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As a Church, one of the most worrying aspects of the abuse practiced against
women is the use of biblical texts, taken out of context, to support abusive
behavior. Counselors report that both abused women and their batterers use
scripture passages to justify their behavior.
Abused women say, “I can’t leave this relationship. The Bible says it would
be wrong.” Abusive men say, “The Bible says my wife should be submissive
to me.” They take the biblical text and distort it to support their right to
batter.
Even where the Bible uses traditional language to support the social order
common in the day, the image presented is never one that condones the use of
abuse to control another person. In Ephesians 5:21-33, for instance, which
discusses relationships within the family, the general principle laid down is
one of mutual submission between husband and wife. The passage holds out
the image to husbands that they are to love their wives as they love their own
body, as Christ loves the Church. Can you imagine Jesus battering his
Church?
We would… like to consider more particularly the role of the Christian
woman, both because of the importance that women have always had in the
Church, and because of the hopes for the present and the future which can
and must be placed in them. In our era, many voices have spoken up
demanding respect for woman’s personal dignity and recognition of her real
equality of rights with man, so as to offer her the full opportunity to fulfill her
role in all sectors and at all levels in society.
The Council, in particular, with its rich doctrinal, spiritual and pastoral
patrimony, has written as never before on the nature, dignity, spirituality,
mission and responsibility of the lay faithful. And the Council Fathers, re-
echoing the call of Christ, have summoned all the lay faithful, both women
and men, to labour in the vineyard: “The Council, then, makes an earnest
plea in the Lord’s name that all lay people give a glad, generous, and prompt
response to the impulse of the Holy Spirit and to the voice of Christ, who is
giving them an especially urgent invitation at this moment.”
Pope John Paul II - “CHRISTIFIDELES LAICI”
December 30, 1988
The Bible (and subsequently the liturgy), with its characteristic simplicity,
honors and praises throughout the centuries “the womb that bore you and the
breasts that you sucked” (Lk 11:27). These words constitute a eulogy of
motherhood, of femininity, of the female body in its typical expression of
creative love. And they are words referred in the Gospel to the Mother of
Christ, Mary, the second Eve.
Mary’s light can spread throughout the world of woman, to embrace
woman’s old and new problems, helping everyone to understand her dignity
and to recognize her rights. Women receive a special grace; they receive it to
live in covenant with God, at the level of their dignity and mission. They are
called to be united in their own way - in an excellent way with Christ’s
redeeming work. Women have a great role in the Church. This can be
understood very clearly in the light of the Gospel and of the sublime figure of
Mary.
…the family finds in love the source and the constant impetus for welcoming,
respecting and promoting each one of its members in his or her lofty dignity
as a person, that is, as a living image of God. As the Synod Fathers rightly
stated, the moral criterion for the authenticity of conjugal and family
relationships consists in fostering the dignity and vocation of the individual
persons, who achieve their fullness by sincere self-giving.
In creating the human race “male and female,” God gives man and woman
an equal personal dignity, endowing them with the inalienable person. God
then manifests the dignity of women in the highest form possible, by assuming
human flesh from the Virgin Mary, whom the Church honors as the Mother of
God, calling her the new Eve and presenting her as the model of redeemed
woman. The sensitive respect of Jesus towards the women that He called to
His following and His friendship, His appearing on Easter morning to a
woman before the other disciples, the mission entrusted to women to carry
the good news of the Resurrection to the apostles-these are all signs that
confirm the special esteem of the Lord Jesus for women. The Apostle Paul
will say: “In Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith.... There
is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male
nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”
In his wife he sees the fulfillment of God’s intention: “It is not good that the
man should be alone, I will make him a helper fit for him,” and he makes his
own the cry of Adam, the first husband: “This at last is bone of my bones and
flesh of my flesh.”
Love for his wife as mother of their children and love for the children
themselves are for the man the natural way of understanding and fulfilling his
own fatherhood. Above all where social and cultural conditions so easily
encourage a father to be less concerned with his family or at any rate less
involved in the work of education, efforts must be made to restore socially the
conviction that the place and task of the father in and for the family is of
unique and irreplaceable importance. As experience teaches, the absence of
a father causes psychological and moral imbalance and notable difficulties in
family relationships, as does, in contrary circumstances, the oppressive
presence of a father, especially where there still prevails the phenomenon of
“machismo,” or a wrong superiority of male prerogatives which humiliates
women and inhibits the development of healthy family relationships.
In Jewish Palestine women were considered less. In the Jewish morning prayer,
according to William Barclay’s New Testament Commentary, a man would thank
God that he was not made “a gentile, a slave or a woman.” Paul’s view of women
was revolutionary, when he states:
The ways we, as women, see ourselves is influenced by what others expect of us,
and by what we think God expects of us. A woman’s life is a book written in many
chapters. Every ten years a new chapter seems to be written in the life of an
average woman. There are not two human beings alike, there are not two women
alike. Baby, child, teenager, young adult, adult, career, volunteer, religious or wife,
housewife, mother, at all of those stages of life, there are questions that need to be
answered by each woman: Who am I? What does God want of me? What is
expected of me? How does society view me? How do I see myself? The answer
will be different for each woman, but there is on thing that is the same for all: God’s
love. Let us recognize God as our master and Lord and try to do good for others in
our different and various roles. As women, we can make our daily prayer, the prayer
of the Virgin Mary:
"My soul magnifies the Lord,
my spirit finds joy in God my Savior...
God who is mighty has done great things for me,
holy is His name."
Luke 1:46-49
Written by Marta
Published by LEAP OF FAITH
© 2001 Marta - February 21, 2001
References:
1. National Conference of Catholic Bishops, “When I Call for Help: A Pastoral
Response to Domestic Violence Against Women.” 1992, USA.
2. Pope John Paul II, Apostolic Letter, MULIERIS DIGNITATEM, 1988.
3. Pope John Paul II, “The Dignity of Women is to be Respected,” General Audience
on June 22, 1994, Vatican.
4. Pope John Paul II, Apostolic Exhortation, CHRISTIFIDELES LAICI, 1988 –
Vocation and Mission of the Laity in the Church
5. Pope John Paul II, General Audience on March 12, 1980, Vatican.
6. Pope John Paul II, Apostolic Exhortation, FAMILIARIS CONSORTIO, #22, 1981,
Vatican.
7. Pope John Paul II, Apostolic Exhortation FAMILIARIS CONSORTIO, #25, 1981,
Vatican.
8. Pope John Paul II, Apostolic Letter ORDINATION SACERDOTALIS, 1994,
Vatican.
9. Vatican Council II, Pastoral Constitution GAUDIUM ET SPES.
10. Vatican Council II, Decree on the Apostolate of the Laity APOSTOLICAM
ACTUOSITATEM.
11. The Vatican in the Internet : www.vatican.va
12. The National Conference of Catholic Bishops :
www.nccbuscc.org
I N H I S G R E A T T E A C H I N G W O R K O F 1 9 8 8 ,
“ M U L I E R I S D I G N I T A T E M , O N T H E D I G N I T Y
A N D V O C A T I O N O F W O M E N , ” J O H N P A U L
P R E S E N T S S O M E O F H I S I N S I G H T S O N T H E
S U B J E C T O F W O M E N . B E G I N N I N G W I T H A
Q U O T E F R O M T H E C L O S I N G M E S S A G E O F
T H E S E C O N D V A T I C A N C O U N C I L , I T
S T A T E S :
“ T H E H O U R I S C O M I N G , I N F A C T H A S
C O M E , W H E N T H E V O C A T I O N O F W O M E N I S
B E I N G A C K N O W L E D G E D I N I T S F U L L N E S S ,
T H E H O U R I N W H I C H W O M E N A C Q U I R E I N
T H E W O R L D A N I N F L U E N C E , A N E F F E C T
A N D A P O W E R N E V E R H I T H E R T O A C H I E V E D .
T H A T I S W H Y A T T H I S M O M E N T W H E N T H E
H U M A N R A C E I S U N D E R G O I N G S O D E E P A
T R A N S F O R M A T I O N , W O M E N I M B U E D W I T H A
S P I R I T O F T H E G O S P E L C A N D O S O M U C H
T O A I D H U M A N I T Y I N N O T F A L L I N G
( M U L I E R I S D I G N I T A T E M ) . "
T H I S I S P R E C I S E L Y W H Y T H E N E E D I S S O
U R G E N T T O U N D E R S T A N D T H E P R O P E R
R O L E A N D D I G N I T Y O F H U M A N I T Y , A N D
W O M E N I N P A R T I C U L A R . W E N E E D T O
E X P L O R E T H E M Y S T E R Y O F W H Y T H E
C R E A T O R H A S A S S I G N E D E A C H H U M A N
B E I N G T O A L W A Y S A N D O N L Y E X I S T A S
E I T H E R M A N O R W O M A N .
J O H N P A U L S T A R T S H I S M E D I T A T I O N O N
W O M E N B Y L O O K I N G A T T H E M O T H E R O F
G O D . M A R Y O F N A Z A R E T H I S A C E N T R A L
P L A Y E R I N T H E G R E A T E S T E V E N T I N T H E
H I S T O R Y O F T H E U N I V E R S E ; N A M E L Y G O D
R E V E A L I N G H I M S E L F C O M P L E T E L Y I N
J E S U S C H R I S T . A L L T H E D E S I R E S O F T H E
H U M A N R A C E , A L L T H E Q U E S T I O N S T H A T
P E O P L E H A V E O F T H E I R O R I G I N A N D T H E I R
D E S T I N Y , I S F U L F I L L E D W H E N G O D C H O S E
T O C O M E D O W N T O E A R T H A N D T A K E O N
O U R H U M A N N A T U R E . T H E R E V E L A T I O N O F
G O D I N J E S U S C H R I S T C A M E A B O U T
T H R O U G H A W O M A N . T H I S U N I Q U E A N D
S I N G U L A R E V E N T R A I S E S T H E D I G N I T Y O F
W O M A N T O H E I G H T S T H A T C O U L D N E V E R
B E R E A C H E D N A T U R A L L Y . I N A L L H E R
F E M I N I N I T Y , A W O M A N B O R E T H E
R E D E E M E R . T H R O U G H H E R F R E E W I L L M A R Y
S A I D Y E S T O B E C O M E T H E M O T H E R O F T H E
S A V I O R .
M A R Y R E P R E S E N T S T H E E N T I R E H U M A N
R A C E I N H E R A C C E P T A N C E O F T H I S D I V I N E
G R A C E . S H E A T T A I N S I N T H E M O S T
E M I N E N T M A N N E R P O S S I B L E
“ S U P E R N A T U R A L E L E V A T I O N T O U N I O N
W I T H G O D I N J E S U S C H R I S T ( M . D 4 ) . ”
W H E N T O L D B Y T H E A N G E L T H A T S H E W A S
C H O S E N T O B E T H E M O T H E R O F T H E S O N
O F G O D , M A R Y S A I D “ B E H O L D I A M T H E
H A N D M A I D E N O F T H E L O R D , B E I T D O N E
U N T O M E A C C O R D I N G T O Y O U R W O R D
( L U K E 1 : 3 8 ) . ” T H I S R O L E A S
“ H A N D M A I D E N ” I S N O T I N A N Y W A Y A
L E S S E R O R C O N D E S C E N D I N G R O L E . I N
G O D ’ S E Y E S , T O S E R V E I S T O R E I G N .
C H R I S T H I M S E L F S A I D T H A T H E C A M E T O
S E R V E , N O T T O B E S E R V E D . H E I S T H E
S E R V A N T O F T H E L O R D A N D M A N I F E S T S
T H E S U P R E M E R O Y A L D I G N I T Y O F S E R V I C E
T H A T A L L O F H U M A N I T Y I S C A L L E D T O .
O U R H U M A N D I G N I T Y L I E S I N T H E
F U L F I L L M E N T O F O U R N A T U R E , W H I C H I S
F O U N D S O L E L Y I N U N I O N W I T H G O D . M A R Y
I S T H E H E I G H T A N D E X P R E S S I O N O F
H U M A N D I G N I T Y A S S H E T R U L Y A T T A I N S
T H E H I G H E S T I M A G I N A B L E U N I O N W I T H
G O D I N W H O S E I M A G E S H E I S M A D E .
J O H N P A U L I I S E E S I N M A R Y A N O T H E R
E X A M P L E O F T W O V O C A T I O N S O F W O M E N ,
T H A T O F V I R G I N I T Y A N D M O T H E R H O O D . I N
M A R Y B O T H O F T H E S E C O M E T O G E T H E R
A N D D O N O T E X C L U D E O N E A N O T H E R ( M . D
1 7 ) . H I S I N S I G H T I N T O M O T H E R H O O D
S H O W S T H E M O T H E R A S T H E U N I Q U E
P E R S O N W H O H A S A G R E A T E R P A R T I N T H E
M Y S T E R Y O F T H E R E G E N E R A T I O N O F N E W
L I F E . T H E N E W L I F E T R U L Y A B S O R B S H E R
O W N B O D Y ’ S E N E R G Y , A N D W O M A N H A S
T H E P A R T I C U L A R P R I V I L E G E O F C A R R Y I N G
T H I S C H I L D I N I T S P R E N A T A L S T A G E S .
T H E M A N O W E S A S P E C I A L D E B T T O T H E
W O M A N I N T H E I R S H A R E D P A R E N T H O O D .
T H E M O T H E R H O O D O F T H E W O M A N
E X T E N D S B E Y O N D H E R R E L A T I O N S H I P W I T H
H E R C H I L D , A S T H E P O P E E X P L A I N S :
T H I S U N I Q U E C O N T A C T W I T H T H E N E W
H U M A N B E I N G D E V E L O P I N G W I T H I N H E R
G I V E S R I S E T O A N A T T I T U D E T O W A R D S
H U M A N B E I N G S - N O T O N L Y T O W A R D S H E R
O W N C H I L D , B U T E V E R Y H U M A N B E I N G -
W H I C H P R O F O U N D L Y M A R K S T H E W O M A N ' S
P E R S O N A L I T Y . I T I S C O M M O N L Y T H O U G H T
T H A T W O M E N A R E M O R E C A P A B L E T H A N
M E N O F P A Y I N G A T T E N T I O N T O A N O T H E R
P E R S O N , A N D T H A T M O T H E R H O O D
D E V E L O P S T H I S P R E D I S P O S I T I O N E V E N
M O R E ( M . D 1 8 )
F O R W O M E N W H O F E E L D R A W N T O
R A D I C A L L Y L I V E T H E G O S P E L M E S S A G E ,
V I R G I N I T Y F O R T H E S A K E O F T H E
K I N G D O M I S A N I D E A L W A Y O F F O L L O W I N G
C H R I S T U N R E S E R V E D L Y . T H I S I S T H E L O V E
O F T H O S E W H O D E S I R E T O G I V E T H E I R
W H O L E S E L V E S T O G O D I N T R U E S P O U S A L
L O V E . T H E W O M A N W H O E M B A R K S O N T H I S
P A T H R E C O G N I Z E S C H R I S T T H E
B R I D E G R O O M A N D M A K E S T H E S I N C E R E
G I F T O F H E R S E L F . H E R F E M I N I N I T Y ,
M O T H E R H O O D A N D E N E R G I E S A R E
C O M P L E T E L Y C O N S E C R A T E D T O C H R I S T
( M . D 2 0 ) . M O T H E R H O O D I S N O T E X C L U D E D
B Y T H E L I F E O F C E L I B A T E C H A S T I T Y .
S P O U S A L L O V E M A N I F E S T S I T S E L F I N T H E
R E A D I N E S S T O B E P O U R E D O U T F O R T H E
S A K E O F O T H E R S . I N M A R R I A G E T H I S I S
G E N E R A L L Y W I T H O N E ’ S C H I L D R E N , W H I L E
I N T H E C O N S E C R A T E D S T A T E I T I S T O A L L
P E O P L E W H O A R E “ E M B R A C E D B Y T H E L O V E
O F C H R I S T T H E S P O U S E ( M . D 2 1 ) . ”
J O H N P A U L I I R E F U S E S T O J U D G E T H E
I S S U E O F M A N A N D W O M A N A G A I N S T T H E
B A C K D R O P O F A S T R U G G L E F O R
D O M I N A N C E . S I M P L Y T O M A K E W O M E N
I N T O M E N , A N D T O I D E A L I Z E T H E
A M B I T I O N , P R I D E A N D A G G R E S S I V E N E S S
O F M E N W I L L N O T I N T H E L E A S T W A Y H E L P
H U M A N I T Y O N T H E J O U R N E Y T O
R E E S T A B L I S H T H E M S E L V E S A S T R U E
I M A G E S A N D L I K E N E S S E S O F G O D .
S I G N V A L U E F O R L O V E . A W O M A N ’ S V E R Y
B E I N G S H O W S T H E C A P A C I T Y A N D N E E D
F O R L O V E . T O W O M E N A R E E N T R U S T E D
H U M A N B E I N G S I N A U N I Q U E A N D
P R E E M I N E N T W A Y . B E C A U S E O F T H I S T H E
W O M A N H A S A S P E C I A L C O N C E R N F O R
P E R S O N S , A N D I N T H I S A G E O F
I N C R E A S I N G I N D U S T R I A L I Z A T I O N A N D
M A R G I N A L I Z A T I O N O F T H E P O O R , T H E
W O R L D I S I N S O R E N E E D O F T H E F E M I N I N E
G E N I U S T O T R A N S F O R M I T I N T O B E I N G
M O R E J U S T A N D H U M A N E . A S T H E P O P E
C O N C L U D E S T H E L E T T E R :
" I N T H E S P I R I T O F C H R I S T , I N F A C T ,
W O M E N C A N D I S C O V E R T H E E N T I R E
M E A N I N G O F T H E I R F E M I N I N I T Y A N D T H U S
B E D I S P O S E D T O M A K I N G A " S I N C E R E G I F T
O F S E L F " T O O T H E R S , T H E R E B Y F I N D I N G
T H E M S E L V E S ( M . D 3 1 ) . ”
I N M A R Y , E V E D I S C O V E R S T H E N A T U R E O F
T H E T R U E D I G N I T Y O F W O M A N , O F
F E M I N I N E H U M A N I T Y . T H I S D I S C O V E R Y
M U S T C O N T I N U A L L Y R E A C H T H E H E A R T O F
E V E R Y W O M A N A N D S H A P E H E R V O C A T I O N
A N D H E R L I F E ( M . D 1 1 ) .
Despite all this, women today are made to feel worthless and
enslaved if they do not work outside the home or make as much
money as their husbands. Stay-at-home moms are mocked.
Wives who submit to their husband’s leadership are pitied.
Ironically, a woman’s dignity is tied to how she compares with
men in independence and power. But according to the Bible, her
dignity is found in being wholly and uniquely woman, as God has
designed. And, as she faithfully and courageously executes that
purpose, she is truly dignified. “But let it be the hidden person of
the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet
spirit, which is precious in the sight of God” (1 Pet. 3:4).