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HYSTERICAL IDENTIFICATION
IN AN ELEVEN-YEAR-OLD GIRL
Ivan Sherick
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Hostile impulses against parents (a wish that they should die) are
also an integral constituent of neuroses. . . . They are repressed at
times of their illness or death. On such occasions it is a manifesta-
tion of their mourning to reproach oneself for their death (what is
known as melancholia) or to punish oneself in a hysterical fashion
(through medium of the idea of retribution) with the same states of illness
that they have had. The identification which occurs here is, as we can
see, nothing other than a mode of thinking and does not relieve us
of the necessity for looking for the motive. (Freud, 1917 [1915], p.
240, emphasis added)
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mired person and not to harm the exalted other. Fear, too, can
motivate a child to establish identification, as in identification with
a perceived aggressor. A specific kind of identification, a “hysteri-
cal” one, involves adopting a perceived physical symptom(s) of an
object. What is involved for the subject is a compromise that in-
cludes retribution (pain or discomfort of the symptom[s]) along
with an underlying unconscious gratification of forbidden sexual
wishes that are part of a hostile competition with the object. The
presumed presence of such a compromise has diagnostic signifi-
cance insofar as it suggests that a child patient has achieved a rela-
tively high degree of psychic structuralization. This knowledge
will guide a clinician in making interventions. If one does not give
sufficient attention in a treatment on the occasion of an inferred
hysterical identification, the underlying superego retribution,
feelings of guilt, and drive aspects (sexual/aggressive, often oedi-
pal) can be deemphasized or even go unnoticed. Treatment in-
terventions will miss potentially important dynamic areas of en-
gagement between the patient and the therapist/psychoanalyst.
An opportunity for the patient to lessen suffering and for the
therapeutic work to be deepened will be missed.
The case that I am presenting was treated in an era when
child analytic cases were treated in a manner similar to the ana-
lytic treatment of adults. Parents were seen infrequently and pri-
marily to ensure their support for their child’s analytic treatment.
The child analyst, like the adult analyst, depended only on mate-
rial presented by the analysand within the consultation room. In-
terpretation was the major technical intervention. Contemporary
child analysts know that children are not diminutive adults but
unique in their own right and need to be treated differently from
adults. However, while child analysis has beneficially added to its
armamentarium of technical interventions, to devalue and/or to
absent interpretative work is to “throw out the baby with the bath
water,” especially with children whose development has pro-
gressed to the oedipal level.
The reader may be impressed with how dismissive this girl
was of my interpretive remarks, yet the analytic material deep-
ened. It may puzzle a reader that I proceeded on despite my anal-
ysand’s protests. Because of this deepening, I took it as confirma-
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CASE PRESENTATION
Background
Laura was nine years old when she first came to our atten-
tion.The parents’ presenting complaint primarily had to do with
Laura’s reluctance to separate from mother. She was beginning
to hesitate about entering into afterschool activities. School re-
fusal never occurred, although Laura was very slow in readying
herself in the morning. Other complaints had to do with Laura’s
pervasive interest in animals1 to the neglect of other activities, her
shyness, her sulking or obstinate silence when angry with her
mother, her suspiciousness of strangers, her inability to learn
math, and her “messy” eating habits. Laura and her mother were
involved in a relationship having sadomasochistic overtones, such
as struggles about getting ready for school, choosing clothes, and
so forth, which had its antecedents in feeding and toileting
(mother assisted her with toileting into mid-latency). At age three
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Treatment
In order that we may get a clinical picture of Laura, as it ex-
isted at the time when her hysterical identification with mother’s
physical symptoms was evidenced, I summarize the two and a half
years of analysis leading up to this point. The following issues were
dealt with during this period, often within our treatment relation-
ship and accompanied by ample resistance and focus on defenses:
(1) her use of externalization, displacement, and reaction forma-
tion with regard to sadistic wishes; (2) her feelings of castration
and penis envy, and resultant depressive feelings; (3) her retreat to
a sadomasochistic stance as a defense against positive oedipal wish-
es and feelings; (4) her hostile feelings toward her mother, both
preoedipal and oedipal, which contributed to her separation anxi-
ety (fear of loss of the object and its love); (5) her use of daydream-
ing as a way of dealing with disappointing reality (e.g., disappoint-
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The next day there was material that suggested a wish to have
a baby, partly to undo feelings of loneliness. I conjectured to my-
self that there were two sources to such feelings, preoedipal and
positive oedipal disappointments. She began by saying she might
get a puppy. Her brother intended to get a girl parakeet. Her boy
parakeet was “lonely” and having babies would counteract this
feeling. She said her parakeet was “regurgitating,” a sign that he
wanted to mate. She would like a cat; there was one at the cottage
that was fat and waddled. After this she read jokes to me. The first
one that she chose to relate had to do with a boy and girl who vis-
ited a museum and saw a mummy with a sign underneath saying
“200 B.C.” The boy said to the girl that it must be the license num-
ber of the car that killed the mummy. I thought silently of her
hostile competitive feelings toward mother. She then showed me
some money in her wallet that would go toward buying something
that had to remain a secret. Finally, she told me that she would
buy a “baby racehorse” (horse racing was an interest of father’s).
She complained about a female receptionist who asked her to
bring her pet rabbit only on Fridays and asked me to intercede on
her behalf. I compared the receptionist to a mother and how un-
fair she may feel it to be that mothers have baby companions but
she is not permitted to have companion pets. Early in the next
session there were several comments about wishing to adopt stray
and poorly treated animals. I suggested that pets were like adopt-
ed babies. Later she complained more about the receptionist’s
restrictions and called her a “bitch,” and wished she would die. I
said she was very angry because her rabbit, “Sooty,” was special, a
pet she obtained since the time we started to work together, may-
be even like a pretend baby. She became embarrassed and said
Sooty belonged to her. If it were ours, she said, I owed her money
for its hutch, harness, and so on. Father had given her money to
purchase a hutch to be kept at the cottage. I wondered if she were
trying to give me such an idea by bringing in money the previous
session. She embarrassedly said, “I did . . . did not.” Laura brought
her pet dog to the next session.
The next week Laura went into the hospital for observation
and tests to determine the cause of her tummy aches. When we
met she spoke of the several days in hospital as if it were a tea
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party. She became annoyed with me when I pointed this out, say-
ing it was not a “dungeon.” She liked her doctor, a surgeon who
talked sense, unlike the pediatrician who talked psychological
rubbish like me. The surgeon wanted to rule out a physical prob-
lem. I told her I supported that; if there were a physical cause,
what it meant to her was important for our analytic work. Her
mood mellowed and she admitted that her hospital stay was not
all that great. She seemed to suppress any thoughts that she had
about what might be causing the tummy aches. Reluctantly, while
playing with water at the sink, she volunteered she might have
something wrong with her kidneys but did not know what.
She sat down in a soft chair and commented once again
about her wish that the wooden frame of the chair be “white
wood.” I said it would be similar to the cottage’s beams that were
painted white. Laura looked embarrassed and said she had a se-
cret. She changed the subject and said she was busy and ought to
come less often to see me. At the window she claimed her aunt
and uncle were walking by, pushing their baby in a carriage. She
wondered where I lived. She noticed a cat in the street and re-
marked, “There’s that cat again . . . it must be dead.” Without
commenting on the absurdity of her statement, she flipped a pen-
ny and had me guess whether it landed heads or tails. I guessed
“wrong” each time and she “won,” excitedly jumping up and down
with glee, “I’m the winner.” Then she announced the “final flip.”
The coin rolled under the couch and she retrieved it. Before an-
nouncing which side it had landed on, she intended to make the
sound of fanfare, but there was a slip of the tongue and instead
she hummed “Here comes the bride,” and changed the tune mid-
way. I wondered aloud if she thought the reason I went to Ameri-
ca unexpectedly was because my wife died and now she felt like a
“winner.” Laura said I was “crazy” and “pitied” me. She indicated
she was going to be a “robber” but refused to elaborate and sat
flipping the coin. I said perhaps she felt like Ann Boleyn, like a
robber who has “stolen” another woman’s husband and feels anx-
ious and guilty. Laura said she was not listening to my “rubbish.”
She said she was reading a story about a “secret garden” in a mag-
azine. It was about a princess and the death of the lady of the
manor where the secret garden is. She thought I’d make a big
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deal about it. After this she wondered how old I was. At the end of
the session she seductively said, pretending Sooty was present,
that I should not get up immediately because I know how excited
he gets.
The following week Laura brought her record player and we
listened to classical music and talked. She intended to come in
one session less. She had no worries. Her tummy aches were due
to her being “high-strung” and “walking on a tightrope.” I com-
mented about her guilt, anxiety, and denial as underlying her
consideration to come less frequently. She challenged me to give
her one reason why she should come as often as she does and I
said, “to understand why she gets tummy aches.” She wanted me
to guess the age of her record collection, emphasizing that they
had no scratches. I commented on her wish to be older and more
sophisticated so that she would be more pleasing to me. I also
equated “scratches” with “angry feeling” and reconstructed her
inability to show anger toward mother, turning it against herself
instead in the form of tummy aches. Later in the session she was
able to speak about the pains, which most recently had occurred
the evening before, while she watched The Six Wives of Henry VIII
on television. The pains were intense, subsided, then reappeared,
the interval being a matter of seconds. At the end of the session
she noticed an ambulance in the street below and wondered why
it was outside every day at this time. She denied worries that her
tummy aches might be due to some physical problem.
I met with mother the next day at her request. She said Laura
had had the tummy pains for about a year (only occasionally men-
tioned by Laura), but they had become frequent since the Christ-
mas holiday. The pains began with “pricks” on the tummy, sub-
sided, and reappeared, the intervals being a matter of minutes
(Laura said “seconds”). All of the medical tests were negative. In
speaking about the etiology of the pains, we spoke about Laura’s
inability to show anger toward her. Laura apologized repetitively
if she expressed minimal anger. She would say to her mother, “I
love you so that it hurts me.” At this point, I learned that mother
had had gynecological problems for a period of one year, the se-
verity also having heightened since Christmas. She had trouble
urinating (recall that Laura speculated that she [Laura] had a
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DISCUSSION
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NOTES
1. For an earlier report on this child, see Sherick (1981). I am grateful to the
late Ms. Agi Bene for her valuable insights into my patient.
2. I was hesitant about being so direct, but I contextualized my comment with
recent material, and I also felt a sense of urgency because I anticipated she
might experience scary and intrusive medical diagnostic procedures. The way
the material continued to unfold, however, increased my confidence on the
validity and timing of the intervention. My interpretations were based on my
accumulated understanding (Sherick, 1981) of Laura’s conflicts as well as on
my clinical theory.
2. With the privilege of hindsight many years later, I think countertransfer-
ence was present. I wanted to protect my patient from unnecessary intrusive
medical procedures; recently I had experienced helplessness dealing with the
premature death of my wife’s mother, which necessitated our unplanned trip
to the United States.
3. At the time that I was seeing Laura I did not meet with parents of children in
analysis on a regular basis. As mentioned earlier in the text, parents were seen
irregularly, mainly to ensure their continued support of their child’s analysis.
With this particular patient, Father was never seen, although he tacitly sup-
ported her analysis. I think this was regretful. There was never any analytic
material from Laura to suggest that he acted inappropriately with her. I have
since changed my technical stance about seeing parents. I now believe it es-
sential to see both parents regularly insofar as parenting issues can support or
undermine a child analyst’s efforts with a child or adolescent.
4. I do not mean to diminish the current importance of mutuality in an analysis,
for example, of countertransference, enactments, co-constructed resistance,
and so forth. Had Laura been seen by me more recently, I likely would have
paid more attention to contemporary technical ambitions than I did at the
time.
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