Key Terms Genuineness, acceptance, and empathy- Rogers encouraged therapists, friends, and family to drop their facades and genuinely express their true feelings. When they allow others to feel unconditionally accepted and reflect others feelings, they may deepen the others self understanding and self acceptance (Myers)
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Key Terms There are few examples of genuineness, acceptance, and empathy in American Beauty One of the few examples is between Lester and Angela. After learning that Angela is a virgin, Lester comforts her, telling her that she truly is beautiful, and they open up, and bond over each others troubles.
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Key Terms Unconditional positive regard – This refers to an attitude of total acceptance towards another person. Again, the movie American beauty has very few examples of this, as it is mostly centered around unhealthy relationships.
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Key Terms One example of it however is again between Angela and Lester After learning she is a virgin, Lester gives Angela unconditional love, saying that she is beautiful, and not to worry A counter example of unconditional positive regard is between Jane and her mother. In the beginning of the movie, her mother asks Jane if she is trying to look ugly
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Key Terms Self Concept – All the thoughts and feelings we have in response to the question “Who am I?” All of the characters in American Beauty have very interesting self concepts Jane for example has a very low view of herself and sees herself as an ugly, generally worthless person
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Key Terms Frank Fitts has a very troubled self concept. When he thinks about himself, he sees as structured, perfect American, but deep down inside he is secretly gay Carolyn also would like to see herself as a model member of society. She prides herself on her career, and her family dinners. However, Carolyn’s true self concept is almost as a failure. She cannot compete with the rival real-estate company and beats herself up about it
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Key Terms Actual Self – What we believe that we are, deep down, at this moment in time Ideal Self – What we feel that we should be. Our ideal self is based off of our society and our upbringing Frank Fitts is an example of a character who’s actual self and ideal self are not lined up
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Key Terms Frank Fitts’ actual self is deep down a homosexual, even though he will never admit it However, Frank Fitts ideal self is a socially straight edged heterosexual By the end of the movie, Lester Burnham’s ideal self is lined up with his actual self. He is not concerned with how others see him, but presents his actual self to those around him
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Carl Rogers Theory Carl Rogers theory is a very basic and practical one, developed through experiences with clients. Rogers viewed people from a very basic view, either good or healthy, or not bad or ill. He viewed health as the normal progression of life, and any abnormality, be it mental illness, criminality, or some other issue was just simply a distortion of that natural tendency
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Carl Rogers Theory The main basis of his theory was that everything was built on the actualizing tendency, which is the built in motivation that any organism has to develop itself to its fullest potential In other words, everything wants to be the best that it can be.
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Carl Rogers Theory His theories do not just apply to humans either. It is also true for plants and animals For instance, a plant is always trying to grow larger, whether that means it has to grow through a sidewalk, or a rock, it will try to overcome any obstacle.
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Healthy Personality Carl Rogers would describe a healthy person as someone who has an accurate perception of their world, and is open to trying new things, someone who lives in the present, not in the past or in the future.
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Healthy Personality A person with a healthy personality would be someone who has trust in themselves, and someone who truly feels as though they are free If a person truly feels free, they will be able to be creative and express themself
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Unhealthy Personality According to Rogers, a person with an unhealthy personality would be someone who has false perceptions of their surrounding world and are not open to new thing They are constantly worried about the past and future.
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Unhealthy Personality A persona with an unhealthy personality would also be someone who does not trust themselves and therefore is constantly doubting their own decisions Lastly they would feel confined, not free, and therefore cannot be creative and are unable to express themselves.
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Character Analysis According to Carl Rodgers, Frank Fitz is an unhealthy man because his incongruence between his ideal self and actual self. His ideal self is a tough, heterosexual, military man who has an obedient son. These conditions of worth were probably instilled by his military background.
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Character Analysis He tries to show these values with beatings of his son and talks about structure and homophobia. His aversion to the idea of homosexuality is apparent several times. When he is driving Ricky to school, he makes sure Ricky shares in his homophobic beliefs, and says that they have “something to be ashamed of.”
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Character Analysis However, his ideal self is very different from his real self. Though he wants to be a tough heterosexual man, he is actually homosexual and wants to have a loving relationship with his son. He shows part of his real self when he tries to kiss Lester. This huge incongruence between his real self and ideal self causes Fitz anxiety, and Carl Rodgers would say it makes him unhealthy
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Character Analysis Though he tries to hide it, it often seems as if Frank wants to have a better relationship with his son. One of these times came just after Fitz told Ricky to take a drug test. He seems to hesitate and looks as if he will tell Ricky he doesn’t have to take it. But he remembers that he is supposed to be strict and says, “Never mind.”
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Works Cited Boeree, Dr. C George. Personality Theories: Carl Rogers. Print. Myers, David G. Exploring Psychology. 6th ed. New York: Worth, 2008. Print.