the
b est yo u kn o w . G eo rg e B ern a rd S h a w rem a rked . “ K eep yo u rself
clean and bright; you are the window through which you must see
th e w o rld .” F o llo w R a lp h So ckm a n ‟s a d vice: “ G ive th e b est th a t
you have to the highest you know-a nd d o it n o w .”
NUGGET #61
One of our least developed skills is listening. There are really two
different kinds of listening. There is the natural listen ing in
interaction with other people, and there is spiritual listening in
interaction with God.
It h a s b een sa id , “ M en a te b o rn w ith tw o ea rs bu t on ly o n e to n gu e,
which indicates that they were meant to listen twice as much as
th ey ta lk.” In n atu ra l co m m u nication, leaders should always
monopolize the listening. What we learn about person will always
result in a greater benefit than what we tell him or her about
ourselves.
Faith keeps the man who keeps the faith. No one can live in doubt
when he has prayed in faith. Faith either moves mountains or it
w ill tu n n el th ro u gh th e. S a in t A u g u stin e sa id , “ F a ith is to b elieve
what we do not see; and the reward of this faith is to see what we
b elieve.” J.F . C la rke sa id , “ A ll th e stren g th a n d th e fo rce o f m a n
come from this faith in things unseen. He who believes is strong;
h e w h o d o u b ts is w ea k. S tro n g co n victio n s p reced e g rea t a ctio n s.”
O u r co n fessio n to th e L o rd sh o u ld b e Jerem ia h 3 2 :1 7 (N W ) “ A h ,
Sovereign Lord, you have made the heavens and the earth by your
great power and outstretched arm. Nothing is too hard for you.
NUGGET #64
D O N ’T W A IT FO R A LL T H E LIG H T S T O BE
GREEN BEFORE YOU LEAVE THE HOUSE (JIM
STOVALL)
Too many people expect little from God, ask little, and therefore
receive little and are content with little. Sherwood Eddie said,
“ F a ith is n o t tryin g to b elieve so m eth in g reg a rd less o f th e
evidence: faith is daring to do something regardless of the
co n seq u en ces.” I sincerely believe that we would accomplish
many more things if we did not so automatically view them as
impossible.
Those who dare do; those who dare not do not. Isak Dinesen said,
“ G od m a d e th e w o rld rou n d so th a t w e w ou ld n ever b e a b le to see
too fa r d ow n th e roa d .” The person who dares for nothing need
hope for nothing. You have reached stagnation when all you ever
exercise is caution: Sometimes you must press ahead despite the
caution: Sometimes you must press ahead despite the pounding
fea r in yo u r h ea d th a t sa ys; “ T u rn b a ck.”
G o d sa id , “ C o m e to th e ed g e.”
W sa id , “ It‟s to o h ig h .”
“ C o m e to th e ed g e.”
“ W e sa id , “ W e m ig h t fa ll.”
“ C o m e to th e ed g e,” G o d sa id
And we came
And he pushed us.
And he flew.
NUGGET #65
RETREAT TO ADVANCE
When we draw away for a time, we can see and hear much more
clearly about how to go ahead. Jesus did this many times during
His earthly life, especially just before and after major decisions.
The Bible says, “ In q u ietn ess a nd in co n fid en ce sh a ll b e yo u r
stren g th ” (Isa ia h 3 0 :15 ). T h ere‟s so m eth in g in vig o ratin g a nd
renewing about retreating to a quiet place of rest and peace.
Silence is an environment in which great ideas are birthed.
There are times when you should not see people, times when you
should direct your whole attention toward God. I believe that we
should have a place of refuge, a place out of the normal scope of
living, a place where we can retreat to advance and focus on the
Lord.
D o n ‟t ju st p ra y th a t G o d w ill d o th is o r th a t; ra th er p ra y th a t G o d
w ill m a ke H is p u rp o se kn o w n to yo u . W illia m C o w p er sa id , “ T h e
only true happiness comes from squandering ourselves for a
p u rp o se.” W h a tever yo u r p la n is ju st kno w th a t n o th in g else w ill
satisfy you. Know that God is with you and will provide what you
need to accomplish your purpose. The God who made the mouth
will also provide the food.
A lot of people are willing to give God the credit, but not too many
a re w illin g to g ive H im th e ca sh . D o n ‟t ch ea t th e L o rd a n d ca ll it
savings. The trouble with too many people who give until it hurts is
that they are so sensitive to pain.
IT IS M O R E V A LU A B LE T O SE E K G O D ’S
PRESENCE THAN TO SEEK HIS PRESENTS
D O W H A T ’S R IG H T T H E R IG H T W A Y , A T
THE RIGHT TIME
Your success has little to do with speed, but much to do with timing
and direction. What benefit is runn in g if yo u ‟re o n th e rig h t tim e.
T yro n E d w a rd s sa id , “ H a ve a tim e a n d p la ce fo r everyth in g a n d
do everything in its time and place, and you will not accomplish
more. But have far more leisure than those who are always
h u rryin g .” T h e p ro b lem is th a t m a n y a go-getter never stops long
enough to let opportunity catch up with him.
If you are facing the right direction, just keep on walking. Francis
B a co n sa ys, “ th e la m e m a n w h o keep s th e right road outstrips the
runner who takes a wrong one. The more active and swift the latter
is, th e fu rth er h e w ill g o a stra y.”
Adopt the right place. If you go too fast, you will catch up with
misfortune. If you go too slow, misfortune will catch up with you.
T h e B ib le sa ys,” T h y w o rd is a la m p u n to m y feet a n d a lig h t u n to
m y p a th ” P sa lm 11 9 :1 05 . L et G o d b e yo u r g u id e a nd yo u w ill m iss
all the wrong places.
NUGGET #71
The man who borrows trouble is always in debt. The best way to
escape evil is to pursue good. The person who persists in courting
trouble will soon be married to it. Go straight. Every crooked turn
delays your arrival at success.
Jo el B u d d sa id ,” A h u n g ry h ea rt is like a p a ra ch u te. W h en yo u p u ll
o n it, it o p en s u p a n d sa ves yo u .” K eep yo u r h ea d a n d h ea rt g o ing
in th e rig h t d irectio n , a n d yo u w o n ‟t h a ve to w o rry a b o u t yo u r feet.
NUGGET #73
People whose eyes, ears and minds are directed toward the world
find it difficult to hear God speaking to them. The Lord wants to
talk to you at work, at lunch, at play-everywhere you go. Some of
the greatest revelations from God have come not in my prayer
closet but in the midst of my everyday life.
Our inner man is always willing, but our natural man resists.
T h a t‟s w h a t Jesu s m ea n t w h en H e sa id to H is d iscip les. “ W a tch
and pray, that ye enter not into temptation; the spirit is indeed
w illin g , b u t th e flesh is w ea k” (M a tth ew 2 6 :4 1 )