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Minor Parenting Stresses With Young Children
Minor Parenting Stresses With Young Children
Keith A. Cmic
The Pennsylvania State University
Mark T. Greenherg
University of Washington
GRNIC, KEITH A., and GREENBERG, MARK T. Minor Parenting Stresses with Young Children. GHILD
DEVELOPMENT, 1990, 61, 1628-1637. The importance of major life stress and minor daily hassles
associated with parenting was studied in 74 mothers and their 5-year-old children. Of interest were
the relative and absolute contributions of the stress factors to indices of parental, child, and family
functioning. Mothers completed questionnaires regarding stressors, aspects of parenting and indi-
vidual psychological status, social support, family functioning, and child behavioral status. Mother-
child pairs were also observed in interactions in a laboratory setting. Analyses indicated that life
stress and parenting daily hassles significantly predicted aspects of child, parent, and family status.
Hassles, however, proved to be a more powerful stress construct. Further analyses indicated that
mothers' social support moderated the influence of hassles on indices of matemal behavior. The
results are discussed in relation to the potential for minor parenting stresses to influence microsocial
processes within parent-child relationships and contribute to dysfunction in children and families.
Within any family, parents are routinely 1984; Sameroff & Seifer, 1983), child
challenged by child-rearing and caregiving psychopathology (Mash & Johnston, 1983),
demands, and children's behavior can at major childhood illness or handicap (Beck-
times be fhistrating and annoying. All parents man, 1983), and major negative life change
have some experience with being nagged or (Cmic, Creenberg, Ragozin, Robinson, &
whined at, settling arguments between sib- Basham, 1983). Routinely, greater stress is
lings, repeatedly cleaning up their children's significantly associated with less optimal par-
messes, as well as a myriad of other possible ent and family functioning, less optimal
everyday events of a similcir nature. Although parent-child interactions, and lower child
any one of these events may have litde developmental competence.
significance in and of itself, their cumulative
impact over a day, several days, or longer may Although it is clear that major life
represent a meaningful stressor for a parent. stresses are negatively related to various
Parents' appraisal of these events and their aspects of the parent, child, and family sys-
significance may have important implications tem, research also suggests that major life
for parental, family, and child functioning. stresses are low-frequency occurrences for
most families (Cmic & Creenberg, 1987). Re-
Belsky (1984) has proposed that contex- cently, LazEims and his colleagues (Kanner,
tual sources of stress are a major determinant Coyne, Schaefer, & Lazarus, 1981; Lazarus,
of parenting and can both direcdy and indi- 1984; Lazarus, Cohen, Folkman, Kanner, &
rectly infiuence children's development The Schaefer, 1980; Lazarus, DeLongis, Folkman,
research that supports such considerations & Gruen, 1985) have similarly questioned the
has typically involved assessment of the ad- utility of the major life event approach, and
verse impact of difficult life circumstance proposed that the cumulative impact of rela-
such as poverty and low SES (Belle, 1981; tively minor daily stresses ("daily hassles")
Wemer & Smith, 1982), single parenting may have major adaptational significance.
(Weinranb & Wolf, 1983), parental psycho- Lazarus hypothesizes further that an individ-
pathology (Garmezy, Masten, & Tellegen, ual's cognitive appraisal of the significance of
This research was supported by the USPHS, Matemal and Ghild Health Services, grant
number MGJ-530487. We are grateful to the mothers and children who participated in this study
and acknowledge the dedication and excellence of our research staff: Nancy Slough, Heather
Garmichael-Olson, and Kathy Sullivan. Requests for reprints should be sent to Keith Gmic,
Department of Psychology, 612 Moore Building, The Pennsylvania State University, University
Park, PA 16802.
[Child Development, 1990, 61, 1628--1637. © 1990 by the SocietyforResearch in Child Development, Inc.
Allrightsreserved. 0009-3920/90/6105-0018$01.00]
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these events for one's own well-being is tbe teractions. In view of evidence that parental
primary factor predicting the impact of the social supports can moderate the infinence of
stressor. stress on parents and families (Cmic et al.,
1983; Crockenberg, 1981, 1987; Unger &
Initial research suggests that daily has- Powell, 1980; and Weinraub & Wolf, 1983), a
sles, as appraised by the individual, are con- third purpose was to determine relations be-
siderably better predictors of psychological tween minor parenting stresses, matemal so-
well-being than are life events and operate cial supports, and indices of parental func-
independently in the prediction of depression tioning.
and anxiety across various adult populations
(DeLongis, Coyne, Dakof, Folkman, & Laza- Method
rus, 1982; Lazams et al., 1985). Although this
approach to stress research is not without crit- Subjects
ics who prefer more objective measurement Subjects for this study were 74 mother-
of events without individual appraisal (e.g., child pairs participating in a longitudinal proj-
Dohrenwend & Shront, 1985), the importance ect since the children were 1 month old. At
of cognitive appraisal of events has been rea- the time of this study, the children were all 5
sonably well established across daily has- years of age (M = 5.1). Thirty-four of the chil-
sles as well as major life event approaches dren were bom prematurely, with an average
(Lazarus et al., 1985; Sarason, Johnson, & birthweight of 1,407 grams and average gesta-
Siegel, 1978). tional age of 31.4 weeks. The preterms were
generally healthy infants, and any infants
Hassles are conceptualized as the irritat- with significant neurological or medical prob-
ing, frustrating, annoying, and distressing de- lems were initially excluded from the sample.
mands that to some degree characterize Full-term infants and their mothers were case
everyday transactions with the environment. matched to the preterm-mother pairs on in-
Some hassles may be situationally deter- fant race, mother's education, and single ver-
mined and infrequent, while others may be sus two-parent families. Groups were like-
repetitive because the individual remains in wise balanced on infant sex and birth order.
the same context with consistent predictable The groups did not differ significantly on the
demands. Such a conceptualization is paiticu- background demographic variables at age 5.
lai-ly applicable to families with young chil-
dren, as children's behavior often creates Mothers' education averaged 12.9 and
situations that are at odds, challenging, or 13.0 years and mothers' age averaged 29.4 and
interfering with parental responsibilities. Any 27.6 years for the preterm and full-term
single event may or may not be considered a groups, respectively. Both groups were pre-
hassle, bnt the cumulative impact of these dominantly white (85%), two-parent families
events may adversely affect parent-child rela- (86%), and approximately 20% received some
tionships. Patterson (1983) has shown, for ex- form of public assistance or welfare income.
cimple, that minor daily hassles experienced Procedure
by mothers predicted irritable responding
to their children during home observations, Mothers were contacted to schedule the
which in turn increased the likelihood of ag- 5-year visit as part of the project's regular lon-
gressive responding by their children. Simi- gitudinal protocol. An appointment time was
laiiy, Dumas (1986) found that mothers in- scheduled for the mother and child to come
teracted significantly more aversively with to the university, and mothers were mailed a
their children on days when they had experi- set of questionnaires to be completed and
enced aversive interactions with other adults brought to the scheduled visit. Dnring the
than on days in which they had not. visit, the mother-child pairs were observed in
interaction in both free-play and structured
situations.
The present stndy explored minor par-
enting stresses within the specific context Mother-child interactions were observed
of parent-child relationships. Daily hassles and video-recorded from an adjacent room
specifically associated with parenting were through a one-way mirror. In the room with
considered to be minor, potentially stressful the mother and child were a table and two
events that normally occur in families with chairs, a box of age-appropriate toys, and sev-
young children. The purpose of this study eral current magazines. Mothers and children
was to describe tbe frequency and the ap- were asked to behave as if they were at home
praised intensity of these hassles, and to ex- and feel free to do whatever they liked. This
plore their relations with various indices of free-play situation lasted 10 min. Following
parenting, family status, and parent-child in- this episode, the mother-child pair was asked
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to sit together at the table and was given a behavior and tberefore were combined to
task requiring joint problem solving. An Etch- create a single factor (Challenging Behavior;
a-Sketch was provided for the pair, along with alpha = .86). All subsequent analyses involv-
two geometric forms copied on a piece of pa- ing factor scores utilized the original Par-
per. The mother-child pair was asked to re- enting Tasks factor and the combined Chal-
produce the figures, beginning with the first lenging Behavior factor. Items comprising
form and moving to the second when they these factors are reported in Table 1, with the
were satisfied with the reproduction of the corresponding factor loadings.
first. Mothers were asked to use one knob
(vertical) and the child the other (horizontal). Parenting and family.—Mothers com-
The first form was a simple square, and the pleted a number of measures related to their
second was a cross. The square, having four parenting and life satisfaction, life stress, and
sides, was considered to be an easy figure to family status. These included the Satisfaction
reproduce, while the cross (which had 12 with Parenting Scale (SWPS), General Life
sides) was somewhat more complicated and Satisfaction (CLS), matemal social support,
required greater cooperation. the Life Experiences Survey (LES: Sarason et
al., 1978), and the Family Environment Scale
Measures (FES; Moos & Moos, 1981). Family demo-
The measures described below were in- graphic data were also obtained in a qnestion-
cluded in the set of questionnaires mailed to naire format.
the mothers. The SWPS is a 12-item measure that as-
Parenting Daily Hassles (PDH).—This is sesses mother's degree of pleasure with her
a 20-item measure of typical everyday events child and satisfaction with parenting role
in parenting and parent-child interactions de- (alpha = .68). The GLS is a single-item rating
veloped for this study. In response to each of overall life satisfaction on a 5-point scale
item, the parent rated the frequency of occur- ranging from very bad to very good. The so-
rence on a 4-point scale (rarely, sometimes, a cial support measure is a series of questions
lot, constantly) and how hassled they felt by regarding available sources of emotional sup-
the event. Degree or intensity of hassle was port and matemal satisfaction, with support at
rated on a 5-point scale from no hassle = 1 to three ecological levels: (1) intimate relation-
big hassle = 5. ships (alpha = .77), (2) friendships (alpha =
.85), and (3) community (alpha = .65). Both
Two scores were initially computed from availability and satisfaction were rated for
the PDH, a Frequency scale score, which eacb type of support, with satisfaction rated
refiected the sum of the frequency ratings on on a four-point scale. The SWPS, GLS, and
all 20 items (rarely = 1, constantly = 4; Cron- support measures correlate positively with
bach's alpha = .81), and an Intensity scale various indices of parenting and parent-child
score, which reflected the sum of the hassle interactions (Cmic et al., 1983; Crnic, Green-
ratings on all 20 items (alpha = .90). The two berg, & Slongh, 1986; Cmic & Greenberg,
scales were highly correlated, r = .78. 1987).
The PDH was also subjected to a factor The LES is a measure of life stress that
analysis (varimax rotation). Three factors provides an index of negative life change over
emerged with eigenvalues > 1.00 for both the the preceding 8—12-month period. For this
Frequency and Intensity scales. These factors measure, mothers rate a series of 46 life
were similar for both scales. Only the factors events as having either occurred or not oc-
from the Intensity scale are presented, as this curred, indicate whether their impact was
scale was of greatest theoretical interest and good or bad, and then rate degree of effect
subsequently produced the most meaningful (none, some, moderate, great). The sum of de-
findings. The three factors accounted for a cu- gree of effect of all items occurring and rated
mulative 86% of the variance in the measure, as negative produced an index of negative life
and only two items did not load on one of the change. Life stress is theoretically indepen-
three factors. The three factors were moder- dent of "hassles" as a stressor and was in-
ately intercorrelated, with r values ranging cluded in this study to determine the relative
from .48 to .61. infiuence of major life stress in relation to that
of more minor stresses associated with par-
Hassle factor 1 (Parenting Tasks) was dis- enting.
tinct from the others in that the items involve
typical duties or tasks normally associated The FES involves 90 true-false items de-
with parenting. Hassle factors 2 and 3 both signed to assess the structure, style, and func-
included items describing challenging cbild tioning of the family as a system along 10 di-
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TABLE 1
MEANS AND STANDARD DEVIATIONS OF THE FREQUENCY AND INTENSITY RATINGS OF THE PDH ITEMS
WITH THEIR GORRESPONDING FACTOR LOADINGS
mensions. These 10 dimensions combine to gree to which mother and child enjoyed their
form three major indices of family function- interaction with each other; (2) affect assessed
ing: (1) the Family Relationship Index (com- the quality of their affective tone, ranging
prised of Cohesion, Expression, Confiict; from negative to positive; (3) sensitivity/
alpha = .62); (2) the System Maintenance In- responsiveness assessed maternal sensitivity
dex, which produced the expected negative to child cues (intmsive/nonsynchronous to
correlation between the Control and Organi- good rhythm/synchronous) and the child's re-
zation dimensions that comprise this index sponsiveness to the mother (avoidant or nega-
(r = - .28); and (3) the Personal Growth In- tive to positive engagement); (4) control as-
dex, which was excluded from further analy- sessed the degree to which each member
ses because of poor reliability (alpha = .21). attempted to control the activity of the dyad;
(5) involvement assessed the amount or de-
Behavioral/emotional status.—Measures gree to which one member of the dyad was
of the mothers' and children's psychological involved in the activity of the other; (6) activ-
sttitus were also obtained. Mothers completed ity assessed the degree of activity or energy of
a variant of the Brief Symptom Index (BSI; each member (from low-key/quiet approach
Derogatis & Spencer, 1982), a 35-item rating to high active pace); and (7) behavioral or-
scale measuring their emotional functioning ganization assessed the coherence of the
along indices of hostility, depression, anxiety, activity that each member was involved in
insensitivity, and other problems, and the (from disorganized/nnfocnsed to organized/
Child Behavior Checklist (Achenbach & thematic/focnsed activity).
Edelbrock, 1983), a normed measure provid-
ing indices of children's internalizing and ex-
tei-nalizing problems as well as social compe- Each of the seven codes was scored sepa-
tence. rately for the mother and the child and sepa-
rately for the free-play and structured situa-
Behavioral interaction coding.—Mother- tions. Observers were trained on practice
child interactions were coded from videotape. videotapes until acceptable levels of reliabil-
Global 5-point ratings of the quality of ity were reached. Interobserver reliability
mothers' and children's behavior were made was measured as percent of exact agreements
along seven dimensions, the first three of (77%), and percent agreements within one
which are the major dimensions of inter- scale point (98%). Global ratings were chosen
est from our previous studies (e.g., Cmic et over other possible approaches on the basis of
al., 1983; Cmic & Creenberg, 1987): (1) arguments by Bakeman and Brown (1980), as
gratification from interaction assessed the de- well as our own previous data, which suggest
1632 Child Development
that such ratings offer a fhiitful and meaning- Several demographic factors were related
ful approach to the study of general behav- to mothers' reports of hassles. Mothers who
ioral characteristics of mothers and children worked outside the home reported fewer has-
during interaction. sles (t = 2.16, p < .05) and lower intensity of
hassles (t = 2.95, p < .01), and mothers of
boys reported significantly greater intensity
Results of hassles, particularly for the Challenging
Group Differences Behavior factor (t = 2.52, p = .01). Number of
To determine whether differences ex- children in the family correlated only with
isted between the preterm and full-term the Parenting Tasks factor (r = .42, p < .001).
gronps on the PDH measure, simple t tests Neither mother's age nor education was sig-
were conducted. No differences were found nificantly associated with any hassle measure.
between the groups on mean scores for either Pearson correlations between the hassle
the Frequency or Intensity scales, nor were scale scores and the major dependent mea-
differences found for the two hassle factor sures of interest are reported in Table 2. Al-
scores. To further test group equivalence, though both scales produced significant rela-
separate Pearson correlations were computed tions to parent, child, and family factors, the
to examine relations between the PDH scores Intensity scale produced more frequent and
and the parent, child, family, and behavioral greater magnitude correlations.
variables. For a difference between correla-
tions to be significant, a difference of .38 Mothers' ratings of the items on the PDH
would be required in this sample. Fewer than also indicated that some events were per-
a chance number of correlations equaled or ceived as more of a hassle than others. This is
exceeded the .38 figure. Civen these indica- most clearly demonstrated by the mean inten-
tions of equivalence between groups, data sity ratings on the two factors. Mothers' rat-
were combined for all subsequent analyses. ings on the Challenging Behavior factor av-
eraged 2.53, while the average rating for
Parental Tasks was 1.85. The overall factor
Descriptive Findings on Hassles score means and standard deviations were as
Mean scores and standard deviations for follows: 16.5 (5.80) for Parenting Tasks, and
the PDH factor items are provided in Table 16.6 (5.33) for Challenging Behavior.
1. There is fair correspondence between
mothers' ratings of frequency and intensity of Relations between Life Stress and Hassles
hassles, as was also suggested by the .78 cor- Negative life stress was not significantly
relation between the two scales. Means and related to either the PDH Scale scores or the
standard deviations were 37.3 (6.9) for the factor scores (r ranged from .00 to —.12). The
Frequency scale total, and 41.8 (12.2) for the two hassle factor scores, however, were mod-
Intensity scale total. erately related to each other (r = .51).
TABLE 2
SIMPLE GOBHELATIONS BETWEEN PDH SCALE SCORES AND PARENT AND GHILD
DEPENDENT FACTORS
Psychological status:
Total child behavior problems .38*** .47***
Ghild social competence - .32** -.26*
Total maternal symptoms (BSI) .27* .36**
Parent and family status:
Satisfaction with parenting.... -.33** - .49***
General life satisfaction -.15 - .32**
Family relationship index -.23 - .36**
Family system maintenance... -.21 - .32**
Negative life stress -.13 -.05
*p< .05.
** p < .01.
*** p < .001.
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TABLE 3
REGRESSION STATISTICS FOR THE STRESS PREDICTIONS OF GHILD, PARENT, AND FAMILY FACTORS
Stress Predictors of Child, Parent, and behavior problems and lower social com-
Family Factors petence.
A series of separate hierarchical regres-
sion analyses was performed to examine the Regressions involving the prediction of
extent to which life stress and daily hassles parenting status and family functioning were
predicted children's behavioral status, mater- similar to those described above, with the ex-
nal parenting status, and perceived family ception that the total child behavior problem
functioning. Resnlts of these analyses are pre- score was entered prior to the three stress pre-
sented in Table 3. dictors. By covarying behavior problems in
this way, we can test the independence of the
In the prediction of child behavior prob- behavior problem and hassle factors in the
lems and social competence, lffe stress was prediction of parent and faniily status, provid-
entered first, followed in order by the hassle ing evidence that behavior problems and has-
factors Challenging Behavior and Parental sles are not simply measures of the same con-
Tasks. Life stress was entered first to allow for stmct. This is important for demonstrating the
determination of the independent infiuence discriminant validity of the hassles measure,
of hassles above and beyond that of life stress. especially given the association between the
CheJlenging Behavior factor and the measure
of total child behavior problems.
All three stress factors significantly pre-
dicted child behavioral status. Only the hassle Child behavior problems strongly pre-
factors accounted for a significant percent of dicted both parent and family relationship
the variance in the total behavior problem status when entered first, but both life stress
scores, while the life stress and Challenging and the Challenging Behavior hassle factor
Behavior factor significantly contributed to significantly predicted parent statns as well.
the children's social competence. In each Only the Challenging Behavior factor signifi-
case, greater stress was associated with more cantly predicted family system maintenance.
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Notably, each association was in the expected of maternal behavior, several stress x support
direction, with greater levels of behavior interaction terms were predictive of maternal
problems and stress predicting less positive behavior. Overall, few significant life stress x
parent and family status. support interactions were predictive, al-
though it is notable tbat a significant life stress
Mother-Child Interactions X intimate support interaction predicted
Another set of hierarchical regressions mothers' psychological well-being as indexed
was performed for the mother-child interac- by the score on the BSI (F = 5.34, p < .05),
tion ratings. The stress factors did not sig- and a life stress x community support in-
nificantly predict matemal behavior in any of teraction predicted mothers' parenting satis-
the seven behavioral categories rated. In con- faction (F = 4.21, p < .05).
trast, the Challenging Behavior—hassle factor
did significantly predict child responsiveness Various support indices did, however, in-
to parent (F = 4.28, p < .05) and child control teract with the parenting daily hassles factor
(F = 4.28, p < .05) dnring interaction. Greater (and, to a lesser degree, life stress) in relation
perceived hassle was associated with less to matemal interactive behavior. These
child responsivity (accounting for 8% of the findings are reported in Table 4. Post hoc
variance) and more attempts to control the in- comparisons (Duncan's multiple range) indi-
teraction (accounting for 7% of the variance). cated that under higher levels of stress,
mothers with greater support satisfaction had
Social Support as a Moderator of Stress more positive behavior than mothers with low
The ability of mothers' perceived emo- support (all p < .05).
tional support to serve as a moderator of ma-
temal life stress and daily hassles was as-
sessed. Stress X support interaction terms Discussion
were entered in regression equations follow-
ing the hierarchical entry of life stress, par- Minor parenting hassles appear to be an
enting daily hassles (challenging behavior), important source of stress, not only in their
intimate support, friendship support, and ability to contribute additively to major life
community support factors. An F to enter stress predictions, bnt also as a meaningful
minimum was established for interaction term independent construct for assessing stress
entry (F to enter = 2.0) to keep the number of within the parent-child context. It is impor-
variables entering to only those with mean- tant to emphasize that hassles, at least as mea-
ingful contributions. sured within this study, represent typical or
normal events, and that the sample includes
Although neither the stress nor support typical children. In fact, when mothers' rat-
factors produced main effects on the indices ings of children's behavior problems were
TABLE 4
STRESS AND SUPPORT VARIABLE INTERACTION TERMS PREDICTING MATERNAL
INTERACTIVE BEHAVIOR