I.

How they Met Each Other

● Please tell us your love story, like how you met each other and what made you decide
that you were compatible with each other

II. What Made them Decide to Get Married

● What were the factors that you considered about your wife/ husband-to-be before you
decided to marry her/him?
● Do things such as financial stability, culture of your partner’s family, job of your partner,
age, among others, mattered in your decision to get married?
● Do you think the length of the relationship of a couple determines the success of their
married life?
● Did you have second thoughts about marrying your partner? (If yes, what thoughts made
you hesitate about your decision?)
● Was your decision to get married more out of what your heart felt was right, or what your
brain thought was correct?

III. Just Got Married

● What were the new things that you had to adjust to when you first got married? Was it
easy or hard for you to get used to these changes? How did you react to these as years
went by?
● Was decision-making harder for you now that you also have to think of your partner?
● Did you remain as sweet and romantic as you were when you were still dating each
other?

IV. Blessings and Challenges of Being Married

● What do you think are the blessings or benefits of being married? Please also give us
some examples of the benefits that you personally experienced in your married life.
● How do you handle conflict between you? Please recall the last time you had a conflict
and tell us how you handled it.
● How do you make decisions as a family?
● What is the most difficult thing in raising a child? Why?
● What is the most rewarding thing about being a parent? Please explain your answer.
● How do you think your child/children view/s the current situation of your marriage?
● Do problems that you encounter with parenting pave the way to having problems in your
marriage itself?

V. Wisdom about Life of Commitment

● How do you keep the love alive in your marriage?
● If you could give one advice to soon to be married couples, what it would it be?