Check what desc! 1 Oo a o a a o oO a 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 Qo O10 (cla hE O12 013 O14 O15 016 017 018 gig 020 . q Pe sonality J nventory, ribes you when you were (or if you are now) under th ~ *2Re oF 25 be organized and orderly. It for me to be spontaneous. uilty about not getting enough accomplished, like to Itis difficult loften feel gt en people break rules. and spelling bother me a lot. ake the world a better place. I don't like it wht Incorrect grammar Jam idealistic. | want tom: lam almost always on time. Ihold on to resentment for a long time. Ithink of myself as being practical, reasonable, and realistic. When jealous. | become fearful and competitive. Either | don’t have enough time to relax or| think | shouldn't relax Itend to see things in terms of right or wrong, good or bad. lanalyze major purchases very thoroughly before | make them, I dread being criticized or judged by others. loften compare myself with others. Truth and justice are very important to me. loften feel that time is running out and there is too much left to do. lalmost always do what | say | will do. I worry almost constantly. Ilove making every detail perfect.Check what describe 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 oooo0o0go0o0n0o on o1 O12 013 aw 5 O16 o17 O18 o19 O20 —_— vr Personally g mentary es you when you were (orif you are now) under the » Iwant people to feel comfortable coming to me for gui ; v Rea are more important to me than almost anyth Relationships Sometimes feel overburdened by people's dependence on, ne Ihave trouble asking for what Ineed. Icrave, yet sometimes fear, intimacy. lam more comfortable giving than receiving. lam very sensitive to criticism. work hard to overcome all obstacles in a relationship. Itry to be as sensitive and tactful as possible. When | am alone |know what I want, but when | am with others | ary not sure. Itis very important that others feel comfortable and welcome in myhome. I don't want my dependence to show. Watching violence on television and seeing people suffer is unbearable Sometimes | feel a deep sense of loneliness. If don’t get the closeness | need, | feel sad, hurt, and unimportant. Sometimes | get physically ill and emotionally drained from taking care of everyone else. loften figure out what others would like in a person, then act that way. lenjoy giving compliments and telling people that they are special tome !am attracted to being with important or powerful people. People have said | exaggerate too much and am overly emotional.—_— Check what describes you when you were (or if you are now) underthe, BE OF, 25 1 Im almost alwayS busy: ake to-do lists. progress charts, and schedules for Mysei like tome I don’t mind being asked to work overtime. ic attitude. he job done. ediently as possible. Ihave an optimisti | go full force until gett believe in doing things as Expt portant for people to better themselves and live up to their rested in talking a lot about my personal life. ness stop me from doing anything. Iris imy I'm notinte! oooo00 0c 0 2 3 4 5 61 7 8 9 Itrynottoletill [nate to see jobs undone. Itend to put work before other things. Ican'tunderstand people who are bored. I never run out of things todo, Oo 10 ou o12 O13 O14 O15 O16 (17 Financial security is extremely important to me. Itis sometimes difficult for me to get in touch with my feelings. Iwork very hard to take care of and provide for my family. Ilike identifying with competent groups or: important people. try to present myself well and make a good first impression. (318 I generally feel pretty good about myself. (19 People often look to me to run the show. (20 I|ike to stand outin some way.Check what describes you when you were (or if you are, fi ) W) under the C uo Oo w op0aq a OND uw 010 ou O12 013 O14 O15 016 O17 O18 gig 020 —— Pers onality J nvey nlowy, Being understood is very important to me. Rec. My friends say they enjoy my warmth and My different wa at life. Slog — Nonfunctional for hours, days, or weeks lam very sensitive to critical remarks and feel hurt at the tinieg, Itreally affects me emotionally when read upsetting storee . Sigh newspaper. the My ideals are very important to me. Icry easily. Beauty, love, sorrow, and pain really touch me My melancholy moods are real and important. I don't necessari get out of them. !often long for what others have. | try to support my friends, especially when they are in crisis, live in the past and in the future more than in present-day reality, I place great importance on my intuition. Itry to control people at times. I hate insincerity and lack of integrity in others. | have spent years longing for the great love of my life to come along. | focus on what is wrong with me rather than on whatis right. like to be seen as one of a kind, | am always searching for my true self. Sometimes | feel very uncomfortable and different, like an isolated outsider, even when I'm with my friends. When people tell me what to do, | often become rebellious and do, or wish I could do, the opposite. When I'm, de. ly WantsCheck what. describes you when you were (; 1 ooaagtr Oo @ 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 Q O10 ou O12 O13 O14 O15 O16 017 018 O19 O20 ee 5 gS ew onality Inventor (rif you are NOW) ung, erthe Cap, Hearn from observing or reading as opposed to doing It's hard to express my feelings in the moment, !get lost in my interests and like to bealone with them for ho lusually experience my feelings more deeply when tm = Sometimes | feel guilty that 'm not generous enough. "ems I try to conceal my sensitivity to criticism and judgment. Brash, loud people offend me. Conforming is distasteful to me. |like to associate with others who have expertise in my field, llike having a title (doctor, professor, administrator) to feel Proud of. 'have been accused of being negative, cynical, and ‘Suspicious, When | feel socially uncomfortable, | often wish | could disappear, Jam often reluctant to be assertive or aggressive. I dislike most social events. I'd rather be alone or with a Few people! know well. I sometimes feel shy or awkward. | get tired when I'm with people for too long. | feel different from most people. | feel invisible. It surprises me when anyone notices anything about me. I don't look for material possessions to make me happy. Acting calm is a defense. It makes me feel stronger.Chee 1 2 O12 013 ck what describes 8. 7 onalily I, ndenlory, 8 you when you Were (or ifyou are now) i . the lamnervous around certain authority figures. often plagued by co have clear-cut g' rt for danger. lam doubt. Hike t uidelines and to know where I stand, alwayson the alet e things (00 seriously. ifabout what might go wrong. stantly question mysel icism as an attack. hat my partner is thinking. lam Irak Icon: Joften experience criti Joften obsess about wi Icanbeavery hard worker. My friends think of me as loyal, supportive, and compassionate. Ive been told Ihave agood sense of humor. | follow rules closely (a phobic trait); orloften break rules (a counterphobic trait). te relationship, the more anxious The more vulnerable !am in my intimal and testy | become. Itend to either, procrastinate or plunge headlong, even into dangerous situations. lam very aware Of| people trying to manipulate me with flattery. like predictability. Ihave sabotaged my own success. Ican support people through thick and thin. Being neat and orderly helps me feel more in control of my life. I dislike pretension in people.o1 G2 3 4 5 6 7 Qooao0 a © og 010 O11 O12 013 O14 015 O16 O17 018 O19 020 Check what describes you ee: when you were (orif you are now) underine © ae N25 lenjoy life. lam generally uninhibited and optimistic. Idon'tlike being made to feel obligated or beholden. lam busy and energetic. | seldom get bored if left to do what wane, loften take verbal or physical risks. lusually pick upbeat friends who have similar goals. I'mnotan expert in any one thing, but! can do many things wely My style is to go back and forth from one task to another. I like to} keep moving. Iseem to let go of grievances and recover from loss faster than most people | know. like myself and I'm good to myself. Ilike people and they usually like me. [usually manage to get what | want. I value quick wit. 1am idealistic. | want to contribute something to the world I vacillate between feeling committed and wanting my freedom and independence. lam often at ease in groups. When people are unhappy, | usually try to get them to lighten up andsee the bright side. Hove excitement and travel. Sometimes | feel inferior and sometimes | feel superior to others. trouble lusually say whatever is on my mind. Sometimes it gets me into Ican make great sacrifices to help people.Check what describes yo! ONo00o00o0oO0 a o14 O15 O16 oW7 O18 O19 O20 u when you were (Or if you are now) underen « Cage of 25, ggressive when I need to be. Ican be assertive and ai Ican’tstand being used or manipulated. Ivalue being direct and ho! lam anindividualist anda nonconformist. emselves. nest; | put my cards on the table, Irespect people who stand up for th | will go to any lengths to protect those | love. | fight for what is right. I support the underdog. Making decisions is not’ difficult For me. Self-reliance and independence are important. Ihave overindulged in food or drugs. Some people take offense at my bluntness. When enter a new group, | know immediately who the most powerful personis. I work hard and | know how to get things done. Inagroup |am sometimes an observer rather than a participant. like excitement and stimulation. Sometimes | like to spar with people, especially when | feel safe. !am vulnerable and loving when | really trust someone. Overly nice or flattering people bother me. Pretense is particularly distasteful to me._" Check what describes you when you were (or if you are now) under the, Re oF, 5, a o O O Q ooo 1 loften feel in union with nature and people. 2. Making choices can be very difficult. | can see the advantages ang disadvantages of every option. Itis sometimes hard for me to know what | want when Im with other Others see me as peaceful, but inside | often feel anxious, 5. Instead of tackling what | really need to do, | sometimes do little, unimportant things. 6 When there is unpleasantness going on around me, |just try to think about something else for a while. 7 lusually prefer walking away from a disagreement to confronting someone. 8 Fl don'thave some routine and structure in my day, | get almost nothing done. 9 {tend to put things off until the last minute, but! almost always get them done. w Peop, 5 [010 Ilike to be calm and unhurried, but sometimes | overextend myself. (011 When people try to tell me what to do or try to control me, | get stubbom. (012 I like to be sure to have time in my day for relaxing. (13 Sometimes feel shy and unsure of myself. 114 enjoy just hanging out with my partner or friends. (15 Supportive and harmonious relationships are very important to me. (16 lam very sensitive about being judged and take criticism personally. (017 Ilike to listen and give people support. (18 | focus more on the positive than on the negative. (19 Ihave trouble getting rid of things. (20 |operate under the principle of inertia: If 'm going, it's easy to keep going. but! sometimes have a hard time getting started.