Q) How to develop Love?

Ans) 1) Love is all about thinking what others need for their holistic development.

2)Holistic- Catering to one’s Physical, Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Growth.

3)Love is all about giving and also having right expectation.

4)When you give, the other should not take it for granted, you have to respect and be respected.

5)If you are not respected in return there is no love.

6)By respect I mean giving or showing value.

7)True Lovers show value and respect towards each other by listening and understanding, not
misusing each other’s time and possessions.

8)As Love is Intuitional(both the partners or even a single person) people must identify their
Intuitional nature through developing their physical-etheric body, emotional and mental body.

9)Relationship must be developed, it doesn’t happen just like that. The partners must put in
some work on themselves and also on others to build it.

10)There is a good probability that the partners may attract each other in next lifetimes if they
work and build a compatible relationship in this life.

11)Love is all about giving, it can be as simple as giving a smile, a pleasant look, healing
gestures, some materials; sharing positive emotions of devotion, dedication; sharing positive
thoughts, ideas, inspirations, visions, plans etc.

12)I personally feel love and other virtues make a person lighter and lighter until one becomes
Light, Love and Will Power.

13)Material possessions: property etc.; relationship attachments- husband, wife, children,

friends etc.; Mental Baggage- undigested information etc. along with addictions(blind urges and
drives), glamours and illusions weigh a person down.

14)The person cannot have light or Understanding or solutions to issues and ultimately there
can be no peace to them.

15)It’s wise to empty oneself to create some space for other pure(spiritual) elements.

16)Meditation, purification and service will give us these elements.

17)All the above starts with first recognising the importance and difference between heavy and
light materials or pure and impure elements or light and dark energies along with their
percentages or quality.

18)We say we Love our kids and parallely kill animals and eat them. If we truly have love it will
be expressed in every part of our living/life.

19)Those who cannot sublimate their energies cannot know Love.

- Sai Nandan Reddy

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