UNIVERSIDAD DE INVESTIGACIÓN Y DESARROLLO UDI

ESTUDIANTE: KEVIN DAVID RIVERA BECERRA

PROGRAMA: INGENIERIA INDUSTRIAL

TEMA: ACTUALES PROBLEMAS DE COMUNICACIÓN EN LA FAMILIA

ENGLISH ACTIVITY 1

BARRANCABERMEJA, 02 DE Diciembre 2020

CURRENT PROBLEMS OF COMMUNICAION IN THE FAMILY AND THE
IMPACT ON THE LIFE OF EACH OF THE MEMBERS.

It is very normal that in our families we have arguments and that many
times misunderstandings arise, but the most important thing is to learn to
recognize our mistakes as human beings that we are, one of the questions
that we very rarely ask ourselves as a family is what with the problems that
lead us to take bad attitudes, behaviors and even make us move away
from our family, as it is true that we are in a world in which technology has
currently positioned itself as the host of communication with our family,
friends and others people, it is known that it is a medium that, although it is
true, has a lot to investigate but when it is used excessively that is where
we begin to realize how it affects us, a very clear example is when we are
gathered in the house of Familiar "x"; mid-arrival we greet each other and
the rest of the time that we have supposedly allocated to share with the
birthday boy we do not spend glued to our cell phones and other devices
that due to our misuse do not allow us to enjoy, it does not allow us to show
ourselves as real people that we are, without However, other studies have
shown that it is the medium most used by people and the one that affects
us the most as people but above all as a family; There are other factors
and problems that influence here and it is not knowing how to listen to each
other as a family, many times things and endless situations happen to us
on the street, at our work and other places that we visit daily and we prefer
not to say anything to our relatives because they always judge us or
because they simply don't care to know and often because they work and
never have time for us. In today's society, the media have entered fully and
have settled into our homes as one more member of the family. However,
do we know how to give them a suitable place and get the best out of
them? The media, in the broadest sense of the term, are an important part
of our daily lives.
Never before has such an amount been enjoyed and information
quality. The press, radio, television and, above all, the Internet and the new
media and technological instruments bring us closer to any end of the
planet, they tell us about the problems of its inhabitants and ultimately
select the most important events that we should know about. But, in
addition to informing us, they also instruct and entertain us because
through their varied contents they recreate dreamed lives, open doors to
previously unattainable knowledge and offer to fulfill our illusions.

Another of the most common problems that usually happen in our family is
that they begin with the appearance of some factors resulting from the
excessive "individualism" of the members or the educational styles used by
parents. Among these factors we can find:
-LOW PATIENCE: It is another factor that contributes greatly to the lack of
communication. When irritation appears, the easiest way to resolve the
situation is sought: ignore the other
- DISCIPLINE: Being authoritarian and not letting the child express his
needs can be harmful. Also, leaving too much freedom of choice, making
your demand the most important thing can also be. A balance must be
sought towards positive communication
Within the family nucleus it is learned and taught through values, ways of
thinking and how it communicates. Thanks to this coordination, within the
family the way to face daily difficulties and to see things is built through
negotiation or by respecting and accepting other points of view.
Family life also has clear enemies to establish conversations and
interpersonal relationships. television at lunchtime, hours that make it
difficult to meet in a relaxed way, weekend trips, you have to fight
against these situations and adopt an attitude of resistance, creating a
climate of communication in the family is not an easy task, they are the
parents who have to introduce from the time they are children, spaces and
mechanisms that facilitate communication and a harmonious coexistence,
for when adolescence is reached to enjoy the space formed and conquered
through a trial and error teaching-learning process causing a climate that
facilitates communication; For that communication bond to exist, trust must
be worked day by day, as well as understanding and appreciating the
differences between our children, knowing that boys and girls have their
own ways of thinking and feeling, and there is nothing worse than replace
them with ours. Some of the barriers that prevent or hinder communication
in the family.
1. COMMAND, DIRECT: Telling the other what to do without considering
their opinion, imposing our opinion reduces communication, since boys and
girls must be able to discover what they like and do not like, sometimes in a
process of trying and discovering.
2. THREATEN OR INSULT: Announcing sanctions and punishments,
ordering them to do something under the threat of punishment or
disrespect them with insults is violence, and something very different to
show the consequences that a certain action can have. Solving problems
without violence or physical or verbal aggression requires an exercise in
self-criticism, exploring our motivations and respecting the other.

TIPS TO IMPROVE COMMUNICATION IN THE FAMILY

- Not judge. Neither criticize, nor punish their behaviors constantly. These
types of attitudes only put barriers on the child and the parents. - Hear.
Letting the child speak and say what he thinks or feels is beneficial for the
proper functioning of the family. Do not interrupt what he is saying to know
what he thinks.
- What you have to say is important. Many times we adults seem to be
worried about something that we do not give importance to. Not giving it to
him means that in the future he puts a barrier between them and the child
does not decide to talk about what worries him. - Do not impose. Giving
him tools to find solutions to his problems is better than telling children what
to do. It is important to reason the advantages and disadvantages of the
decisions to be made.

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"THE UNION OF THE FAMILY IS NOT MEASURED BY THE NUMBER OF MEMBERS, BUT
BY THE UNION THAT THERE IS IN THEM”