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Media Studies
When my sister and I were young, we never stopped imagining. We would constantly
play “pretend” outside without our neighborhood friends and make up stories about dragons,
animals, warriors and other various creatures inspired by the many books my sister and I read.
Television was the fastest and easiest form of communication with the outside world in my
house. We would watch the morning and evening news shows when they came on, and my sister
and I would watch our favorite kids shows on the public broadcast station. Arthur was our
favorite because he was a “normal kid,” and we were “normal kids” too. My first vague memory
of media is from September 1, 2001. I remember standing in the kitchen and trying to see what
my mom continued to cover up with her hands and her voice of “Don’t look Maggie! Don’t
look!” I could not help myself, and my curiosity kept me moving and leaning for a view of the
screen. I caught a long glimpse of the second plane crashing into the building. With that my mom
sat on the floor with me and held my head close to her. I did not understand what I had seen, but
My sister and I also grew up without cable. My friends are always shocked to hear that I
did not watch Spongebob, Hannah Montana, High School Musical (1, 2 or 3), Kim Possible,
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Teen Titans or any show that they loved so much and watched religiously. Time seemed to stop
whenever their shows came on. We would be outside playing a game of soccer in the backyard,
but their moms would each say, “[Insert cable kids show here] is on!” We would stop what we
were doing and run inside to catch the show. I did not really like them all that much because they
seemed strange to me. The kids in the shows were always boisterously screaming about
something they wanted, disobeying their parents, sneaking out to meet the opposite gender, and I
did not have much experience with any of those things. I did not get what “kissing” was like. I
could not comprehend disobeying my parents, the two greatest people in the world.
I became curious about nearly everything I did not understand, but I was more fascinated
with what did not exist in the real world. From Eragon to The Lord of the Rings to The Lightning
Thief, my sister and I read profusely through middle school. If there was a new fictional book,
we found it, read it, and dreamed about it. While the coolest kids in my grade were using flip
phones and slide keyboards for texting and calling, I was staring out the window imagining
myself fighting some battle against evil. My hip friends in school continued to show me their
new gadgets, and I continued to watch my classmates drift away from me. They did not want to
go outside and turn their trees into castles or their roads into rivers. I did not understand why
they treated me strangely. I knew people in my middle school who spread “digital rumors” about
girls who had hooked up with this guy who was dating this other girl who actually did not like
him at all. I did not want to be a part of it, but before I knew it a cell phone was in my hands.
My first cell phone was a blue sliding phone with a tiny keyboard. I used it to text my
parents, my sister, and my closest friends. I do not remember it being a big part of my life at all.
It was strictly a means of communicating with someone when I had to, not necessarily when I
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wanted to. A few of my friends had pink razor flip phones, which were all the rage. Internet on
my phone cost a lot of money, and my parents consistently told me to never try accessing it on
my cell phone. I did not realize that I was “missing out” on so much because I did not pay
attention to what everyone else was doing. I had my friends to sit with at lunch, teammates to
swim with, and a family to hang out with. I did not need to constantly be in touch with everyone.
I suddenly, without explanation, felt like I had to have one. I never had a 3G iPhone, a
3GS iPhone, an iPhone 4. In seventh and eighth grade, I felt like I was falling behind the
unspoken “pack” of cool kids. For a while I felt like an outsider, and people seemed to always be
taking selfies, posting pictures on Facebook, iMessaging each other with various pieces of gossip
that I would hear about when it had already become “old news.” I got my first iPhone the
summer of my freshman year. I barely used it. I was afraid of dropping it, breaking it, messing it
up, or doing anything to ruin my new and sacred possession. I felt like I was in the “in crowd”
just because I had an iPhone. I got an email and a Facebook that same year, and I quickly
updated everything as much as I could. I played on Webkinz, as the coolest high school freshman
did. I had a few close friends, but I never felt like I had a consistent friend group. They always
seems to make group messages without me and arrange hangouts without me.
My junior and senior year of high school, I used media almost all the time. I was
extremely involved with my high school’s newspaper, and I always had a network of people to
interview, contact, assign stories to, or just ask about news going in our school. I had the phone
number of many of the athletes in my class from the football team to the soccer team to the
synchronized swim team. Senior year, I hit a peak when I was texting six of the varsity hockey
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players all at the same time. It was nice at points because I felt like an outsider, but I also knew
so much about them. Everyone knew who I was, and I had the phone number of nearly every
elite person in my grade. I felt like I was finally not missing out. I posted on my Instagram and
Facebook as much as humanly possible. I even ran the Instagram for our newspaper; I would
post live updates from sporting events. I invested lots of energy in order to feel like I was a part
of them instead of excluded. One thing always seemed to keep me out of the coolest
Facebook and Twitter, people saw my life through the frame I presented it in. I was the cute girl
who was a Sunday-school teacher for four-year-olds and was close with her parents. My
acquaintances did not talk shit about people in front of me, and their language was not the honest
bullshit they used around their friend group. No one told me who they fucked on Friday or how
wasted they got on Saturday because they assumed that I would condemn them on Sunday.
Social media was the mask I hid behind, and it prevented people from being totally honest with
me. Some of my close friends now have confessed to me that they did not think I was
Media brought me up, but it has weighed me down. I desire so much to fit in with the
people around me that I sacrifice my time, energy, self-image, and sleep to the one thing that
primarily and find myself constantly compared myself to them. Their hair is always thicker and
prettier than mine. Their shape is always has more curves and more sexiness than mine. Their
clothes are always more fashionable than mine. They always have what I want, and I always
want what I do not have. I am never at peace with media at my fingertips, but I cannot bring
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myself to let go of my constant connection either. Media masks my problems, my friends’
problems, everyone’s problems. It is always a false representation of the reality of a person’s life,
the demons eating away their hearts with sins of jealousy, greed and vanity. Once a year I am
My dad and I drive to central Ontario to go on a fishing trip. They fly us out to a decent-
sized lake on a float plane where we are left behind. There is one cabin, four boats, and hundreds
of miles between us and civilization. Nature in its purest form has not been corrupted by social
media. Pictures have never done it justice, and they never will. Somehow, I always know this,
and I find comfort in experiencing nature the way that it is. This little piece of preserved northern
wilderness is my safe haven. There is no service at all, and there is no way for anyone to contact
us. I truly unplug, and I am happiest unplugged. The free air cleans out all the gunk from the
Media has always had a changing role in my life, and I will never be able to escape it
because I need to study it. I want to find a way to escape it, but still utilize the good things about
it. In-person, I give people an unmasked perspective of my life: a struggling, sad sinner. Social
media glorifies that which disobeyed God in the first place by giving a “perfect” perception of
man. A post with a thousand likes of a beautiful girl and her beautiful boyfriend on the beach was
my #goals for too long. My eyes need to look to the true, perfect Christ.
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