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4. During their marriage, they begot one child, Michelin San Juan
(“Michelin”) who was born on March 31, 2014 at the Makati Medical
Center and who is now three (3) years of age.
h. During the time that they were living together as husband and
wife, Respondent will always come home during the wee hours of
the morning, spending and enjoying his nights after work with his
“barkada.”
p. On her way to the toilet, she was surprised when she saw
Respondent in one of the corner spots of the bar in the company of
several gay friends, and to her disappointment, he was acting like
one.
x. These abuses started more often when they were alone, and
when Respondent would come to her house drunk and asking her
to reconcile, which would change when he sees the Petitioner
using her phone, and adamantly claim that she was cheating on
him with others, and then it would end with his severe physical
abuse on her, sometimes even in front of Petitioner’s parents and
their son Michelin.*
y. This last incident became the last straw for Petitioner, who
failed to discover such personality, character, and psychological
condition of the Respondent because of the short courtship. Hence,
Petitioner decided to live separately from the Respondent.
z. Respondent did not visit his family often, and if he did he
would be violent and paranoid, and after a while, did not inquire
anymore as to the status of his wife and son. He acted as a stranger
to his family and remained as such up to the present.
aa. Both have been indifferent to each other. Both have, by their
own choice, chosen a life separate from each other.
9. It was only after Petitioner had gone to Dr. dela Cruz that she,
with her parents had asked Mark San Juan, the Respondent’s Uncle,
and Ninoy Sartillo, the Respondent’s childhood friend, to please see
Dr. dela Cruz to end the abuse and the failed marriage.
Discussion
Gravity
20. From the evidence adduced it can be said that Respondent cannot
carry out the normal and ordinary duties of marriage and family
shouldered by any average couple existing under ordinary circumstances
of life and work.
22. No less than Dr. dela Cruz himself declared, based on his
appreciation and expertise and on the interviews conducted with the
relevant witnesses, that the disorders afflicting the Respondent are grave
and permanent, sufficient to paralyze them to fully understand and more
importantly, to comply with the essential marital obligations.
23. Before the marriage, Petitioner was not aware of her and
Respondent’s personality disorder and it was only after marriage that it
begun to surface.
24. Dr. dela Cruz declared that Respondent’s disorders started during
his childhood and is linked on history psycho-developmental fixation
during childhood secondary to sibling rivalry, mortal punishment and
sexual abuse in his psych-developmental years. His dishonesty and lack
of remorse are mere extensions of his misconduct in childhood experiences
of separation and emotional deprivations.
Incurability
26. Since the personality disorders of the Respondent existed long before
he contracted marriage with Petitioner, there appears no chance for them to
recover by ordinary means from such incapacity. Dr. dela Cruz declared
that the Respondent’s disorder is of such a serious and deep-rooted
abnormality that no amount of psychological treatment and intervention
would control or cure the grave and continuous features of the
abnormality.
27. The callous and irresponsible ways of Respondent show that he does
not possess the proper outlook, disposition and temperament necessary for
marriage. Indeed, this ultimate recourse of nullity is the only way by which
petitioner can be delivered from the bondage of a union that only proved
to be a mockery and brought pain and dishonor to petitioner and their
child.
28. At this point, Petitioner brings to the mind of this Honorable Court
that in dissolving marital bonds on account of either party’s psychological
incapacity, the Court is not demolishing the foundations of families, but it
is actually protecting the sanctity of marriage, because it refuses to allow a
person afflicted with a psychological disorder, who cannot comply with or
assume the essential marital obligations, from remaining in that sacred
bond.
a. Declaring the marriage between the parties as null and void ab initio
pursuant to Article 36 of the Family Code;
c. Granting the sole custody of their minor son to the herein Petitioner;
By:
JINTANA G. YANTAKOSOL
Roll of Attorneys No. 62180
PTR No. 0055573-01/10/2014 Makati City
MCLE Compliance No. 0010424-04/28/16
Email: jgyantakosol@lyceumlaw.com
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2. I have caused the preparation of the foregoing petition and that all
the allegations contained therein are true and correct of my own
personal knowledge and based on existing and authentic documents.
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