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https://doi.org/10.1007/s10803-019-04077-y
ORIGINAL PAPER
Abstract
Previous research indicates that although those with ASD desire sexual relationships, they may not effectively engage in
romantic and intimate interactions. The purpose of this study was to compare reports from young adults with ASD and parents
from the same families on the young adult’s sexual behavior, experiences, knowledge, and communication. 100 young adults
(18–30 years) and parents completed an online survey. Results indicated that young adults reported more typical privacy
and sexual behaviors, and higher sexual victimization than their parents reported on their behalf. Our findings indicated that
individuals with ASD desire and pursue sexual relationships typical of most people and suggest the need for sex education
and communication about topics generally covered for neurotypically developing young adults.
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associated with increased same-sex attraction, behavior, fan- (Eastgate et al. 2012), compared with typically develop-
tasies, and sexual minority identity in typically developing ing males, whose first sexual experiences are most often
individuals (Qualls et al. 2018). with peers (Caputo 2009). Another study found that young
Despite research suggesting sexual interest in individu- adults with ASD tended to display more inappropriate sexual
als with ASD, those with ASD may receive less formal behavior when compared to those without ASD of the same
and informal sexual education compared to their typically age (Stokes and Kaur 2005). A study comparing rates of sex-
developing peers. Interviews with caretakers of young adults ual victimization between people with intellectual disabil-
with ASD reveal that often the topic of sexuality does not ity (PWID) and a community comparison group found that
extend beyond education about personal space and hygiene PWID were almost 6 times as likely to experience sexual
(Ballan 2012; Holmes and Himle 2014). Mehzabin and victimization (Nixon et al. 2017). Although not all individu-
Stokes (2011) found that adults with ASD displayed less als with ASD have an intellectual disability, one study esti-
knowledge about sexual behavior when compared to adults mated that 79% of young adults with ASD have experienced
without ASD with the exception of topics related to hygiene at least one case of sexual victimization (Brown-Lavoie et al.
and privacy. Recently, there have been efforts to improve 2014). In a study that interviewed mothers of adolescent
formal sex education for populations with intellectual and girls with ASD, a number of them shared concerns about
developmental disabilities. However, research has shown their daughters agreeing to engage in sexual activity with
that traditional sex education does not lead to as large of boys with whom they wanted to remain friends (Cridland
an increase in sexual awareness for those with ASD when et al. 2014).
compared to typically developing young adults. It may, in Particularly given the elevated rates of adverse sexual
fact, be associated with increased issues of vulnerability, experiences encountered by individuals with ASD, a better
social anxiety, and confusion for this population (Hannah understanding of sexual knowledge, experiences, struggles,
and Stagg 2016). This finding indicates that current formal and desires of young adults with ASD and their caregivers
sex education may not be as effective for adolescents and is needed. While individuals with ASD are certainly not
young adults with ASD. Therefore, there is a need for alter- at fault or responsible for experiences of sexual abuse or
native routes to successfully provide sexual knowledge to victimization, misinformation about healthy sexuality (e.g.,
this population. Due to the social difficulties and heterogene- personal space, communication of consent, appropriate and
ity found within individuals with ASD, it has been recom- inappropriate sexual behaviors) may in some cases contrib-
mended that parents and caregivers should provide more ute to adverse sexual encounters, including encounters in
personalized methods of communicating information about which the experience is unwanted by the individual with
sex which may be more effective than traditional forms of ASD and encounters in which the individual with ASD
sex education for these individuals (Sullivan and Caterino initiates an experience that is unwanted by another party.
2008). While the caretakers do agree that broader sexual Research in neurotypical populations has identified frequent
education should occur, little agreement about content and and productive communication about sex within a family to
delivery has occurred with a major concern about the het- be an effective means to facilitate a child’s open discussion
erogeneity of developmental levels present in individuals with dating partners and favorably influence his/her attitudes
with ASD (Ballan 2012). Currently, young adults with ASD about sexuality (Warren and Neer 1986; Warren and Warren
are often learning about sexuality on their own. Surveys of 2015). In contrast to the teaching approach of sex education,
young adults with ASD have found that they learn about sex- communication about sex is a didactic process that involves
uality more often from television and the Internet than from an active discussion between all parties. Understanding
peers, teachers, or their parents (Brown-Lavoie et al. 2014). family communication about sex within ASD families may
Lack of formal education about sexuality and reliance upon provide a unique perspective and means to better improve
non-social and non-professional sources for sexual informa- the sexual knowledge and experiences for young adults with
tion may contribute to young adults with ASD receiving ASD.
inadequate and/or inaccurate information. Indeed, one study
found that adults with ASD had less perceived and actual
sexual knowledge when compared to adults without ASD Purpose of Study
(Brown-Lavoie et al. 2014).
Importantly, research has begun to show that individuals The present study aimed to build upon the previous literature
with ASD may be more likely to engage in risky or inappro- by examining self- and parent-report of young adults with
priate sexual behaviors and to experience sexual victimiza- ASD regarding their respective perceptions of the young
tion as compared to their typically developing peers. For adults’ sexuality, sexual knowledge, and sexual experiences.
example, some young adult males with ASD have their first This study expands upon the literature on sexuality in ASD
sexual experiences through contact with the sex industry by examining both young adult and parent perceptions
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Sexual Behaviour Scale (SBS; Stokes and Kaur 2005) increases from 0.13 to 0.55 when all but one item (“Has
your child behaved unacceptably toward someone they
The SBS was created to assess sexual behavior in adoles- were romantically interested in?”) were analyzed (Stokes
cents with high functioning ASD, defined by Stokes and and Kaur 2005). The current study obtained alphas rang-
Kaur (2005) as individuals with ASD without intellectual ing from 0.30 to 0.90 for parents [Social Behavior = 0.90,
disability. The scale consists of 5 subscales: social behav- Privacy = 0.74, Sex Education = 0.62, Sexual Behavior
ior, privacy (seeking and awareness), sex education, sexual without removal = 0.50, and Parental Concerns = 0.30]
behavior, and parental concerns. Subscale scores are calcu- and 0.39 to 0.91 for young adults [Social Behavior = 0.89,
lated for each of the five constructs by dividing each item Privacy = 0.76, Sex Education = 0.67, and Sexual Behavior
for each subject by the maximum score for the item, then without removal = 0.39].
totaling the items for each subscale, and dividing the sum by
the number of items in that subscale. Subscale scores range
from zero to one. Scores closer to one reflect more typical Sexual Experiences Survey (SES; Koss and Oros 1982)
behavior compared to scores closer to zero that reflect atypi-
cal behavior. Both the young adult and parent participants The Sexual Experiences Survey contains items concern-
completed this measure. ing various degrees of sexual victimization and aggression.
The social behavior construct includes seven items Statements focus on victimization, sexual coercion, sexual
evaluating social companions and activities. This scale contact, attempted rape and rape. For this study, 10 questions
was designed to assess whether the adolescent social- are used with a dichotomous Yes/No response format. The
izes with others outside the family and school, and with SES has shown good internal consistency and reliability in
whom these activities were undertaken. The study authors a neurotypical population with a Cronbach alpha of .74 for
modified this subscale by adding two questions; “Do(es) women and .89 for men and a test retest correlation of 93%.
you (your child) show interest in social relationships with Cronbach alphas obtained for the current study were 0.73
members of the same sex?” and “Do(es) you (your child) and 0.70 for female parents and young adults, respectively,
show interest in social relationships with members of both and 0.68 and 0.65 for male parents and young adults. Both
sexes?”. Both of these questions showed excellent inter- parents and young adults received this measure.
nal reliability within the subscale for both parents and
young adults (all α > 0.89). The rationale behind including
these questions was to capture a broader range of social General Sexual Knowledge Questionnaire (GSKQ; Talbot
behaviors. The privacy subscale of the SBS consists of and Langdon 2006)
questions regarding the participant’s privacy behaviors,
awareness of the social rules concerning privacy, and, The General Sexual Knowledge Questionnaire is divided
how they learned these rules. The sex education construct into 6 parts, which assess an individual’s knowledge of
examines knowledge about sexually related issues such as human anatomy and physiology, sexual intercourse, preg-
sexual hygiene and acceptable behavior towards a person nancy, contraception, sexually transmitted diseases and
of romantic interest; the ways in which this knowledge sexuality, respectively. The original measure was devel-
was acquired; and parents’ response to sex education. oped for those with intellectual disabilities and consisted of
This seventeen-question subscale has the dichotomous open-ended questions. Therefore, 10 questions were adapted
“Yes/No” response options. Questions within the sexual for this study in a format that allows for multiple-choice
behavior subscale were developed to assess the presence answers to facilitate its use online. The items consist of a
of prior inappropriate sexual behavior, awareness of typi- question with multiple correct and incorrect answer options.
cal sexual physical responses measured with dichotomous Respondents scored one point for each correct answer and
“Yes/No” responses. Lastly, the parents were administered there were three correct options for each question there-
a parental concerns subscale that had questions relating fore, the total maximum score for the measure is 30. For
to their concerns regarding sexuality for the individual the current study, both parents and young adults completed
child with ASD including finding a partner and misin- this measure. Reliability of the GSKQ has been reported
terpretation by others of their child’s behaviors. Previous as alpha = 0.94 for the combined items of the measure with
research has noted that this measure demonstrates good scale-level alphas ranging from 0.35 to 0.86. Similarly, the
internal validity across scales, with alpha coefficients split-half reliability estimate obtained for the full measure
ranging from 0.13 to 0.88 [Social Behavior = 0.82, Pri- was 0.80 with individual scales ranging from 0.43 to 0.85
vacy = 0.60, Sex Education = 0.76, Sexual Behavior = 0.13, (Talbot and Langdon 2006). The Cronbach alphas obtained
and Parental Concerns = 0.88]. The authors of the measure for the current study were 0.83 and 0.88 for the combined
note that the alpha obtained for the Sexual Behavior scale items for parents and young adults, respectively.
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Klein Sexual Orientation Grid (KSOG; Klein 1993) identify how parent and young adult reports aligned on indi-
vidual items.
The Klein Sexual Orientation Grid investigates sex-
ual orientation in the past, present and future. The grid
uses a Likert scale of 1–7 to describe a continuum from Results
exclusively opposite-sex to exclusively same-sex attrac-
tion along seven dimensions including sexual attraction, Data Screening
sexual behavior, sexual fantasies, emotional preference,
social preference, self-identification, and heterosexual/ Of the 523 individuals (young adults and parents) who fin-
homosexual lifestyle. The measure has previously shown ished the SASS, 41 participants did not meet the 2/3 com-
excellent internal reliability. For the use of this study, the pletion criteria and were removed. Of the remaining 482
original 18 questions were shortened to 6 questions about participants, 246 were removed because they were not a part
sexual orientation in only the present time frame. Ques- of a matching young adult and parent from the same family.
tions have been adapted to the study population by adding Of the young adult and parent pairs from the same family,
an answer option for asexuality. Young adults and par- 18 young adults reported an AQ-10 score less than 6 and
ents completed this measure. Klein et al. (1985) report the were thus removed from analysis, along with their respective
internal consistency and test–retest values of the original 18 matched parent participants. This left a total of 200 par-
version of the measure were “generally determined to be ticipants with 100 young adults and 100 parents who were
excellent” with no specific data presented. The Cronbach matched by family, henceforth referred to as matched dyads.
alphas obtained for the greatly reduced and revised current Participant demographics (see Table 1) showed equal
version of the KSOG were 0.44 and 0.60 for parents and gender distribution for young adults and parents. Distribu-
young adults, respectively. tion of young adult self-report of race/ethnicity in the current
sample closely followed US Census expectations and parent
report of young adult intellectual quotient (IQ) indicated that
Family Sex Communication Quotient (FSCQ; Warren 2011) the majority of participates were of average or below average
intelligence. The majority of young adults reported spend-
The goal of the FSCQ is to measure sex communication or ing much of their day at home versus in other settings and
the exchange of verbal and nonverbal messages in a mutual 99% parent reported young adults have received treatment
effort to create meaning about sexual beliefs, attitudes, val- in their lifetime, often including multiple services such as
ues or behavior within a family. The measure evaluates both behavioral, medication, and counseling interventions.
quality and content of family sex communication along three
domains, comfort (degree of openness with which sex is Aim 1
discussed), information (amount of information learned and
shared during the discussion), and value (overall importance Regarding the characterization of participant’s sexuality,
of the family role in sexual learning). The FSCQ consists sexual experiences, and sexual knowledge, both young
of 18 Likert-like items rang from Strongly Disagree (1) to adults and parents reported a high level of typical behav-
Strongly Agree (5), where higher scores indicate better fam- ior for SBS Privacy, Sex Education, and Sexual Behavior
ily sex communication. As defined by the measure authors, (Table 2; M = 0.84 and 0.82; M = 0.94 and 0.93; M = 0.83
a strong overall FSCQ score is greater than 72. The FSCQ and 0.80, respectively) while both also reported more atypi-
has been noted by the authors of the measure as suitable cal behavior on SBS Social Behavior (M = 0.58 and 0.56,
for American and Canadian respondents. Multiple previous respectively). Additionally, both young adults and parents
studies have found the measure has good internal validity reported moderately high levels of functioning within sexu-
and the measure’s authors report an average alpha of 0.90 ality on the GSKQ (M = 22.30 and 21.75, respectively). Fur-
across the years (Warren 2006; Warren and Warren 2015). thermore, only 3% of young adults reported sexual attrac-
The current study obtained Cronbach alphas of 0.91 for both tion, behavior, or fantasies regarding the same sex. Of these
parent and young adult subjects separately. individuals, none of the parents accurately reported knowing
of their child’s same sex orientation (Table 11).
Independent samples t-tests were used to compare parent Regarding the second aim of the study, communication
and young adult report on the SBS, SES, FSCQ, and GSKQ. about sexuality between young adult and parent participants,
Additionally, Cohen’s Kappa was used as a follow up to both young adults and parents reported overall FSCQ scores
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Table 2 Summary of t-test Measure Young adult (M, SD) Parent (M, SD) t p
results
SBS
Social behavior 0.58, 0.19 0.56, 0.20 1.86 0.07
Privacya 0.84, 0.10 0.82, 0.10 4.00 < 0.001
Sex education 0.94, 0.08 0.93, 0.08 0.74 0.46
Sexual behaviora 0.83, 0.08 0.80, 0.09 3.54 0.001
SES
Aggression 1.00, 0.89 0.94, 0.80 0.56 0.58
Victimizationa 1.41, 1.30 1.16, 1.30 2.26 0.03
FSCQ
Overalla 58.31, 12.74 63.87, 11.20 5.94 < 0.001
Comforta 17.02, 4.49 21.48, 4.72 13.70 < 0.001
Informationa 20.42, 5.20 21.83, 4.11 3.79 < 0.001
Value 20.87, 5.00 20.56, 3.84 0.53 0.60
GSKQ 22.30, 5.56 21.75, 5.52 1.14 0.26
a
Represents statistically significant results of p < .05
that do not reach the level of strong communication labeled report on SBS Social Behavior, SBS Sex Education, and
by the FSCQ authors (Table 2; M = 58.31 and 63.87, respec- SES Sexual Aggression. There were no statistical differences
tively). Parents reported moderate levels of communication in reported GSKQ. For the FSCQ, young adults reported sig-
on Comfort, Information and Value (M = 21.48, 21.83, and nificantly lower levels of comfort with communication about
20.56, respectively), while young adults also reported mod- sex, information sharing, and overall scores (i.e., a reported
erate levels of communication on Information and Value lower level of family communication about sex) when com-
(M = 20.42 and 20.87, respectively) while reporting even pared to what their parents reported. The two groups did
lower levels of communication on Comfort (M = 17.02). not differ on the value subscale, which refers to the reported
overall importance of the family role in sexual learning.
Aim 3 Both parents and young adults reported significantly lower
than “strong” overall FSCQ scores (FSCQ ≥ 72), indicating
The third and principal aim of the study was to examine the a decreased level of family communication about sex. The
alignment of young adult and parent participant reports on KSOG was omitted from t test analyses as only 6 of the
topics of sexuality, including sexual behavior and knowl- scale’s items were used for this study and there was the addi-
edge, sexual experience, and communication about sex. tion of a response option of asexuality that was not included
Results are initially presented at the scale level, followed by in the original measure. Therefore, if a participant chose the
item-level analyses. asexual choice it would artificially alter their overall score
to appear more other sex attracted rather than asexual which
Primary Analyses would improperly characterize the data.
Paired samples t-tests with a significance value of 0.05 Item Level Analyses
were used to evaluate parent and young adult reports on
SBS, SES, GSKQ, and FSCQ. Results showed young adults Item level analyses included percentages and Cohen’s Kappa
reported significantly higher scores on the SBS privacy sub- and were applied to evaluate individual items of interest
scale, SBS sexual behavior subscale, and SES victimization (Tables 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11). Cohen’s Kappa was used
subscale when compared to parent report (Table 2). These to determine if the level of agreement between parents and
results suggest that the young adults reported a higher level young adults goes beyond that of chance. Significance value
of privacy and sexual behavior than their respective parent, below 0.05 indicates that the parent and young adult partici-
comparable to what would be expected in the neurotypi- pants from the same family agreed in their responses on the
cal population. Young adults also reported a higher level of item beyond chance, while significance above 0.05 indicates
sexual victimization than reported by their parents, which that any similarity in the responses is likely due to chance.
may be related to the typically associated privacy and shame Almost 62% of young adults reported experiences of victim-
concerning sexual victimization. However, there were no ization through endorsement of at least one item and 54% of
significant differences between young adult and parent parents endorsed at least one item on the SES victimization
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Table 4 SBS privacy
Young adult Parent Agreement (%) Kappa
report (%) report (%)
subscale. Despite this high report of at least one type of raped?” (Young Adult ‘yes’ = 2%, Parent ‘yes’ = 3%). How-
victimization of the young adult, a low number of partici- ever, a high number of participants also endorsed at least
pants endorsed the explicit item meant to indicate rape, one item on the SES Aggression scale (Young Adult = 65%,
as measured by the question “Have you (your child) been Parent = 67%), suggesting that both young adults and parents
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Table 6 SBS sex education Young adult Parent report Agreement (%) Kappa
method report (%) (%)
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Table 9 SES aggression
Young adult Parent report Agreement (%) Kappa
report (%) (%)
Another person has misinterpreted the level of sexual intimacy desired 54 .08; p = .45
Yes 52 56
No 48 44
Become so sexually aroused that they could not stop even though the other 62 .19; p = .05
person did not want sexual intercourse
Yes 42 32
No 58 68
Used some degree of physical force to make partner engage in sexual 94 .47; p < .001
activities even when they don’t want to
Yes 6 6%
No 94 94
Endorsed at least one item in scale 62.0 .15; p = .12
Yes 65 67
No 35 33
Table 10 SES victimization
Young Parent Agreement (%) Kappa
adult report report
(%) (%)
Been in a situation where someone else became so sexually aroused that they felt it was 70 .31; p < .05
useless to stop them even if they did not what intercourse
Yes 34 30
No 66 70
Had sexual intercourse even though they didn’t really want to because the partner threat- 79 .46; p < .001
ened to end the relationship otherwise
Yes 26 27
No 74 73
Had sexual intercourse even though they didn’t really want to because they felt pres- 72 .21; p < .05
sured by the partner’s continual arguments
Yes 26 21
No 74 79
Found out partner had obtained sexual intercourse with them by saying things they 72 .32; p = .001
didn’t really mean
Yes 34 22
No 66 78
Been in a situation where a partner used some degree of physical force to try to make 82 .33; p < .001
them engage in sexual activities when they didn’t want to
Yes 19 13
No 81 87
Been raped 97 .39; p < .001
Yes 2 3
No 98 97
Endorsed at least 1 item on scale 88 .755; p < .001
Yes 62 54
No 38 46
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(Young Adult ‘yes’ = 88%, Parent ‘yes’ = 84%), understand- diseases (Young Adult ‘yes’ = 82%, Parent ‘yes’ = 77%).
ing how someone has a baby (Young Adult ‘yes’ = 86%, Par- Parent and young adult participants reported similar high
ent ‘yes’ = 91%), and knowledge about sexually transmitted levels on items indicating that they would be assisted by
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appropriate sex education (Young Adult ‘yes’ = 95%, Parent While all participants reported sexual behaviors closer
‘yes’ = 98%). Although Cohen’s Kappa was not significant, to typical rather than atypical or problematic development,
a higher percentage of parents reported the majority of sex young adult participants reported more typical sexual behav-
education comes from school than young adults (Young iors than parent reports of young adults. Young adults and
Adult = 23%, Parent = 38%) and a higher percentage of parents did agree on some aspects including that that the
young adults reported the majority of their sex education young adults do (or do not) have romantic interests, and that
comes from the Internet (Young Adult = 17%, Parent = 9%) they have (or have not) had sexual intercourse. Our find-
and pictures, videos, and/or reading (Young Adult = 8%, ings build off research that indicated that individuals with
Parent = 1%). ASD desire and pursue sexual relationships and engage in
Parents and young adults were also significantly in agree- a variety of sexual behaviors typical of most people (e.g.,
ment with all items of the KSOG. Parents and young adults Byers et al. 2013; Hellemans et al. 2007, 2010; Van Bour-
agreed most on the gender of people with which the young gondien et al. 1997). The typicality of sexual behavior in
adults had sexual contact (Table 11). Parents and young young adults with ASD suggests that there is a need of sex
adults had very good agreement on the gender of persons education and communication that covers the same topics as
about whom the young adults had sexual fantasies and mod- that of typically developing young adults. The above trend
erate to good agreement on the gender of persons to whom continues to change as dating apps, such as Tinder, are now
the young adults were sexually attracted, formed strong emo- commonly used by adolescents and young adults for sex-
tional connections, and the sexual orientation of the young ual communication. Tinder use was correlated with risky
adult’s friends (Table 11). Parents and young adults had fair sexual behaviors (Shapiro et al. 2017). One protective fac-
agreement on the gender of the person the young adult pre- tor in Shapiro’s study was the negative correlation between
ferred to spend time with (Table 11). risky sexual behaviors and the young adult living at home
with their parents. Doornwaard et al. (2014) found that less
parental rule setting regarding internet use predicted greater
engagement in sex-related online behavior. Furthermore, our
Discussion
data suggest that young adult sexual behaviors are not suf-
ficiently different than those of typically developing young
The purpose of this study was to evaluate reports from young
adults of similar ages when assessing sexual intercourse with
adults with ASD and caregivers from the same families on
a partner.
the young adult’s sexual behavior, experiences, knowledge,
Parents were largely aware of their young adult’s sexual
and communication, as well as explore more specific topics
orientation and sexual behavior. However, they were less
concerning sexuality in this population, including compar-
aware of the gender and sexual orientation of their children’s
ing young adult and parent perceptions regarding sexuality
friends, as well as their children’s sexual attraction and fan-
within young adults with ASD.
tasies, which may correspond to infrequent family commu-
nication about sex about these topics. Furthermore, although
Sexual Behavior, Experiences, and Orientation parents were largely aware of their young adult’s sexual
behavior, especially if it was absent or heterosexual, young
This study had the novel aim of exploring topics on which adults with same-sex attractions, fantasies, and behavior may
parents and young adults from the same families agreed and experience difficulty communicating to their parents about
differed. Overall, young adults reported more typical privacy these topics. This illustrates that parents may be aware of
and sexual behaviors and higher sexual victimization than their young adult’s sexual behavior, which is largely absent
their parents reported on their behalf. or heterosexual, but may be unaware of same-sex attraction
Our data suggest that young adults seek privacy more and fantasies these same young adults may be having. This
often than parents reported that they did. One potential is in contrast to neurotypical young adults, where anywhere
reason for this may be the time frame each participant is from 25 to 65% of a sample of college-aged lesbian, gay, and
utilizing to answer this question. The parent may be con- bisexual young adults reported that their parents were aware
sidering their young adult–child’s behavior across the lifes- of their same-sex sexual orientation (D’Augelli et al. 2005).
pan, including inappropriate behavior, when the young adult In line with Stokes et al. (2007), this study supports that
was a child. In contrast, the young adults with ASD may be young adults with ASD can behave inappropriately sexu-
reporting their current behavior, which is likely to be more ally, with young adults and parents reporting that the young
mature and appropriate. Alternatively, the young adults may adults with ASD in our study had engaged in at least one
be seeking privacy from their parents to engage in certain instance of sexually aggressive or inappropriate behavior
behaviors and the parents therefore are not aware of these with another person, on average. However, many dyads
behaviors. did not align on the individual questions on aggressive
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behaviors. Both young adults with ASD and parents also sons concerning information about sex, specifically sexu-
reported that the young adult had experienced at least one ally transmitted infections, contraception, and sexual assault
instance of sexual victimization, on average. This finding (Holmes et al. 2019). Low self-efficacy has also been iden-
is consistent with reports from Brown-Lavoie et al. (2014), tified as a barrier to communication of sex within families
who also found that many young adults with ASD reported in previous research with non-autistic youth (Hockenberry-
experiencing sexual victimization and highlights the need Eaton et al. 1996). In a survey done in Great Britain in 2015,
for parents and young adults with ASD to communicate the sources of information for sex education changed over
effectively about potentially negative sexual experiences time but parents continued to be a minor source of sexual
in order to decrease these occurrences. The discrepancy education while most young people wanted more involve-
between young adult reports of sexual victimization and par- ment with psychosexual matters from school, parents, or
ent report in this sample may be indicative of a broader issue health professions (Tanton et al. 2015).
that affects both neurotypical and ASD young adults; the Young adults reported lower comfort, information gained,
under-reporting and decreased communication concerning and overall family communication about sexuality compared
experiences of sexual victimization (Gardella et al. 2015). to their parents. Additionally, both young adults and par-
Similar to Byers et al. (2013), the young adults and par- ents value communication about sex in general on the same
ents we surveyed reported that the young adults with ASD level. Previous research indicates that family communica-
were interested in romantic relationships, sexual behavior, tion about sex promotes positive sexual behavior and rela-
and had had sexual intercourse. Young adults also reported tionships (Warren and Warren 2015). Therefore, it may be
more consensual and non-consensual sexual behavior than important to focus on aligning comfort and information fac-
reported by their parents. This is probably related to young ets and boosting overall family communication (particularly
adults reporting less communication with their parent about for young adults), in order to increase the overall effective-
sexuality and sexual behavior. It is possible that the young ness of family communication patterns about sex for this
adults with ASD are engaging in both more consensual and target group.
non-consensual sexual activity than they are comfortable Overall young adults reported lower family communica-
talking about with their parents. tion about sex than parents and both young adults and par-
ents reported lower than strong (according to neurotypical
Communication About Sex, Education, samples) family communication about sex. Although parents
and Knowledge and young adults value communication about sex equally,
it is generally lower than what previous research has found
Although the dyads aligned on the young adult’s general with neurotypical families (Warren and Warren 2015). This
sexual knowledge, there were some problematic areas where finding may indicate that families with a young adult with
they did not agree, including sexual hygiene, understand- ASD do not communicate about sex as much as neurotypi-
ing how someone has a baby, and information on sexually cal families and/or communicate about sex differently than
transmitted diseases. Both groups reported that they could directly being asked about it on the FSCQ.
be assisted by sex education but there were discrepan-
cies in the method of sex education (i.e., parents reported
more education occurred in the schools while young adults Conclusions
reported more information from the internet and pictures/
videos). This finding partially aligns with Mehzabin and The results from this study indicate that although parents
Stokes (2011) who found that young adults with ASD were and young adults with ASD do align on some aspects of
more likely to report having learned about most sexuality understanding the sexual behaviors of the young adults,
topics by themselves or from peers rather than from their there are major discrepancies that may be improved through
parents. However, those with ASD may be less experienced better family communication about sex. This study and pre-
in exchanging communication with peers overall, which may vious research indicate that young adults with ASD desire
lead them to rely more on potentially problematic sources of or engage in sexual intimacy; however, learning to navigate
sex information (e.g. Internet and porn). the nuances of such relationships or situations is difficult
Consistent with what was reported in Holmes and Himle and may require a unique approach for this population.
(2014), both parents and young adults with ASD believe Increasing family communication and information about sex
that appropriate sex education would be helpful; however, is valued by both young adults and parents and may be an
many parents tended to discuss less sexuality and relation- effective means to increase sexual knowledge and decrease
ship issues but more in the context of specific topics such the instance of sexually inappropriate behavior and vic-
as hygiene and privacy. In the US, parents (primarily moth- timization as well as potentially alleviating the discrepancy
ers) communicate more often with their daughters than their between parent and young adult reports regarding young
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adult’s sexual behavior and knowledge in this population. over time in young adults with ASD. Additionally, more
Despite specific gender (Holmes et al. 2019), cultural (Tan- information about how sexuality develops across the lifespan
ton et al. 2015), and now online variables (Doornwaard et al. and how communication within the family about sex and
2014; Shapiro et al. 2017), a common finding across studies sexuality evolves over time could build off the results of
indicated insufficient sexual communication between parent this study and serve to put them in the context of a person’s
and child and a desire from the child for that communication lifespan.
to occur.
One of the methodological limitations of this study was the Funding No funding was granted for this research study.
online self-report format. While this allowed for a broader
collection of participants, the veracity of the data relies Compliance with Ethical Standards
on the participants’ accurate and honest reporting of their
experiences. To limit this risk, researchers recruited from Conflict of interest The authors declare that they have no conflict of
reputable autism advocacy organizations. Furthermore, the interest.
accuracy of matching young adult and parent pairs depended Ethical Approval All procedures performed in studies involving human
on the participants providing a code that was identical to participants were in accordance with the ethical standards of the insti-
their respective young adult/parent, but unique from other tutional and/or national research committee and with the 1964 Helsinki
survey respondents. However, the survey platform tracked declaration and its later amendments or comparable ethical standards.
This study was approved by the appropriate institutional review board.
IP addresses, which were solely used to match young adult
and parent pairs in the case of duplicate or missing four-digit Informed Consent Informed consent was obtained from all individual
codes. Additionally, the autism diagnosis for this study was participants included in the study.
confirmed using the AQ-10 and self-report, as we were not
able to request medical records due to the online and anony-
mous nature of the study. Furthermore, to our knowledge,
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