Approaching Cheat Sheet

I made you this simple cheat sheet so that you can quickly and easily remember
the steps to complete to make a successful approach.

You can print this page and keep it in your back pocket OR you can copy and
paste it onto your phone so that you always have it ready to go when needed for
reference.

1. Shift your mind set

a. Remember your list of 5 awesome things about you
b. Eliminate your desired outcome dependency and shift it to “If she’s
not into it, move on

2. Select a reason/intention for approaching

a. Keep it as simple as “She’s cute. I want to approach her and see
what she’s about and if I like her.”

3. Fix body language

a. Open body language
b. Big strides
c. Smirk on face
d. Soft eye contact

4. Open with O.S.A

5. Thread the conversation

6. Use L.C.A at some point in conversation

7. If you like her, move onto a new intention: asking her out, for her number,
grab a drink NOW

Remember, that for the next 30 days the outcome does not matter. It’s all about
practice right now. Success is simply doing not getting an outcome.