Dear {Name},

I am sorry. I know that I have a reputation for being blunt, but what I {did/said} was
beyond the pale.

I don’t know what I was thinking when I {did/said} what I did, but please believe me
when I tell you that I will be doing some deep reflection on how I communicate in the
future.

Please know that I never meant to hurt you with my words or actions, but I acknowledge
that I did so. I hope that you will accept my apology.

Sincerely,

{Name}