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ery woman has experienced that desolation when her sister p However, most of the feminists and lesbian-feminists in America and elsewhere
crunch: heterosexuality demands that she do so. ~ as women still still believe that the basis of women's oppression is biological CIS well as historical.
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they will at some Some of them even claim to find their sources in Simone de Beauvoir. The belief in
who do not receive those mother, right and in a "prehistory" when women would have created civilization (be-
cause of a biological predisposition), while the coarse and brutal men would have
hunted (because of a biological predisposition), does not make the biological approach
any better. It is still the same method of finding in women and men a biological expla-
nation of their division, outside of social facts. For me this could never constitute a
lesbian approach since it assumes that the basis of society or the beginning of society
lies in heterosexuality. Matriarchies are no less heterosexual than patriarchies: it's
only the sex of the oppressor that changes. Furthermore, not only is this conception
still a prisoner of the categories of sex (woman and man), but it keeps to the idea that
the capacity to give birth (biology) is what defines a woman. Although practical facts
and ways of living contradict this theory in lesbian society, there are lesbians who af-
firm that "women and men are different species or races (the words are used inter-
changeably); men are biologically inferior to women; male violence is a biological in-
evitability ... " By doing this, by admitting that there is a "natural" division between
women and men, we naturalize history, we assume that men and women have always
existed and will always exist. Not only do we naturalize history, but also consequently
we naturalize the social phenomena which express our oppression, making change im.:
possible. For example, instead of seeing giving birth as a forced production, we see ii
as a "natural," "biological" process, forgetting that in our societies births are planned
(demography), forgetting that we ourselves are programmed to produce children,
Monique Wittig while this is the only social activity "short of war" that presents such a great danger of
death. Thus, as long as we will be "unable to abandon by will or impulse a lifelong
and centuries old commitment to childbearing as the female creative act," having con-
A materialist feminist approach to women's oppression destroys the idea that women trol of the production of children will mean much more than the mere control of the
are a "natural group": "a socia! group of a special kind, a group perceived as natural, a material means of this production. Women will have to abstract themselves from the
group of men considered as materially specific in their bodies." A lesbian society de- definition "woman" which is imposed upon them. -
stroys the artificial (social) fact constituting women as a "natural group." A lesbian so- A materialist feminist approach shows that what we take for the cause or origin of
ciety pragmatically reveals that the division from men of which women have been the oppression is in fact only the mark imposed by the oppressor: the "myth of woman,"
object is a political one and shows how we have been ideologically re-built into a "nat- plus its material effects and manifestations in the appropriated consciousnesses and
ural group. " In our case, ideology goes far since our bodies as well as our minds are bodies of women. Thus, the mark does not preexist oppression. Colette Guillaumin, a
the product of this manipulation. We have been compelled in our bodies and in our French sociologist, has shown that before the socio-economical reality of black slav-
minds to correspond, feature by feature, with the idea of nature that has been estab- ery, the concept of race did not exist (at least not in its modem meaning: it was applied
lished for us. Distorted to such an extent that our deformed body is what they call to the lineage of families). However, now, race, exactly like sex, is taken as an "imme-
"natural," is what is supposed to exist as such before oppression. Distorted to such an diate given," a "sensible given," "physical features." They appear as though they exist-
extent that at the end oppression seems to be a consequence of this "nature" in our- ed prior to reasoning, belonging to a natural order. But what we believe to be a
selves (a nature which is only an idea). What a materialist analysis does by reasoning, physical and direct perception is only a sophisticated and mythic construction, an
a lesbian society accomplishes in fact: not only is there no natural group "women" (we "imaginary formation" which reinterprets physical features through the network of re-
lesbians are a living proof of it) but as individuals as well we question "woman," lationships in which they are perceived. (They are seen black, therefore they are black;
which for us, as for Simone de Beauvoir thirty years ago, is only a myth. She said: they are seen women, therefore they are women. But before being seen that way, they
'::'One is not born, but becomes a woman. No biological, psychological, or economic first had to be made that way.) A lesbian consciousness should always remember how
fate determines the figure that the human female presents in society; it is civilization "unnatural," compelling, totally oppressive, and destructive being "woman" was for us
as a whole that produces this creature, intermediate between male and eunuch, which in the old days before the women's liberation movement. It was a political obligation
is described as feminine." and those who resisted it were accused of not being "real" women. But then we were
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proud of it, since in the accusation there was already something like a shadow of vic- It is, then, this movement that we can question for its meaning of "feminism." It so
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tory: the avowal by the oppressor that "woman" is not something that goes without happens that feminism in the last century could never resolve its contradictions on the
saying, since to be one, one has to be a "real" one (what about the others?). We were subject of nature/culture, woman/society, Women started to fight for themselves as a
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also confronted by the accusation of wanting to be men, We still are by certain les- group a!ld rightly considered that they shared common features, But for them these
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m bians and feminists who believe that one has to become more and more of a woman as features were natural and biological rather than social. They went so far as to adopt
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a political obligation, But to refuse to be a woman does not mean that one has to be- pseudo-Darwinist theories of evolution, They did not believe like Darwin, however,
come a man, And for her who does want to become a man: in what way is her alien- "that women were less evolved than men, but they did believe that male and female
ation different from wanting to become a woman? At least for a woman, wanting to natures had diverged in the course of evolutionary development and that society at
become a man proves that she escaped her initial programming, But even if she wants large reflected this polarization. , . The failure of early feminism was that it only at-
to, she cannot become a man, For becoming a man would demand from a woman hav- tacked the Darwinist charge of female inferiority, while accepting the foundations of
ing not only the outside appearance of a man but his consciousness as well, that is, the this charge-namely, the view of woman as 'unique,''' And finally it was women
consciousness of one who disposes by right of at least two natural "slaves" during his scholars-and not feminists-who scientifically destroyed this theory. But the early
life span, This is impossible since precisely one feature of lesbian oppression consists feminists had failed to regard history as a dynamic process which develops from con-
of making women out of reach for us, since women belong to men. Thus a lesbian has flicts of interests, Furthermore, they still believed that the cause (origin) of their op-
to be something else, not-woman, not-man, a product of society not a product of "na- pression lay within themselves (among black people only the Uncle Toms believed
ture," for there is no "nature" in society,
this), And therefore feminists, after some astonishing victories, found themselves at an
The refusal to become heterosexual always meant to refuse to become a man or a impasse for lack of reasons for fighting, They upheld the illogical principle of "equali-
woman, consciously or not. For a lesbian this goes further than the refusal of the role ty in difference," an idea now being born again, They fell back into the trap which
"woman." It is the refusal of the economic, ideological and political power of a man, threatens us once again: the myth of woman,
This, we lesbians, and non-lesbians as well, have experienced before the beginning of Thus it remains historically for us to define our oppression in materialist terms, to
the lesbian and feminist movement. However, as Andrea Dworkin emphasizes, many say that women are a class, which is to say that the category "woman," as well as
lesbians recently "have increasingly tried to transform the very ideology that has en- "man," is a political and economic category, not an eternal one. Our fight aims to sup-
slaved us into a dynamic, religious, psychologically compelling celebration of female press men as a class, not through a genocidal, but a political struggle, Once the class
biological potential." Thus, some avenues of the feminist and lesbian movement lead "men" disappears, women as a class will disappear as well, for there are no slaves
us back to the myth of woman which was created by men especially for us, and with it without masters. Our first task, it seems, is to always thoroughly disassociate "women"
we sink back into a natural group, Thirty years ago Simone de Beauvoir destroyed the (the class within which we fight) and "woman," the myth. For "woman" does not exist
myth of woman. Ten years ago we stood up to fight for a sexless society, Now we find for us: it is only an imaginary formation, while "women" is the product of a social re-
ourselves entrapped in the familiar deadlock of "woman is wonderful." Thirty years lationship, Furthermore we have to destroy the myth within and outside ourselves.
ago Simone de Beauvoir underlined particularly the false consciousness which con- "Woman" is not each one of us, but the political and ideological formation which
sists of selecting among the features of the myth (that women are different from men) negates "women" (the product of a relation of exploitation). "Woman" is there to con-
those which look good and using them as a definition for women" What the concept of fuse us, to hide the reality of "women." In order to become a class and to be aware of
"woman is wonderful" accomplishes is that it retains for defining women the best fea- it, we have first to kill the myth "woman" even in its most seductive aspects, , , ,
tures which oppression has granted us and it does not radically guestion the categories To destroy "woman" does not mean to destroy lesbianism, for a lesbian is not a
"man" and "woman." It puts us in a position of fighting within the class "women" not woman and does not love a woman, given that we agree with Christine Delphy that
as the other classes do, for the disappearance of our class, but for the defense of what "makes" woman is a personal dependency on a man (as opposed to an imperson-
"woman" and its reinforcement. It leads us to develop with complacency "new" theo- al dependency on a boss), Lesbian is the only concept that I know of which is beyond
ries about our specificity: thus, we call our passivity "non-violence." The ambiguity of the categories of sex (woman and man), because lesbian societies are not based upon
the term "feminist" sums up the whole situation, What does "feminist" mean? Femi- women's oppression and because the designated subject (lesbian) is not a woman
nist is formed with the word "femme," "woman," and means "someone who fights for either economically or politically or ideologically. Furthermore, what we aim at is not
women," For many of us it means "someone who fights for women as a class and for the disappearance of lesbianism, which provides the only social form that we can live
the disappearance of this class," For many others it means "someone who fights for in, but the destruction of heterosexuality-the political system based on women's
woman and her defense"-for the myth then and its reinforcement. But why was the oppression, which produces the body of thought of the difference between the sexes to
word "feminist" chosen? We chose to call ourselves "feminists" ten years ago, not in explain women's oppression,
order to identify ourselves with the oppressor's definition of us, but rather to affirm Beyond or within this class consciousness, this science/experience, while in the
that our movement had a history and to emphasize the political link with the old femi- separateness of one's ego, do we still have to fight to exist as an autonomous entity?
nist movement.
There is no doubt that we have to fight for this entity, since we are left with nothing,
182 THEORIES OF WOMEN'S SUBORDINATION SEX EQUALITY: DIFFERENCE AND DOMINANCE 183

once we reject the basic determination "woman" and "man," once we have no more at- on the other. Law, structurally, adopts the male point of view: sexuality concerns na-
tributes by which to identify ourselves (I am this or that). We are for the first time in ture not social arbitrariness, interpersonal relations not social distributions of power,
•history confronted with the necessity of existing as a person. the sex difference not seX:discrimination .
Sex discrimination law, with mainstream moral theory, sees equality and gender as
issues Of sameness and difference. According to this approach, which has dominated
politics, law, and social perception, equality is an equivalence not a distinction, and
gender is a distinction not an equivalence. The legal mandate of equal treatment-both
Sex Equality: Difference and Dominance
a systemic norm and a specific legal doctrine-becomes a matter of treating likes alike
Catharine MacKinnon and unlikes unlike, while the sexes are socially defined as such by their mutual unlike-
ness. That is, gender is socially constructed as difference epistemologically, and sex
discrimination law bounds gender equality by difference doctrinally. Socially, one
There is one thing of which one can say neither that it is one meter long nor that it is not one tells a woman from a man by their difference from each other, but a woman is legally
meter long, and that is the standard meter in Paris. recognized to be discriminated against on the basis of sex only when she can first be
said to be the same as a man. A built-in tension thus exists between this concept of
Ludwig Wittgenstein
equality, which presupposes sameness, and this concept of sex, which presupposes dif-
ference. Difference defines the state's approach to sex equality epistemologically and
The measure of man is man.
doctrinally. Sex equality becomes a contradiction in terms, something of an oxy-
Pythagoras moron. The deepest issues of sex inequality, in which the sexes are most constructed
as socially different, are either excluded at the threshold or precluded from coverage
[Men] think themselves superior to women, but they mingle that with the notion of equality be- once in. In this way, difference is inscribed on society as the meaning of gender and
tween men and women. It's very odd. written into law as the limit on sex discrimination. . . .
Jean-Paul Sartre In [the] mainstream epistemologically liberal approach,3 the sexes are by nature
biologically different, therefore socially properly differentiated for some purposes.
Upon this natural, immutable, inherent, essential, just, and wonderful differentiation,
Inequality because of sex defines and situates women as women. If the sexes were society and law are thought to have erected some arbitrary, irrational, confining, and
equal, women would not be sexually subjected. Sexual force would be exceptional, distorting distinctions. These are the inequalities the law against sex discrimination
consent to sex could be commonly real, and sexually violated women would be be- targets. As one scholar has put it, "any prohibition against sexual classifications
lieved. If the sexes were equal, women would not be economically subjected, their must be flexible enough to accommodate two legitimate sources of distinctions on
desperation and marginality cultivated, their enforced dependency exploited sexually the basis of sex: biological differences between the sexes and the prevailing hetero-
or economically. Women would have speech, privacy, authority, respect, and more re- sexual ethic of American society.'" The proposed federal ERA's otherwise uncom-
sources than they have now. Rape and pornography would be recognized as violations, promising prohibition on sex-based distinctions provides parallel exceptions for
and abortion would be both rare and actually guaranteed. "unique physical characteristics" and "personal privacy."s Laws or practices that ex-
In the United States, it is acknowledged that the state is capitalist; it is not acknowl- press or reflect sex "stereotypes," understood as inaccurate overgeneralized attitudes
ed~ed that it is male The law of sex equality, constitutional by interpretation and often termed "archaic" or "outmoded," are at the core of this definition of discrim-
statutory by joke, erupts through this fissure, exposing the sex equality that the state ination6 Mistaken illusions about real differences are actionable, but any distinction
purports to guarantee.' If gender hierarchy and sexuality are reciprocally constitut- that can be accurately traced to biology or heterosexuality is not a discrimination but
ing-gender hierarchy providing the eroticism of sexuality and sexuality providing an a difference.
enforcement mechanism for male dominance over women-a male state would pre- From women's point of view, gender is more an inequality of power than a differ-
dictably not make acts of sexual dominance actionable as gender inequality. Equality entiation that is accurate or inaccurate. To women, sex is a social status based on who
would be kept as far away from sexuality as possible. In fact, sexual force is not con- is permitted to do what to whom; only derivatively is it a difference, For example, one
ventionally recognized to raise issues of sex inequality, either against those who com- woman reflected on her gender: "I wish I had been born a doormat, or a man,"? Being
mit the acts or against the state that condones them. Sexuality is regulated largely by a doormat is definitely different from being a man. Differences between the sexes do
criminal law, occasionally by tort law, neither on grounds of equality? Reproductive descriptively exist. But the fact that these are a woman's realistic options, and that
control, similarly, has been adjudicated primarily as an issue of privacy. It is as if a they are so limiting, calls into question the perspective that considers this distinction
vacuum boundary demarcates sexual issues on the one hand from the law of equality a "difference," Men are not called different because they are neither doormats nor

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