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7 Applicability • Women are making great strides in business, politics, economics, sports, and more.
Studies show that more senior women at a company means more profit.
6 Innovation
8 Style • Yet many women, regardless of their level of success, lack confidence.
• Women often underestimate their abilities and undermine themselves by attributing
their success to luck or fate rather than to their own hard work and perseverance.
Focus • Confidence is often more important than competence, especially in the workplace.
• Women hesitate to negotiate for better salaries and, when they do, they ask for less
Leadership & Management money than men request.
Strategy
Sales & Marketing
• Confidence is partly genetic; environment also plays a role.
Finance • Society encourages boys to take risks and explore, and encourages girls to be quiet and
Human Resources well behaved.
IT, Production & Logistics
• Build children’s confidence by encouraging them to take risks in small steps.
Career & Self-Development
Small Business • Men and women have slightly different wiring. Women are prone to ruminate.
Economics & Politics
Industries
• To build self-confidence, “Think less. Take action. Be authentic.”
Global Business
Concepts & Trends
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Relevance
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What You Will Learn
In this summary, you will learn:r1) Why women lack confidence; 2) How women can build self-confidence;
and 3) What methods you can use to help your children, especially your daughters, build confidence.
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Review
Katty Kay and Claire Shipman, journalists and authors of Womenomics, interviewed successful women in a range of
fields including sports, politics and business – and discovered that many, even the most successful, lack confidence.
The authors investigate whether men really have more confidence than women. They find that confidence trumps
competence at work. For example, women often lack the confidence to voice their opinions, even though such
reticence hurts their chances for promotion. Women prove especially reluctant to negotiate for better salaries and often
ask for less money than men request. After interviewing geneticists for insight, the authors report that confidence has
a strong genetic component, though environment also matters. While much of their treatise is discouraging, it does
offer hope. With effort, you can become more confident. Boost your confidence by speaking up and taking strategic
steps; do not overthink your decisions. getAbstract recommends the authors’ insights and research to women – and
men – who struggle with a lack of confidence, and to parents who want to instill confidence in their children.
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Summary
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Social Confidence
Despite women’s great societal strides, their self-doubt persists. Women believe that hard
work and effort pay off, even though that isn’t always the case. Many women have seen
less-competent men receive promotions and higher earnings. Confidence seems to trump
getabstract competence; research found that “success correlates more closely with confidence than it
“The Economist...called does with competence.”
female economic
empowerment the most
profound social change In some arenas, like basketball, you can’t fake confidence. Monique Currie and Crystal
of our times.”
getabstract Langhorne, forwards for the WNBA’s Washington Mystics, are commanding on the court.
But Currie admits to struggling with a lack of confidence. As she says, “You have to believe
in what you can do and you have to believe in your ability.” Langhorne feels each loss and
hates to let her fans down, but adds, “With guys, if they had a bad game, they’re thinking,
‘I had a bad game.’ They shrug off the loss more quickly.”
The Mystics brought in coach Mike Thibault to invigorate the team. Having coached both
men and women, Thibault has a unique perspective. He finds that “the propensity to dwell
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“Women earn on
average 77 cents for often will “directly affect performance and confidence on the court.”
every dollar earned by
a man. Four percent of
CEOs in the Fortune
The military demands confidence. Consider Officer Michaela Bilotta, one of 14 classmates
500 are women. Twenty at the US Naval Academy in Annapolis, Maryland, who served on the Explosive Ordnance
of the 100 United States Disposal (EOD) team. These specialists deactivate chemical, biological and nuclear
senators are women
and...that is celebrated weapons in hot spots around the world. Yet when researchers lauded Bilotta, she demurred
as a record high.” as if she somehow hadn’t earned her position, despite knowing that she did.
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United States Secretary of Labor Elaine Chao, who served under President George W. Bush,
emigrated from Taiwan to the US at age eight. While confident, she says, “My fear was that
Confidence also can explain why some employees are promoted more quickly. In
Anderson’s study, lack of competence didn’t seem to matter. His most-confident students
didn’t alienate their classmates even when they made mistakes because they genuinely
believed in themselves.
getabstract Children learn more from seeing your example than from being told. Don’t fall into the
“What it means to be
confident – and what trap of rewarding “good girl” behavior. Girls quickly pick up subtle clues that being quiet
it does for us – that’s and neat wins your approval. This can lead to low self-confidence and an overreliance
the same for women as
it is for men. Doing, on external approval. High-achieving girls can be prone to perfectionism. To diminish
working, deciding and perfectionism, offer moderate, specific praise. Don’t hide from your mistakes; laugh at them
mastering are gender
neutral.”
and show them to your daughters.
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Boosting Your Confidence
Boost your confidence by failing fast, stepping out of your comfort zone, not overthinking
and by reframing negative thoughts. Failing fast, a business strategy that’s popular in
technology circles, applies to everyday life. Instead of trying to perfect a single product,
put a bunch of products out there to see what consumers buy, and trash the rest. Take action
even if it means opening yourself up to failure. Overanalyzing every word, sound or gesture
won’t change a situation’s outcome. Realize that most people focus on their own drama and
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“Even if your daughter
likes the pink Legos or
lacy ballerina dress, Avoid “negative automatic thoughts,” such as, “That dress was too expensive. Why did I
there’s no reason you
can’t steer her toward waste my money?” or “I’ll never finish this project; I knew I wasn’t up to it.” Write down
math and science at the your automatic negatives and reframe them in a neutral or positive way. Reframing will be
same time.”
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awkward at first, but practice until it becomes a habit.
Build confidence by meditating, being grateful, breaking larger tasks down into smaller
ones, getting more sleep, exercising and socializing. At work, practice taking “power
positions,” like sitting up straight, nodding your head, and taking a seat at the table rather
than in the corner of the room. Finally, be yourself. Be authentic.
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About the Authors
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Katty Kay is BBC World News America’s Washington, DC, anchor and contributes to NBC’s Meet the Press. Claire
Shipman covers international affairs and women’s issues for ABC News and Good Morning America. They wrote
Womenomics: Work Less, Achieve More, Live Better.