Introduction

Welcome to The Texting Blueprint Portion of Dating Solutions In this done for
you solution, this is where you will find your essential “Text Game” theory,
along with strategies on how to use texts properly.

There will not be a whole heap of back story or unnecessary waffle. I’m going
to just give you the meat, the real juicy stuff of what you need to do. If in any
of the areas, you wish to find more examples of texts to send, refer to the Text
Message Library, which can be found in the Dating Solutions Vault.

Now remember, texting should not be used as a replacement for real human
interaction. This is primarily a stop gap to getting you to see her quickly. All
these strategies are designed for the initial and early stages of the relationship.

Once you are seeing her regularly, drop the “Text Game”, and just spend time
with her in person. Additionally, the older she is, the quicker you want to get
away from texting and move into real contact. Women in their mid-late 20s
and younger are more receptive to texting, so remember to adjust your
strategy accordingly.

Finally, don’t be a robot. Inject your own personality and style into this, and
remember to have fun.

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 The 3 Laws Of Texting
So let’s start with the basic idea of why you are texting in the first place.

There are many schools of thought proposed by dating coaches and

relationship experts when it comes to sending texts. My approach is simple.
Texting and calling should be an extension of your basic core philosophy, and
should not be a substitution for real genuine human connection.

As I outline in The King’s Game, my philosophy is that YOU are the King. You
are the legend in your story and when you come from this basic mindset of
being a high value man, you will attract high value, beautiful women.

Not only will you attract these women, but also if you give them the
opportunity they will actually chase you. YOU are the selector and it is your
job to meet women, then evaluate whether or not they meet your standards to
enter into and enjoy your life with you where you treat her with love, respect
and as another high value person should be treated.

This means that you will not find the standard bullshit ideas on texting that
you may find somewhere else. You are not her entertainment; you are not
some court jester providing witty banter in 140 characters to show how
charming you are. No, leave that to the jokers out there who will chase
women, while all the hot girls chase you.

To achieve that, you must understand that until you have started sleeping with
a girl regularly, or you are in significant relationship, any time you engage a
woman in a text interaction, you must ensure that the interactions fulfills one
of the 3 Laws Of Texting:

LAW 1 – Your Texts Should Be Leading Towards Her Meet You…

LAW 2 – Your Texts Should Be Making Her Think About Having Sex With
You…

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LAW 3 – Your Texts Should Work To Maintain The Relationship At A Time
When You Are Unable To See Her…

Now, very few texts will fulfill all 3 laws at one time, however if your text does
not fulfill any of these laws it is a useless text and a waste of her time and
more importantly yours.

There will be an element of your own personality in the texts, but that is
secondary and it must be in conjunction with the above laws. Do not be funny
or try to make her laugh for the sake of doing so. That’s all bullshit behavior
that every other guy she’s talking to is doing as well. Anytime you are making
a joke, or showing your personality, it is only to get her attention, so that you
can transition to setting up a meeting, making her think about you sexually or
maintaining the relationship until you can see her again.

You have to stand out from the crowd, by being on your own path and not
interested in entertaining her through the phone.

Show your personality when you meet her. If you want to make her laugh, do
it in front of her. If you want to build rapport, do that on a date. If you want to
show value, then let her see you in your environment and get a glimpse of
your life.

There’s a time and place for all of this stuff, but texting is not one of them.
Your objective is to evaluate whether she is someone that you want in your
life, and then get into a significant relationship with her as soon as possible.

So, remember these laws and anytime you want to write something funny or
witty to a girl, stop and think:

Is this text arranging a meeting?

Is this text going to make her think about having sex with me?

Is this text keeping the relationship ticking over until I see her again?

If you’re text doesn’t answer 1 or more of these questions, put your phone
back in your pocket and do not text her. Pay attention to these 3 main laws

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and you will see much more success in your dating attempts.

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 Fuses
You have to think of your interaction with women like a fuse. There are short
fuses, medium fuses and long fuses.

The shorter the fuse is, then the more attraction rapport and investment that
the girl is going to feel for you. This will translate into much less work needed
on your part to get her out on a date or to have sex with her. The longer the
fuse, the less attraction, rapport and investment she has into you and the more
work you will need to do to get her out, and the fewer mistakes you can
realistically make.

Not all fuses are static. A woman who is a short fuse can become a medium
and then a long fuse if you don’t pay attention to meeting her as soon as
possible. Some women who are long fuses can actually become shorter fuses
simply by one encounter, phone call, text message or even from talking to
someone in your social circle.

The general plan is to keep the fuses as short as possible. Once the fuse gets
past medium you will likely have to more time and investment into getting her
back down to a short fuse. This means you run the risk of chasing so once a
fuse gets past medium, leave her alone and concentrate on a different girl.

Remember, always have abundance mentality. There are plenty of fish in the
sea so don’t spend your time and energy trying to burn a girl’s fuse down. I’ll
give you some texts you can send to “ping” a long fuse and possibly get her
thinking about you again, but these are all worst case scenario type stuff.

Concentrate on the short fuses, getting them to meet you asap, and getting into
a significant relationship as soon as possible.

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 Getting The Number
First rule of getting a girls phone number…

NEVER ask her for her number.

Seriously, NEVER do it. Here’s the thing, I want you to be a King, and a King
never chases a woman for any reason. Women are supposed to chase you but
too often in society we rob women of the opportunity to chase us.

One of the ways we do this is by asking her for her number. The minute you
do that, you’re in chase mode and she becomes the selector. You have better
things to do than to put your valuable time and effort into a woman you’ve
just met, so don’t mess that up by asking for her phone number.

Instead, always offer her your phone number.

Be social, have a conversation, talk about your plans for that evening, that
weekend etc and then simply say to her:

“You know what, I’m going to check out that bar later on tonight. Here take my
number and shoot me a text if you guys want to tag along.”

This is how you give a girl your number. It’s a very chilled and relaxed vibe
you’re giving off as if it doesn’t matter to you whether she says yes or no. The
truth is, it doesn’t. You don’t care because you have options and your life will
be amazing whether she decided to join it or not.

This is the absolute best way to exchange details with a girl, remember these
words:

“Take my number. Shoot me a text sometime…”

And you will have all of the women you want chasing after you. When a
woman texts you first, that’s demonstrative of a very short fuse. The only thing
better would be if she just showed up to your house in a jacket and nothing

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underneath, but that’s a strategy for another program.

Once she texts you first, getting her out on a date is pretty easy from that point,
but when you’re first starting out I understand that it may take a while before
you become totally comfortable no longer asking girls for their number.

The only other close that would be acceptable in order to keep you as the
selector would be an exchange of numbers where you say something along the
lines of

“You seem cool, we should stay in touch. Let’s exchange numbers.”

Then you exchange, and ideally get her to call or text you on the spot right
there. But you should be aiming to get to a point where you do not ask for her
number anymore. You simply offer yours, and then leave it at that.

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 First Contact
If you followed my instructions from the first part about getting her phone
number, the first text should be a reply to her texting you for the first time.
When a woman texts you for the first time after you gave her your number,
you know it’s on.

A woman will never text a guy first if she’s not interested, so when this
happens, you have to strike while the iron is hot. Any woman who texts you
first is 100% a short fuse, so get her out as soon as possible.

This leads us to my infamous 9 word text message. I want you to really take
this in and understand that if you believe the above, really believe it and
internalize it, you’re sex life will dramatically change.

Once you start giving your number to women first, when they message you
first, they want you. No if’s, no buts, no maybes.

A woman that texts you first absolutely 100% wants you and if you reply to her
with the following 9 word text, you are going to have a LOT of very quick, no-
effort hook ups with girls who are dying to be with you.

Here it is. Whatever she texts you first, somewhere in your reply has to be:

“So I guess you want to get together sometime?”

This is the 9 word text. It can be modified to something like:

“So looks like you want to see me ;)”

“You’ve been thinking about me? Great, when are you taking me out?”

But the original option will get you the most success. I can’t stress enough how
important this is. If you’ve done everything right up to this point and you have
the seduction parachute working for you (see The King’s Game Signature
System), then this will work for you 100% of the time.

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The hottest girl I ever hooked up with, was also one of the quickest. She was a
cocktail waitress for Haze nightclub in Las Vegas. I gave her my number
outside as she was having a smoke. She messaged me later that night, I used
the 9 word text, and she was in my hotel room moments later.

You can add some personality and you should be playful, but remember that
the objective is to get her out as soon as possible.

If you exchanged phone numbers then you want to make contact immediately.
Don’t leave it a few days like some people say, you want to re-initiate your first
contact while she has you fresh in her mind.

If you met at night in a bar or a club…

“On our way to the after-party but was fun teaching you some dance moves
tonight. Shoot me a text sometime. Greg.”

“Cool meeting you tonight, just getting some food with the girls. Get home safe.”

“Lovely to meet you last night, shame we didn’t get a chance to talk longer.
Here’s my FB/Instagram. Add me but don’t spend too long perving on my pics ”

“On my way home. LA traffic sucks, you don’t have a helicopter do you?”

The point of the first text is to just re-initiate contact. Keep the texts light, non-
needy and playful. If you met at night, then she might still be out so a it’s good
chance to have her meet you at your place or hers, or an after party.

Let’s say you met during the day. Your first text should be soon after you’ve
left each other:

“To the lady in the blue dress very cool meeting you…shoot me a text later
tonight and I’ll tell you about that party we spoke about.”

“Thanks for the coffee darlin…next time we mix it with patron ;)”

I’ll talk more about this in the next section, but when you meet during the day,
it’s an opportunity invite her to something you are doing that night with your
friends. Remember, one of your major objectives is to get her to see you again

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 Law 1 - Getting Her To Meet You
The majority of your texts will be based around getting her to come out and
meet you. This is your primary objective for using text; you want to get her out
as soon as possible so you can see what type of person she is and let her get to
know you for who you really are.

Your personality will be best displayed in person. As a society, we don’t spend

enough time actually interacting with each other in person anymore; so don’t
hide behind your iPhone screen.

Until she’s met you out a couple of times socially first, don’t even bother trying
to text her to meet you 1on1. I go through strategies for getting her on a date in
The Guide To The Perfect Date, but for now understand that you’re not texting
her to arrange a date. A date should only ever be arranged in person, unless
you are already sleeping with her.

Commit to getting her out again as soon as possible. If she’s not keen or doesn’t
want to meet up, move on. Just remember the cardinal rule. NEVER Chase.

She Initiates Contact

Any time she texts you first, that’s obviously a very short fuse situation, so go
for the meetup as soon as possible. Here’s an exchange that I had with a girl
who I had met at a nightclub the night before.

Ashley: "Hey Greg, it's Ashley from last night. How was the night?"

Greg: "I'm sure if I could remember it I'd say it was a lot of fun ;)…remind me
who you are? Forgive me I'm shitty with names."

Ashley: "I was the one in the white dress who was singing in the car and I'm also
the one who's ass you grabbed. lol"

Greg: "Haha…I reserve my ass grabbing only for the best :p”

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Ashley: "I feel super special :)”

Greg: "Haha good. So I guess you want to get together sometime…?"

Ashley: "Oh do I Greg?"

Greg: "Yeah :p”

Ashley: "Where do you live?"

Greg: "Opposite xxxxxxxx. You know it?”

Ashley: "Yes sir."

Greg: "Good :). Come over."

Ashley: "Oh yeah sure I'm on my way. What's my incentive?'

Greg: "Tomorrow morning you'll think to yourself, coming over was by far the
best decision you made all weekend ;)”

Ashley: "ha ha ha. I'm sure that would happen.

Ashley: "You still have energy after your wild evening?"

Greg: "Lot's of it darlin ;)…Text me your address and I'll call a cab to pick you
up."

Ashley: "Ha. That sounds amazing and I'd love to but I have to be up early in the
morning. Can we rain check that?"

Greg: "So do I…and we both know it will be more than worth it. Cab get you in
30mins?”

Ashley: "Ok…but not right now"

Ashley: "My address is xxxxxxxx…how long will the cab take?"

Greg: "About 20mins. I'll see you soon."

You see in this exchange, I didn’t try and be too funny, I simply attempted to
get her out as soon as possible. I wasn’t even really asking her, I just assumed

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that she wanted to see me or why else would she text?

That’s the beauty of giving her your number and having her contact you. It
signals that she wants you immediately, and you can call her out for that. If
she doesn’t get in touch with you, don’t sweat it. There will be plenty more
women for you to meet.

You Initiate Contact

If you’re going to initiate the texting, then make sure you have something
social planned that day. You want it to seem like you’re being spontaneous and
you just thought of inviting her along.

“Me and the girls are checking out the bungalow in a few hours. SUNDAY
FUNDAY! Come join us if you’re free.”

Always go out with your social circle. It’s by far the most effective way of
getting beautiful high quality women. This way you always are the guy who’s
fun and got things going on.

I love using the phrase “me and the girls”, it shows pre-selection which is
extremely attractive to women.

“Come join us if you’re free”, is a great way to end the text. You’re not really
asking. You’re saying to her, I’m doing this fun thing, and if you come along
you’ll have fun as well.

More examples:

“Hey trouble. What mischief are you causing tonight?”

“Hey [nickname] I need to revamp my wardrobe and could use a female opinion.
Come join me on my shopping adventure tomorrow…you can help carry the bags
;)”

*Giving girls nicknames is an important piece of the puzzle when it comes to

creating attraction. Go look at the What To Say book in Dating Solutions for
exactly what to say to build attraction with a girl.

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Messages like this will always work better than the standard “hey, do you
want to go out for a drink?”

Never ask her to come out, suggest that she should. You’re saying it in such a
way that it just makes sense. “You should join me” works much better than “do
you want to come with me?” because it’s a statement. Statements are always
better than questions.

These are all short fuse type texts. When the fuse is longer, you’ll have to do a
little bit more in the text to get her out. You can add some more personality,
teasing and banter into your texts, or you can just move onto a girl who has a
short fuse.

Here is the breakdown of an exchange that I had with a famous recording

artist that I met through a friend. As with most musicians, actresses, models
etc these women will often be busy and your fuses are usually going to be
medium. This is due to their ridiculous schedules, making it harder to get them
to meet you quickly. I’ve included the times of the texts so you can get an idea
of how much time you should leave between each text.

11:47

Greg: “OMG…I just found out what "killing kittens" actually means!”

In the text, I don't ask her any questions, but I'm hoping the statement will
prompt a response, and by its sexual nature I can keep things sexual. In this
objective, I’m trying to burn the fuse down and get her thinking about me
sexually.

12:02

Miss F: “And?”

12:06

Greg: “The story goes, every time a woman gets herself off God kills a kitten! U
laughed when I told u the sex club was called "Killing Kittens", I thought u
knew!”

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This brings up some call back humor from a previous conversation when we
had met earlier.

Always do this at the early stages of interacting with her. You have to take her
emotional state back to a time when the both of you were having fun and the
arousal was higher. If you do this for the first few times you call or text, what
happens is when she see's your name flashing or a text from you, she instantly
is happy, or goes back into the previous fun state.

I'm trying to get the conversation sexual as quickly as possible. I know she's
likely to reply and regardless of her response my next text will be an
escalation of this theme.

12:06

Miss F: “O lol! I once saw that saying on a packet of mints.”

12:11

Greg: “Smile if you killed any kittens today...”

12:11

Miss F: “:-(“

So she's being playful, but not really taking biting or giving me anything to go
with. I'm trying to bait her into a sexual conversation with me. She's replying
very quickly to my texts, so I calibrate knowing that I need to stick to my
objective, but in a non-needy way.

12:14

Greg: “Liar!...I bet you smiled. What are u doing?”

This is an example of a useless text. As soon as I sent it, I knew it was shit. This
text is fluff talk and didn’t adhere to any of the objectives.

It sounds like I'm reaching. I should have dropped the 2nd sentence and gone
with something about what I was doing. As a result, I don't get a text back, so I
need to move forward.

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Occasionally you might have to text a girl twice before getting a response. It’s
not ideal, but sometimes with longer fuses a little bit extra work may be
needed. As long as you stay away from chase mode, you will be ok.

12:27

Greg: “Hey trouble, do you have internet where you are?”

This text is to get her back to response. It's intriguing as by asking this I'm
implying that I'm going to probably send her something, or show her
something online.

12:28

Miss F: “Will in half an hour.”

Still not really getting much from her. All her texts have been one sentence
long. However, if you look at the times, she is still replying pretty quickly.
When women do this, they're usually enjoying the attention, but don't want to
show they're too eager. Or they may just be pre-occupied with something else.
Either way, you have to look at the bigger picture.

If a girl takes a long time responding to your messages and she only responds
with one sentence answers, then forget about her and move on.

With regard to Miss F, if she left texting too long she runs the risk of me not
replying and thus her entertainment is gone. It's an indication of interest
however; I need to change the frame very quickly if I don’t want to fall into the
standard chase mode that most guys fall into.

12:33

Greg: “Add me on msn, that way u can keep me entertained while I'm working…
Some1 played practical joke and put black dye on all the doors in the office this
morning...I can tell its going to be one of those days.”

I needed to get out of the dancing monkey mode, so I reframed that SHE needs
to entertain me. I then threw in a reason as to why I'm texting her...to avoid a
strange day, and keep me entertained. Without a root, it conveys too much

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interest.

12:35

Miss F: “Haha.I dnt use msn lol change of plan.stayin in bed.jus lost all balance n
went straight down the stairs!”

Finally we hit the tipping point. Some investment. Now, the whole time you
want to be looking for something you can tease her for. This is my first
opportunity to amplify attraction. Additionally anything she says that can be
misinterpreted as sexual or has sexual connotations; YOU MUST run with it. In
this case she mentions her bed.

12:46

Greg: “You plonker...for not having msn and for falling down the stairs. I'm over
work, I'm leaving can't be arsed to do anymore. Is ur bed warm?”

I know she's at home and plans on staying in bed, so having flexible work
hours I decide to say I'm leaving work, which gives me the opportunity to be
free at the same time as her; like it just happened.

If I let her think I left work for her, I'm showing low value, which is a death
sentence when it comes to getting the girl. Also with super flaky types like
musicians, models etc you need to seize any opportunity that comes up if you
want a good chance of seeing them.

12:47

Miss F: “Im on sofa watchin family guy! I wish I had a flatmate! I need someone
to go get me some cigarettes and cook me food!!!!”

12:52

Greg: “Great, you keep the sofa and I'll take your bed, I need some RnR after my
weekend. I'll trade u food and ciggies for a fluffed up pillow and duvet.”

You only pay attention to the bits she gives you that you can escalate with or
misinterpret to your own means. I stay with the bed thread, and I agree to give

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her what she wants, but she has to jump through my hoop first.

I’m slowly starting to change the vibe to where she’s the one trying to win me
over or do things for me. If she agrees to this, I know I've got an invite to her
house, which from the outset was my number 1 objective. The next step is to
up the sexual ante, so that when I meet her it’s easier for us to get physical.

You have to be smooth with this using text. It's like a playful game. I'm saying I
want to rest in her bed, but I mean I want to get in your bed so I can do you
something naughty to her. Women are all about reading between the lines so
use ambiguity as much as possible in your texts. More about getting sexual in
the next section.

12:53

Miss F: “I'll give you 4pillows!”

12:56

Greg: “Deal! I'll bring u some ciggies and some lunch in exchange for 4 pillows
and ur bed. Now no matter how cosy or inviting the bed looks, ur not allowed in
u hear me? I'm not that kind of guy.”

Not as sexual, as I would’ve liked to be, but its fine. She’s not really giving me
too much investment, so I'm calibrating to what she's giving me. I have an
excuse to get in her bed and by re-framing her as the sexual aggressor I have
everything I need already.

12:58

Miss F: “Ok tempted as I am...I'll keep my whip in the wardrobe.”

Bingo…she’s bought on the sexual thread, even if it’s just a little bit, no when I
see her which will be in an hour or so, I’ve already gotten her thinking about
sex with me even if she wasn’t already. As you can see in that exchange,
everything had a purpose. I was trying to meet her and I was trying to get her
thinking about me sexually.

Another good time to try and get a girl out is when you are just leaving to go to

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a social event, or you are already there. Here are some examples:

“Just on my way to meet the gang…come out and play!”

“This night is hilarious! Get your ass over here NOW.”

“Patron 4. Greg 0. I’m losing this battle with Tequila. I’m at [bar name], I need
your help.”

“Listen [nickname]. I don’t know what kind of trouble you’re causing right now,
but it needs to be over here.”

Send her a crazy picture of you and your friends having fun with the caption:

“What’s missing from this picture?”

When she replies, say:

“No…YOU dummy. Get your sexy ass over here on the double.”

Remember, getting her to meet you is your number 1 objective. It drives me

nuts when I see guys investing so much time messaging a girl that they haven’t
even met yet. You have no idea who she is or whether or not she would be a
good fit in your life or not.

So pay attention to getting her out especially to a social event of some sort,
once there you can then begin the process of actually getting to know each
other.

Grabbing Her Attention

Sometimes, you may not have anything social planned that day, and there’s
not really any effective reason for you to text her out of the blue.

When this is the case, you need to grab her attention with a “high value, non-
needy” type of text. I’ve given you a list of dozens of these in the Library
inside the Dating Solutions Vault.

You can use any one of those texts or something similar to grab her attention
quickly, before you transition into your real objective, which is to get her to

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meet you.

If you look back at the Miss F exchange I showed you, I used “OMG, I just
found out what Killing Kittens Means.” That is an attention grabber, and it’s
also a way for me to transition into something sexual if possible.

Have a play around with the attention grabbers. Just remember that although
they seem playful, fun, witty and entertaining, that is not the focus of your
messages. Drop one to her to get her attention, once she replies, then
transition into your real objective whish is setting up the meeting.

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 Law 2 - Getting Sexual
Getting sexual over text should be reserved for girls who have very short
fuses. Every now and again, you can use sexual type texts to burn a fuse down
from medium to short, but ideally you want to leave the window between
sexual texts and hookup as small as possible.

You have bear in mind that you’re playing with fire here. Done correctly and
you will build up massive tension and she will come over and rip your clothes
off. Done poorly and you’ll come across as a creep, pervert or horny sexless
teenager.

“Sexting”, should be avoided. Save that for women you are already sleeping
with. As a rule of thumb, stay well clear of overtly X-rated language. Be playful
and mischievous with the texts, making lots of sexual innuendos and
misinterpretations.

Here are some examples:

“I just woke up so horny that I had to hump my pillow imagining it was you. I
hope you feel thoroughly used ;).”

“For some reason, I can’t get your legs out of my head…you better be wearing
heels tonight or we’re getting a divorce.”

“You’re not a bad kisser…B+”

“I’ve decided…this isn’t going to work out. It will be just fights and make up sex
all the time…”

If she seems like she’s the innocent type…

“It’s a shame you’re so innocent, I don’t want to be the first one to corrupt you…”

If she seems like she’s a naughty one…

“I can tell you’re fucking trouble…”

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“You make me think bad things…stop it.”

This is one I’ve used often to try and see how bi-sexual she is. Works really
well to begin seeding a threesome.

“I just met this super hot chick in Tao. You randomly came up in convo, I showed
her a picture of you and she suggested something my innocent ears shouldn’t
have heard. You need to get here now!!!”

Here’s a text exchange of how I used a technique called dual threading to

quickly get sexual with a girl who had taken my number but hadn’t got in
touch for weeks. When she messaged me she didn’t even use my real name,
but a nickname that I usually give girls when I’m dicking about or drunk.

Also, apologies if her texts may be difficult to follow. The lady here isn’t a
native English speaker hence some of the odd language used.

Katya: “Hey [nickname] it’s Katya. !x.how r u?u helped me out long time ago
putting me and my girls on a guestlist. not sure if u remember,we even exchange
Facebook .we wd like to go 4a girls nite out 2mrw, wd u have anything
interesting/compl. 4us?its 4 or 5of us?x.”

Greg: “Interesting...I party a lot, but I don't actually work in clubs, but the
owners, promoters etc do me favours but its more of a personal thing. Did we
ever meet?”

She obviously remembers me to some extent, but I have absolutely no idea

who she is at this point.

The point of my early messages is to establish that I am a man of high value

and that I am the selector. I ask if we've met, so I can judge the level of
interaction and generally what our relationship is.

Katya: “So u dnt remember? .thats nt gd. i thought we met but we never actually
have.i got ur number from a guy who interrupted me once when i was getting to
a club ofering his guestlist...long story.does it ring a bell?:-So uve never dealt wth
guestlist and club promoting?”

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She basically just made this up. She's bothered by the fact that I don't
remember her so is trying to come up with some random reason as to why she
would have my number.

The rest of text is unimportant. However, here's where the skill is involved. I
have no real rapport with this girl. I need to keep the boring logical part of
texts while at the same time escalating sexually.

I only give my number out to girls I’m physically attracted to and because I
honestly couldn’t remember her I wanted to push the envelope a bit.

I use the dual thread technique where I say both sexual and normal things at
the same time.

This is a fail safe. If she's into me, she'll respond to the escalation. If she's not
then she'll only respond to logical. If I only used logical she'd probably get
bored with fluff talk.

If I only escalate, then she may decide to play girl games and not reply etc. You
run the dual themed texts till you have solid attraction and investment, then u
just drop the logical threads and keep escalating. It will become clear in a bit.

Greg: “Haha, random people giving out my no. K**** is a Russian name I think,
& 1of my favourite girlfriends was Russian, so Id b happy 2help.How many of u
again?”

I put some bait out there about my favorite Russian girlfriend (pre-selection),
but at the same time I occupy logic by referring to what she wanted in the first
place. This way she has to reply to my text and chances are she'll address the
escalation as well.

Katya: “Its really strange u dnt remember me.u were going on holiday in a day
or so when we spoked/txted last time and we agreed to go 4a drink when u cm
bk.xxx.i said ull have to bare 4girls and u said ull hold me to that promise.u
must be very popular and enjoying random people if u dnt remember;-)glad to
hear my name brings gd memories.so do u speak Russian?”

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Women will hear what they want. She completely ignored my question. She's
still bothered I don't remember her. She's took the bait about the Russian ex
girlfriend, which is perfect.

I do this with every non English girl. Reason is, they will always ask you if you
can speak the language of your ex. Easy to transition to a sexual frame, and
the frame of teacher student, which is also sexual. She's acknowledged that I'm
popular, which is all the value I need, I can now just concentrate on the
language thread. Experience will allow you to direct any conversation where
you want it.

Greg: “Haha 4girls...that sounds like me ;) Have you been to the new place
Jalouse? I know the people there, they'll look after you. I only know dirty or
sexual words in Russian, she never taught me anything else, u should teach me
something to say...”

This is standard transition from foreign ex girlfriend. Can you still see, I'm
being logical in the 1st half of the text, which forces her to respond to me. I
have very little if any rapport or familiarity with her so I have to give her a
reason to text back or its very likely she'll ignore my text at this early stage.

This way I never lose my value. Momentum is very valuable and I know if I
can burn the fuse down in this way and sexualize. Once I get her out sleeping
with her will be a piece of cake.

Katya: “No,never heard of this place.is it good?dirty Russian?well,well,im a gd

girl so if i teach u smthing it will b nice.x.”

Perfect, she's following the thread of dirty words and teaching. Now, I can
begin qualifying her. Teasing comes naturally to me, but for those that it
doesn't, you should always be looking for a reason to tease or disagree in a
playful way. In this case, I hate good girls. I know she's attracted to me so I
want her to want to fulfill my preference of liking bad girls.

Greg: “Ahh a good girl, how sweet. Well I'm bad, so I might not be able to learn ;)
The music at Jalouse is good, and the crowd...well what do you find gdlooking?”

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Katya: “I dnt care about gd looks,i like nice people...i do admit u seem like a bad
boy...and if that means u might have a problem wth learning nice Russian,u tell
me what u wanna knw and i might teach u...;-)so whats d crowd like in that
place u mentioned?”

So you see she's now flirting. Many girls have a bad boy fantasy. Its good that
she's come to the conclusion that I'm bad by herself. She also gives me an
invitation based on the teacher thread. I'll ignore everything else she says.

Greg: “I'm not sure what lessons I want yet, how good a teacher are u?”

Katya: “Very gd teacher...only when i deal wth gd students:-D....mixd crowd is

fine...so ill c u there,is [nickname] ur real name?”

Here I qualify her showing that I’m the selector and that I set the standards.
Her response shows that she is starting to invest in me and jump through my
hoops.

Greg: “No it's my nickname. If you can give good hugs, I'll tell you my real
name.”

A reason to touch her when I see her, and I'm not jumping into her hoops too
quickly.

Katya: “Ok.will b in touch tomrw.wd like to knw d name first.then i might give u
a hug”

Greg: “Ooo feisty. Maybe your not such a good girl after all. Sleep well and
whatever you don't dream about me ;)”

Tell a woman before she goes to sleep not too dream about you or think about
you, 9/10 times she will.

Katya: “Morning.hp u slept well.r u saying that ure getting on only wth naughty
girls?:-(gd girls r cool too,im sure i cn prove it.so whats ur real name,im very
curious now.”

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There you go. She wakes up and texts me (I think this was 7:30am) this is a
huge IOI. She's trying to qualify herself. All I need to do now is escalate, but
also set myself up as a challenge.

Greg: “Morning, I bet u dreamt bout me didnt u ;)U seem confident u can convert
me 2like good girls.I like confidence. So Im curious, how r u going to prove it to
me? “

I reward her on being confident and texting me first which is important.

Whenever a girl performs a behaviour that you like, or she jumps through one
of your hoops you need to give her a small reward so she keeps doing it…

A bit like dog training…but you didn’t hear that from me.

Katya: “Dnt worry about that,just leave it to me and my charming skills..haha;-

)why r u avoiding telling me ur name?:-D”

Greg: “Sounds like I'm in safe hands. I guess ur keen to know my name so u
know what to scream out...I understand ;) I'm not avoiding telling u, I just like to
tease.”

Tell a woman you like to tease...she knows exactly what that means.

Katya: “Ure quite gd at teasing then.so how much longer u want to tease me 4?;-
)yes,ure safe wth me:-)”

There gets to a point in pick up where you just know 100% it’s on. Whenever a
girl says something along these lines like “when will you give it to me”, or
“how much longer do I have to wait”, then you know it’s happening.

At this point just amp up sexual tension and handle your logistics. For an in
depth strategy of how to get physical with any girl you want every single time,
go and get a copy of my Sex On Demand System.

I keep escalating the texts sexually, while qualifying her on sex technique and
her sexuality.

Greg: “Are you spontaneous?”

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Katya: “i dnt knw but sm wd say im even too spontanous.why?xxx.”

Greg: “Are you open minded?”

Katya: “Way too open minded..”

So she's qualifying herself to me on sexuality, spontaneity and being open

minded. When she sees me she'll want to live up to my expectations. Imagine
what a sexual, spontaneous and open-minded women is likely to do?

Now you can see the method to my madness…

Greg: “Awesome, so your spontaneous and way too open minded, you're doing
well ;). Tell me a secret, the craziest thing you've ever done.”

Sharing a sexual secret (or any secret for that matter), creates a strong bond.
Girls may often be too shy to tell you in person, but the anonymity of text
means that this is very easy to do when she's not near you.

However its more powerful, when she tells you in person. So what you do, is
you set up the sharing of secrets over text. Again, 9/10 times she'll ask you to
go first, but that's fine, I have a stock answer as I've done this a thousand
times.

Katya: “u tell me first bout ur craziest thing.xxx”

Greg: “Can't really say crazy stuff in text, let's just say it involved a bottle of
tequila, 2ft of snow in canada, 2girls and a parrot. I'll tell you properly when I
see you. Your turn...”

Katya: “i cnt tell u in d txt bt there was champagne wth vodka,1girl and a 'toy'
involved.this is smthing only i and her knws about.and nw u knw a
bit.xxx.maybe will tell u mre on other occasion.;-)i want to knw ur story
though.d little u said made me really curious.hahaha.”

Greg: “Well curiosity killed the cat ;) we'll continue this conversation later. If
you're still going out tonight, call me when you're on your way. I've gotta get
ready and leave, so ciao.”

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Always leave her wanting more, and always end the interaction first. When
we met up that night, she was all over me immediately.

I was telling her my sex story while she had her hands down my trousers
without a care in the world.

As you can see with this example, I never at any point become x-rated or too
filthy. Doing so makes you look like a sex starved horny little teenager which
is the exact opposite of what you want.

You want to remain in control at all times, being the confident, dominant kick
ass rockstar that you are. Have a read of some female erotica to get some ideas
on how to talk and write words that lead a woman’s mind down a path that
ends with her in your bed.

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 Law 3 - Maintaining The
Relationship
Your final objective is maintaining the relationship once you have actually
seen her. If you follow the steps I give you in The Guide To The Perfect Date
solution, then after the first couple of times that she see’s you, she will be
dying to see you again, so the rest of this will be easy.

However, sometimes life gets in the way and through no fault of yours or your
girls, you may not be able to see each other as soon or as often as you would
like. Here are some text examples that you can use to keep on her radar in
between times when you meet up. The most important thing is that these texts
have to avoid coming across needy, or try hard. Depending on the length of
fuse the girl has, some of these texts will be more appropriate than others.

“OMG…I just met your twin!”

“I’m in the pool with some wine, mowtown and thoughts of world
domination...What’s new with you?”

“You just popped into my head…so I thought I’d say hi.”

“I miss your face you geek…”

“Oi stranger…I’m getting withdrawl symptoms. You owe me tequila.”

“You never write, you never call…how am I supposed to raise these kids by
myself?”

“You just missed the wildest night! It involved 2 penguins, a bottle of vodka and
a Russian midget.”

“I randomly just thought of you. Stay out of my head pls…too many skeletons in
there.”

“What kind of mischief are you causing today?”

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Here’s an exchange with Valerie, a girl I couldn’t get out for ages. This series of
text got her to come over to my house after canceling a couple of times before.

Greg: “You’re a Patron girl aren’t you?”

Valerie: “Actually no, I get way too drunk on tequila. Why do you ask?”

Greg: “Ok cool. I’m at the store and stocking up on drinks. I like to make sure
people are comfortable when they come to my house so I always like have their
favorite drinks available.”

Valerie: “Oh wow, you really are quite the host. Mojito’s are my weakness.”

Greg: “Perfect, I make a lethal Mojito using Wray & Nephew Jamaican Rum.”

Valerie: “Sounds amazing. When can I have one?”

Greg: “That depends…when you stop being rubbish and come out to play.”

Valerie: “lol. I know..sorry i’ve been so busy. Are you free Saturday?”

Greg: “I’m out of town on Thursday and not getting back till Sat night, I’ll be
shattered. How about Sunday eve.”

Valerie: “Ok perfect. As long as it’s not too late, I have work Monday morning.”

Greg: “Don’t worry, i’ll have you in bed as soon as I can ;)”

Valerie: “lol. You’re too bad!”

Greg: “And you love it…gotta go. Talk to you soon.”

Remember, non-needy low investment texts. You’re just pinging her from time
to time to try and get on her radar. If she bites and starts to respond, then you
can start trying to burn down that fuse and get her out.

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 Flakes & Dead Numbers
You can probably guess what I’m going to say about flakes and dead numbers
right?

Forget about them and move on, especially flakes.

You have to look at flakes like this. You make plans with a girl to spend time
with her on a 1on1 basis, just the 2 of you. She agrees and then at the last
minute she cancels.

Without a VERY good reason, that is disgusting behavior and any girl that does
that to you shows she has a compete lack of respect for you or your time. You
do not need someone like that in your life. If she just happens to be a flaky
person and things just seem to come up in her life, then you don’t want
someone like that around you either.

With all that being said, you have to take it on case-by-case basis. If she
apologizes and is actually sorry, then she deserves another chance to earn an
opportunity to spend time with you again.

This is why I always say, invite her out to something social first, before trying
to hang out with her 1on1. This way you can get a sense of whether she’s a
reliable person or one that is likely to flake out at the last minute.

So if she flakes on you but has no good reason to, just delete her number and
don’t bother contacting her again. If she apologizes and is legitimately sorry,
then send a text along these lines:

“Ok. Well, I’m going to let you make it up to me before I pass any judgment.”

Then don’t text her again. Wait till she actually puts in some effort. If she puts
in no effort after this text, then forget about her and move on. The worst thing
you can do is get angry or mad at her. At the end of the day, what she does
with her time is her right; you can’t get mad at her for wasting your time. You

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allowed her to. All you can do is make her understand that if she wants to
spend time in your world, she better not do that again.

That’s the only warning she will get. She flakes on you again, delete her
number. End of story.

Dead Numbers

A dead number is a girl who you made initial contact with but you haven’t
seen or spoken to in some time. This is the very longest type of fuse a girl can
be. For some reason or another, you may want to resurrect some dead
numbers. Maybe you let the line go slack, maybe you were busy with other
girls, maybe you just forgot, maybe you made a mistake somewhere and you
weren’t able to hook up with her.

As with the general philosophy, you want to avoid chasing of any kind, so
you're objective with a dead number is to get on her radar, and see if she will
begin chasing you.

Here are some examples to send you dead numbers:

“Hey [nickname], you still alive? Should I send out a search party of oompa
loompas to come rescue you?”

“Hey stranger. I just met someone who knows you…”

“Hey, I’m just cleaning up my phonebook and realized there are 3 Shannon’s! Are
you the hot blonde, the wild party girl, or the aussie gymnast?”

I’ve only given you 3 examples here because I don’t want you to spend too
much time on dead numbers. You should be concentrating on the short fuses
and the girls that are most interested in you. If you have enough excess time
on your hands that makes you consider texting an old number, then spend
more time building your social circle.

Try a new bar, check out a gallery, go on holiday. Basically do anything else as
opposed to wasting time on dead numbers. Your time is your most valuable
commodity and it is very difficult to resurrect a dead number without showing

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 Quick Hits
Here is some more important text message information that didn’t really fit
neatly into any of the areas before. These aren’t Laws, but some ideas and
things to pay attention to help with your text message success.

1. Don’t Send Shitty 1-liners

Messages like “Hey was’up?” or “How are you?” are literally the death of
texting. Don’t bother sending anything like this. It will murder your chances.
These types of text don’t create any emotion and certainly don’t fit into any of
the laws.

2. Don’t Spend Ages Constructing The Perfect Text

If you’re text is taking you longer than a min or so to write and send, then
you’re spending too much time on it. At first you may need a little bit of time
to get into your stride, but after a couple of weeks of practice, make sure
you’re not obsessing over writing the perfect text message.

3. Don’t Ask Too Many Questions

Make statements instead of asking questions. If there are more than 2

questions in your message, then there are too many. Ideally you only want 1
but you can occasionally get away with 2. The best practice is making
statements. Go to the “Conversation Matrix” portion of “What To Say’ for an in
depth breakdown of how to do this.

4. Best Day To Send A Text

Sunday is by far the best day to send a text, followed closely by Monday.
Weekdays are ok and there’s no real difference from Tuesday – Thursday. You
want to avoid sending messages on Friday & Saturday unless you are inviting
her to something social.

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5. Best Time To Send A Text

10pm Sunday/Monday night. These messages get the most positive responses.
They are after she’s had dinner, and just before she goes to bed. Be careful of
sending any messages that would fall during a popular TV show (Breaking
Bad, Game Of Thrones etc all at 9pm) as these messages often get ignored by
accident.

If you have something social planned, the time of text will depend on how
much getting ready she has to do. If the social event planned is casual, then
you should send her a text her 1-2 hours before. For more formal events that
occur in the evening, text her in the morning of the event.

6. Don’t Be Needy

Needy guys don’t get laid. If you are asking her too many annoying predictable
questions, or you are replying with huge long texts within seconds of her
messaging you, you’re going to crash and burn big time.

7. Using That Stupid “3-Day Rule”

I don’t know who made this up, but we’re not in high school anymore. Don’t
wait 2-3 days to text her when you first meet. Strike while the iron is hot, while
she still remembers you.

8. How Long To Leave Between Each Text

A good rule of thumb is to leave the same amount of time between your texts
that she does. If she replies after 5 mins, then do the same. If she takes longer,
so do you. If she is taking too long, then tell her she’s boring you or something
along those lines, and then move onto someone else.

But don’t leave it too long. Women have feelings too and can be very sensitive
so leaving too long between replies will make her think you have zero interest
which is just as bad as being too interested.

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9. Emoticons

Don’t do it. You’re a man. A smiley face and a wink are about all you really
need, excessive “xoxo” and all that shit is what her gay best friend sends her.
You don’t want to be her gay best friend now do you?

10. Size Matters

The shorter the better. They gave us 140 characters for a reason. If you can’t fit
it into 1 text, consider re-writing it. If a couple of your messages break this
rule, so be it, but as long as you aren’t writing essays in every single
interaction.

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 Conclusion
That’s it for the Texting Blueprint. The most important thing to remember
when sending a text to a girl that you haven’t had sex with yet, is if the text
you are sending serves one of the 3 laws:

Getting her to meet you…

Getting her to think about having sex with you…

Maintaining the relationship at a time when you are unable to see her…

As long as you pay attention to these principles and you remember to NEVER
chase her no matter what, you will have an abundance of all of the most
amazing women you can imagine.

Live the dream

Greg C. Greenway

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