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Why I do not Call Myself a Feminist

by
Madhu Kishwar

“I have a horror of ‘isms’, especially when they are attached to proper names.”

M.K. Gandhi, March 12, 1940


Collected Works,Vol LXXI, p.323.

AT the time we launched Manusbi writings even in the early days of


in 1978, though 1 did not then openly Manushi.Fora while, a popular
challenge being labelled feminist. I feminist symbol appeared in each
resisted pressure that Manushi be copy, but that too was dropped as
called a feminist magazine. Some of soon as we could arrange for artists
us fell that if the magazine proclaimed to do special graphics for us.
that as its identification. Large Ideologies and isms can play an
sections of potential readers would important role in binding people
be alienated, since the term was abeji together for bringing about and
to the vocabulary of women in India hastening social change; provide
and inadequate to Manushi’s wilh the word Manushi, with its inspirational symbols for organised
purposes. It would inevitably evoke emphasis on the word “humane”, we expression of discontent; and help
associations with the women’s fell tyould indicate thai Manushi is make individual snuggles collective.
movement in the. west, which was concerned not just with women’s Today, when 1 refuse to be labelled a
known in India mostly through equality, as the term “feminist” would feminist, this is not because I prefer
simplistic stereotypes. These imply, but with the protection of the to be identified with some other ism.
stereotypes would then become an human rights of all the tiisadvantaged It is because I find currently dominant
unnecessary burden and people or discriminated groups in our society, isms inadequate, some even harmful,
would base their response to the while having a special emphasis on Let me try to delineate the issues
magazine on their prejudices women’s rights. involved.
concerning the current popular The avoidance of the label was Time-Specific Isms
nations of feminism. We deliberately not restricted to the title or subtitle of A distinction must first be made
chose the subtitle “a journal about the magazine. The term “feminism” between two different kinds of
women and society”, which, along almost never appeared in any of my ideologies which operate in political

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theory and Leninists which used to lend support and the USA, reinforced by thinkers
practice. The first to the politics of the terrorist brigades from many other schools of thought,
kind of ideology inspired by Bhindrawale in Punjab such as utilitarianism and Marxism.
evolves under justified their approach on the This second type of ism may not be
the pressure of grounds that this was a class struggle as time-specific as the first, but it is as
the specific of poor and middle class peasantry culture-specific.
challenges in a against the kulak farmers represented As I mentioned at the start, though
given society at a particular point of by the Akalis. Likewise, Marxists who I stand committed to pro-women
time. Often, it comes to be identified opposed the Bhindrawale type of politics, I resist the label of feminism
with the name of a particular thinker politics dismissed the urgent because of its over-close association
or political leader, such as the significance of the ethnic and political with the western women’s movement.
ideologies of Marxism, Leninism, and strife in Punjab and considered it I have no quarrel with western feminist
Maoism. However when the merely as a sign of false movements in their own context, and
movement dies down, or once it consciousness which was being feel strengthened by the existence of
achieves some of its immediate aims, promoted to destroy the potential of women’s movements in western as in
and usually after the leader’s death, real class struggle. Similarly, some of eastern countries. Manushi has
the ism ossifies. It is then used more those leftists who wish to climb on received a lot of love and support from
as a ritual chant, reduced to a set of the bandwagon of the new peasant all over the world from women who
deadening formulae by its votaries to movements are trying to bestow take pride in their feminist ideology
justify their own actions, though these Marxist credentials on these and solidarity and there are many
may or may not be logical outcomes movements, portraying them as feminists in India whose work and
of the original ideology. A good anticapitalist even though these ideas I respect.
example is the manner in which the movements make no such claim. However, given our situation
Indian Communists defined their There is little attempt made to grapple today, where the general flow of ideas
relationship of hostility to the with these movements on their own and of labels is one way, from West to
Mahatma Gandhi led freedom terms. East; in this overall context of a highly
movement, attacking Gandhi and his It is also apparent that isms which imbalanced power relation, feminism,
colleagues with the vocabulary and are founded by individuals who as appropriated and defined by the
critique borrowed wholesale from defined certain tenets in response to West, has too often become a tool of
Marx, Lenin and Stalin fighting a a specific situation in a particular cultural imperialism. The definitions,
totally different set of opponents. society at a particular time - like the terminology, the assumptions,
My problem with this kind of ism Marxism-Leninism and Maoism - are even the issues, the forms of struggle
is that while in its origination it may in crucial ways both time-specific and and institutions are exported from
play an important role in a creative culture-specific. While certain West to East, and too often we are
upsurge of ideas and action, it elements of these isms may be expected to be the echo of what are
becomes moribund once it is relevant at other times and places, assumed to be more advanced
institutionalised at a later point as the while they may provide inspiration women’s movements in the West.
final truth,and then applied in orwarningand one may learn much Importance of an
changed circumstances. What may from them, applying them as formulae Independent Self-View
have been a very creative idea or in other societies at different points Anyone working for women’s
strategy in the course of a movement, in time most often proves rights in India is automatically
as enunciated by its leaders in counterproductive. assumed to be a feminist, no matter
response to the immediate situation, Culture-Specific Isms what form their work takes. Yet people
becomes a bizarre parody when used The second kind of ism does not working for peace and disarmament
in a completely changed context. arise from one movement or one in the West are not assumed to be
Another effect of such individual leader or thinker, but often Gandhians, even though Gandhi is the
ossification of an ideology is that it pervades many different movements most outstanding leader of modern
furthers the common tendency to in the formof a structuring idea or times to have provided a philosophy
approach reality with a preconception tendency. Some examples of this and politics of non-violence, and led
of what it should be, and to justify second kind of ism are anarchism, the most noteworthy mass movement
one’s own actions on that basis, by humanism and feminism. Feminism based on non-violent principles. The
manipulating the ideological jargon. was an outgrowth of eighteenth Green Movement in Germany, and the
For instance, the section of Marxist- century humanist thought in Europe peace movement in the West in

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general, do not from the West; others, although Therefore, I found it difficult to
need to display “natives” like us, were better identify with them emotionally or
more than a mild grounded in the western women’s intellectually.
and patronising movement debates than in the reality Interestingly, Manushi was
interest in of women’s lives here. I remember my honoured often, at one and the same
Gandhi, because bewilderment at that time at the time, with all three epithets. We were
westerners ferocity of the label warfare. From called everything from radical feminist
assume thatthey have the right to where did it descend? Certainly not man-haters to bourgeois feminists to
define a self-image and choose their from any split in India on ideological leftist extremists, even though we
own terminology to describe lines. There were a handful of groups steadfastly refused to adhere to any
themselves. But the same right is not and individuals at that time working of the labels. Those using these labels
granted to us, the hitherto colonised. on women’s issues. Most of the to describe Manushi were clearly not
We are labelled “feminists” without groups had not crystallized describing our politics. Those who
so much as a by-your-leave, not only organisationally or theoretically. No imagined themselves socialists called
by western feminists but also by their political action on any significant us bourgeois, those who were also
counterparts in India. Many view our scale had yet been undertaken, and Marxist called us naxalites and
refusal to accept the label either as an so hardly any meaningful dialogue radicals. Realising that this
act of betrayal or as a sign of over strategy and tactics had taken ideological ism warfare was an unreal
insufficient ideological growth. I place.Yet, those mesmerised by the one, we chose not to enter into it.
believe that accepting or rejecting rhetoric of other movements tried to Instead, whenever accused of being
labels is not a meaningless ado about force us to assume the existence at bourgeois feminists or whatever else,
nothing. Being able to choose an that time not only of a major women’s we would ask the persons concerned
appropriate name and definition for movement here, but also of major to define the term and then to point
one’s politics is an important aspect divisions within it. We were out what in the magazine conformed
of evolving an independent self-view, supposed to have split even before to their definition. Not one of the label
provided the exercise is not merely we got a real opportunity to get givers we spoke to actually ended up
restricted to ritual debates about together, to see or hear one another, completing the exercise.
words. let alone carry out a debate among The labelling requirement distorts
Imported Labels ourselves. not only the present but even the
Sections of the women’s These labels were not used as past.I remembered being attacked at
movement in India have picked up not descriptions of the positions taken by a seminar organized by a group of
just the term “feminist” from the West individuals or groups or the work feminists at a women’s college in Delhi
but also all of the norms, assumptions being done by them, but as epithets University for presenting in a positive
and debates that emerged from it, as to condemn people you did not like, light the protest poetry of women like
well as to some extent those that that is, as good or bad character Mahadeviakka or Mirabai. Their
emerged from the polemics of the certificates. Label givers assumed that argument was that these women did
Russian revolutionaries. The most the most respectable term was not talk of women’s independence
blatant example of the movement here “socialist feminist.” This was usually and equality as they ought to have,
being compelled to act as an echo of reserved for oneself and one’s friends, that they merely chose to substitute
the supposedly more advanced as proof of one’s correct political for slavery to a husband slavery to a
movements in the West is the way credentials. Those one did not like god. In short, that they were
divisions were assumed to exist were sought to be condemned as inadequate as historical sources of
before they had taken shape. When, “bourgeois feminists” or “radical inspiration for women because they
in the late seventies, Manushi and a feminists”. The utter absurdity of could not be called feminist.
number of new women’s groups these ism labels was evident. They Expecting Mirabai to be a feminist is
began to emerge, certain self- have been used as sticks to beat up as inappropriate as calling Gautam
appointed theoreticians immediately people, to stifle intellectual growth and Buddha a Gandhian or Jesus Christ a
went about labelling different groups enquiry, to frighten people from civil libertarian.
and individuals as belonging to one thinking things out for themselves, to This approach to evaluating our
of three trends: bourgeois feminist, bully them into blindly accepting past is as inappropriate as the one that
socialist feminist or radical feminist. formula-ridden politics and repeating looks for feminists everywhere at all
Some of these self-appointed meaningless mantras, and to subject times. We need to understand the
certificate givers descended directly them to slander if they resist. aspirations and nature of women’s

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stirrings and the women’s movement. It seemed as compelled to drop it because it became
protest in foolish to take an a priori position a liability. Nevertheless, the entire set
different epochs against men, as some separatist of controversies aroused by the
in the context of feminists insisted on doing, as it termsin the West descended on us
the dilemmas of would be to insist, as a cardinal lock, stock and barrel. We were
their age, rather principle, on an unconditional alliance besieged by any number of self-
than imposing with men, as those who called appointed inspectors out to examine
our own themselves socialist feminists required the health of our collective. The idea
aspirations on the past. The past of everyone. It made no sense to of collectives was poorly thought out
ought not to be studied either to seek expect an undifferentiated response even in the West. Attempts to import
justifications for, nor faulted for, not from all men - or from women for that a structure that in actuality functions
having lived up to our present day matter. We felt that the actual only rarely and temporarily created
political inclinations, but viewed on responses of people, men and women, even more bizarre results among
its own terms, while acknowledging it to the issues we advocated would Indian women’s groups.
as our inherited legacy. provide a better indicator of whom to Another example of the
Expected To Be A Mirror build meaningful alliances with. Thus importation of institutional forms in
Image neither did we shun men on the basis the name of feminism is that of homes
The use of the term “feminism” of theoretically postulated for battered women. Over the last
and the resultant ism warfare brought confrontation, nor woo them insisting decade, innumerable western
with it a host of other problems. Even on a preconceived alliance. Partly as feminists have asked us: “Do you
in forms of organisation, we were a consequence, Manushi has over the have homes for battered women in
expected to live up to the standards, years received an unusual amount of India?” The assumption is that not to
patterns or mythologies evolved by support from numerous men with a have such homes is to be at a lower
western feminists, and to mimic all the variety of ideological orientations. stage of development in the struggle
stances taken within the movement Likewise, it was assumed that we against violence against women, and
there. You had to predecide, for must work through what western that such homes will be one inevitable
instance, whether you were going to feminists call “non-hierarchical stet outcome of the movement’s
walk hand in hand with, ahead of, or collectives” even if the experiment had development. The psychological
behind men. We were bullied to take a not really worked in the West. I have pressure exerted on us when the
position on separatism simply always opposed authoritarian question is repeatedly asked should
because the issue had been the cause structures. However, the particular not be underestimated because many
of a major controversy in the West notion of a “collective” common at activists begin to wonder whether all
and in certain left movements in other that time, and the unrealistic organisations in any way related to
countries. expectations that it created, proved women should in fact be creating
In the early years there were to be a mistaken import from the West. battered women’s homes. Some may
occasions when certain feminists from In the early phase of Manushi’s ask what is wrong with having a
the West who believed in totally existence, we unwittingly used the common international response to the
excluding men from participating in term without being aware of its history common problem of wife battering.
women’s movements threatened to in the western women’s movement. My answer would be that the
launch a boycott against Manushi We were then confronted with the completely different socio-economic
since it included a few articles and task of putting together a loose and cultural contexts should be
letters by men. At the other end of the heterogeneous group of volunteers studied before we accept any
spectrum a section of those who whose work commitment was often predetermined response.
considered themselves socialist not sustained. With fluctuating Homes for battered women in the
feminists in India accused Manushiof attendance and very unequal work West seemed to act as a useful type
being anti-men and also attempted to contributions, it was hard to say who of short-term intervention because of
organise a boycott against it. During among the volunteers would actually (a) the existence of a welfare system
all these years, despite these persevere and take responsibility in a which includes some, even though
pressures and attacks on us, we continuing way. We could not inadequate, provisions for public
studiously avoided duplicating the announce a fixed set of names as a assistance, unemployment benefits,
postures and responses of factions core group, since none existed. subsidized housing, and free
within the western feminist movement Though we provisionally chose the schooling for children; (b) a national
on the issue of men’s participation in term “collective”, we were eventually employment situation which is

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certainly very ideology follows a pattern similar to with every change in fashion in the
different from that of other imports, for example, that West: structuralism yesterday,
that in India; (c) of certain technologies and drugs. deconstruction or postmodernism
the lower stigma Many things known to be obsolete today.
on women living or unworkable and therefore discarded The International
on their own and in the West continue to be dumped in Bandwagon
moving around third world countries. Likewise, ideas In the West, feminism
on their own: and (d) the existence of and institutions which have been undoubtedly played a liberating role
certain avenues of employment there discarded by major elements in the for women. The differences in impact
that are not considered permissible for feminist movement in the West there and here are due to the channels
middle class women here, for instance, continue to be advocated here as through which this ideology is today
in domestic service. Most feminist appropriate feminist responses. reaching third world countries. In the
groups in the West who run homes It is not just that issues and West, feminism evolved from
for battered women aim primarily to campaigns have been imported. women’s own struggles against
offer the moral support required by a There has also been an attempt to oppressive power structures which
woman making the transition from emotionally live through the excluded them from equal participation
dependence on a husband to self- responses of the women’s movement in many aspects of the economic,
dependence, in a context where natal in the West, even though the social and political life of their society
families are not usually available to situations women face have been - for example, denial of the right to
offer thissupport. In India, hardly any different in India. For example, while vote or exclusion from universities and
women require simple moral support - the feminist movement in the West did other professional institutions. As a
they are in dire need of economic and experience ridicule, and even outright result, an important component of
social support. So a home for battered hostility, especially in the mass media, western feminism has been a radical
women, like a home for widows, feminists in India (as distinguished and anti-authoritarian thrust.
inevitably turns into a few token from the oppressed women they try However, the bulk of third world
charitable establishments which to represent) have, by and large, not women who got exposed to the
provide a subsistence level survival. been rudely treated. Sometimes ideology of western feminism did so
Charity, by itself, cannot be said to theyeven get disproportionate at a stage when western feminists,
further women’s equality. The attention. The mainstream mass media after years of struggle, began
battered women’s homes run by has gone out of its way to give succeeding in occupying a few
women’s organisations most often favourable publicity to feminists and positions of power and influence in
end up trying to persuade the marital their work. The media created this various institutions, especially
families of these women to accept space for feminists without universities and international funding
them back on slightly improved terms. resistance. Their support has been agencies. Through Western feminist
Only rarely have we been able to help fairly uncritical on the whole. Yet, the pressure and influence more money
women carve out independent lives. vocabulary used by feminists in India began to be made available for what
Yet, such is the hypnotic power is nevertheless often one that is used came to be called women’s projects
of feminist ideology that comes from by a persecuted movement, and as well as for women’s studies
the West that, despite our different India’s mass media are often portrayed programs in universities, first in the
experience of dealing with women in as though they have responded as West andlater in the third world
distress, setting up refuges and critically toward Indian feminists as countries.
shelters continues to be presented as have many sections of the western Thus, in India, new opportunities
one of the key components in media. were made available for a small
resolving problems of battering and All these factors seriously inhibit number of western educated women
maltreatment. This is so even though and stunt the process of who gravitated towards feminism.
the movement in the West for setting understanding the reality of women’s Being absorbed in international
up shelters and refuges has lost much lives in India. Women’s struggles in feminist circles brought upward
of its steam because even there it is India have followed quite a different mobility in jobs and careers, and
not proving to be as effective a course. However, feminist scholarship invitations to international
remedy against domestic violence as has often failed to provide an conferences and study programs.
the movement originally hoped. appropriate means of analysis. Its This access to jobs and grants,
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relatively easy for that in that case they would cancel counterparts rather than any
those calling the invitation they had extended. independent investigations within
themselves In most cases, third world this country. Often issues are picked
feminists as feminists end up becoming part of so- up simply because funds are available
compared to called international campaigns on the to work on these issues while they
those unversed basis of materials that present only are not available for other more
in feminist apartial picture of the issues. They are pressing priorities. Thus the
rhetoric. This was contrary to the often without access to any sources dependence on funding agencies
experiences of western feminists who of independent research and causes an undue emulation of the
had to struggle hard to find investigation, even when the issue changing fashions in the West.
acceptance in professions for requires careful study, interpretation Agreements and Differences
themselves. Since feminism brought and evaluation of specialized Apart from serious ideological
with it a certain amount of easy technical data. The campaign against reservations, there are more practical
international mobility for many third injectable contraceptives, launched reasons for refusing to call Manushi
world feminists, the ideological through newspaper articles about a a feminist magazine.
domination of western feminism and decade ago, is one of many examples The use of the term “feminist”
the resultant importation of frequently of how many third world feminists end does not tell me enough about those
inappropriate issues was absorbed up taking up cudgels on this or that who use the term to describe
uncritically. In this context, the use of issue without doing proper themselves. It, of course, tells me that
radical anti-establishment rhetoric homework. This campaign was in some waythey believe in women’s
borrowed by Indian feminists from the launched without even finding out equality, but so do many non-
early stages of the western feminist whether these methods were being ”feminists”. It is possible to be a
movement appears esppecially used in India and if so, how Gandhian, a liberal, a Marxist, and
inappropriate. widespread their use was, leave alone believe in women’s equality with men.
The process of mindless import of conducting careful evaluations within Experience has shown that those who
issues is most evident in many of the India to assess the negative side call themselves feminists may
international conferences. Third world effects of these contraceptives in disagree with each other on almost all
feminists are invited to such comparison to other available options. possible issues, including the
conferences with the expectation that The opposition was based on definition of women’s rights and
they will join the campaign on campaign material prepared in the freedoms.
whatever issues are currently West using data from some of the I have often been asked
fashionable in the West. Those who inconclusive studies available at that reproachfully by feminists: “How can
have resisted or expressed time. It seemed foolish for us to set you refuse to join the campaign on
reservations are usually excluded. To such a high priority on a campaign such and such issue if you are a
give just one example: some years ago here against something we were not feminist?” But, on many important
I was invited to attend a conference even sure was being used in India, issues concerning women, I often find
on reproductive technologies to be while we had not paid sufficient myself differing more with current
held in Germany. However, since the attention to higher priority issues feminist opinion than with other
invitation letter mentioned that those such as the millions of deaths being political groups not claiming to be
who attended the conference would caused in India due to lack of feminist. One way of resisting being
be expected to campaign against the availability of safe contraceptives for dragged into issues taken up by some
use of certain new forms of the majority of women, and the feminists on which I hold a differing
contraception and reproductive government pushing sterilization position was to learn to say: “I do
technologies being developed in the operations as the preferred method of not call myself a feminist, though I am
West, I wrote back saying that while I contraception, performing them under committed to the struggle for
was willing to discuss these issues, I extremely unsafe and unhygienic women’s rights. Let us discuss the
was not prepared to commit myself in conditions, causing serious health concrete facts of the case and consider
advance because, on the basis of problems for millions of poor women. the pros and cons of the approach
available information, I had not yet Nevertheless, a whole spate of articles being proposed and find out if we
been convinced about the need to by Indian feminists continue to be share any common ground, instead
oppose all these reproductive written on the subject, based mostly of starting out by assuming an overall
technologies. I was summarily told on data provided by their western solidarity or agreement just because

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we all assume takes on various issues is not guided has enabled us to have a genuine,
we are solely by considerations of women’s mutually beneficial interaction with
feminists.” equality - other considerations do many western feminists and believers
Let me come in, whether or not they are in other isms. It has enabled us to
illustrate the acknowledged. reach a much wider cross section of
point. Some Therefore, I find that the use of concerned people as well as to keep
feminists have feminism as a label does not guarantee our minds less fettered.
campaigned and anything. It does not provide Finally, all this does not mean I do
lobbied for more stringent legislation sufficiently significant information not have an ideology. I do, although
and tougher implementation of laws it does not have a name. I would like
about people’s perspective. Someone
to deal with obscenity or the to see a world in which the means for
calling herself or himself a feminist
degrading portrayal of women. I have a dignified life are available to all
need not necessarily have better
had serious reservations regarding human beings equally, where the
insights into women’s predicament polity and economy are decentralised
their approach and could not make than those who do not call themselves so that people have greater control
common cause with them on this issue, feminists. Over the last 10 years of over their own lives, where the
despite my abhorrence of insulting editing Manushi, we have often diversity of groups and individuals is
images of women. My reservations received articles from women who respected and non-discrimination and
were not related to a lack of called themselves feminist. Often, the equality are institutionalised at all
commitment to women’s equality but writers assumed that merely by levels.
to my mistrust of the State machinery labelling their articles “feminist” they I believe in a non-authoritarian
and of attempts to arm the State with were guaranteed not only ideological politics of consensus and non-
even more repressive powers than it correctness but also superior grasp violence and my immediate political
already has, in the name of curbing of the issues. However, in judging the goals include: working to ensure the
pornography. I find this a risky and worth of a piece of writing we have survival needs of all, especially of
unacceptable way of fighting for never tried to ascertain whether or not vulnerable groups; working for the
women’s dignity. In this case, my the writer is a feminist or an adherent accountability of governments to the
commitment to freedom of expression of any other ism. When judging the citizens with minimal State control
assumed primacy. worth of our own writing or that of over people’s lives; ensuring social
Similarly, a number of feminists others, we find it more useful to ask: and political space to minority groups
welcomed the death penalty for wife for the evolution of their identities;
Does it make sense? Has it got the
murderers, as they did in the Sudha and moving towards the lessening of
facts of the situation right? Does it
Goel murder case or when it was economic disparities. A primary
take into account the many sided
included as part of the anti-sati law motive in my life is working for
versions of a situation or does it
after the protests about the killing of women’s equality and freedom in all
oversimplify reality to fit it into a
Roop Kanwar. I continue to demand areas of life.
preconceived notion of what the
an end to capital punishment, no I do not rule out the possibility
situation ought to be? Will the that if in the future any ism arises
matter what thecrime, based on my solution proposed lead society
objection to the legitimation of killing that seems to me to be sufficiently
towards more humane and egalitarian specific to our culture and our times
by the State machinery, even when norms, and expand the horizons of
the pretext may be protection of in a way that it can creatively further
people’s freedom rather than further the goals listed above, among others,
women. A similar conflict arose over restricting them? Does it aid
the Muslim Women’s Bill of 1986, I may choose to accept it. However, I
oppressed people to survive and do not feel any sense of loss or
where a supposedly feminist position make greater efforts to throw off their disadvantage in working without the
became the pretext for a large section oppression? support of an ism. In fact, it gives me
of opinion-makers to stir up anti- An important reason for a much greater sense of freedom in
Muslim hysteria. This could only Manushi’s survival has been its trying to work out meaningful
work to the detriment of Muslim ability to keep a deliberate distance responses to our specific social
women. For this reason, even Shah from many of the preoccupations of situation, for I have to assume full
Bano decided to withdraw her case western and Indian feminists as well responsibility for my political ideas. I
challenging provisions of Muslim as from the wars between various cannot blame any ism or others for
personal law. Thus, the position one other isms in India.Paradoxically, this the mistakes I make.

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