changes in behavior - assumption that we are PROPONENTS: motivated to change: (1.) when we are convinced William Glasser that our present behavior is not meeting our needs. (2.) When we believe we can choose other Rejected Freudian model, says they tend to hold behaviors that will get us closer to what we want. people responsible of their behavior. It is best to talk to the sane parts of clients and not The WDEP System their disturbed side. - key procedure in the practice of reality therapy. It is important that client accepts personal - assist people in satisfying their basic need. responsibility for their behavior. Wants, needs and perception, Direction and Doing, Self- Robert Wubbolding Evaluation, Planning Director of the center for reality therapy in Wants (Exploring wants, needs and perceptions) cincinnati. reality therapists assist clients in discovering their wants Director of training for the William Glasser Institute and hopes. All wants are related to the 5 basic needs. KEY CONCEPTS: Direction and Doing - even though problems may be rooted in the past, clients need to learn how to deal with Choice Theory - theoretical basis for reality therapy; it them in the present by learning better ways of getting explains why and how we function. what they want. Reality Therapy - provides a delivery system for helping individuals take more effective control of their lives. Self – Evaluation – this evaluation involves the client examining behavioural direction, specific actions, wants, 5 Genetically needs that drive us all our lives: perceptions, new directions and plans. 1. Survival Planning – helping clients identify specific ways to fulfil 2. Love and Belonging their wants and needs. 3. Power 4. Freedom THERAPIST ROLE 5. Fun Help and teach clients to make more effective Underlying problem of most clients is the same: choices. they are either involved in a present unsatisfying Therapist as a teacher assumes a central role. relationship or lack a relationship. Reality therapist teaches the clients choice theory, Many of the problems of clients: inability to connect, so clients can identify unmet needs and try to to get close to others, have a satisfying and satisfy them. successful relationship, and unhappiness results for help clients to clarify these wants and assisting how they choose to behave. them in prioritizing their wants and uncovering what is most important to them Description of how people choose their behaviors is reality therapists teach clients how to engage in self their attempt to deal with the pain and frustration – evaluation from their experience of unsatisfied relationships. The role of the reality therapist is not making the The heart of reality therapy is learning how to make evaluation for clients but to challenge clients to better and more effective choices and gain more examine what they are doing. effective control. Short term approach requiring 10 sessions or less. ESSENCE OF THE THERAPY Quality World - information inside our minds our file of wants, it is the core of our life We are responsible for what we choose to do. We are Picture Album - specific wants as well as precise ways internally motivated by current needs and wants and we to satisfy these wants. We are attempting to behave in a can control our present behavioral choices ( Glasser, way that gives us the most effective control over our 1996) lives Total Behavior - acting, thinking, feeling and GOALS OF REALITY THERAPY physiology. Behaviour comes from inside and thus we Behavioral Change choose our destiny Better decision making CYCLE OF COUNSELING Improved significant relationships Enhanced living 1. Creating a working relationship with clients More effective satisfaction of all the psychological 2. Proceeds through an exploration of clients' wants, needs. needs and perceptions. 3. Clients explore their total behavior and make their own evaluation of how effective they are in getting Reference: what they want. Corey, G. (2015). Theory and Practice of Counseling 4. If clients decide to try new behavior, they make and Psychotherapy 10th Edition. In G. Corey, plans that will lead to change and they commit Theory and Practice of Counseling and themselves to those plans. Psychotherapy 10th Edition (pp. 311 - 336). 5. Following up on how well clients are doing and Boston: Cenveo Publisher Services. offering further consultation as needed. 2 major Components of Cycle of Counseling
1. Counseling Environment - supportive and
challenging environment allows client to beging making life changes.
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