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After you accept that you’re still going to encounter some social unease from
time to time, your aim should be to become socially functional, where even if
you’re nervous or self-doubting, you can still meet your goals. Don’t put your
social life on hold until you wipe all shyness from your mind, because that will
never happen. A key part of being functional is to realize you can be shy,
nervous, or insecure during a social event and still function and ultimately enjoy
yourself.
When people struggle with social anxiety, they sometimes look at their
They think if they’re not completely confident and relaxed, then they
have to skip it. If nerves strike when they’re with people, they think the whole
outing is ruined.
You can get through most social situations with some self-doubt or jitters. If
your nerves or insecurities are mild, they may not interfere with your outward
performance at all. Even if they trip you up a little, they won’t fully ruin the
conversation can easily be a success, even if you trembled or had trouble putting
When looking back at an outing, how nervous or unsure you were at the time
becomes even less important. If you get nervous in crowds but go to see your
favorite band anyway, five years from now you’ll be happy you went a