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Introduction................................................. .................................................. .................................... IV

Part I

The Human brain and how it controls us ........................................... .................................................. one

Let us begin! .................................................. .................................................. ......................... two

The Five Senses ............................................... .................................................. .................... 6

The power of the Subconscious Mind ............................................ ........................................... 12

Environment, Memory Matrix, Emotions, Response and Evaluation ..................................... 13

The Conflict of Courage .............................................. .................................................. ............... twenty

The Association Network .............................................. .................................................. ............... 27

Part II

Self-esteem and Confidence ............................................... .................................................. ..................... 33

The ladder of Self-esteem and Confidence ........................................... ................................... 3. 4

Body Language - The Key to Attraction ......................................... ............................. 43

Posture ................................................. .................................................. .......... 44

Your look ................................................ .................................................. ....... 44

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Smile ................................................. .................................................. ............ Four. Five

Personal cleanliness ................................................ .................................................. Four. Five

Way of walking ............................................... ............................................. Four. Five

When you talk to someone .............................................. ................................ 46

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Climbing the stairs ............................................... .................................................. .............. fifty

Step one ................................................ .................................................. .................... 53

Step two ................................................ .................................................. ..................... 57

Step three ................................................ .................................................. .................... 61

Reducing Shyness ............................................... .................................................. 65

What is Trust ............................................. .................................................. .............. 69

Installing Trusted Triggers .............................................. ............................ 72

Continuing with the Upload .............................................. .................................................. ...... 80

Beginnings of Seduction .............................................. .................................................. ..... 85

Conversation topics ............................................... ................................................ 88

The signs of Seduction .............................................. ............................................... 93

Questions are the Answer ............................................. ...................................... 99

The Three Rules of Conversations ............................................ ............. 104

Creating Subconscious Attraction ............................................... .......................................... 105

Humor, Intelligence, Class, Dominant, Romantic .................................... 107

Sexual mastery, Generosity, Good listener ........................................... ..... 110


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A challenge ................................................ .................................................. ................................ 111

Loyal / Protective, Ambitious ............................................. ................................ 112

Signs that a Woman Desires You ........................................... ........................................... 119

Get Sex or Date .............................................. .................................................. ............ 121

Are you man enough .................................................. ..................................... 127

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III

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Introduction

Can you imagine a scientific method to make a woman feel

attracted to you ... quickly?

Visualize in your head the power you would have if you understood women

better than they understand themselves. What if you knew

EXACTLY what to say to get them to sleep with you

you?

When you finish this training, you will already have that skill.

Superman can fly.

Spiderman can scale tall buildings.

Your super power will be attracting women.

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Within this course you will find secrets that will transform even a

ugly, penniless and overweight man in a superstar of the

seduction that will use science and psychology to get women.

Many, many women.

Don't get me wrong. This is the real world, not a strip fantasy

comic. It will take time and effort to develop this super power of

seduction. But seriously, is there anything worth more effort than

learn how to sleep with the most beautiful girl in your city ... or from

any city? I do not believe it. And I assume you don't either.

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What you are about to learn is not based on theory or

Unproven "tactics" of a silly "How to Get" guide

Women". This is all based on science and psychology that have been

developed by the brightest minds that ever lived. This

based on how the human brain works and how it can be

"Hacked" by those who know the secret of how to do it. Secret that

I will teach you in this course.

First you will learn about the human brain and how it works in what

concerns feelings and emotions. This is the most important part of

your training. Here's the reason ...

What makes a woman attracted to you is how the

make you feel. It is not because of your appearance, money or muscles (these help,

but they are NOT necessary). It's about how you make her feel about herself,

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his life and the emotions that you make arise in it. So you need

know how and when our brain makes us feel in a way

specific at any given time.

You also need to learn about YOU and YOUR emotions. To most of the

men are terrified to think of approaching a girl with the intention of

seduce her. There is a reason and you will see what it is. By understanding the why of

this feeling, and how to overcome it, you will be ready to climb the “Ladder of

Seduction "and I will teach you how.

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The art of taking beautiful women to bed is not complicated.

It honestly isn't. There are buttons that you can press inside the

brain of a woman that will make her feel attracted to you. But only

if this is safely backed up in yourself. If you try to push

these buttons on a woman and you do it without confidence will not work.

Confidence IS very attractive to women. Naps


sure of yourself, you will have an abundant sex life.

So we will start the training by talking about the human brain and

how it makes us feel emotions based on past experiences.

Then we will show you how to overcome your fear of approaching women and

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develop a stone self-confidence.

Once I have taught you this, then I will go deeper into the

detailed seduction plan that you can use over and over again. This is where

things start to get good. The psychology part of

Training is, to be honest, a little heavy. Maybe you have to

read it a few times to make sense of it. But it is crucial for you

success. The fun part comes when I give you the seduction plan and

show how they relate!

SAW

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The information in this book is capable of changing lives. May

help you get all the sex you want, a better job, new

friends and make your life more exciting and interesting.

The fact is, once you know the strategies in this book, your life

will never be the same. Because you can already see through all the

crap that controls most people on a day-to-day basis. The

automatic brain responses. The anxiety. The fear of trying something

new. You will gain a new understanding of how YOU work. And one

Once you understand this, you will never be the same.

I want you to imagine something. Imagine you are in a bar at the airport.
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You are sitting there in your chair having your favorite drink. A beautiful and

blonde stewardess sits next to you and orders an orange juice.

You are waiting for a flight to Germany, a country you have never visited

before. You get excited thinking about the stories you will have to tell

when you return. You think, "Why don't I start now?" And you decide

come over to chat with the stewardess.

It turns out that she is working that day. On the same flight as yours ...

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That night, when you arrive at your destination, she spends the night with you and they have the

best sex she has ever had in your life (You are already used to it.

You usually have spectacular sex every now and then!).

In the morning, she tells you to contact her when you return to Germany, and

it goes. Staring at you with desire as he closes the hotel door at

leave.

You put your hands behind your head on the pillow and smile

while looking at the ceiling. Not long ago you were a mess around

women.

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Now look at you. You are alone, in a foreign country, you already slept with a

beautiful stewardess, and without a doubt you will meet another woman tonight (and

You probably won't call the stewardess when you go back to Germany, you won't

repeat interest).

After a refreshing shower you put on your favorite clothes and decide to go out

to explore the country where you are. What will bring today? You wear a

little aftershave and you smile to yourself in the mirror. Now you live one

life of excitement and fun. You are like James Bond. You are the man!

Does it sound like fantasy? For many men it is. 97% of men

they only dream of that kind of experience. But you do not. For when you have

finished this course you will have all the tools you need to

make this a reality. And it doesn't matter if it's a stewardess or a girl who

You met in your favorite coffee, let the women prepare! Now you will go

behind them ...

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Are you excited for what the future will bring? Great! You should

be! Very soon you will be able to experience a sex life that normally

only rock stars and millionaires live. But there is still a lot

work to do!

This first part of the course is the heaviest. But it is also the most

important. So if you feel like you have to read and reread this part over and over

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again no problem. Every time you do it you will find more


sense until in the end everything clicks on you. This is how you will begin

transformation!

As I said, the objective of this first part of training is that:

Understand how the human brain works


Understand how our past experiences affect our
emotions
Understand why most men feel nervous
when they approach women.
And a lot lot more.

The reason you need to know this is because the human brain

control yourself, her and the rest of the people on the planet. And it controls us

much more than most people realize.

When you know how your brain works - it's easier to enjoy your

life and be happy.

When you know how women's brains work - it's a lot,

much easier to attract them.

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Trying to make a woman feel attracted to you without

know how your brain, way of thinking and emotions work,

it's like trying to drive a car with a bandage on. Not

you will last long.

So let's get started ...


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Every human being on the planet sees the world differently than

other human beings. This is due to their past experiences.

Most men have developed thought patterns

negatives about women and sex, due to their past experiences and

not to understand how the mind works.

A negative thinking pattern is a belief like this:

No woman is going to notice me


Women are scary
I have low self-esteem
Women only date handsome men
Women only date rich men
I behave like a fool in front of women
I'm not a "cool" type

Etc etc…

These beliefs are false. Each and every one of them. These have been

developed through negative experiences throughout your life and

through something called Social Conditioning , which in terms

simple, is how we are influenced by other people and by the media

Communication.

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Every person on the planet has developed thought patterns

automatic, positive and negative, without realizing it. And these patterns of

Thought controls who you are on a day to day basis. They also control who

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She is a woman on a daily basis.


What you think you see is not what is actually happening in the

world. It is the world seen through the filter of your experiences

past.

The human mind has evolved to take things from the environment

where you live that are valuable to your survival and safety, both

on the physical as well as the mental level. The goal of your brain is to get away from

pain in the day to day and head towards pleasure.

Due to your past experiences you have built a series of beliefs

about the way the world works. While some people

love to act in front of others, and therefore they will be attracted to that guy

of activity (pleasure), others would rather die than speak in public

(pain).

Why is this happening? This is due to past experiences in your

life and how you have perceived them. These experiences dictate the how

you will think and feel before similar experiences.

I will repeat this as it is very important ...

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Your past experiences, and how you saw them in that moment,

they will dictate how you will think and feel when you experience
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similar situations.

This part of the training is about showing you how you have developed

your "way of seeing the world" - the way you see life every day.

Remember, understanding yourself is the first step in becoming a

master of seduction.

Get ready. This is where it all begins!

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The Five Senses


We can never know absolute reality. We have been provided with five

senses by which we perceive the world. Sight, hearing, taste, smell

and touch. These are amazing tools which, at the same time,

allow our brains to be aware of 2 million pieces of

information per second. But still, his ability to understand

The reality in which we live is extremely limited.

For example, as you read this, there are colors in the environment around you

you can't see, sounds you can't hear, smells you can't smell and

flavors you can't taste. This does not mean that they do not exist. Alone

it means that they are not within your conscious perception .

As humans we all live in a world where we have information

common in reality. For example, if we see a dog we know

what is a dog. If we see heaven, we know what heaven is.

However, we also live in a world where we create our

own version of reality. While we all see a spider and

we know it is a spider, some will want to keep it as a pet

while others will want to jump in a chair and scream.

Although we all see the same spider, not all of us see the spider of

the same way.

Why is this happening? How is it possible that two people can see the

same thing and feel different about it?

We get our worldview from the way our

mind takes the information it gets from our five senses and gives it

its own meaning.

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It is through our senses that we obtain the natural information that

our brain uses to decide how we will feel in any

moment. However, it only uses the most important things that

our senses collect from the environment.

You see, we unconsciously process two million pieces of

information per second. And when I say unconsciously, I mean

that we are not aware of all the pieces of information, but

our subconscious does.

Research by George A Miller has shown that at the level

conscious we can only be aware of what he called “seven-

plus or minus two ”pieces of information.

In simpler terms, anytime in our heads

we are processing two million pieces of information about the

environment around us. But consciously we are only noticing between

five and nine.

This collection of five to nine things that you are aware of is

very selective. For example, you might not have been aware of the tip

off your nose until you read this sentence. But now you are, right?

Before you had read that sentence the tip of your nose was just one

of the two million pieces of information you're processing from

unconsciously at any given time. By directing your attention

towards this as I did now, it became one of the five to nine things that

they entered your conscious thought pattern.

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This happens to all the information that is part of your reality of

moment by moment, which makes you think about how much information we

we lose in the day to day.

This is why it is important ...

Your subconscious mind chooses what you perceive from the environment to you

around. Choose what you pay attention to and what you ignore, what

what you value and what you don't And it does all of this automatically.

Studies show that 90% of human behavior is

automatic. Everything happens without us thinking about it.

This can make you feel a little uncomfortable, running on "pilot

automatic ”, but don't let it bother you. It's more of a relief to know

This information, you will see at the end of this course.

Here's a vital thing to understand. Those five to nine

pieces of information that we focus on, are the things

that our brain considers of more VALUE for us in that

moment. (We will be seeing the word VALUE a lot throughout

this course).

A psychological theory called Gesalt's theory refers to this as

information in the “foreground” and in the “background”.

The information in the foreground is the information selected by your

subconscious, which has enough value to be brought into your perception

conscious and so become one of the five to nine pieces of

information that we are aware of at any given time.

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The "background" information is the other information that our

senses have perceived but have decided that it does not have enough value

to become one of the five to nine main pieces.

IMPORTANT. YOUR BRAIN WILL USE YOUR PAST EXPERIENCES

TO DECIDE WHAT IS VALUE IN YOUR DAILY LIFE.

IT WILL DECIDE WHAT IS CATALOGED AS INFORMATION OF THE

"FIRST PLANE" AND "SECOND PLANE".

This happens with all human beings. If someone enters a room and sees

a spider, and is afraid of spiders (due to past experiences),

this would take your greatest attention and concentration. Your subconscious mind

It would bring the spider into his conscious perception and force him to look at it.

Whereas if someone walks into a room and sees a spider but it doesn't scare him,

this would have no effect on that person and their brain would not take it on

bill. You would only see the spider if you looked directly at it.

Your brain pays your attention where it believes there is value in that

moment, either to get away from pain or get closer to pleasure.

Let me give you an example ...

You walk into a bar and two girls look in your direction and then they whisper and

laugh. You feel embarrassed since it is very obvious that they are talking

of you.

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Suddenly, all your concentration is on not being like a

stupid.

This is what really happened ...

You walked into the bar while the two girls were in the middle of one

conversation. They were talking about her sex life. The bar door

it opened and like most of the people in the bar they turned to see

Who entered. After a brief glance one of them followed the conversation,

whispering about how sex had been with her boyfriend the night before and

they both laughed.

Think about this for a second. None of them had you on their radar until

that the door opened. For a fraction of a second you entered his zone.

of "foreground" information, and then you came out when they realized

they didn't know you. They just continued their conversation.

You, however, think you saw them laughing at you. They are in the

close-up of your mind and you're trying to stay calm and

be cool about not giving them more reason to laugh at you (which in

It really makes you look less "cool"!). The value of this situation is that

you want to look like a fool. That has value for you.

And what about all the other people in the bar who didn't react

before you? Why didn't you focus on them? I'll explain this to you more

go ahead, but for now I can tell you that all this adds to the image

that you have of yourself.

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If Tom Cruise or any other Hollywood superstar had come in

at the bar and seen the same thing, the two girls looking at him and laughing, do you think

that he would have felt ashamed or thought that the girls

Were they laughing at him in a bad way? Of course not! He would have thought

"Those girls want me." Or even if I thought that the girls

they were laughing at him in a negative way, he would have had so much confidence

In itself he wouldn't have cared. He would have had the courage. Not

they.

We will review that later. For now I want you to understand two things about this

section.

1. What you think you see does not make your reality real. your
The mind focuses on things to help you avoid pain. AND
usually does things wrong.

2. Your mind consciously chooses five to nine pieces of


information from your environment and brings them to your perception. This one uses
your past experiences to decide what is of value to you.

I know this is getting heavy, but don't despair. Is

information truly changes lives ...

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The Power Of The Subconscious Mind

Now I am going to explain the steps that the subconscious mind takes from

first moment you realize the need to consider or

respond to information from the environment, until the end of your

response to that information.

The human brain wants to conserve energy. The brain only needs the

20% of the oxygen and calories you consume to function

appropriately (this increases in situations of stress and extreme fear).

In order to keep balanced the levels of oxygen and calories that

needs, the human brain has evolved to link experiences

each other in order to learn what your complete attention needs

And why not.

For example, a mundane thing like brushing your teeth or putting

clothing very quickly becomes an unconscious process. Once

you start doing it… it just happens. You don't have to be thinking that.

Walking is also an unconscious process. You don't have to think to

put one leg in front of the other.

On the other hand if you are walking on ice, and your safety

depends on you walking slowly, then there will become a

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conscious thought process since the brain knows that


you could hurt yourself. So it forces you to think about it.

A drunk person walking on ice would be much less careful.

Why? Because your cognitive ability is affected at the level

conscious and subconscious. Alcohol has reduced the power of the brain.

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So the brain decides what needs your attention in your

ambient. There are five steps that occur from the millisecond that your mind

subconscious realizes something in your environment until it brings it to your

conscious perception:

1. The Environment

This is the external event. You see, hear, touch or smell something in your

ambient.

2. Memory Matrix (VERY IMPORTANT)

An array is a network that contains information. When your subconscious

see (or smell, listen, etc.) something in your environment, it will look in your

memory experiences you have already had similar to the one you are

experimenting now.

3. Emotions

When a match is found in memory, a

emotional reaction to what is happening in the environment.

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4. Answer

Depending on the emotions and their strength, a "sequence of

thoughts ”and / or behaviors, based on memories, begins.

This results in the way you feel in that environment and therefore

in the way you act.

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5. The Evaluation

This part is the best! After an event occurs, your mind

subconscious will confirm or deny its validity in keeping you safe

physically and mentally (for which it has been programmed in its evolution).

You will think “that was great, I was unharmed. I can do it again "or" Rays

that was very wrong. I must remember trying to avoid that at all costs. ”

We are going to use the previous example of the man who enters a bar and goes to

two girls laughing at him.

1. The Environment

The person enters a bar, sees two girls turn to see him, whisper and

They laugh.

2. The Memory Matrix

The subconscious mind perceives this before man realizes it.

It begins to search memories in your mind that are similar to

concept of girls looking at him, whispering and laughing. Find a

I remember his times at school when he was teased. This


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process happens immediately. Not in a few seconds or minutes. Happens

instantly.

3. Emotions

This is brought to your conscious mind and immediately begins to

feeling anxious and embarrassed. He thinks it's because the two girls are

they are laughing at him. But the emotion is based on an experience

past that is similar.

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4. Answer

He starts to blush and feels embarrassed. Concentrates on

make sure you don't do anything embarrassing. You feel insecure and your

self-esteem goes to the ground. She wants to run away from there! This is

called "Safety Behavior" in psychology, which is when

you try to avoid a situation that makes you feel bad.

5. Evaluation

After he leaves the bar he begins to think about what came out

wrong when he walked in the door. He promises himself that the

Next time you will pay more attention to the way you walk. He will try

to avoid eye contact so you don't have to notice these things that

bother you. The next time you visit a bar you will feel even more

insecure and your self esteem will continue to decline.

This type of automatic response to our environment happens every

days. Those five steps are happening tens of thousands of times a

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day in your subconscious. Most subconscious reactions do not

they are neither bad nor good. But some are bad. And these are

based on your past experiences.

Ask yourself this question:

Are there areas in your life that scare you or make you anxious?
Are there people, actions, or events you are trying to avoid
Why do they make you feel restless? This goes through experiences
similar passes.

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Here's the scary part. Remember that what man thought

he saw in the bar, two girls making fun of him, it was not what really happened.

The girls were not laughing at him. Even so, this memory will be added

to your memory array for future reference. And everything is based on

false event.

IMPORTANT. The feelings we experience every day are

mostly based on past events. And these events may be

or not true.

If you find women intimidating, or even just missing a

little more confidence in yourself, this is due to your reactions

unaware of the environment around you. And these reactions

Unconscious are based on experiences from your past.

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If you were the typical popular guy at school who was always surrounded by
the most beautiful girls in the class and you were part of the “cool” group, so

you probably feel very comfortable around beautiful women

Unless something embarrassing happened and the girls laughed

from you and you still have not been able to overcome it).

A guy who was popular with women at school and who is

used to women going crazy for him, he would have

reacted differently if I had entered the bar and seen

two girls laughing at him. He would have seen it as "They are talking about

me. Probably because they want to sleep with me. ” That, or not

it would not have mattered at all. Your subconscious mind would have

found positive memories of women watching and laughing.

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On the other hand, yes, like most of us you weren't surrounded

girls time then you will find beautiful women or even

intimidating average girls. Especially if you had bad

experiences at school.

It is in our youth that most of our perspectives on

the world are formed. Our experiences, from childhood to

adulthood, shape us as human beings and determine how we feel

about us and about other people.

If you experienced something as a child that made you feel ashamed,

for example, if you answered a question in class and your classmates

they made fun of you, or if your parents, siblings or friends bothered you

constantly, then you will grow up to be a shy man and you will lack

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self-esteem and confidence.

The years of our adolescence have a very particular power

when it comes to our feelings towards ourselves and

towards women. When men enter puberty

begin to feel emotions towards women who had never

had before. They begin to notice how the girls' breasts

of the class grow. That girl you found disgusting now does

butterflies in your stomach. Suddenly you start to

have sexual fantasies about her.

When your adolescent hormones start to go wild

you start coveting the girls in your class. You have a lot

strange thoughts and you start desperately wanting

kiss (or more!) the object of your desire. From here one of these

things happens:

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1. If you are brave enough you tell the girl that


you wish you like it. If she says she likes you too
then your confidence will increase. If this happens several times you
trust will grow tremendously. And trust is the quality that
women like it more.
2. If you are brave enough to tell the girl that
you wish you like her and she rejects you, or worse, laughs at you and
he tells his friends, then it is very likely that this
experience is so devastating that your brain will decide that the
trying to attract a girl is a painful experience. AND
this will make you feel nervous when you experience something
similar in your life.
3. If you are not brave enough to tell the girl
that you wish you like, the more time passes the more difficult
will be doing it. This is called "Escape" in psychology.
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The more you avoid something, the more difficult it will be to do later. The
avoidance is a behavior that humans use to
protect us from repeating past negative experiences.

Now it is not always at puberty that a man develops fear

of approaching the opposite sex. You could have been 26 years old, you tried to

Board a girl at the bar, you were rejected and your friends laughed at you.

Because this was painful your brain will remind you of this every time

try to approach a woman, saying something like "This was painful the

last time. Do not do it!".

Or as I said, it could have been experiences in your childhood that no longer

remember. Something as insignificant as the fact that a mother did not come to her

son when he was crying can affect how a man is

will relate to women in the future.

The point is, my dear reader, your brain can be your most

great enemy. Most people have no idea

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how their brain works and they think the feelings that are

feeling define your personality. That's not true. They are just

feelings! And they are feelings based on past experiences.

Feelings that can be changed.

Our past experiences tell our brain how to make us

feel in any situation. But this behavior in "pilot

automatic ”can be rewritten.

This is good news for two reasons ...

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1. It means that if you need more security around women,


or even on a day to day basis, there is a specific reason why it happens
this. You were not “born that way” and you can certainly develop a
rock star self esteem (which I'll show you later in this
course).
2. You can use the knowledge that our past experiences
dictate how we feel in the present, to make women
they feel GOOD around you without their knowing it.

Sounds good doesn't it?

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The Conflict Of Courage

As I said, we recognize any external event through

our five senses. Sight, hearing, taste, touch and smell.

Our senses are used to valuing our environment already

determine what needs our attention at that time. Hence, our

brain will give that moment a meaning (the way we

sorry).

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The journey from an external event to an internal meaning goes more or

less like this:

Our subconscious mind begins to filter the two million

pieces of information in our environment by selecting which aspects

sensory aspects of our environment are:

a) The most powerful (eg: if someone vomits on you, I doubt very much that
focus on color! The smell would stand out more)
b) The most relevant to your physical security (from the point of view
from your subconscious)
c) The most relevant for your mental security (from the point of view
from your subconscious). Your brain searches for things to keep you
emotionally happy and away from pain.

Once your senses have filtered the environmental information send

this information to a part of the brain called the thalamus, which

It looks a lot like a junction box.

The thalamus then sends natural information to areas of the brain

responsible for processing it and deciding what is important and what should be

led to conscious perception.

And this is where it gets interesting ...

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When these parts of the brain send the information back to the thalamus,

after processing it there is 80% more information. Somehow the

Brain has added more information than it has received! Information

that you have added is information from your past experiences in situations

Similar.

And this is the information that is sent back to the thalamus after

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of being seen through the “lenses of your memory net”, which is

responsible for our emotions and how we feel.

What this means is that essentially 80% of what we experience

it is "manufactured". It is not the reality of that moment. It is a combination of

that moment and all the past moments that we have experienced and

which are similar to the present.

It is this "manufactured" information that makes us feel good, bad or indifferent

at any given time.

This is further proof that what we experience in our

"Reality" depends on prior learning from experiences

past the "reality" of that same situation.

From the moment we were born we have been building our

own perspective of the world, allowing us to navigate it day by day

without any danger. For example a child could touch a hot oven by

first time and very quickly you will know that you should not do it again.

By the time we are adults we think we know very well how

the world works. We know we can't go through walls if we

we stop bleeding, driving too fast is dangerous, etc. We learn

this by means of the following:

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1. Through a circumstance that we have experienced


themselves. We have experienced these things ourselves and
we know (or think we know) that they are "true"
2. We have built reference experiences through information
secondhand. Through what other people say it is
true.
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Here is the point. Two million pieces of information are absorbed

through our unconscious mind every second. If every piece were

analyzed fairly, it would probably take our lives

entire process the moment of our birth (and thank goodness that

We don't have to do that!) This is where the psychological principle called

"Deletion" comes into play.

Your mind will focus on what has VALUE for you. Something that has

Courage is something that can harm you physically or mentally, or provide

Pleasure. Everything else is "deleted" and you stop noticing it.

Evolutionary psychology explains that all the pieces of information that

are erased, are the pieces that are not relevant to keep us

with life. All the remaining pieces are the most indispensable for

keep us away from danger.

Think of cave times. If the cavemen had

detained to process the two million pieces of information, while

Saber-toothed tigers chasing them, humans

we would have gone extinct many years ago!

Take a test. Tell a friend to close her eyes and mention 5

pieces of information like the color of the wall, what necklace are you wearing,

etc. See how many he mentions correctly. It's amazing how much

information we ignore all the time!

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Understands this. For self-assured men to see

a girl laughing as they walk into a bar would probably be ignored

or seen positively. This would not be the same for the person in the example

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to use. For this one, and perhaps for you, a girl laughing in that situation
it would be like a saber-toothed tiger in his subconscious, threatening his

"Survival" because they think girls have more value than

they.

This is a "distortion". It's not real.

Your mind will see the world as you expect to see it. And this will depend on

past experiences of your life. Everything will mix so that

what we see and experience is what we are waiting to see

instead of what is actually happening.

What your mind usually does is ignore any small changes in

the environment that cannot harm you mentally or physically or give you pleasure, and

concentrate on what you can. Imagine the caveman again.

If he were to come out of his cave and pay attention to a rock that doesn't

has moved from its site in the last 10 years, you may not be able to notice the tiger

who is stalking him. So your mind takes the rock out of your perception and

Look for something that may be of more value to him.

There are several reasons why this is very, very important ...

The reason that most men are not successful with

women is simply because they believe that the girl, whom

they are attracted, it has great value for them. So they do

one of these things:

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1. They do not approach it for fear of being rejected (Being rejected and
the emotional pain caused by this matters more than
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the chances of having sex with her).

2. They avoid talking to women because they think they have


less value than them and they don't deserve your attention.

3. If they do approach the girl they do it feeling nervous and


anxious because they think the girl is above them and
is of greater value. Women find this little
attractive. Therefore, they don't get what they were looking for.

It is the belief that women are at a higher level than yours

It makes you so scared to approach them. And it makes being

rejected will make you even more afraid. Your brain sees women as if

had a very high value, due to your experiences with women in your

adolescence or when you became an adult.

Because your subconscious mind sees women as having a

high value, and puts you at a lower level, makes you feel nervous

when you board them. But it is a DISTORTION. It's not real.

This is based on your past experiences with women.

Something else you should understand is that we assign value to something if

We believe that we will not be able to experience it again. So we lend you

a lot of attention.

Think you're on vacation in Paris and you're standing in front of the Tower

Eiffel . You do not know when or if you can return to this place. So you absorb

everything in the environment.

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The same goes for women. Men approach women with the

mentality of "this has to work because if she rejects me maybe

don't have sex for a while. " While men who are GOOD

they approach women thinking something like "If she doesn't like me there is

many women EVERYWHERE who might like it. ”

One last thing. Television, the press, and our friends and family

they condition women to be on a pedestal. This is called

Social conditioning. There are many areas of Conditioning

Social and one of them deals with how we are influenced to think about

opposite sex.

As men, we are conditioned to believe that beautiful women

they are better than us. Think about when you are with your friends and a

pretty woman walks past them and they all stop, look at her and give

nudging each other. They say things like "What would I give for one night

with her". What does this? It makes you conclude that the

beautiful women are better than you. But they are neither better nor

worse.

The reason many men have problems with women is

for something I call the Conflict of Valor:

For most men, women represent great value, in

the sense that sleeping with a woman brings us an experience

pleasant.

Unfortunately women also represent a great value, in the

sense that they have the ability to cause us pain by rejecting us or

humiliate ourselves.

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And women also represent a great value since we believe

that there is a shortage of women who want to have sex with us. So

that when men approach women they do it in a bad way and

thinking that they will fail.

It is this conflict that causes many men to have problems with

women. On the one hand they want sex, but on the other they are afraid of

be rejected.

Remember. Your fears towards women are NOT based on reality.

They are based on your past experiences and social conditioning, the

which have led you to falsely believe that there are not many women there

outside they would want to sleep with you.

I am here to assure you that MANY but MANY women are

ready to sleep with you. They are everywhere. But ONLY if

you develop the confidence that attracts women. I will show you how to do

that later in the course.

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The Association Network

One of the reasons why we learn as fast as

we do is because our minds tend to learn by association

(interconnecting things). Anything we experience tends to be

compared to past experiences in our life.

The reason humans have developed this ability is to

that we don't have to spend a lot of time trying each new

experience as something totally new and testing behaviors

randomly to see if they are appropriate for that situation.

Instead we take pieces of our behaviors in

similar past experiences and we use that information to find out how

behave.

Generalization is the foundation of learning. Trying to learn something

totally new, that is outside your knowledge, is infinitely more

difficult than trying to learn something that is similar to something you already know.

This has an indisputable value for survival. If a tiger teeth

saber tried to eat you yesterday and running away saved you from being eaten, then it's

a useful generalization to assume that if you see a saber-toothed tiger

it will try to devour you again and running away is the best way to avoid

this.

This is very important to you because they are usually bad

generalizations, made by our subconscious mind, what causes

that we are afraid of approaching women and rejection.

Let me show you the power of generalizations and how they

they provide a limited perspective of the world ...

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A group of psychologists did an experiment where they took 100

people randomly and placed them in a room with a door.

They offered them $ 10 if they could open the door. In each case the subject

He pushed, pulled, and then declared that the door was closed. But I don't

I was. The door was designed with the hinges on the same side of the

handle.

No one had the flexibility to think "Could this door work differently

than any other door you have used before? ”

People lock themselves into thought patterns, through

generalizations and memory matrices, which dictate the way in which

behave. In your case you may have developed a pattern of

thinking like "Women are more valuable than me" and this dictates your

behavior. You try to stick to "safe behaviors" to

do nothing that can provide women with a reason to

reject you. And this is affecting your self-esteem and your life.

Let's dig a little deeper into this concept ...

I recently explained to you that when the subconscious picks up something in the

environment sends the information to an area of your brain called the thalamus and

This message returns with 80% more information than before. How does

this?

We all have millions and millions of memories. Some of

we feel that we have a good memory and a great collection

of memories of when we were young. Others can hardly remember

nothing.

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Unlike a cabinet, a particular memory is not found in

just one area of the brain. It's actually scattered all over the brain

in different places.

Imagine all these memories connected in a large interconnected network.

The sum total of all these memories is our reality, the way

that we see the world. The number of connections between these memories is

too big for us to understand. Throughout our

These memories and connections continue to grow.

So an array is a collection of memories interconnected with each other

on a specific topic. This matrix will have an emotional meaning,

whether positive or negative, and often a pattern of behavior either

to reduce negativity or maintain positivity.

For example, if you had acted on stage when you were a child and everything

it would have been splendid and you would have received an amazing round of

applause, it is very likely today that it motivates you to take any

opportunity to appear in front of a crowd and act. This

It would explain why there are so many bad singers in the industry.

On the other hand, if you were a child who, during a school play,

he muttered his lines, was embarrassed and saw people mocking as he

I was on stage, the thought of speaking the audience could terrify you.

Why is this happening? Because your mind is generalizing with that

past experience.

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These experiences, good or bad, can take place anywhere


time of your life and can create generalizations that have an effect

positive or negative.

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As a whole, most of the experiences you will have in your life do not

They will be so bad and therefore will not have a big impact. However to

Sometimes you can experience something that really bothers you. And you are

experiences can have negative effects later on.

Evidence shows that nothing is forgotten, even when we cannot.

consciously remember. In the 1950s a neurosurgeon called

Wilder Penfield performed a series of brain operations on patients

aware that they suffered from epilepsy.

Part of the operation involved touching parts of the brain, which

they worked with memory, with a low-voltage electronic probe. He

discovered that by touching those parts of the brain, over and over again in

exactly the same points, the patient remembered the same memory.

Here is the important part. Not only was the event remembered, but the

Feelings associated with it were also reproduced. The patient

he felt the same emotion that the situation originally produced.

Day-to-day events can affect us in a similar way to

Doctor Penfield's probe.

Have you ever smelled something that suddenly transports you to the past? By

example smelling an aftershave or perfume that reminds you of an ex-girlfriend

or someone you wanted. Maybe it will only last a few seconds or maybe it will last

a little more, but while it lasts, a torrent of thoughts and


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emotions flood your consciousness making you feel happy, sad, scared,

angry, etc., depending on your past experience with that smell.

The same goes for music. We can hear a song and

Instantly being transported to a past time in our lives.

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The same thing happens when people ask us to remember something

nice. Our bodies feel positive emotions, or even

sexual emotions depending on the question. And it's this secret

the one we will use as the basis of our seduction.

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With this we end the first part of our training.

I am aware that this may have been somewhat heavy, but I am

surely you have already seen the importance of understanding how the

human brain. It literally controls our life without us

We realize. In the same way, OTHERS can control our

life without us knowing it.

The rest of the course focuses on the really interesting things. First

that nothing I will give you a series of exercises to help you develop high

levels of self-confidence when it comes to women. If you already

you feel pretty safe around women then you will be brought into the

next level. And this confidence will help you in all areas of your life.

The goal is to rewrite any self esteem or low self problem

confidence that you have and that has arisen from your past experiences.

We need to do this first, because you deserve to be a man.

strong and confident. And second, because strong and confident men

they have as much sex as rock stars no matter what they look like,

physical wealth or build.

After I have provided you with the tools to develop a

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superhuman self-confidence will also provide you with tools

seduction.

Your transformation has begun ...

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The Ladder of Self-Esteem and Confidence

In the first part of this course we saw how the human brain works.

We review how beliefs are formed, how beliefs are made

associations and why most men are uncomfortable with

think of seducing a girl, or even being around women.

If you are one of those men who feels insecure when approaching a

girl with the intention of taking her to bed, don't worry! This is a

normal feeling for the reasons we've already seen. Few men

they spend their childhood, or their adolescent life, without being rejected in any way

shaped by a woman.

There are other reasons too, like the fact that as children we

said not to talk to strangers, why unconsciously

We believe that women will not be open to a stranger speaking to them.

But there is no need for me to give you more information. The conclusion is

than…

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… Most men fear the opposite sex when it comes to

try to take them to bed. They get nervous and find them

intimidating.

It is this nervousness and anxiety that is the central reason why

most men don't have sex with women who

They WANT to have sex with them.

You see, there are women EVERYWHERE willing to sleep with you, without

import your physical appearance. But you don't have to believe me. Leil

Lownes, a famous romance expert and author, says that "by the law of the

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averages, unless you have bad breath and a bad attitude, 3 or 4

women in whatever situation you find yourself are probably

interested in you ”.

In other words, unless you've been sleeping with a girl

every time you have visited a bar, club, cafe or any other site ... there are

women out there who'd be willing to sleep with you. But it is

extremely unlikely that they will approach you first (Guess

than? Women fear rejection for the same reason as men.

Also, they don't want to look like easy girls either.)

The bottom line of this is that you have enough confidence to start

a conversation with a girl is the basis of your super seduction power.

Now remember, if you feel nervous thinking about seducing a girl this

it's just a false belief based on your past experiences. Is a

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distortion. This is not reality. Women WANT you to tackle them (yeah
you do it the right way. The way that I will teach you).

Think about it. Why do women put on makeup, pretty dresses,

expensive shoes, etc., when they go to a club or a bar? It is because they love each other

feel attractive. They WANT men's attention. And they like it

a man to start a conversation with them, unless he starts the

conversation and be nervous. This will make them feel uncomfortable and

it will make the man not look attractive.

So you can sleep with as many women as you want, or

get the girlfriend / wife of your dreams, you have to feel

comfortable talking to women.

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It is useless to know some lines and tactics to use in the

women - if you tremble like jelly every time you talk to one. She does not

will be attracted to you.

On the other hand, if you appear to be a man with good self-esteem and

Confidence, you can almost say what you want and they will find you attractive.

So unlike those silly "how to get women" guides

who tell you “get out of your house and approach 100 beautiful women. Soon

you will overcome your fear of rejection ”, we will train you properly.

Some men who are reading this course might think "I already

I feel comfortable talking to women. This is a waste of time.

Where are the tactics to manipulate your brain? ”

Don't worry, we'll get to that.


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For now I want you to understand that

this section is not a waste of

weather. In the end you will know how to carry your

seduction skills to the next

level if you implement what I'm for

teach you.

I want you to see the staircase below ...

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Imagine that the lowest part of the ladder represents men with

extremely low self-esteem and self-confidence. Men with

low self-esteem:

They feel intimidated in social situations where they are


surrounded by women, or even by women in general.
They always try to make sure they don't do anything that can
shame in front of women.
Mentally prepare to react to situations
specific, before they happen, to know what to do if they happen.
They do not express their opinion so as not to contradict the woman with whom
they talk and thus avoid an argument.
They find it difficult to make eye contact with women.
They always agree with women, even when
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they are not.


They are anxious to think of approaching a beautiful woman.
They fear him when being rejected by a woman, especially in front
from your friends.
They worry about being able to satisfy a woman in bed.
They believe that women have a greater "value" than they do.

The top of the ladder represents boys with self-esteem and self-

extremely high confidence. Men with high self-esteem:

They don't care what people think of them.


They believe that the world is their game room and they can do what they want.
please (within reason).
They enjoy the challenge of attracting women.
They are not afraid of rejection by anyone, be it man or woman.
They know exactly what they want out of life.
They know what they will and will not accept from other human beings. By
example, if a woman behaves rudely, they will
They will let you know and tell you to stop, rather than accept their criticism.
They can get close to any woman, no matter how beautiful she is,
and still feel as confident as ever.
They believe they are worth more than any woman they seduce.

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NOTE. When men read things like "They think they are worth more

that any woman they seduce "can understand it in a way

incorrect. I'm not saying that women have less value than

mens. Of course they don't have it. What I'm saying is that in

your world YOU are the most valuable person. Because it is YOUR life. I'll talk about

this in detail later.

I want you to be honest with yourself. What category do you think you fall into?

In that of low self-esteem and little confidence with women? Or in that of

high self-esteem and high confidence with women?

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It is likely that you are in the first category and that you have a low

self-esteem and little security around women. How could i

know it? Because most of the men are there. And because if

you were in the second category you would already be sleeping with all the

women you want and would not need this book!

The first step to becoming a master of seduction is to admit

your weaknesses. This can be painful. But it should also be

something liberating! Since having low self-esteem and low confidence:

It's not your fault. You have developed this through experiences
pasts that almost every man on the planet experiences. Not
"You were born this way", as most men think.
Once you admit your weaknesses then you can start
work on overcoming them and "reprogramming" your brain with a lot
self-esteem and self-confidence.

If you want, you can do a test to discover your levels of

self-esteem and self-confidence. Go to a big mall. I want

go and board EVERY beautiful girl you see. Without excuses!

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Come closer and start a conversation. If you can't do this then there's

work to do.

Most men will develop "safe behaviors" to

avoid admitting that you are afraid of seducing women. To avoid

contact with a woman they say to themselves, or to their friends, things

how are you:

• "I could make her mine if I really wanted to"

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• "She's probably a bitch"

• "I'm almost sure she has a boyfriend"

• "The next time I see her I will go talk to her"

This is called "Escape". We always try to avoid things that

intimidate, because if we dare to approach and reject us, the

experience is painful. So we prefer to use excuses to

convince ourselves, and others, that it is better not to

tackle women. We do it to protect ourselves.

Unfortunately your subconscious mind KNOWS that you are pretending. AND

pretending will not help you. It will only take you down a path where you will lose

self-confidence.

So I want you to stop pretending. I want you to see the image again and

to ask yourself where on the ladder are you ...

If you have very low self-esteem and self-confidence and think you don't have

value to the world (in all areas of your life, not just with

women), then you are in the lowest part.

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If you have low self-esteem and self-confidence when it comes to women,

but you are quite confident in other areas of your life (for example

in the workplace or in sports), then you're a little bit higher.

If you feel EXTREMELY confident in any area of your life, but you

lack of self-confidence with women, then you are near the center of the

stairs.
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If you feel EXTREMELY confident in ALL areas of your life,

women included, then you're at the top of the ladder. Leave this

book and keep having all the sex you want! You are already a master of

seduction. (I recommend that you read the strategies in Part Three.

Even you can get even more sex!)

So where on the ladder are you? At the top, the center or even

down?

I want you to understand that wherever you are - it doesn't matter! maybe

you think it is bad to be down. It is not! Most of the

people are there. Men and women.

Most people lack self-confidence and

self-esteem, but they wear a mask to protect themselves. The reason why the

most lack these is because they don't know that their brain can play

with them. You now know that. And you know it's not your fault

have low self-esteem and little self-confidence.

NOTE. If you want to check that most of the men are in the

bottom of the ladder, then the next time you go out with your

friends or coworkers, and see a beautiful woman, challenge them

to come over and talk to her. Watch them freeze and give

excuses. You're not the only one.

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Doing this exercise is very important for a number of reasons:

1. It gives you a visual representation of where you are in your life and where
you should be (at the top of the stairs). The top of the ladder is
where are all the great experiences. A good job. A
good woman. Life is wonderful! Everyone should aspire
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to get to the top.

2. It helps you to be honest with yourself and shows you that there is room
to grow in your life. And this is what life is about. The turning you who
you deserve to be. If you're at the bottom, you deserve to be at the top. AND
YOU WILL get there.

3. It helps you understand why you have problems with women. The
men who are in the center, or down, have problems with
women because they lack self-esteem and believe that women
they have more value than they do. They dont have it. In YOUR life YOU are the
most valuable person. Nobody is better than you.

If you have low self-esteem and read the "Nobody is better than you" is possible

you ignored that comment. But it is the truth.

Maybe you think “What about that movie star? He clearly is better than me! ”

No, it is not. He is also a human being. All he has done is

climb your own ladder to the top and become a strong man and

trusted.

"And what about that woman who is dedicated to charity? She is

definitely better than me! ” No she is not. She just climbed the ladder

and realized that getting money for charity was what he wanted

do.

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You see, the ladder is not about self-confidence or self-esteem. Is about

become who you really want to be. The man you DESERVE to be. AND

This is why I am so proud of this course. Sure, it will help you


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get many women. But it will also help you to enjoy more of the

lifetime!

Your goal as a man and as a human being is to climb that ladder,

reach the top and become the confident man that women

adore. A man who knows what he wants and who will not stop

until get it.

You have to admit that the climb will cost you work. This action itself

It shows strength of character. Most people ignore

their weaknesses and pretend that everything is fine. The powerful and strong are

They admit to themselves that they have to work and they do it.

Let's start with the climb ...

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Body Language - The Key to Attraction


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Think of this as a preliminary step before you start uploading the

stairs. It is the foundation of everything else.

Body language is more important than the words you say to a

woman.

I'm going to repeat that ...

Body language is more important than the words you

tell a woman.

Human interactions are 20% verbal and 80% nonverbal. It is

mostly your body language that will make a woman feel

attracted to you. Your words can only get 20% of the attraction.

This should excite you as ANYONE can develop a

attractive body language. What is attractive body language? He

language of a confident man who is at ease with himself.

First of all, let's take a look at the body language of a

shy man who lacks self-esteem and confidence. He:

Avoid eye contact.


He walks with his head down and his shoulders slumped forward.
He plays a lot with his hands.
Cross your arms when talking to others.
He puts his hands in his pockets.
He leans forward in the chair when sitting.
He hesitates to walk instead of taking firm steps.

Does this sound like things you do? If the answer is yes then you are
displaying body language that indicates you have no confidence in yourself
same.

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You do not believe me? Go to the nearest shopping center and look at the

walking people, men and women. You will soon see that most of

men show some of these characteristics. You will be able to

find shy men around every corner. And women notice this

better than men.

If you have the body language of a shy man it will be very difficult for them to

women find you attractive. So you have to work on your language

body above all other things.

Here's how you can become a master of body language for a

confident man:

Stand Straight With Your Shoulders Back

Standing upright is perhaps the most important way to convey

trust. Focus on slightly pushing your shoulders back

when you're standing and walking. Not much just a little bit. This little

Fit works wonders for your posture. Now try it in front of the mirror. Tea

You will be amazed at how confident you look!

Keep your eyes forward

Keeping your eyes straight is perhaps one of the most

complicated body language to show confidence. When you are

walking around by yourself, it is very natural that you lower your head and look

how you walk, but this posture tells others that you don't want

strike up a conversation or interact. And if you're not careful, maybe you

make a habit of doing it all the time. Keep your chin up and your

eyes forward, even when you're walking alone.

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Smile

Confident people smile because they have nothing to worry about.

They feel good about themselves and they feel comfortable in the world. This is

an incredibly attractive feature for women. To women

they don't like insecure men. A self-assured man attracts

to women!

Clean Yourself Properly

A confident man is proud of his appearance. Don't expect to meet

women if you look and smell like a homeless person. You don't need to walk by

there in a Versace outfit, but get a good haircut and get

good clothes and shoes (good shoes are extremely important.

Many women will judge you only for this!)

A man who has a nice aftershave, nice hair and attractive clothes

he will always have more possibilities than the guy who seems not to care.

Take Wide Steps

A confident man will never be judged for walking "weird" or "as if

they were chasing, ”so pay attention to the way

you walk. If you want to show confidence with your body language then

you must take broad steps. I'm not talking about you walking like a

giant. Just don't take small steps when you walk.

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Don't Move A Lot When You Sit Or Talk To Someone

A man who cannot stay still is seen as a man who

he is worried, tense and he does not have security. Your hands can be

a signal. Do not sit and play with them, try to leave them alone. The

what you can do is talk with your hands but keep

gestures under control.

Also, when you sit down, avoid moving your legs a lot, this makes

look like you're nervous

Avoid Your Pockets

We put our hands in our pockets when we feel uncomfortable or

unsure of ourselves. And as long as you have your hands in

in your pants, this is how people will see you.

We instinctively tend to hide our hands when we

we feel nervous. Keeping your hands available indicates confidence and

show people that you have nothing to hide. Also, you have to

recognize that putting your hands in your pockets encourages you to stoop,

which is not good. As an alternative, try to put your hands on your

hips; this is a more attractive posture.

Don't Cross Your Arms When You're Socializing

Crossing your arms is a protective posture. We do it when

we are cold, we feel nervous or when we are on guard. Yes

you're talking to a woman and you have your arms crossed then you

you are signaling that you are uncomfortable. Don't cross them!

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Speak Slower And Louder

Nervous people who think they have little value speak very quickly

and in a very sharp tone. Confident men speak slower and more

a lower tone.

Now I'm not saying you should

speak… more… slowly… and… more… seriously. Of course not. But take

note that when you are in your confident state you must speak differently than

when you are in your shy state. Shy people speak fast and

screech. Confident men speak more slowly and with more purpose.

If you naturally have a high-pitched voice then it doesn't matter. The most thing

The important thing women notice is how fast you speak. Don't you

hurry up.

Watch interviews of TV stars and celebrities that show

much trust. They do NOT rush to speak (a comedian perhaps

would do. But a famous actor like Tom Cruise No.)

Train your body to provoke attraction

If you follow all these principles you will develop the body language of a

confident man. It won't be easy at first, as you probably have

developed bad body language over the years, but notice your

body and how you use it. If you cross your arms, stop doing it. If you walk with

your low head begins to raise it. Over time your body language

It will change to the point that you will ALWAYS be confident.

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One of the benefits of this is that by simply changing our

physiology and the way we move our body we can change the

how we feel inside.

For example, a smile, even if it is false, can make your mind

subconscious believe that you are happy. So this causes feelings

happy in you. It's hard to feel sad when you're smiling!

Also walking with your head up and your men back does

Let your subconscious mind believe that you are confident in that situation. So

This causes more confidence. The mind remembers moments of your life

in which you have felt confident and walked like this (Maybe you have not

noticed but in situations where you've been trusting your language

body was probably that of someone trusting) and therefore the

Emotions it makes you feel are those of trust.

Isn't it great? Confident body language not only attracts sex

opposite but forces your subconscious mind to make you feel more

trusted.

Will this happen soon? Not likely. But after a while,

when you throw your shoulders back and lift your head, YOU WILL SEE AND

YOU WILL be more confident. And confidence will make women feel

attracted to you.

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Practice your body language at home first and then in your daily life.

Take note of your body as much as you can. This one is signaling everything

time without you realizing it. So train him to signal

attractive.

Now let's start climbing that ladder and start your journey to become

a master of seduction.

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Climbing the stairs

In order to climb the ladder you have to face your fears related to

opposite sex. The first step is to admit that there is a lot of work to be done.

The second is to act!

What I will do now is provide you with a series of exercises that will make

slowly but effectively (or quickly depending on how often

do the exercises), you can increase your self-esteem and your confidence with

women, and in all other areas of your life.

We will go from simple exercises (things like starting a conversation with

a girl who works in a store and ask him for a recommendation) in

where you will not have much pressure, even exercises where you approach a

woman with the intention of sleeping with her.

Mental health professionals call this “Therapy of

Gradual Exposure ”. One of dozens of studies proving that this

is the most effective cure for dealing with social anxiety, when it comes

of women, put it this way:

"People who receive, in combination, an Exposure treatment

Gradual to fear-provoking situations and skill learning

social, show a significantly higher improvement in

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functioning in the community that subjects who had no

treatment ”- Journal Of Consulting And Clinical Psychology

In other words, the best way to overcome your fear of the opposite sex is

putting yourself in situations where you have to interact with women and

later increase the difficulty until you get to board a

woman with the sole intention of sleeping with her.

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In my investigation of seduction I came across books that told

the men who were to approach hundreds of women and ask for their number

to "overcome" their fear of rejection. This is a heinous idea. He

Jumping into the jungle may work for some, but for most

it is discouraging to be rejected over and over again. This is what will happen if

you approach women with a "fearful" mindset.

One of the reasons I hate most books that speak

on how to meet girls, it's because they make the man think that

you must approach women immediately. This makes me think it's a

failure if he tries to approach a girl and is rejected, he gets scared, what

Avoid and never progress. This hurts a man's self-esteem in

instead of helping him.

What we will do is different. We will do what therapists recommend

let it be done. We will put you in situations where you interact with

women without any pressure and slowly we will take you to the point where

you:

You realize that women are not scary.


Enjoy interacting with women instead of being uncomfortable.

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Be confident that your way of speaking will make people feel good
women.
Reprogram your brain to realize you are worth a lot and
you have greater value than any girl you approach.

Remember that your concern about rejection and what women think

of you is not real. It is a distortion. You're not seeing things

adequately. These exercises will allow you to see things as in

they really are.

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"Gradual exposure guides patients to confront the most difficult situations

terrifying and allows them to dispel their fear in a natural way. These what

they interpret properly and gain essential skills. The patients

they get a sense of trust and power ”- SAD: Research And Practice

What I have done is create a series of exercises that start small and

easy and are increasing in difficulty. In this way we increase your

trust and we help you up the ladder. You can see yourself

growth and increased confidence around women.

I will give you these exercises and then I will give you techniques that you can use to

increase your confidence and self-esteem before you leave your home.

Sounds good? Well here are the exercises ...

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Step one

The main reason men fear approaching

women is because they feel pressure that they have to "act well",

when they try to seduce them. So when we start there will be NO

no pressure. You will NOT be trying to make women feel

attracted to you.

I repeat. In the first steps of this course you will NOT be trying to do

that the women you talk to are attracted to you. You just

you'll seek to get used to talking to them first.

Step one is to go to the stores and get something (something cheap like a newspaper

or a chocolate bar) and take it to the woman in the box. To the woman.

When you pass the article to him I want you to give him a big smile. No one

little smile. A big. Pass it to him, smile and say "Thank you." When

pay for the item and she will return it to you say “Thank you. Have a good

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day ”and give him a big smile again. Then go away.

I want you to do this over and over again. Every time you walk into a store to

buy something choose a box attended by a woman and do the same. Not

it matters if she is young or old. Fat or thin. Ugly or beautiful. Come closer,

hand him the article and with a big smile say "thank you". And when she gives it to you

return after you pay say “Thank you. Have a good day ”with

a big smile again.

For most men this will be an easy thing to do. That means

they are at a higher level on the ladder. For other men this

It seems intimidating. Thoughts like "She may think I'm crazy

If I smile at you when I buy something "it may come to your head as

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you look for excuses for not doing it. Nonsense. A smile is the most natural thing

of the world. You are just being friendly.

This is the point. People with low self-esteem and little self-confidence see the

world as a terrifying place. They see other people as terrifying.

After you have completed this and performed the following exercises

you will see how amazing the people are and the positive effect that the

smiles on other human beings.

Here is a Youtube video (in English unfortunately) about the

power of smiles:

>> TED VIDEO (Ron Gutman: The hidden power of smiling) <<

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If you don't know English let me summarize what the video says ...

It is very difficult to frown when you look at someone who is smiling at you.

Smiling is contagious and takes away the control we usually have in

our facial muscles.

In other words, in many cases when you smile at someone you

It will return the smile and you will have no control over it.

What you will discover is that if you give someone a genuine and big smile

in most cases they will return it to you, because smiling is

contagious.

So why didn't she smile back at me? You don't know its history.

She may have had an argument with her boss. Your dog may have

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died the day before. Maybe you have money worries. Who knows.

Who cares! It's not your problem. Just smile at her. If she returns it to you

well better. If not then you don't mind.

This is your first step. No matter where you are on the ladder, I want

that you always try to pay in the box of a woman in the stores.

Always give him a big smile when you pay and one when you leave. And say

Thank you and Thank you. You have a good day".

I can assure you that if you do it regularly your brain will start to

reschedule. You will get so used to receiving smiles from women

your brain will start to think "Ok, women don't seem so

terrifying after all. " And this will help you increase your self-esteem

and improve your self-confidence.

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If you have trouble smiling at first, don't worry. Follow

trying until it comes out. You can also practice your smile on the

mirror of your house. Just stand in front of the mirror and smile to yourself. A

big smile! Not a small, weak smile. But a big and happy one.

Sure, it may sound silly to you but this is part of your

seduction!

A good trick I could give you is when you approach a girl, think

in something that makes you laugh or smile. It can be a family member, a pet or

a fun part of a movie ... it doesn't matter. This can help you

give a genuine smile.

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And your body language is also important. The way how you
you move into one of the most important skills that you have to

to learn. There is a specific body language that gives attractive signals

of trust to the opposite sex. While there is another body language that

shows that you are weak and untrustworthy. I'll talk more about the language later

but for now just make sure you always throw your shoulders towards

back and don't hunch when you talk to a girl and smile.

Why do so many people find it so difficult to smile at a stranger?

For social conditioning! It is not what people usually do and how

we grow up in a world where people don't smile at strangers because

we do not do it. But smiling is the most natural thing in the world. Therefore

is that it is so contagious!

This is your first step. Repeat it every time you buy something. And every day go out

of your routine to buy something cheap so you can practice that

how many times a day. Very soon you will become a master at doing

that the girls smile at you. And smiling feels good.

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This is your first lesson, making a woman feel positive things

when I am near you.

Remember that there is no pressure here. You are NOT trying to

take her to bed. You're not even trying to get her to give you back

the smile. You're just smiling at him and being polite. The result does not

does matter. If she smiles at you, great. If not then you don't mind.

Once you can do this and feel confident, you can keep up.

two. For some this is very easy to achieve quickly. Others

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it will take a little longer. No hurry. Once you get these skills
they will last a lifetime. So take it easy and go on when you

feel ready.

Step two

By the time you can confidently smile at a girl from

a store and tell him have a nice day, you should have more

self confidence. Enjoy your victory. Slap yourself on the back

(Not literally!) For having done what few can.

The next step is to do something that, also, due to conditioning

social, many people find difficult. And this is eye contact.

Eye contact, like smiling, is crucial to seduction because

show confidence and power. Weak people do not make eye contact.

Weak people don't have sex very often either.

Research shows that someone who makes little eye contact can

seem, but not always, proud, unreliable, elusive and shy.

Neither of these is an attractive feature.

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On the other hand, those who do make eye contact are seen as

trustworthy, powerful and brave. These are all attractive features

that women look for in a man.

The bottom line is that eye contact must be mastered.

For most people the standard reaction, when we do

eye contact with a stranger, is to look away or look

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challenge. We are trying to exercise our power over them.

This is a distortion. It is a false belief created by a life of

social conditioning.

Now, I'm not saying that if you stare at someone with

crazy eyes for 20 seconds they won't see it as a challenge. Of course

they will. They will feel like you are trying to intimidate them. That kind of

Eye contact is not what I'm talking about.

What I'm talking about is the ability to look a stranger in the eye and

DO NOT look away. Maintain eye contact for a second or two and

then look away. In most cases they will divert their

look first because eye contact is not something they are

accustomed.

Due to social conditioning this is difficult to master. If you have low

self esteem so eye contact is something to avoid because you feel

that other people are worth more than you. So starting to have

Eye contact may be difficult and uncomfortable at first. But like all

skill you must master by practicing.

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Take your time on this. At first start by making eye contact

with children or babies. This will be less intimidating than trying to do.

eye contact with a woman at once. Look a child in the eye for a

couple of seconds and then look away. Don't watch him too much or maybe

scare the parents!

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After a while look at the child, smile and look at the parents and make contact
visually with them while you smile. I guarantee you will return the smile.

This is a gesture that says "What a cute boy" and parents love it

let others notice your children.

If you have a baby or toddler in your family then practice the

eye contact with him. Every time you talk, look him in the eye. Hold the

look and smile.

Once you can smile at a child, and then at their parents it starts to

make eye contact and smile at the elderly. Eye contact and a

warm smile will make you feel good and this will make you feel good

too.

Once you can smile at a child, his parents and the elderly,

begins to smile at women who are not in the age range that

you are interested in attracting. So if you want to have sex with a woman in her 20s

then smile at the middle-aged women, this won't put

pressure on you.

What we are doing with this is reprogramming your brain so that the

eye contact and smiling stop being intimidating for you.

Usually you will get a smile back and your brain will continue

building the belief that "women are no longer terrifying."

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Your self-confidence and self-esteem will increase because you will feel more valuable

Seeing that you could make others feel good with a smile. And also

You will notice how good you feel when you get a smile.

Why is this important? Later you will see that using the contact
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visual and a smile you can see if a girl is open for you to approach her.

You can use it to make sure that a girl is attracted to you and

he really wants you to get close to him. This limits your chances of being

rejected. So increasing your self-confidence in your ability to do

eye contact and smiling at others is crucial.

Practice this step as many times as necessary until you feel

comfortable making eye contact with children and their parents, the elderly and

women outside the age range you want to seduce. Also remember

throwing your shoulders back and keeping your forehead high when

walk. This, eye contact and smiling are the basis of language

body confident.

Note. You can start noticing that when you smile at some women

They give you a smile that is different from the ones others give you. Is

it is the "seductive smile". It is a sign that a woman will give when you

find attractive. You will also discover that you can make yourself more attractive

smiling and maintaining eye contact.

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Step three

Now it is time to start a conversation with a woman. But do not

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scare! Let's start a conversation with a woman who wants him to


speak. And we're going to start the conversation without trying to bring it to the

bed. We will only start the conversation to increase our

self-confidence with female interactions.

What you will do is go to stores, make eye contact and smile at

employees who are there to help you with your purchasing decisions.

All you have to do to get started is ask a

used to buy something. That's it. She will ask you what you want

buy and I want you to be as specific as possible. For example if it is

a men's clothing store you could do this ...

'Hello. I was wondering if you could help me. ” * Give him a big smile and you've

eye contact*

"Clear. How can I help you?

"Well ... I've been invited to a party and I'm interested in a shirt and

jacket that makes me look smart. Might you help me? * Give him one

big smile and make eye contact *

"No problem ... come with me and we'll find you something ..."

Don't worry, you don't have to buy anything. But I want you

get used to starting a conversation with store employees and

to ask for help. After I have attended you for a while, say:

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"This has been very good and you have been a great help" * Give it a great
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smile * "Now I'm going to eat something and think about this a little" * Give her a

big smile*

I want you to try something. Once you have more confidence with this

I want you to go to a store that sells many different things,

including gifts you could give a child and his parents. Find

an employee walks towards her with a big smile, you have eye contact

and tell him:

"Hello. I was wondering if you could help me. My sister / brother / friend

just had a baby. She is the cutest baby in the world and I want.

buy her a gift. Could you help me choose something? ”

When you get better at this the words "Is he the cutest baby in the

world ”combined with your smile and your eye contact will touch the heart

of the girl and she will move her head to the side. This is something that

women do when they melt inside.

Will you get that reaction every time? No. Remember that a girl

you may be having a bad day, had a discussion with your boss, etc. You do not

you know its history. Nor does it matter. If you get a good reaction,

great. If not, nothing happens. This is all training.

Now here comes the key part of step three ...

At the beginning when the employee recommends something from the store you can

tell him you like the recommendation. But the more you increase

trust then you can say something like:

"Hmm ... Okay but it's not what I'm looking for"

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And eventually:

"I don't like that one. There's others?"

What we are doing is training you to become more assertive with

women. Most men will simply say and do what

pleases the woman. This is bad. Women don't like a man

let it go. They like confident, strong and

assertive. And this exercise will start to show your brain that being

assertive with women is fine.

This is step three. Get up close to a girl who works in a store and

ask for help. Talk to her about the recommendations she makes for you.

Be sure to smile at her and make eye contact with her. Try the trick

“Baby” or make up a new one. He aspires to be assertive with women but

NOT in a rude way.

Once you have done this and feel confident doing it you will have

completed the initial phase of your climb up the ladder. YOU WILL HAVE A

higher self-esteem and more confidence in yourself and you will be closer to

center of the staircase than the bottom.

As I said, this will be very easy for some men to do. Yes that is

the case with you because you already have a good level of self-esteem and

self-confidence. Many men could not even complete these exercises.

Try them, it doesn't matter if you think you can do it or not. Prove yourself

even if you are able to complete these three steps.

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Now before I continue up the ladder let me show you

some tools that will help you on your journey to become a

master of seduction ...

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Reducing Shyness

One of the problems that men face with women is that of

feeling insecure around them. They become aware of

fact that they can be embarrassed and look silly in front of them.

In other words, men think a lot about this. They think of

things like:

"Does she think I'm ugly?"


"Does she think I'm stupid?"
“Oh no… that was supposed to be funny and she didn't laugh!
"I am rubbish in this"
"Everyone can tell that I am nervous"

We are all guilty of escaping to our world. But listening

Too much to that little voice in your mind can make you screw up. This one

makes you more shy and insecure. And that's the enemy when it comes to attracting

women.

The less insecure you are, the easier it will be for you to interact with women. Yes

you are constantly evaluating what will happen you will miss the

"moment". You will always try to guess what she is thinking and this

It will make you screw up.

The most powerful strategy you can learn to become less

insecure is directing your attention to other things, instead of your process

of internal thought. This breaks the cycle of listening to your thoughts

negatives.

Let me ask you something. When you are watching TV do you feel that the

people are judging you?

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No. Because your mind is focused on what is happening in the

TV. The same can happen in social situations. Your mind

she is too distracted to think about negative things that you have

programmed to think.

The reason why overcoming shyness is so vital to this

training, it's because men who are good at talking to

women are NOT thinking or worrying about what the girl thinks with

the one they are talking about. Women find this irresistible.

Here's the weird part ...

If you have low self-esteem you see defects and negative things about yourself

same. And when you feel insecure around others you see yourself

how you think other people see you. You try to see yourself as

They see you and you end up looking nervous and anxious. But it's because that's the way it is

that you feel. NOT because others see you like this.

Remember that you see the world through your belief and value system

that you have created through your past experiences. So when you go to

world of your head and you try to imagine how you look, you only see one

anxious person with defects. But this is because of your experiences

pasts and beliefs. This is NOT what she sees.

I need you to stop the voice in your head that will make you question if

she likes you and she will try to guess what she thinks.

It will take practice before it works out for you. Remember this is a

training course and like any training program

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Muscle takes effort reaping the reward.

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But let me tell you that today it's more difficult for me to have a

negative thinking that having none!

It takes about 30 days to develop a habit. That means yes

you learn to reject these negative thought patterns within

30 days you will have already created a positive habit. You will find obstacles in the

way but you have to be persistent. This will work for you as well as

me.

In order to overcome your insecurity you have to get out of your head.

Concentrate on what's going on around you. I promise you this

works.

For example…

Let's say you were having a conversation with a girl. Instead of

be in your head trying to guess or predict the future focus on

the person who is talking to you. Listen to every word it says. Study the

contour of your face. Observe their eye color. If you really are

studying what they are saying and how they look, it will be virtually

impossible to be inside your head worrying about how you look and what

What do you say.

This has other benefits. At the subconscious level a woman finds

to a man who is studying his face as someone strong and confident,

IF this is combined with other strong and confident characteristics such as

eye contact and smiling. (Otherwise it is unpleasant).

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If you're walking through a mall and you feel like people are

They are judging, focus on things like store windows.

See what clothes would suit you from the stores.

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Look at the different types of people walking next to you. Study

anything external to you.

Absorb your environment. Enjoy your surroundings instead of locking yourself in the

mental prison of your thoughts.

This may seem very basic to you, just getting out of your head while concentrating

in things external to you, but that's because it's easy and it works. Really

I wish I could tell you some cunning technique that a teacher from somewhere

I have developed and it takes you a few months to master. But that would be

a lie.

The truth is, just getting out of your head and focusing on

external things is the easiest way to stop concentrating on

thoughts that make you feel insecure.

It will take courage to stop withdrawing. You may feel more secure if you

you concentrate internally, but that is an illusion. Being inside of you

head ignore what happens outside your body. So stick with it.

Keep forcing yourself to focus on things outside of you. I guarantee you that

The more you do it the easier it will become over time, until

eventually it will be more natural for you to be out of your head than in it.

And strong, attractive and confident men are out of their heads

all the time.

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We are now ready to proceed to the next section - developing a


celebrity trust.

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What is Trust

Imagine the most trusting person you know. It can be a friend, a

family or even a Hollywood star like Tom Cruise.

Now imagine how great it would be to see the world through their eyes. He

experiencing the world in the way that they do and walking

every day with the confidence that no one can affect the way that

you feel about yourself.

Wouldn't that be great? Of course! And that is exactly what

we will do now.

But in order to do this we first need to destroy some myths

about personality attributes.

You may think that some people are naturally shy or that others

they are naturally outgoing. You tell yourself that everything is in the genes. But

you're wrong.

Let me try it on ...

I want you to stop and think about an area of your life where you sit

very confident of your skills. Can be anything. Maybe you

work, your driving, math, sports, games


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computer ... whatever. Think of something you know you are 100%

Okay.

Now when do you think about that thing do you need someone else to tell you

what are you good at No. You don't need to depend on any influence

external that tells you that you are good in that area because you KNOW that you are

good thanks to your inner thoughts and thought patterns.

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This same principle applies to each and every area of life.

You don't need other people to tell you that you're good at something or

worry about external things like what people say about you. This just

It can come from you and your mind.

Look at Tom Cruise. Do you really think he needs someone to tell him

"Tommy boy, are you a very trusting bastard"? Of course not.

Tom Cruise is always confident because external things like

other people's opinions about him do not affect the way he sees himself

itself.

Now do you think that when Tom Cruise gets a bad review he

blush and nervous? No. Maybe it will make him angry for a moment but no

for long. He will continue to rely on his acting skills.

Why? Because he has a lot of self-confidence and that means that

other people cannot change the way he thinks of himself and

see the world. And we are going to install that on you today.

Trust is not something concrete. It is not something you have or don't have. It is

a way of acting or thinking. And the good news is that ANYONE

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can do that.

The same goes for any emotion you feel. The concern of what

that people think of you is not something real. It is a thought process. AND

if you use what I've taught you so far you can choose to destroy that

thought process gradually.

Understanding this is a big thing for many people. At the moment

that they realize that THEY are in control of their feelings

a change in your reality ensues.

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So what we will do now is guide you through simple exercises to

to be able to install the trust of a celebrity within you. The more the

practice more confident you will feel.

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Installing Trusted Triggers

Now I am going to give you a few simple exercises to increase your

trust, which you can use to install new ways of thinking in yourself. Already

We know that the way you think is what is making you

worry in social situations. When installing new patterns

thought you can conquer this concern.

Activator of Trust One

Many years ago there was a genius named Ivan Pavlov. He was a scientist

who realized that when dogs ate they salivated.

He was studying the responses to conditioned stimuli, in other

words he wanted to see if two things together could elicit a response

physics in dogs.

Just before feeding their dogs a bell rang and then they

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he put his food in front of him. He did this multiple times.

Then one day he rang the bell, but he didn't give the dogs food, and something

amazing happened. The dogs start salivating. The dogs were

conditioned to respond to certain stimuli (the bell) with a

reaction (salivate).

Many years later in the Neuro Linguistic Programming circles

(NLP) This experiment changed the lives of many

people around the world. NLP teachers used this experiment

of conditioning responses to stimuli to develop a technique

It cures phobias, helps increase self-confidence and much more. You

usually called "anchor".

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Anchorage is extremely simple to do and very, very effective.

This is the first Trust Activator that we are going to develop.

Imagine if the next time you go to a bar and want to have enough

confidence to tackle a girl you can flip a mental switch and

suddenly feel incredibly confident and comfortable with yourself. This

Sounds like a magical dream doesn't it? It is not. This is exactly what you will be

able to do when you've implemented what I'm about to

teach you.

I want you to find your favorite piece of music. Can be anything,

but it must be something that makes you active.

Then I want you to put on headphones, sit on a chair, and

visualize yourself walking through the world without any concern of what

make people think of you. If you tend to worry in certain situations


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be sure to think about those. Imagine yourself being a

Confident man and with a smile on your face.

Do this until you can really see yourself becoming the person

confident you want to be. Feel how you could feel if you were in that

situation and you could feel as confident as you want. Feel that

adrenaline rush in your belly knowing that you are totally confident.

And just when you are very, very confident squeeze your thumb and your finger

together index. Lasted.

Every time you do this, something incredibly cool happens. Your mind

subconscious is learning to associate clenching your fingers with

feeling of feeling confident.

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Eventually, and with practice, you can create a kind of

confidence so that every time you feel insecure you can just

squeeze your thumb with your index finger and get the same feeling of

confidence you felt when you were listening to your favorite music.

Isn't this great? There you have a trust switch for

anytime!

As I said, this will take practice and will not be done overnight. But

very soon you will begin to develop a relationship between pressing your

fingers and your subconscious, which will result in more confidence. Much more.

Trust Activator Two

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Imagine you can borrow the trust of Tom Cruise or Oprah


Winfrey. Imagine that you can take your favorite celebrity or even

someone you know who has a star-worthy self-confidence

rock and imagine being able to download their ways of thinking about

social situations, directly to your brain. Wouldn't that be great?

Well, even if it sounds like science fiction, it is actually real science.

You can model yourself by copying someone who already exudes confidence and

you can borrow their way of thinking and seeing the world.

What I want you to do is identify someone you want to imitate

socially. For me it was Tom Cruise. That guy just exudes a lot

male confidence. However for you it can be any man or

woman. If you are a celebrity, then buy a DVD from them or a book.

Watch their interviews or videos on www.youtube.com free.

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If it's a friend or someone you know try to spend as much time as

you can near him.

What you are doing now is learning how your person works.

You will notice that it behaves in a certain way and you will begin to have an idea

of how he sees the world. Instead of feeling like you have to impress

others, he believes that others have to impress him.

For example "I want to have Tom Cruise's trust because he doesn't

always feel the need to impress others. He has a lot

self-confidence and rarely feel insecure. The others do not affect it. He

he lives for himself instead of for others, etc. ”


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Close your eyes and visualize your trust model behaving in a

confident way. Look at it on your mental screen. Pay close attention to the

way he walks, talks, moves and acts. Notice the type of

things that person usually thinks about.

If you find certain social areas, like a bar, intimidating then

Visualize how your trust model would feel and act in that

situation.

For the next step imagine that you get into the body of your model

trust. So if it's Tom Cruise, imagine you go into his body and see

the world through his eyes. Listen to their internal conversations and date

realize how different they are from yours.

Tom doesn't care what people think of him. He lives his life just to

him and not for the strangers around him.

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Feel what it is to immerse yourself completely within your model

trust. Gestures, speaks, and uses the same facial expressions (

Confident people smile all the time! Watch Tom Cruise the weird

(stop smiling) that person would use.

When you have that feeling of confidence, proceed to leave the body

of your trust model and return to yours. Taking all your trust and

feelings with you. Integrate their way of thinking and their feelings into your

own body. Now start seeing through his eyes how you did it

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in your mind.

I know this seems kind of weird. But what are you doing every time

you practice this is creating a thought process that your mind

subconscious will connect the next time you're in that situation

Social. The more social situations you use for this technique the more you

you will feel like a celebrity. Repeat every day for ten minutes

for a full month and see the results.

Here's something you have to understand ...

Your subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between a

real or imaginary event. If you imagine something enough, and with it

Enough emotional power, it will become real in your subconscious. AND

when something becomes real in the subconscious it IS real. So

you will develop the super human trust you want.

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Trustee Activator Three

Sometimes when you're in a social situation and trying to win

trust with a woman maybe you can feel a little overwhelmed.

Don't worry, that's natural and it's part of the process of reprogramming yourself to

yourself. This next technique will help you step back and see the

overview so you can see the reality of the situation. Now

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you're going to learn how to disassociate yourself from the end result of whatever it is that
You are doing.

To do this we are going to use an imaginary confidence triangle. Have

three parts: "Stuck", "Disassociated Observer" and "Resources".

The 'Stuck' part represents the state you are in when you feel

that concern about what people think of you begins to arise. The

"disassociated observer" part is where you can step back and see the

situation objectively, from the point of view of a third

person. And the "Resources" part represents the memory that will allow you

get away from worrying about what others think of you.

Every time you feel like you're being judged negatively imagine three

points on the ground. One "A" for stuck, one "D" for disassociated and one

"R" for resources.

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First stop on the "A". Close your eyes if that helps you. Go listen and

think of all the elements of concern than others think

people of you. When you have an idea of this, jump from "A". Name

three things from the environment where you are to get out of this process of

thought.

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The next step is to go to “D”. Observe the same situation as you did

in the "S" but this time do it from someone else's perspective.

Ask yourself this, if you didn't know each other and were a total stranger for real

would you judge what you are doing negatively? Or wouldn't you mind for

nothing? You will notice that looking at things from a different perspective

offers a very different reality than the negative you were about to

build on your head.

Finally jump from "D" and go to "R" for resources. Slow down your

breath, press your thumb with your index finger and imagine what your

trust model in this situation. Throw your shoulders back now

that changing your physiology will make you feel more confident, and put on a smile

on your face. Suddenly you will feel that you went from being nervous to being

confident in a very short time.

Now, I understand perfectly that it is not easy to just stop,

place yourself at different points on the ground and follow this whole process. Without

However, that's just for practice at first. Eventually no longer

you will need to stop. You will be able to mentally carry out the

Complete process and gain confidence in seconds.

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These mental triggers will give you confidence when

you need. These will help you destroy the worry of what people

think about you, because you will feel so good about yourself that nothing else

will matter. And women LOVE men who feel that way
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way.

We will send you more techniques to develop confidence in the Training

Advanced that you will be receiving every week by email.

For now these techniques are all you need. Use them. Are you maybe

They sound a little strange but they will transform your confidence if you use them

repeatedly.

We are now going to the next step on the ladder.

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Continued With The Rise

Now that we are on step four of the stairs. We are going to


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review what you have done so far:

1. You became extremely good at smiling at him, thanking him, and


wish a good day to the girls in the stores.
2. You became extremely good at smiling at people outside
of the age range you want to seduce.
3. You became extremely good at talking to employees at
the stores. Before taking the next step, you have to be able to
talk to them without worrying about what they think of you.

Use the techniques we've covered on the previous pages to reduce

your nervousness and increase your self-confidence while uploading this

stairs. These will have a BIG impact on your life.

I want you to practice ALL the exercises every day before giving

the next step. By now it should be normal to interact

confidently with store clerks and smile at strangers in

once in a while (you don't need to pretend a smile. But if you're

walking down the street and you're in a good mood why not smile at

someone and brighten your day?). You have to get to the point where smiling at him

confidently to people and making eye contact with them is something

totally natural. If you succeed you will be ready for the next step ...

So What Is Step Four?

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Step Four is where you start learning the art of attraction and
how words can make someone feel good about themselves.

Remember that the way you make a woman feel will be what she does

may she subconsciously be attracted to you. It won't be the way that

you see Make her feel good and you will be on the right track.

In this step I want you to get used to paying a compliment to

someone. I want you to use your own words to make them feel

well.

First of all I suggest you pay a compliment to your friends or

relatives. Tell your mother that her hair looks very cute today or your brother

which lately looks better. Say something about their looks that makes me

boost their self-esteem.

If you have never complimented a friend or family member before

well it's time to start. Now you will proceed to transform in front of

your eyes as you progress through this course. Paying them a compliment

it will show that you are changing.

Then you can go pay someone a compliment over the phone. Call your

local cinema and ask what time is X movie. If a woman answers the

phone tell him he has a nice voice. Here is the script:

She: "Hello, this is Cristina from Cinema XYZ, how can I help you?"

You: Wao what a beautiful voice you have Cristina. I was wondering if you could tell me

What time is the XYZ movie?

Don't give him time to react. Tell him he has a nice voice and

immediately ask him the question.

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Repeat this process calling stores, restaurants ... wherever

you can call and ask a question. If a girl responds tell her she has

a nice voice even if you don't really have it.

If a man answers ask him the question and say "Thank you very much (name

from the employee), you have been a great help. ”

When it comes to women, by telling them they have a nice voice you will hear the

shock in their voices. When you hear the shock you will know what you caused

an emotional reaction on it. She will go on with her day feeling better

With Herself. And all thanks to you!

When you feel comfortable paying people compliments for

phone will be time to proceed to do them in person.

The reason we do this is because a confident man has no

trouble complimenting a woman. A strong man and

male can tell a girl how cute she looks and make her

melt. Most men find it impossible to compliment a

woman. And if they get to compliment it, it sounds like something corny and like their only

intention is to take her to bed. The way of complimenting women who

You will see later it will not sound like that.

So you have to get used to paying compliments to women. Go to

a women's store and approach an employee. Tell him what you want

buy clothes / jewelry / shoes for your sister, mother, friend ... it doesn't matter.

For example, if she has a nice necklace on and is a jewelry store, go

Make eye contact with her, smile at her and tell her ...

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"Hello. I was wondering if you could help me. I'm trying to buy something

jewelry as a birthday gift for my friend. Money is not

problem. But I need help to choose what to give him… ”He points out the

necklace that she has on and tell her "I see that you have very good taste in

jewelry. Could you help me choose something? ” and give her a big smile.

Now you may be thinking "There are not so many jewelry stores

near where I live, how can I do so that they don't recognize me

and know that I am not going to buy anything? ”.

This is a valid point. But it is not an excuse for not taking action. Go to

other cities. Or just stop people on the street. Do it over the phone.

BE CREATIVE. But you must follow these steps to increase your

self-confidence.

You could stop and ask a woman something on the street ...

"Hello. I just have a short question. That wallet is the same type as

I have been looking to buy for my sister / mother / girlfriend. I could

say where can I buy one? ”

The woman will answer you. If she tells you she doesn't remember, then she starts

walk back, give him a big smile and say, “Thanks anyway.

You have excellent taste in wallets ”and go.

If he tells you where he bought it, start walking backwards and say "Ah

Thank you! You have excellent taste in wallets! ” and go walking

after giving him a big smile.

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What you will learn by arresting women on the street, as long as

You approach with a big smile and be friendly, is that most of the

people WILL be friendly to you. Sure, every once in a while you'll find yourself

with some grumpy guy who just ignores you, but that's normal.

Most women will be open and friendly when you are kind

with them. And they'll smile at you if you compliment them.

Once you feel comfortable paying a compliment to a woman

we will move on to the next step. This one deserves its own chapter ...

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Beginnings of Seduction

Steps 1-4 are the “beginner” levels of Subliminal Seduction.

These are the levels at which you start to increase your self-esteem and

self-confidence with women. These are the most important levels until

now. Since without a good basis for trust, all tactics and

techniques of the world cannot help you to get the woman who

you want.

Once you can easily do the exercises in steps one through

four you will be ready for step five. And this is where we are going to

become a teacher of the opposite sex.

Having self-confidence is the most important part of seduction. A

confident man will always get many women. The women who

They know through their friends, family and work will be their prey. AND

they usually have a relatively healthy sex life.

However if a man trusts himself and does not address the opposite sex,

it will not have so many women. For you to get many you will have to tackle them.

This sounds obvious but in order to have sex with many women

you have to be able to tackle them and start a conversation

with them.

This is why the first steps are very important. These increase

your self-confidence with women. You get used to starting a

conversation with a stranger, making eye contact, smiling, making a

compliment to a girl etc. You will feel much safer when boarding a

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woman if you practice these steps first.

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Once you have done that, it is time to move on to the intermediate level of

seduction. This is what step five is all about.

In step five you are going to approach women who are in a bar or cafe. And not

I'm talking about the women who work in the bar or cafe. I mean women

who are visiting the city or who are partying at the bar.

If that made you anxious don't worry, it's natural. Use the

trusted triggers to train your subconscious mind to

feel confident when you approach women.

We are still at the stage where we are going to approach a woman WITHOUT trying

to take her to bed. All we are going to do is get closer to a

woman in a bar, cafeteria, train ... anywhere .... And start a

conversation with her.

I suggest you start by starting a conversation with women at

that you are not attracted. Since you will not be attracted to them, and therefore

you will not try to sleep with them, it will be easier than if you were trying

talking to a woman you do like.

In the previous steps we asked women for their opinion on something.

You were asking store clerks if they could help you

select an item. We will be doing exactly the same thing in

step five, but this time we are going to ask any woman about her

opinion about something. Not just a store clerk.

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Asking a girl for her opinion on something is a great way to


start a conversation with someone you have never seen before. Why?

Because women love to give their opinion on everything and also

help men. This makes them feel powerful.

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This phase consists of asking a woman, and then later, a

group of women, your opinion on something that requires an opinion

feminine .

The reason why asking a woman's opinion is a great way

to start a conversation with her, it is because it is less direct than going to

her and say "You are beautiful". Women have already heard this type of

compliments over and over again. While going and asking a woman her

opinion is less direct (and safer) and does not make our intention obvious

to seduce her.

Women love to give their opinion, help men

"clueless" and enjoy a little gossip. So these themes of

conversation are a good way for you to start talking to

a woman without her thinking that you're trying to take her to the

bed .... that will come later.

Although first - the topics of conversation ...

I am going to give you a series of questions that you can use in order to start

a conversation with a woman. The objective at this stage is to do the

ask, get an answer, thank you and go. That's it

The great thing about these topics of conversation is that they let a

woman you are an educated, attentive and confident man. All

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qualities that women find attractive.

Let's take a look…

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Conversation Topic One

"Excuse me. I need some feminine advice. My sister / friend has just

giving birth and she wants me to help her name the baby. I'm very

excited about the opportunity to name my beautiful

niece / goddaughter but I don't know where to start. Any ideas?"

Man, wait for you to try this one. You will see how the faces of the

women around you light up. Anything related to babies

works surprisingly well with women as it activates the

Inner "mother" that has been on the minds of women since the days of the

cavemen.

This conversation will not only provoke happy and emotional feelings, but

who will also show that you are a "uncle" in solidarity thanks to the words

"... my beautiful niece." Usually you'll get an "Aww, how cute."

If you really want to take this to the next level, take a picture of the baby

from a friend or get one on the web, and use it on your mobile phone.

Show them by telling them that this is your niece. Isn't it beautiful?

Ask them for their opinion, get it and go your way. Or better yet, keep talking

with her / them if you are enjoying it! The goal here is simply

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start a conversation with a woman or group of women, who never


you've seen before. So you can do this and go. But feel free to

stay chatting and have fun!

Conversation Topic Two

You: "Hey, I need a female opinion on something. I really

I need your help. It will only take a second. ”

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She: "Ok, tell me"

You: "My friend has started wearing a hat and boots from

cowboy. He read in a book that women love it. His girlfriend

he recently quit and I'm concerned that women are laughing at him already

that will destroy your self-confidence even more. Do you think that

women will make fun of him? "

She will give you her opinion and you can continue talking to her or leave. While

start a conversation with her your work is done.

Conversation Topic Three

" Hello. I have a quick question. I want to give my parents

a vacation for your anniversary. Could you recommend some

Nice place? The money is not a problem. I have to book

in a few hours and I don't know what to do. "

This is great! Get some travel brochures from an agency

local and take them with you to a bar or cafe. Wherever you can

be close enough to a woman to make him

conversation.
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Your words will make his brain rummage through his memories to

find her past vacation experiences where she spent good

moments.

Your brain will only take milliseconds to find one. And due to what

she is remembering something pleasant, she will feel good. You can make

feel good with a simple question.

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Is all this making sense to you? If you don't need to read again

the first part of the book on how the human brain works. This is

such a powerful concept that you have to understand it correctly before

to continue.

Conversation Topic Four

"Hello. I have a quick question. I've decided that life is

too short and I want to quit my boring job and go on a trip.

Could you recommend some nice or interesting place that I

can visit? "

This topic of conversation is similar to the third. But he lets her see that

you are a man of action and emotion. A man who goes after what

wants. You have to have a lot of confidence to decide to quit your job and go

travel! And this, as we well know, is an attractive feature in a

man.

Conversation Topic Five

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From another phone send a text message to your mobile. He

message should say ...

"I really miss you. Do you want to go out next week? - Sofia”

Then ask a girl at a bar for her opinion. Show him the
message and tell him ...

"This is from my ex girlfriend. I was going to see another girl tonight. This
message has affected me a bit, because I adored my ex. Was
beautiful, sweet, fun ... everything a man could want.
But one day she got drunk and cheated on me. What do you think should
do? Should I go out with the other girl or see my ex the week that
comes?"

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This is incredibly powerful for a few reasons.

First of all, by showing the woman a message from your ex and saying:
"I was going to meet another girl tonight" you're showing her that
other women want you. This is very attractive to them. Women
find men attractive when they know other women
they also find them attractive.

Second, it shows that you are a loving and caring man. Tea
worried about hurting the "other girl".

These two factors, combined with the confidence to approach her and ask her
opinion make this a great topic of conversation.

Conversation Topic Six

In a bar or restaurant or anywhere else they sell

alcohol ask a girl:

"Hi. I have a quick question. Women usually know

more wine than men. I'm cooking for a girl

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Tomorrow night and I want to get a good bottle of wine.

Any suggestion? "

A man who knows how to cook? Women love it! Once again,

this suggests that you have attributes that women find attractive.

You are careful, attentive and you know how to treat a woman.

You are also confident enough to say "Women

they generally know more about wine than men. "

And finally…

Conversation Topic Seven

"Hello. I have a quick question. I have been asked to take care of the son

4 year old friend. I thought about choosing a DVD that we can

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see together. But I have no idea what little kids see

these days. Any ideas? "

Again, this demonstrates attractive qualities. You're showing him

that you are loyal to your friends and that you care about children.

The goal with Step Five is to use these topics of conversation to

start talking to women you've never talked to before. Choose

one you like and use it over and over again, or mix and match them together.

It really doesn't matter how you do it. The goal here is that you

get used to start talking to a woman you've never seen in

a social context, such as a bar, cafeteria, disco, etc. No matter the

place.

Remember that you are not trying to get the woman to bed yet

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(Although if that happens, better!). You're just getting used to starting


a conversation with a woman in a social setting. There is none

Pressure. Enjoy the process.

Later he will show you a course that will teach you how to invent your

own topics of conversation. For now let's move on to Step Six ...

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The Signs of Seduction

Once you reach the Sixth Step you will be a little higher than the center of

stairs. Most men cannot and do not want to get close to

an unknown woman in a bar. This terrifies them because of their bad

past experiences and social conditioning.

You, on the other hand, are different.

By the time you get to this point in training you will be a man

above average for confidence with

women. You will already feel comfortable approaching a woman and starting

a conversation.

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Also now you will have developed a man's body language


trusted. Only your body language will activate an attraction in the

women. Since you can smile, walk with confidence, make contact

visual and strike up a conversation with them. You will have all the

characteristics that women love.

But there is still more to learn ...

We now come to the point where you will learn to master seduction ...

As with the previous steps we will start little by little and

we will increase the level of difficulty. I'm not suggesting that

Start approaching 10 models right away. You have to start in

a level where you feel most comfortable. You can start by approaching

a woman you are not at all attracted to, with the intention of

get your phone number. For starters, don't go near the

Super models!

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What I want you to do is go to a bar or club. Too

You can do this in a cafe if you want, but it is usually easier

meet women in places where alcohol is sold because it is expected

that strangers can start a conversation with you.

I also want you to choose a woman in the bar who is looking a lot at

your surroundings. A woman who is watching a lot is usually

looking for men worthy of his attention.

Now the next time she watches the environment look at her and when she does

eye contact with you smile at him. And keep eye contact. She will divert

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the look. But that doesn't mean I'm not interested. Women have
been socially conditioned to look away when a man

look.

A group of psychologists analyzed flirting patterns and discovered

that if a woman looks away and then looks at you again after

45 seconds, this is a sign of invitation.

Let me repeat that ...

If you make eye contact with a woman and you smile at her, and she looks

the other way but then he looks at you again in 45 seconds

and maintains your eye contact, she is approving of your attention.

When she looks at you back, smile at her again, keeping

eye contact and nod. Or better yet lift your

drink if you are having something. If she nods, smiles and raises her glass

You will already know that she is interested and happy that you want to approach

she.

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If she doesn't, she is not interested (or maybe she is very shy!).

Try another girl.

This technique will allow you to only approach women who have

showed signs of interest. You can, of course, try to tackle

women who do not show this type of sign. But this is one way

almost infallible to know which woman in the bar wants you to approach her.

At this point in the course, if you still cannot complete the previous steps,

your social conditioning can be activated. You can start thinking about
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silly things like:

"But I'm ugly! No woman finds me attractive "


"It's not that easy. There must be more to it than this."
"Women aren't attracted to guys like me"
"I'm not cool enough to make it work"

These reflections are based on your past experiences and that is why it is crucial

follow the previous steps of the training. Once you've seen

how a smile, eye contact and confident body language affect

You will already know a woman the power of what I am talking about.

You may have seen this stage in the cinema ...

A man and a woman at an elegant party. The woman is wearing a dress

Elegant black and is drinking a glass of wine. The man has a suit

black and he's drinking a martini.

The woman is talking and laughing with her friends. She laughs and the way

that it does attract the attention of man. He makes eye contact with her and

smiles at him. She looks away and then looks back at him.

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He smiles at her again and raises his glass. She does the same, but in one

more timid way.

Why do we see this in movies? Because the filmmakers know that

it is how a self-confident man acts. Also know how to a

woman would like to be approached.

You may look like something out of a movie. By smiling and nodding or
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raise the glass in the way I suggest you will make her feel

who is on the scene of a movie because of all the movies

that you have seen in which this same situation occurs.

Now of course if your body language is crap and you dress like a

Homeless you are not going to get a good reaction. But if you are well dressed

and hairstyle, you have confident body language and you do the smile, the

eye contact and the nod I told you, you will find many women who

they will be happy to get close to you. And the chances of rejection will be

practically nil.

So what should you say the first time you approach a woman

What do you want to seduce?

You will say "Hello. My name is (your name)" and extend your hand to

narrow yours. If you say this with a confident smile, eye contact and

safe body language will activate all kinds of attractions in it.

You see, men don't usually approach women this way. The

Most men use cheesy phrases. This way of approaching

eyes of a woman, requires true confidence. In this way you

you are showing that you are comfortable with who you are. Cheesy lines? Who

Do you need them !? You know you are a valuable and attractive man.

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(This is how she will think. Even if you feel anxious inside).

This is the point. The first time you approach a woman she is NOT

paying attention to what you say. Not in the first moments. It is the

way you behave which will help you decide if you are a man

worthy of sex.
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What should you say after you have introduced yourself? Say something about him

environment or girl. Ask your opinion about the cocktails that the

Pub. Praise him watch or outfit. Ask him if he can recommend a

good bar since you plan to go somewhere else soon (this is a good one, since

that establishes the concept of "scarcity" in your mind. The confident man

who has just approached him will be leaving shortly. She must show her interest

or he will lose you!).

The point I'm trying to make is that men like to have

lines to say when approaching a woman. And that's fine, I

I'm going to give you a lot of lines that you can use when you get close

a woman as an extra of the course. But none of them is so

powerful as it is to approach and introduce yourself.

Men also want to know what to say in a conversation, and I will

I will give things to say in the next steps, but once again there is nothing

as powerful as being yourself and talking to him about things that are

happening in the environment at that very moment. At least at first.

In order to further develop the attraction, there are certain things you should

make me show you shortly. But to start the seduction,

Introduce yourself and talk about it or the environment.

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Use the trusted activators that I already taught you, to train your

subconscious mind and develop self-confidence when it comes to

approach women in this way. Visualize yourself over and over

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time in your mind reaching out to women using this technique and
getting a good reaction from them. And once you've trained it

enough, go out and try it!

As I already recommended at the beginning, it better start with a girl who doesn't

attracts you. Don't start approaching supermodels this way. Tea

It will take a few times to get it right and develop your own

style. That's fine. Once you feel comfortable just by approaching

a woman and say: "Hello. My name is (your name)" you will be in good

way to become a superhero of seduction.

In this phase your only objective is to approach women in this way.

If things progress and you get to sleep with something better. Yes

you get his number then better. If she walks away after a few minutes

well better. Never mind. You are trying to develop trust

necessary to be able to approach women over and over again. And one

Once this has been accomplished, it will be time to continue with the Next

He passed…

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Questions are the Answer

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Now we are going to really start delving into the simple, but very
powerful, seductive techniques that combine everything we've covered

until now.

Remember that earlier in the course I said that when someone sees, hears, smells or

touch something in the environment your brain automatically scans your network

memories to find something similar. I told you that:

When these brain areas send information back to the thalamus

after processing there is 80% more information. Somehow the

Brain has added more information than it received! The information that

has been added is information from your previous experiences in

similar situations.

This process will occur during your conversation with a woman. Things

what you say will make your subconscious mind rummage through your web of

memories and activate feelings based on the memory that resurfaces. She

you will not be aware that this is happening. But you do. And that

it means YOU can control it.

When you are able to approach a woman and introduce yourself

Confidently saying your name, you will be ready for Step Seven.

This step has to do with saying things that will make the woman feel

well on an emotional level. That, combined with your confidence, will make her

feel attracted to you.

In order to make a woman feel good on an emotional level,

you need to be like a detective.

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You need to realize what he is saying and detect

words, phrases or statements that can be used to

activate positive emotions in it.

See an example here. You approach a woman in a bar:

You: Hello. I'm Tomás * Give him a big smile, make eye contact and put your

hand in front *

She: I am Pati. * Smiles back at you and shakes your hand *

You: I'd rather be here than out there * You reference the storm of

outside rain *

She: I know. Is it miserable no? At least it is good for plants.

Most men, who are completely clueless

with women, they would miss the opportunity that she has brought up to

make her feel better.

She said, "At least it's good for plants." This is a very thing

strange to say. This suggests that she is interested in plants. So

that this is an idea of how things could develop:

You: Hello. I'm Tomás * Give him a big smile, make eye contact and put your

hand in front *

She: I am Pati. * Smiles back at you and shakes your hand *

You: I'd rather be here than out there * You reference the storm of

outside rain *

She: I know. Is it miserable no? At least it is good for plants.

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You: At least it's good for something * Give him a big smile * Do you like them

plants or flowers then?

If she smiles back at you and her eyes light up then you've found

a subject that interests and excites you. So I recommend that you should go

further and ask more questions about it.

Let me give you another example:

You: Hello. I'm Tomás * Give him a big smile, make eye contact and put your

hand in front *

She: I am Pati. * Smiles back at you and shakes your hand *

You: I'd rather be here than out there * You reference the storm of

outside rain *

She: I know. Outside it looks like a tropical storm.

You: Oh, have you been in the tropics?

Chances are she did go if she made a comment like that,

or at least have knowledge of it. Otherwise there would be no

emerged from your subconscious (which saw the rain and found a memory

similar which made her think of a tropical storm).

Do you see how everything combines?

One last example:

You: Hello. I'm Tomás * Give him a big smile, make eye contact and put your

hand in front *

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She: I am Pati. * Smiles back at you and shakes your hand *

You: I'd rather be here than out there * You reference the storm of

outside rain *

She: I know. Is it miserable no? Today I wanted to drive in my convertible.

But I don't think I can anymore.

You: Do you own a convertible? What car is?

The reason this is so important is because during a

conversation women will say something that comes from their subconscious mind.

Note this and get her to talk more about it.

If it's a bad thing, don't talk about it.

If it's a good thing, ask her more questions about it.

This is the basis of a good conversation with anyone. Not only with

women. If you're talking to a friend and he makes a comment about

from a boxing match ask him more about it. If your face lights up and

speak with more enthusiasm this is a topic you want to talk about and you've

made feel good.

For a woman this is natural. Women are VERY GOOD at doing

correct questions and in detecting this kind of thing. Most of the

men suck at this. And when a woman meets a guy with him

that you can have a good conversation that makes it more attractive.

Most men just want to talk about themselves. Those who are

good with women get women to talk about themselves

and the things they like.

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A woman wants a man who understands her. A man that I can

Talk if you had a bad day. Someone who wants to listen. You can be

That man!

I used the topic of weather as an example of topic of conversation because it is

a cliche. I wanted to show you that anything can be used to start

a conversation. If your body language is good it doesn't matter what

speak. You are trying to start a conversation and find something

what she wants to talk about.

Let me give you another example:

You: Hello. I'm Tomás * Give him a big smile, make eye contact and put your

hand in front *

She: I am Pati. * Smiles back at you and shakes your hand *

You: What cocktail is that?

She: It's a (name of the cocktail)

You: I'm always ready to try new things. It's good? Maybe i

drink one to try it.

She: It's really good. I needed it after a long day in the

job.

Any ideas what you can ask now?

Exact. Her work! You could ask her something about her work. That makes,

for example. Or you can comment on your own work. "Me

I need a drink for another reason from work. I'm celebrating today! "(The

Saying things like this would show that you are good at your job. That's
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an attractive quality).

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This is how a good conversationalist works. They either ask questions of

things that the other person has already mentioned, or say something but leave it

as an open topic so that the other person can ask a question to the

respect.

The three rules of conversation are:

1. Ask questions and statements about the environment you are in.
Listen to their responses. At first the conversation will be a bit
slow, like all conversations that are with a
unknown. Be like a detective. Be on the lookout for some piece of
information that she says you can use to make the
most interesting conversation.

2. When you find something the woman likes to talk about, and you
you will notice this because his face will light up and his voice will
change tone, get him to talk more about it.

3. If her face is darkened, her tone decreases in intensity and she begins
to look sad changes the subject. You don't want her to feel emotions
sad around you.

This is your goal in Step Seven. You have to practice this technique of

conversation. You can practice it with anyone you want. A

family member, a friend and of course the women in bars and

clubs. The goal is to train your brain to search for words that the

someone else says they suggest an interest, passion, or gossip about what the

person you want to talk more.

What you will learn in this step is that when a woman, or anyone,
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They talk about something that interests or passionate their body changes. Her face

light up, smile more, speak faster, etc.

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Creating Subconscious Attraction

By the time you reach this step you will already be able to attract and

sleep with women as much as you want. I'm serious. The

skills you have developed so far such as contact

visual, a big smile, confident body language, the ability to

approach a woman and listen to her, they will make women feel

attracted to you. These skills will get you a lot of dating, and a lot of sex,

if you wish.

However…

The techniques I have taught you so far will only allow you to lie down

with women who are on the same level as you. If you are an ugly guy just

you can sleep with ugly women, and maybe some drunks who look

well.

If you're an average-looking guy, then you can sleep with

many women of average appearance and some more beautiful.

Note. Some men who are reading this may think something like

"Why would a good-looking man read a course like this?" Because if

a handsome man has lousy body language and has no confidence

with women, they will not find it attractive. Maybe they will

principle but after talking to him for a few moments the attraction was

will vanish.

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The point I'm trying to make is that the information you've

learned so far will allow you to get to the point where you can have everything

the sex you want. But you will only get there.

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If you really want to meet girls who are "out of your league" you must

master the following steps.

This is where the real magic begins. This is where you will use your words

with the specific intention of making a woman feel attracted to you. AND

she will have no idea why it happened.

As I have already explained before, 80% of a woman's attraction to

a man is non-verbal. It's the way he moves and the confidence that he

exudes what will attract her. The remaining 20% will be for the things he says.

What you need to do now is make sure that the things you say are

according to your confident body language and make a woman feel

attracted to you.

So the real question is what exactly is it that makes a

woman attracted to a man? Let's take a look at this:

A man who is fun

Ask yourself what kind of people you like to live with. A

funny girl who is full of energy and is friendly? Or a girl

boring and dull who never changes her tone and likes to talk about physics

all day?
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Exact.

Women want to always be with a friendly man. You do not have to

to be a clown who is constantly making jokes and trying to be

the soul of the party. But when you approach a woman, don't be boring. He

Having a smile on your face will be the first sign that you are fun.

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Make sure your voice doesn't stay the same pitch all the time.

Use different intonations when speaking.

You must be willing to laugh at yourself (men who are capable

to do this they are seen as having good character and being

comfortable with who they are).

You can practice being fun and have lots of energy in your own home.

Start by dancing naked in your room. Move your arms like a duck.

Lie on the bed and kick the air. Laugh like a maniac. Run for the

fourth like a tornado.

Do you think I'm kidding? I'm not. Even when you will never do

these things around other people, doing them alone

show your subconscious mind that it's good from time to time

behave like a fool and have a lot of energy. Too many men

they stay serious all the time because they think it's cooler. But

Coolest guy in the place will always be the one who is fun. Not the kind that

He stands alone and he is too "cool" to talk to a woman.

Be fun and energetic around the girls. But don't overdo it. Don't you

behave like a duck around them. Be fun and playful.

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With sense of humor

Women love men with a sense of humor. This is not

no secret. What if it is how to be funny.

Some men reading this will know they are funny already.

They have an advantage. A sense of humor is one of the best ways that

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an ugly or average-looking man can attract beautiful women.

A funny guy also has the advantage of something called "Approval

Social". This applies when a girl sees that other women are

laughing at your jokes and she is unconsciously attracted to you.

Since this is such an important topic I will be explaining it in more detail

in the next advanced training that I'll be mailing

electronic.

For now, start by watching TV series and comedy movies. While

the more you expose yourself to comedy the more fun you will be. Your mind

subconscious will begin to recognize what it is that makes a

comment or situation is funny.

Intelligent

Intelligence can be very attractive to women, but only if it is

use in the proper way. In other words, you must be humble and

interesting. Use your intelligence to surprise a girl with ideas

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fun, fantastic and unexpected, that will make him fall in love with you.

Formal education, however, is only attractive if it is used in a

interesting way. If you are an expert in an interesting area,

present it from a perspective of "I know a lot about this, let me

teach you ”and not an angle of“ I am very intelligent and you are not ”. Too

you have to know that some attractive women are intimidated by

very educated men, so be careful with that.

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With class

If you know a little about culture (in other words, not too much for

get boring) the girls will notice it very quickly. So read a little

about things like good wines, exotic foods and beautiful places to

vacation. Women love these things!

Dominant

It is a scientific fact that women feel unconscious

attracted to "dominant" men. In fact, the dominant males in

some primate groups make up 75% of the companions of the

desirable females. The same goes for humans. Women love

the men who know what they want and go after it.

But, I'm not talking about the kind of assertiveness that makes her feel

intimidated or uncomfortable, or that you go over the line. I'm talking about a

kind of assertiveness that is about setting a goal and aiming for it with

passion. Women love this kind of thing.

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Romantic

Learn how to appear to be the type of man who likes to connect

emotionally with a woman and you will be very attractive to women. The

Most men are emotionally retarded. But a man who

knows and understands romance can activate many feelings in a

woman.

Go to your nearest bookstore and read books about a man named Nicholas

Sparks. Many of her books have also been made into movies. The guy is

a teacher in telling romantic stories. Read their books or look at their

movies and learn what women really want from a man.

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Sexual mastery

What else do I need to say? Women love sex as much as

the men. But like everything else in life, good lovers don't

they are easy to find.

Women become addicted to skilled lovers who know how

make them feel good and teach them new ways to feel amazing. read

some books. Watch some "educational" movies. Do whatever it takes

to learn new movements. And then combine them with the extra e-book

of "Embedded Influence" that I have added to this course, to tell you

stories that leave her begging you to take her to bed.

Generous

Women can get almost what they want from men, so don't

try to impress them with gifts. Impress them by showing them that you

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likes to spend time thinking about the well-being of another. Make a donation,
help someone less fortunate, donate time to a local foundation, and

invite her to come with you.

All this will make your heart race. And also (and much more

important), you will be doing good to the world.

A good listener

You will have mastered this one in Step Seven. A man who can listen

a woman is attractive because, as I said, most men

don't listen. They focus so much on talking about themselves, or on

breasts of the woman, who do not listen to anything she says. This is a

serious mistake. But it is good news for those who do listen. What if you already

You completed Step Seven so you will be one of these men.

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A challenge

This is a BIG one. Most men are not attractive because

When they talk to a woman they believe that she has more value than they do.

So they talk to the girl and agree with everything she says.

Even when she says something they don't agree with, they give her the

reason. They believe that this will make them more attractive.

They are wrong.

While women want a man who thinks so

similar to them, the last thing a girl wants is a submissive man who

always get carried away. Submissive men have no self-confidence and

As we already know, this is not attractive to women.

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you must tell him. Don't do it in an aggressive way. Do it one way

playful and fun.

For example:

She: "I think that the players of the German soccer team are a group

of overpaid and overrated idiots "

You: "I do not agree with that. I mean they are the best

athletes from their country and have worked hard to get there. I respect that. Alone

I wish I had played more soccer at school. Maybe now it would be

captain of the national team "* Give him a playful wink *

If a woman said that around most men, they would

they would agree, even if they disagree with that. They wouldn't say

nothing.

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But saying something is what will make you stand out from them. Women

beautiful they're not used to men disagreeing

with them. And this is one of the reasons why it's easier to take them to the

bed, than the average-looking or ugly ones (I'll talk more about this in the

advanced course by email).

Be a challenge for a woman, not a submissive guy. If you don't agree with

something she says, say it!

Loyal and Protective

Women want a man who is faithful to them. Not a man who only knows

worry about yourself.

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A man who is loyal and protective of his friends, family and strangers is

an attractive man. Especially if he is faithful and protective of children.

Ambitious

A man who shows that he is motivated to improve himself is

attractive because these men usually have better jobs or

they are working to get better things. This means that they are

more likely to care for a woman if they decide to have a child later.

These are the attractive qualities that a woman unconsciously looks for

In one Man:

Self-confidence
Funny
With sense of humor
Intelligent
With class
Assertive

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Romantic
Sexual master
Generous
A good listener
A challenge
Loyal
Ambitious

One way you can show these characteristics to a woman is

projecting them. So be confident, fun, smart, etc.

Another way is to make comments or tell stories that do not say "I am
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generous ”or“ I'm romantic ”directly, but suggest it to your

subconscious mind.

For example, take a look at this interaction:

You: Hello. I'm Tomás * Give him a big smile, make eye contact and take your

hand out *

She: I am Heidi. * Smile and shake your hand *

You: May I ask what wine is that?

She: It's a (wine name)

Your course! Sorry, I don't want to be nosy. It's just me

He's asked to go on a wine tasting trip with my boss next week and

I'm trying to prepare myself before I go. I don't want to arrive and not know

differentiate a liebfraumilch from a chablis!

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In that phrase you are showing the girl the following characteristics:

Confidence in yourself (Approaching her with a big smile)


Fun (addressing her with a lot of energy)
A sense of humor (For jokes about how to tell
wines)
Intelligence (This is hinted at by the fact that you are traveling with
your boss)

A woman's subconscious mind would not notice all of this. Everything happens

too fast for her to analyze every word that


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is said and what it means. Instead, your unconscious mind will notice

of what is said and will try to make sense of it together. And it will come to

conclusion that this man is confident, funny, has a sense of

humorous and willing to laugh at himself, and smart.

Let's say the woman responds like this:

She: I think wine tasting is very feminine

What it is doing is testing you. Women put to the test

men to see if they really are as sure of themselves as

they look like. And this is why you have to build trust

solid and real to master seduction. Most men will

They would give up on a comment like that, if it comes from a

beautiful woman. But a truly confident man could answer

saying something like:

You: I disagree. I think there is something very masculine in a man

who knows his wine. A man who knows his wine can lead to a

woman to dine at a good place and choose a quality wine for

complement the dish she asks for. I like the idea. That is why I am

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delighted that my boss asked me to go with him. Me

I am always ready to learn things to please my partner.

What features are shown here?

Self-confidence
With class
Assertive

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Romantic
A challenge
Ambitious

Can you see how this works? Your words can make me feel

attracted to you because they can show you all the characteristics that she

He finds them attractive, without saying them directly.

Here's an example of the WORST way to do things:

You: My boss asked me to go on a wine tasting trip with him. He knows

that I am the best seller in the company and that no one can compete

with me and he wants to reward me for breaking the sales record for the month.

This would instantly drive a woman away. This shows arrogance, no

trust.

There are many different ways you can use to stream

attractive features without having to say them directly. For example:

"I'm only going to stay here half an hour, then I have to take care of my

precious goddaughter "(Loyal and protector)

"I'm halfway there in creating my book. It's always been my

I dream of being published "(Intelligent. Ambitious)

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"I love inviting my mother to eat in good restaurants" (With

class. Loyal)

"I broke up with my girlfriend six months ago. I let her keep him

apartment because we are still friends. Neighbors hated us

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because we were very noisy during sex. I'm glad I don't have to
deal with the knocks on the wall every night! "(Loyal. Sexual Mastery)

"Yes I have been to Paris before. It seems to me such a romantic city and

beautiful. I went to be able to paint some of their amazing buildings. Would be

even more special for me to be there with a woman "(Classy. Smart.

Romantic)

Can you see how this works? Your words activate an attraction in her

by telling your subconscious mind exactly what to think. Words

they go beyond their conscious perspective and their subconscious delves into their network

of memories and find memories of movies, books, magazines or your

own experience in Paris, paintings, men talking about Paris,

romance etc. The bottom line is "This man is attractive."

If you want to take women to bed, say things that activate attraction in them.

You will have to invent them if necessary, but it is much better for them

if they are real.

Make your life the life of an attractive man. Help charity.

Learn new and exciting things. Be loyal and affectionate to your loved ones

dear ones and with strangers.

To start, I want you to write some sentences that you can use in a

conversation that shows the attractive qualities you have

(Make them up if necessary. But it is better if they are true.)

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They can be based on the past, your goals for the future or whatever you want.

But writing phrases or stories is even better since they can be included in a

conversation and that will make a woman feel attracted to you.

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When you get really good at this you can include compliments in

statements you make.

"I was the best man at the wedding of one of my friends. It was a beautiful day and

the bride looked beautiful. You look a lot like her. They got married in XYZ, etc,

etc"

Saying a compliment like this makes a woman come to this

conclusion "He thinks I'm beautiful!" Without being told the way

cheesy that most men would wear. Often the woman

will ask "Did you just say what I think you said?" This will keep your

attention on you.

Over time, and with practice, you will automatically say things that activate

attraction in a woman, without even thinking about it. You will hear what

he says and you will respond in such a way that what you say will anger with attraction

included. This is where you will be at a level where women will

they will prostrate at your feet.

This is Step Eight on the ladder of seduction. I promise you and

I guarantee, the moment you master this stage you will have women

falling at your feet and desperate to get into bed with you or

be your girlfriends. Practice this every day with the people you

you usually speak, they can be men or women. Men will have

more respect for you by showing characteristics like ambition, fun,

sense of humor etc. and they will want to be closer to you more

often.

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Just like women. The only difference is that women will want

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sleep with you!

Talk to women and have fun with them. Be interesting. Be funny

Be smart. But also from time to time I said things that convey

these characteristics to the girl's subconscious mind.

How will you know when a woman wants to sleep with you or go on a date?

This is covered in Step Nine ...

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Signs That A Woman Wants You

Let's say you've already seen a woman looking around a lot. You already

You made eye contact and smiled at him. She looked away and looked at you

again within 45 seconds. You nod and lift your

drink while you smile. She smiles at you too and raises her glass towards you. You

you approach her and start a conversation. During the conversation

unconsciously show him your attractive features. She starts to

feel attracted to you.

But how do you know that she is attracted to you? The last thing you want

do is try something and ask her for her phone number or try to kiss her and

to reject you right?

The good news is that you don't have to risk being rejected. There's a

good number of conscious and unconscious signals that a woman will give you

if she is interested.

First of all if she is not interested she will do things like these:

Will look around while you're talking

You will lay your head on your hands with your knuckles forward.

It will give you short answers like "yes", "no" and "maybe".

He will constantly speak to a woman or a man who is

around you, but he won't make an effort to talk to you.

If this happens tell him: “It has been a pleasure talking to you but I must return with

my friends ”or something similar. Give him a big smile and walk away.

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The chances of this happening are very, very slim since you've

noticed positive signs before approaching. But if you see them you will know. Alone

go away.

On the other hand, if you have followed the system and start to see signs like

Following you will know that she is interested:

You lie back in your chair and she lies in hers.


His legs are not crossed and his body is leaning towards you.
His arms are not crossed.
She changes her mind about songs, movies or whatever because
you have a different opinion. She changes her mind to be of
I agree with you.
She says "I'm not going to sleep with you" or "I'm not going home with you" before
that you ask or show something that implies that this is you
intention.
She playfully punches you on the arm or hand.
She ignores her friends when they try to contribute to the conversation.
or they want to go.
You stop talking and make eye contact and she holds your gaze
for more than two seconds.
She licks her lips, plays with her hair or with her straw
drink using your mouth.
She adjusts her clothes to show more skin.
You stop talking and there is a pause, and she says "then ..."

When you see one of these signs then she probably feels

attracted to you. If you see more than one of these signs it is definitely

interested. And when you see them it is time to try to seduce her ...

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Get Sex Or A Date

Now we go to the final step. Step Ten on the stairs. Once you can

doing this you will be a true seduction expert. You will have the super

power of seduction that I talked about at the beginning of the course. You will be able to

sleep with as many women as you want. Ugly, average-looking or

beautiful. All women will want you because of the way they

make you feel.

In Step Nine you were looking for signs that show that

feel attracted to you. Now is the time to take action.

The first thing you need to do is tell her, "Come with me for a

second". Take his hand and take him away from where they originally were

speaking. This shows that you are dominant and that you have confidence in yourself

same. On an unconscious level she is being submissive to you if she

agrees to go. Which will do if you have seen the signs of interest that

we talked about in Step Nine.

I want you to take her somewhere else in the bar, or outside the bar or

Coffee doesn't really matter, it may even be just a few steps further.

The point is that you take her hand gently, look her in the eye and say:

"Come with me for a second" and turn to continue walking in another

direction.

If she doesn't walk with you don't drag her, stop. She is not so attracted

to you still.

If she leaves with you, which is most likely, take her to a location

different.

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What you will do next depends on what you want from it. If you want

try to sleep with her that night you must kiss her. If you want to have one

appointment with her, with which she will feel more comfortable, ask for her number.

Kiss her

If you want to try to sleep with her you have to show her your intentions.

That approach requires more courage, but if you feel comfortable with it then

do it.

Slowly bring your hand close and put her hair away from her face. Or squeeze it

gently hand. Or put your hand gently on her shoulder. Go ahead

pick up lines. Say something like, "I've really enjoyed talking to you" or "You're

so beautiful". It's okay to be cheesy now that the attraction is built.

Lean down so your head is closer to hers but don't

enough to make contact. Keep your eyes on her. Don't smile on

this point. No smiles.

If she tilts her head a little then you can bow last

little bit and kiss her on the cheek. Then lean back again, look at her

reaction, if she doesn't look so surprised then lean back and

kiss her on the lips.

Kiss her gently. Don't put your tongue like a swirl in her mouth

like a washing machine and don't grab your breasts or your butt. Kiss her

Gently on the lips, lean back and give her a huge smile and

maintain eye contact. And just say "wao".

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Then he grabs her hand and continues the conversation.

This will blow your head off. It's guaranteed. She will see you as a type

fun and confident who knows how to treat women. And she will adore you.

From now on repeat the kiss (but don't kiss her on the cheek, go

straight to her mouth if she leans toward you.) After the first few times

you do not have to lean forward. Just kiss her. And you can

kiss her slowly and more passionately.

If you see that he reacts enthusiastically after a while you can

ask him:

"We should go somewhere else. A disco or a bar? Or my house?

Let's go to my house better ”.

If she says, "Okay," you can take her home. And that means one thing.

Sex.

IMPORTANT: A WOMAN AT ANY TIME IS IN HER

RIGHT TO NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU. EVEN IF YOU HAVE

TAKEN TO YOUR HOME AND YOU HAVE THE CONDOM ON AND SHE DECIDES

WHO DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX, YOU HAVE TO STOP. THAT MUST

KNOWING WITHOUT HAVING TO SAY IT. EVERY WOMAN DESERVES LOVE,

RESPECT AND PROTECTION.

RESPECT YOUR RIGHTS

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If she says she wants to go to another bar or club, take her. And then in

night ask her if she wants to go to your house or get a room in

a hotel.

You already got it.

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Getting her phone number

If you don't feel comfortable trying to have sex with her on the first

night then don't worry you're not alone Instead you should

get her phone number so you can take her on a date and

suggest sex once you both feel more comfortable with each other

other.

So how do you get her phone number?

Well asking her phone number is as simple as just

ask about it! If she has shown you signs that she is interested

then she is attracted to you. Tell him that you have to go but that you

I would love to continue the conversation at another time. What is your

telephone?

If you really want to increase your chances of success, use what she

previously said in the conversation to demonstrate some of your

attractive features.

Let's say earlier in the conversation she said she loves to play golf, you

you could say:

Listen, I have to go now. Let me take you to a golf course

nice and so you can teach me how to play. Or maybe I will beat you the first time
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that we play together. Maybe I'm a natural champion even when

I have never played before! What's your Number?"

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This proves:

That you have confidence in yourself


That you are fun
That you have a sense of humor
That you are assertive
That you are a good listener
That you are a challenge

Also, by asking her to do something that she already knows and enjoys,

you are taking advantage of all past experiences and emotions

that she has in her subconscious. She will feel positive doing

with you what she likes to do.

So you can ask him his phone number just by asking him

directly. Or you can make him feel an immediate positive connection

having a date with her, taking advantage of the things he said earlier

in the conversation he had with you. You can link those feelings

to make her go on a date with you.

And that's it. When you can do this step regularly you will be

highest on the ladder. All areas of your life will be transformed

for your new confidence and your skills with women. You will be more
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trusting your work, your social life and more importantly with yourself.

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Are You Enough Man?

Now you have ALL the skills you need to sleep and go out with the

woman of your dreams. But there is more ...

I will be sending you emails regularly that

contain my advanced seduction techniques that will put your

skills beyond heaven. The material in this book is without

However everything you need. Advanced tactics are just a

extra. You will be receiving emails regularly like this

looking for an email titled "TRAINING

ADVANCED". There is a gold mine that will be reaching your hands

the next few weeks and the next few months.

And it is 100% free as an extra for buying this program

training.

If you follow the steps in this training course you will do a

professional in seduction. You will live life and go out with your friends, and

Strangers who witness your skills with women will be amazed.

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They will not believe the transformation they see in you. Your change will help them
want to grow as people too. So you can transform your life

and that of others.

But you can only transform your life and have sex with women

beautiful you deserve if you take action.

In life there are two types of people. There are the dreamers, and there are those who

take action.

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There are winners and there are losers. There are seduction masters and there are

losers who go through life having sex with a very small number

of women and always wishing they could have sex with someone better.

I want you to do an exercise for me ...

Imagine that you are an old man. You are 85 years old and you know that you are going to

die in a few days. When you look back on your life, do you want to see a life

full of experiences, fun, women and stories which ended

at your wedding with the woman of your dreams and living happily ever after?

Or do you want to look back and see a boring life where you slept with just

four women, all of whom were ugly, and end up marrying one

woman by conformity, instead of with your ideal woman?

How do you prefer to look back? Unless you're crazy you want to watch

back with happiness, with exciting memories of your sex life and passing away

holding the hand of the beautiful woman you married and adored.

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In order to experience the finer things in life, have a good


work, money, beautiful woman or anything that makes your life

wonderful, you must get out of your comfort zone. And sadly many

Men and women do not do this. And they lean on their boring lives and

they are unhappy, even if they don't admit it to themselves.

Please, please don't be one of those people. In this book, and my

training, you will have everything you need to develop more

confidence in yourself and attract the opposite sex. You will have to get out of your

comfort zone to do this. But this will have a wonderful effect

in ALL areas of your life. Not only with women.

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You will meet new people and you will make new friends, you will make better your

work or you will develop the right attributes to get the job that

you want. You will make your loved ones proud of you when

see your high confidence. You will find the woman of your life and much more.

As you can see this is not just a course about meeting women. This

it is a course about being a confident man. The step you take in

course will help you become that and meet many women. Who

whether you take these steps, and lean on them even when you

get tough, you will float like a new man. One of the few

men at the top of the stairs.

Do not make excuses. Don't try to find a reason that says this doesn't

it will work. You know how to build your confidence and make a woman

feel good help in your life. Do it. Take action. It starts to rise. And you

I will send out some advanced tactics in the next few weeks.
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they will help even more. Including more training to overcome the

fear of approaching a woman.

Until then!

Your friend,

Thomas

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