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Chapbook 1
Chapbook 1
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I had been granted a prestigious fel-
lowship on the basis of my promise to
write a book of essays about mothers
and motherhood. Not mothers per se,
but the ways in which we (who?) mea-
sure mothers as such, represent them
to ourselves, re-enact the mother-rela-
tion on other stages--civic, cinematic,
linguistic, oneiric. My mother land was
a home I had never lived in. My mother
tongue was a language I couldn't speak.
Or barely. I found I felt I was a child
again, fumbling drawing after drawing
of my mother's jaguar-shaped pin. I
thought If I could render the wanted
thing on paper precisely, I could pos-
sess it without taking it from the world.
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The Death card does
not necessarily presage
a literal death, but more
likely heralds a major
transformation at the
psychic, emotional,
or metaphysical level.
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I was returning to a country my parents
had left thirty years prior and never
moved back to for no particular reason.
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I was thinking without thinking I had
lost my mother tongue, my first lan-
guage. But I approached departure, I
began to suspect that I was about to
lose this sense of loss itself—that what
was irretrievable was not the language
but the moment of its designation as
absence or distance or deficit, explicit.
I wanted this one moment to be im-
age, the stable emblem of the greater,
more diffuse, and dislocated sense of
missing. But there was no moment,
just a tendency elaborated over time,
gathering resonance and dimension-
ality, metabolizing my memories. The
loss was a habit that enfolded my lan-
guage, colored my choices, bolded
certain tropes for me to revisit and
analyze. The loss was diachronic,
which did not prevent it from accumu-
lating its terrifying, paralytic density.
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I was going back for, because, despite,
without mother. Not that she was
there and calling, or that she demand-
ed that I do so, but because the desire
to return had been hers, and then I ab-
sorbed it. I kept saying and thinking of
it as “going back”, although I’d visited
on several occasions, because I’d nev-
er lived there. What qualified as liv-
ing in a place? I lacked a sure answer.
What did I know about the effects of
setting and settlement? I knew the
transposition of fixed departures and
the shape they lent to time. I was run-
ning ragged, restaging the narrative.
But I still wanted to see the project
through, even if to failure. But in order
to arrive there I would have to begin.
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I had wanted to get somewhere under-
neath language. Or was it underneath.
Between? Straight through: like a
needle through folds of cloth. Or high
above enough to frame between fingers
held out. Or entirely without. Frag-
ments—life excerpted, then those ex-
cerpts framed—spoke to me differently
than the mute enveloping ongoingness
did, so I also sought to live in discon-
nected intensities, wanting to iden-
tify myself with that apparent truth.
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TO J...
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J, there is a deception organizing this writing as I do it,
which I will make explicit, so as to clarify my intentions.
The deception is that I am writing this as a letter to you,
in second person address, while I do not really intend
to, or believe I could bear to, show this to you. I am not
sure if this means that I am trying to aestheticize these
feelings by giving them the form of writing intended for a
general audience, or if it means that I’m only interested
in prolonging the pleasurable and awful psychological
torment of keeping them to myself. Or neither, or both.
I need to tell you these things, or I apprehend the idea
of telling you these things and relate to it as a need.
I experience this need as a physical sensation, I feel
it somatically. It’s a clutching that travels throughout
my body--if I detect it, it moves elsewhere, like a bub-
ble of air trapped under plastic. Maybe it actually is a
bubble of air. I feel it in pushing my knees, locking my
shoulders and the hinges of my jaw, pressing my throat
from behind. In writing this I extrude this secret aw-
ful pleasure into a more sustainable form. Something
I can have, in lieu of you. Something I can live with.
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I met you at a party.
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I drove six hours to see you again. I stopped for gas at the last service
station in Massachusetts.
I left Boston on a humid afternoon
in June. In the McDonald’s I ate a salad I
had packed at home.
The sky looked darker than it was
late. The leaves had wilted in their juices.
I said to myself
I accept I accept I accept.
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You treasured memories, you said, more than anything
seen or unseen in this world. Part of this love was a
complete acceptance of their evanescence by forget-
ting, which photography prevents, or otherwise fucks
with. The time I spent with you, which went complete-
ly unrecorded, still remains utterly crystal in my mind,
though know it must be eroding, the way pictures fade,
the way the data mass that makes up an image file de-
grades each time it’s opened. And in your room, on a
morning after you had left, I took a picture for myself.
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Is anything, any effort, ever truly wasted?
I don’t think in poetry at all, lately. I think only of what to say to you.
Let there be no uncertainty as far as I can assume that what none of this
does is bring me any closer to what I really want—bodily proximity.
Not that you yourself hold me hostage, but that in our meeting I glimpsed
my own desire to be captive, to give you my freedom.
After you placed my wrists in the holds and checked the tension, you
turned back to your desk and opened your laptop just a fraction.
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