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Although the strategies in the following chapters will help you turn down the
dial on your social discomfort, you’ll never banish those issues completely.
Humans just aren’t wired to be blissfully happy and self-assured 100 percent of
the time. Even if you learn and apply every coping strategy there is, you need to
even if you use every technique you know to try to make them go away.
Sometimes you’ll feel anxious, regardless of how much you try to control
Some situations will always make you a little nervous, even if you’ve
successfully gone through them plenty of times (for example, most people
There will be instances where you’ll make a mistake, get rejected, or look
bad in a social situation, even if you do everything you can to prevent it.
You’ll feel down on yourself at times, no matter how much you try to
Even if you seem to have your shyness and insecurities under control, you
may go through a stressful period in your life that makes them flare up
again.
You may have been born with a tendency to be more anxious and insecure