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In this manifesto, I will reveal to you the three big mistakes to avoid
that prevent coaches, service based business owners, and consultants
from getting their first 10 paying clients.
Let's start off with mistake number one, and then I'm going to jump
into some steps that you can take to actually start getting there to lay
the groundwork for your success.
Step number one
One of the mistakes that people make is that they don't become what
they teach.
I want to be very clear on this right now: what I mean by this is they're
not being their work.
A lot of times people will go out there into the marketplace and they'll
go, "I want to teach on something, I want to coach on something, I
want to consult on something."
What ultimately happens is they just reach for the closest thing that
they see and they go, "Um, marketing seems to sell, so I'll teach
somebody something on marketing."
Or, "The financial stuff seems to sell, so I'll teach stuff on financial
stuff."
You can't fake it and you can't just pick something that you're not
passionate about, and something that's not authentic to you.
One of the reasons why I teach about story, and one of the reasons that
I teach about message, is I believe what it is that you're going to share
with the world, and what it is you're going to teach, coach, consult on,
sell, has so much to do with who you really are. It has so much to do
with your personal story, and the journey that has brought you right
here to this place in this time.
If you're not teaching based on your personal story, if you don't have a
message that's based on your story, and your journey, and something
that's personal to you, then you're not really being what you're
teaching.
What happens if you go out, you start going to try and speak to clients,
and all of a sudden at the first sign of just not being successful, the first
sign of a client saying, "No," the first sign of a client not lining up with
you?
They'll just say, "All right, that didn't work." But if you're teaching who
you really are, if you're becoming what you're teaching, then every step
of the way it's like you're becoming more and more of yourself.
If you’re teaching what comes from your story, what comes from your
truth, what comes from who you really are, and it's based on your life
experience. They're like lessons, the story of the journey that you've
been on.
Then when you go share with people, and maybe it doesn't work, you
don't just stop being who you are.
If you do that, what you're going to see quickly happen is that you're
going to be more passionate about what it is that you're bringing to the
marketplace. In the face of objection, or rejection by your clients, your
passion is going to fuel them to say, "Yes."
A while ago one of my mentors, who is, he's one of the CEOs of the
largest and biggest personal development person on the planet. I can't
say who his name is for privacy purposes, but he sat down with me, and
he coached me a while ago like seven, eight years ago when I started
this business.
They're not teaching from who they are, and what their essence is. The
mistake that people make is they walk around and they're not
congruent, they're detached from their product or service, because it's
a thing outside of themselves, rather than it's who they are, and things
they're offering up as an extension of who they are, and the passion is
fueling who they are.
It's one of the reasons why a lot of coaches, and service based business
owners, consultants, they get out of the game before they even start.
Now, part of me creating this manifesto for you is to make sure that the
runway is shortened. Nobody wants a long runway to lift off, because if
it's too long, then all of a sudden you're going to just feel like a failure
because you're never lifting off, you're not making progress.
You can't just quit with the person who says, "No." You can't just quit
because the first networking event you went to, people didn't respond
fully to you. This is an element of becoming more and more who you
are.
I'm going to give you an exercise right now, to just jot down a few
simple things that will help you really become more of what you
teach.
One of them is for you to look at what are some of the life lessons that
you've learned?
Write down three life lessons that you've learned from your journey
that you've been on. Write down three life lessons that you've learned.
For example, the life lesson I've learned along the way as I grew up as a
kid, and my family told lots of stories, and that was part of the way we
engaged at the dinner table. When I grew up, I watched lots of movies
when I was a kid, I loved watching stories. When I got into business, I
loved telling stories to my clients, because I found it was mitigation.
Later on in my life, recently, I created a one man theater show on my
life story where I played 12 characters on stage, and I tell the story for
71 minutes, it's a performance. It's story, so I realized that story has
become a life lesson that I've learned over, and over, and over, and
over again.
That life lesson has become a key cornerstone of my brand, and what it
is that I teach.
I want you to write down what three life lessons that you have gotten
in your life, and just write down three of them.
This is going to help you start to get deeper into what you want to
teach, and share with the world.
A lot of times people go, "Wow, I learned this life lesson and I'm not
sharing this and teaching with other people," and it might enhance your
current brand right now.
Don't make the mistake of not becoming what it is that you teach,
okay?
Write down your three life lessons, that's going to help you start getting
really connected to what you teach, consult, and coach on.
This goes for any business that you're in. Chiropractor business,
financial services business, health business, holistic practitioner,
financial business, business coach, life coach, spiritual coach, where
you're providing services to your clients, anything that you're teaching
coaching, consulting on, or providing a service on should be more
connected to who you are.
Write down those three life lessons, and I'm going to go now to mistake
number two.
Life Lesson #1:
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Mistake number two that people make that prevents them
from getting clients, is that they forget to add 10 times value
to other people.
This is a hugely critical piece that I want to share with you right now,
because a lot of times we are in a business, and we're so focused on
cash flow that we're focused on, "What do I need to do to go get, get,
get my clients? What do I need to do to get in front of people?"
That's good to focus on that, but part of what brings people to you is
the network you have around you.
If you're not giving to your network, and you're not helping and
serving other people, or you're showing up and adding 10 times value,
you're not going to get noticed.
Introducing people that you know to other people so that they can get
networked better is a way of adding value. Giving free consultations,
and free strategy sessions to other people, which is a great way to
enroll clients. By giving free strategy sessions so people can experience
you, you can add value to them, and really coach them in that strategy
session, is another way to add value to other people.
I want you to start thinking of the different ways that you can actually
add value to your customers, and not just your customers - adding
value to the people around you, period. That helps you get customers.
I'll give you an example, I was just at a networking event with a group
of my peers. There were about 40 of us there in the room, and there
were people like Christian Mickelsen and Lisa Sasevich and Bill Baren
and Justin Livingston and Callan Rush and Alice Mendoza, all people
who have multi-million dollar companies like me.
I got asked to sit on the panel. One of the things that I'm doing well in
my business, is I'm driving a lot of Facebook traffic in my business. I get
about 8,000 - 10,000 leads a month coming into my business. Plus, I
bring in 500 new customers, plus I have a sales team that then upsells
these customers into our higher tiered programs.
Now, I could have easily tried to go and get people as clients in the
room, and coach them on what it is that I'm doing. That's not my
business model, and in the next piece I'm going to share with you,
another mistake people make - not knowing the business that they're
in.
I'm not in the business of coaching my peers. I'm not in the business of
one on one coaching anymore, because my business has grown to a
multi-million dollar company.
All I was doing was adding value in an area to serve these people.
Then in the last 15 minutes of the call, you offer them up a service, or a
product, or a program.
That's another way to add value by doing lots of strategy sessions with
people.
I want you to start adding value to people around you, and teaching,
and sharing, and giving.
Chasing clients doesn't work, you want clients being in flowed to you by
the relationships that you're adding value to, that know about you, that
like you, that trust you, and want to have an ongoing relationship with
you. That's another piece that's really important, is to add 10 times
value.
What I want you to do right now is I want you to write down three
ways that you're going to add 10 times value to the people around
you, and in your community.
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The third mistake that people make in getting clients and
going out to get their first 10, or next 10 paying clients, is not
knowing what business you're in.
A lot of times I see this with people, is they don't know what business
they're in.
When I say, "Knowing what business you're in," I'm really talking about
the methodology that you're going to utilize to attract clients.
Some of you are in the business like me, of like setting up online
marketing funnels to bring clients to you.
You have to know what business you're in right now, and what
methodology you're using, to go get your next 10 clients. You have to
pick something, and you have to focus on it.
If you're following step number one, and avoiding mistake number one,
which is about being who you are, and teaching who you are, which
brings your passion out more.
Finally, you have to know the methodology that you're going to utilize
to go get these clients.
I want to encourage you to know what it is you're doing, and pick one
thing right now, one thing to go out and get these next 10 clients.
A lot of times people will want to do 10 different things. You hear about
a teleseminar, and this week you're doing teleseminars. You hear about
a seminar, and next week you're doing a seminar.
What's the one thing you're going to focus on to go out and get your
next 10 paying clients, and really focus in on that?
When I first started my business, the first thing that I wanted to do out
of the gates was go get my first 10 paying clients.
What I was going to do, was have this little system I'll share with you
right now that I utilized to go get these clients.
That was my statement, right? That was the statement that I want you
to fill in right now.
For me it was: I help people find their life story message, so ultimately
they can get paid through coaching, speaking, and also selling their
information products.
That's my statements, that's what I help people do this, so they can
have that.
What are you helping people do, so they can ultimately have or become
something?
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The second thing is your story.
When I was a kid, somebody goes to me, "Hey Ted, how'd you get
started in this business?" I go, "Well let me tell you the story of really
why I'm passionate about this. When I was a kid and my parents got
divorced at six years old, I felt unlovable. I became this little achiever. I
went out, and I thought if I achieved, I'd get love. When I was 21 years
old and in the insurance business, my boss believed in me, and told me I
could do six figures in income."
"I went after it for 12 months because I wasn't really concerned about
the money, I just wanted his approval. After 12 months, I made six
figures in income. That night, I overdosed from a bag of cocaine, two
pills of ecstasy, and 15 drinks of alcohol. Miraculously I was revived the
next morning, and I survived.
That's a story, right? I just shared with you my story right now that I
share with people. It's about 60 to 90 seconds, and in the story you
have to share with people the journey that you've been on.
I want you to write out a 60 second version of your story down below.
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The third thing is, that you need in terms of going to get clients, is a
blueprint.
One of the ways that I help people, is I actually help them create their
story. If they have a powerful story, they can connect with their clients.
Another way I help people, is I help them create their blueprint like I'm
helping you do right now, like five steps of what they're going to teach,
coach, or consult with somebody on. I have them write down five
different steps of things that they can do for other people.
What are the five ways that you can help other people?
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Then finally the fourth piece is booking strategy sessions.
When you go to your next networking event, you can tell people what
you do by your statement, you can tell them a little bit about your story
and say, "here's my story of how I got started."
Then you can tell them about your blueprint. I have a name to my
blueprint, it's called, "The Message To Millions Blueprint." It's a five step
process, or seven step process that helps people find their life story
message, and get paid to make an impact through coaching, speaking,
and information products.
I want you to go to events, local events, and I want you to invite people
to strategy sessions.
You can go, "Hey, I really enjoyed speaking with you today. I enjoyed
learning to get to know a little bit about you. What I'd like to do right
now is invite you to a strategy session. The strategy session is an X, Y, Z
coaching session, it's free."
(Whatever you name your coaching session, mine is, "The Message To
Millions Coaching Session.")
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Then you say, "During the strategy session I'd like to spend 45 to 60
minutes with you. Number one, helping you get clear on your vision of
the future. Number two, I'd like to spend some time discussing the
challenge that's preventing you from having what you want. Number
three, I'd love to give you a plan and path to accomplish your goals.
Let's book a strategy session right now, and this is totally free. If you like
the experience, I'd like to share with you more how we can go deeper
and work together more deeply. If you don't like it, then that's fine. You
and I remain friends."
That's the script that I just gave you right now, and those are the four
things that I do when I'm speaking to people in public.
When you know what business you're in, when you know that you're
going to get 10 clients and you want to, you'll get these 10 clients to
your strategy sessions, you're clear on your path to go get your 10
clients.
If you know you want to do a few seminars, then you're inviting people
to your seminar.
I hope it serves you. I want you to now go complete the exercise that I
just shared with you of filling in your statement, I help people do this so
they can have that.
Writing our your story, 60 second story, and teaching us the five ways
that you can consult and coach other people, just brainstorming those
five ways.
Doing these exercises will really help you, and if you're going to go book
strategy sessions at live events, or local events that you're at, you can
just use the script I just gave you as a way to go book strategy sessions.
I hope you enjoyed this manifesto, and there's more to come. I hope
you enjoyed this, and I'll see you in some of my future products and
programs that I'm sure you'll be hearing about very shortly.
In particular, if you want to learn how to go get those clients and you
want the complete formula for that, check out my training The Fast
Client Formula right now.