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DANGERS OF
UNFORGIVE
UNFORGIVENESS
GUILLERMO MALDONADO
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Inner Healing
Introduction ..................................................................... 9
CHAPTER I
What is the Root of Unforgiveness? .......................... 11
CHAPTER II
Offenses are Necessary ................................................ 29
CHAPTER III
What is Forgiveness? .................................................... 41
CHAPTER IV
The Offense and the Christian ................................... 53
CHAPTER V
The Dangers of Unforgiveness .................................. 79
CHAPTER VI
The Power of Grace to Forgive ................................. 91
CHAPTER VII
Forgiveness as a Lifestyle .......................................... 109
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encloses serious and treacherous results which I will
clearly describe in this book. As you read this book,
you will gain the information needed to make good
decisions each time you are offended or when you
offend someone else. Oh, Yes! The dangers mention-
ed in this book are not just for those who choose not
to forgive; they are also for those who offend and
lack the courage to ask to be forgiven in order to heal
the heart of those they have offended.
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CHAPTER I
WHAT IS
THE ROOT
ROOT OF
UNFORGIVENESS?
One of the most widely used weapons of our worst
enemy is: unforgiveness. Every act of unforgiveness
begins with an offense. As such, each offense be-
comes a seed planted in one’s heart that grows roots
of bitterness until it becomes a tree of resentment
and reproach. The following diagram is a representa-
tion as to how an offense can affect us if it is not
properly dealt with:
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Thoughts of vengeance
Heartfelt pain
Physiological symptoms
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CHAPTER II
OFFENSES ARE
NECESSARY
As with everything else in the Kingdom of God, its
laws usually contradict the laws of man. For
instance, to be the greatest, one must be the servant
of all; to be close to the Father we must learn to love
our enemies; to live the life of Christ, we must die to
the flesh. Offenses work the same way. To mature
and become useful in the Kingdom, it is necesary for
us to deal with offenses. Instead of seeking revenge,
we must love our offender, be merciful, forgive, and
pray for him. We must do what is right instead of
seeking to alleviate the pain by doing something bad.
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CHAPTER III
WHAT IS
FORGIVENESS?
Before deciding to forgive, many people question
what it means, what benefits they stand to gain, and
what consequences they can expect to experience if
they choose not to forgive. With this in mind, let us
begin by defining the word forgiveness.
Forgiveness is not…
What is forgiveness?
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Unforgiveness
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WHAT IS FORGIVENESS?
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WHAT IS FORGIVENESS?
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have you had? Over 50,000 (and you know that three
sins per day is a very low number). If you were called
to court to answer for your debt of 1,000 traffic
tickets, what do you suppose the judge would say to
you? Your sentence would probably include jail time!
Yet, Jesus forgave an infinite amount of our sins. Let
us not do the same as what the servant who was
forgiven his debt did.
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WHAT IS FORGIVENESS?
Every iniquity
Eternal damnation
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What is torture?
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CHAPTER IV
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THE OFFENSE AND THE CHRISTIAN
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THE OFFENSE AND THE CHRISTIAN
1. It is necesary to be humble.
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“19 For there must also be factions among you, that those
who are approved may be recognized among you.”
1 Corinthians 11:9
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Let us review:
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“8If your hand or foot causes you to sin, cut it off and
cast it from you. It is better for you to enter into life
lame or maimed, rather than having two hands or two
feet, to be cast into the everlasting fire.”
Matthew 18:8
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Jesus gave His life for the lost; hence, they are
important to Him. He basically said we should
not be the obstacles that cause anyone to fall
again; instead, we should be there to help them.
In the following verses, He clarifies the point He
is trying to make:
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“5But he shook off the creature into the fire and suffered
no harm.” Acts 28:5
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CHAPTER V
THE DANGERS OF
UNFORGIVENESS
Unforgiveness imposes serious dangers to those who
choose not to rid themselves of bitterness and the
desire for vengeance. We learned of a few that are
mentioned in Matthew 18 in the previous chapter. Let
us now learn of other dangers:
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Marriage is a farce.
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CHAPTER VI
THE POWER OF
GRACE TO
FORGIVE
Forgiveness is no easy task when the pain seeps
through a deep wound or when the offender is
someone close to our hearts. Some offenses are easy
to forgive, but others require a lot more from us than
we can deliver. If the offense is more than we can
bear, we need God’s grace and supernatural power to
forgive. This chapter will show us how His power
works and what we have to do to activate it and gain
access. Jesus died on the cross to give us peace. He
paved the way for us to live in harmony with Him,
ourselves, and others. However, to make this posible,
we need the power of His grace. Grace and peace are
inseparable; they work hand-in-hand.
What is peace?
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What is grace?
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“28Let him who stole steal no longer, but rather let him
labor, working with his hands what is good, that he
may have something to give him who has need.”
Ephesians 4:28
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1.) Build
2.) Grant others grace
3.) Be quiet
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“30I will no longer talk much with you, for the ruler of
this world is coming, and he has nothing in Me.”
John 14:30
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“53But they did not receive Him, because His face was
set for the journey to Jerusalem. 54And when His
disciples James and John saw this, they said, 'Lord, do
You want us to command fire to come down from
heaven and consume them, just as Elijah did?'”
Luke 9:53, 54
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CHAPTER VII
FORGIVENESS AS
A LIFESTYLE
The product of forgiving seventy times seven is 490
times per day, per person. I don’t believe anyone is
able to forgive that many times each day. Truly, what
Jesus is saying in the following verses is that if we
keep record of how many times we forgive someone,
then we have not truly forgiven them. Also, with this
multiplication He is teaching us that forgiveness
should be a lifestyle.
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TESTIMONIES
Let’s get acquainted with a few people who were
delivered from unforgiveness by intercessors and
deliverance ministers in our church. Their names
have been omitted to protect their privacy.
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having wiped out the handwriting of requirements
that was against us, which was contrary to us. And
He has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the
cross.” Colossians 2:13, 14
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TESTIMONIES
“15See, I have set before you today life and good, death
and evil; 19I call heaven and earth as witnesses today
against you, that I have set before you life and death,
blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you
and your descendants may live.”
Deuteronomy 30:15, 19
Forgiveness is given
by grace not merit.
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BIBLIOGRA PHY
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