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To cite this article: Giuliana Baccino, Paloma Salvadores & Eleuterio R. Hernández (2014)
Disclosing their type of conception to offspring conceived by gamete or embryo donation in Spain,
Journal of Reproductive and Infant Psychology, 32:1, 83-95, DOI: 10.1080/02646838.2013.853171
Introduction
Disclosing their origins to the offspring of reproductive donation is one of the most
controversial issues in reproduction (Cowden, 2012; Owen & Golombok, 2009;
Turkmendag, Dingwall, & Murphy, 2008). The parents’ attitude toward telling the
child about the treatment as well as the effect of this knowledge is a thorny factor
for consideration by medical doctors, psychologists, lawyers and ethicists. Parental
Survey questions
The semi-structured questionnaire with closed and open questions was specially
designed for this investigation taking into consideration the questionnaires used in
similar studies. (Blake et al., 2010; Soderstrom-Antilla et al., 2010).
The questionnaire contains 15 closed questions and one open question. This
open question refers to parents’ motivations to disclose or not the child’s origin, if
they have already decided. For this question, participants were encouraged to give
details on their motives.
The 16 questions composing the questionnaire covered self-report of the partici-
pant’s characteristics (age, sex, education level, type of family unit, who completes
the questionnaire, type of donation treatment); intention to disclose to the offspring
(if they had decided; why they had taken that decision; if so, at what age did they
intend to disclose); if they intended to advise the hospital where the child would be
born and tell other people (family and friends); if they thought that undergoing this
kind of treatment was a good decision; if they felt that the future child was theirs;
if they were concerned about the physical characteristics of the donors; and what
their attitude to psychological counselling during treatment and after (pregnancy
and post-delivery).
The questionnaire was handed out by the medical doctor during the first
appointment initiating treatment with the request that it be returned before the
blood pregnancy test, six weeks later. This was to allow them sufficient time to
discuss the questions with their partner (if they had one) and think over their own
attitude toward disclosing, when doing so would be best for the child and how they
personally felt toward their fertility treatment to obtain a child.
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Treatments
Intrauterine insemination (IUI) with sperm donation
Fourteen family units received donor intrauterine insemination (DI) treatment. Six
patients underwent this treatment because of their male partner’s infertility, and
eight were members of a lesbian couple.
The standard IUI procedure was followed as previously described (Gómez-
Palomares et al., 2008).
Statistical analysis
Quantitative analysis was performed with SPSS 11.0 (SPSS Inc., USA). For
descriptive statistics, we used means ± SD. Student’s t-test, Fisher’s exact test, and
the χ2-test were used where appropriate. P-value < 0.05 was considered significant.
The Pearson coefficient was calculated to determine correlations. The answers to
the open question were categorised, grouped and analysed. Investigator triangula-
tion was performed to gather and interpret data.
Results
Demographic results
Data from a total of 130 ‘family units’ were analysed; 94 (72%) were heterosexual
couples, 20 (15%) lesbian couples and 16 (12%) single women. These percentages
are representative of the population undergoing fertility treatments in Spain (Navar-
ro, 2011). The mean age of women who were part of a heterosexual couple was 40
years (SD 4.8), with 41 years for the men (SD 5.5). In lesbian couples the mean of
age of the future biological mother was 36 years (SD 2.9) and 39 (SD 3.9) for the
co-mother. The mean of age of the future single mothers was 39 (SD 4.0; see
Table 1).
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In the three types of family units our results reveal that, independently of the
type of family and treatment, the questionnaire was usually completed by the
mother (gestational or biological). In the heterosexual couples, 65% of the question-
naires were completed by the mother alone (independently of the type of treat-
ment), 33% by both parents jointly, and in 4% of the families, by the father alone.
In lesbian couples 50% of the questionnaires were completed by the biological
mother alone, 38% by the mother and co-mother jointly, and 13% were only com-
pleted by the co-mother.
Regarding differences of view about disclosing or not disclosing, only 5 women
(all future mothers in heterosexual couples) of the 130 respondents answered that
their partner did not agree with their opinion about disclosure. These five women
answered that they had not decided if they would disclose to the offspring.
Educational level
Two-thirds of our total sample had continued their education after completing sec-
ondary school; 18% had a post-graduate university degree, 30% a university
degree, 19% had gone to a professional school, 26% had completed secondary edu-
cation, and 7% elementary education.
In heterosexual couples 14% had post-graduate degrees, 36% a university
degree, 17% had gone to professional school, 26% secondary education and 7%
elementary school. However, among lesbian couples 38% had a post-graduate uni-
versity degree, 13% a university degree, 38% a secondary school certificate, and
none had only an elementary level or a degree from a training school.
The educational level of the future single mother families was: 29% post-uni-
versity graduate; 14% university graduate; 43% secondary school; and 14% had
only completed elementary school.
Table 2. Number and type of treatments per family unit, related with intention to disclose.
Type of treatment
Type of IVF + semen Egg donation + Embryo
family unit donor Donor IUI partner’s semen donation
Heterosexual 0 6 80 8
couples
Intention to 2 intend to 39 intend to disclose 4 intend to
disclose disclose disclose
1 no 13 no 3 no
3 not decided 28 not decided 1 not decided
Homosexual 12 8 0 0
couples
Intention to All intend to All intend to
disclose disclose disclose
Single women 10 0 0 6
Intention to 9 intend to 5 intend to
disclose disclose disclose
1 not decided 1 not decided
Age of disclosure
The majority of participants (85%) chose childhood (from 3 to 8 years of age) as
the best time for disclosure, while 7% chose adolescence and 8% chose adulthood
(Figure 3).
The first category could be called the ‘child’s right’ and it grouped all the
answers oriented toward one’s right to know the truth about their lives, origins and
the importance of a healthy parent–child relationship without lies (‘Because it is
part of my child’s life’; ‘Because the child has the right to know where he or she
came from’; ‘Everyone has the right to know their origins and the truth about their
history’; ‘It is my child’s right’).
The second category could be called ‘Honesty above all’, and grouped the
answers related to the importance of sincerity and honesty in the parent–child rela-
tionship (‘We should be as honest as we can with our children’; ‘This is a serious
topic, we must be honest’; ‘It is the truth and it shouldn’t be hidden’).
The third category is called ‘Fear of being discovered at the wrong time’, and
grouped those answers related to the future parents’ fear that their child could be
told about their origins by someone else or in a special situation (‘Fear of finding it
out in adulthood’; ‘I prefer to tell my child myself, not for someone else to tell
him/her’; ‘We should be the ones to tell him/her’). The fourth category, ‘Fear of
diseases’, grouped those parents who want to tell their offspring about their origins
because they think it is better to tell before anything could happen, in particular, a
disease (‘I must tell him, just in case in the future he has any illnesses’; ‘I should
tell him, we don’t know if a genetic disease may appear’).
Participants in this study received the same social and media input about dona-
tion treatment and disclosure as the rest of the general population in Spain. They
did not have any extra suggestions on the topic of disclosure. These answers were
not a result of the psychological consultation, because these consultations were
optional, and only five participants took advantage of them before or during
treatment.
Non-disclosure
While 17% of the participants decided not to disclose, only 3 described their
motives: ‘Because of moral convictions on both our parts’; ‘I will not reveal it’;
‘Because some children can tell others’, which we took to mean that the child
might tell someone he should not.
Discussion
Some research regarding disclosing their origins to the offspring born after a gam-
ete donation treatment has been done respectively, when the treatment is done and
the child born (Blake et al., 2010; Daniels, 2009; Soderstrom-Antilla et al., 2010);
in our study, as in other studies (Isaksson et al., 2011), we were interested in learn-
ing the future parents’ feelings before they had a child.
Study participation was high in a context in which disclosure to the offspring is
delicate and controversial; additionally, Spanish legislation establishes an anonymity
requirement in the donation process. In other European countries the legislation
allows, once the offspring is of age, the identity of the donor to be learnt and an
evential meeting with him/her (Berkel, Candido & Pijffers, 2007; Cowden, 2012;
Daniels, 2009; Laruelle et al., 2011; Soderstrom-Antilla et al., 2010). However,
when all gamete donation is anonymous by law, the consequent prohibition on
learning the donor’s identity means the child will never be able to satisfy his/her
curiosity about the donor. As confirmed by recent research, offspring are curious
and sometimes want to meet the donor (Beeson, Jennings, & Kramer, 2011; Jadva,
Freeman, Kramer, & Golombok, 2010). This curiosity may vary depending on the
type of family and the age of disclosure. This situation may make Spanish parents
aware of the importance of the timing of disclosure and, when they decide to do it,
of being sure to tell their children that they will never be able to meet the donor.
This should be discussed with the patients. The legal emphasis on the anonymity
of the donation process is something that will also have to be explained to the
child, and this issue should be addressed during psychological consultations prior
to starting a reproductive donation treatment and consultation should be available
before, during and after treatment.
In Spain, as in other countries, the offspring and their parents can have general
information about the physical characteristics of the donor(s) such as eye colour,
hair colour, blood group, etc.; nevertheless, according to law, they will never meet
their donor.
Our results are consistent with those presented in different European countries,
with 61% intending to disclose their pregnancy’s origin to their children (Berkel
et al., 2007; Daniels, 2009; Laruelle et al., 2011; Soderstrom-Antilla et al., 2010).
Parents choose to tell the children in order to be honest and establish an honest and
open relationship.
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Of the 22 family units who decided not to reveal his/her genetic origins to the
child, only 3 gave any explanation. With so few explanations, it is not possible to
say much, but interesting approaches for future research would possibly be deter-
mining whether and to what extent, if any, the parents’ moral and or religious con-
victions affect their attitude; this information might help to resolve the future
parents possible fears and fantasies regarding the possibility of the child revealing
their ‘secret’ or even rejecting the parents.
It would also be interesting to explore whether Spanish patients would prefer to
know more about their donors than they now know; for example, the donor’s
identity.
Of all participants who wanted to disclose their origin to their child (61%),
85% intend to do so during childhood (3–8 years of age). This will allow the child
to grow up with the knowledge as a part of their life, while revealing it during
adolescence or at adulthood may cause conflicts in the individual and in the
relationship with his/her parents because they have kept this secret from them.
Regarding disclosure to others, research describes different criteria considered
by parents in relation to their decision to tell their child and/or others. Sometimes,
they will disclose to family or friends, but not to the child (MacCullum &
Gombok, 2007; Murray & Golombok, 2003). Our study shows a different result;
there was a correlation (P < 0.005) between those parents who intended to disclose
to the child and those who would also tell others. Almost all of the family units
who wanted to disclose to others would also disclose to their child. It is important
to note that our results are in future parents, and the results presented by MacCal-
lum and Golombok and by Murray and Golombok were in families who already
had their children.
Regarding the decision-making about the donation, our results reveal that almost
all of our participants thought it had been a good decision to undergo a gamete dona-
tion treatment. The same happened when we asked the participants if they felt their
future child would be theirs. Almost all of them felt the child to be their own. Taking
into account that at the time of answering the questionnaire they were all beginning
or receiving the treatment, we insist on the importance of offering a psychological
consultation before starting a gamete donation or embryo donation treatment.
In relation to donor physical characteristics, traditional and non-traditional fami-
lies give high importance to this issue. This information gives us the idea that
because they know that although neither themselves nor their offspring will ever be
able to meet the donor, having information about the donor’s physical appearance
can give them some sense of what this unknown donor is like.
In conclusion, and in the Spanish legal context prohibiting donor identification
in reproductive donation treatments, the majority of our participants, heterosexual
couples, lesbian couples and single women, intend to disclose the origin of their
conception to their child. These results may provide some insights to practitioners
in countries where donor identity is not mandated on the parents’ high motivation
to disclose genetic origins in order to have no secrets between them and their future
offspring.
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