WHY DO PEOPLE COMPARE ?

COMPARIG HERE DOESN’T EXACTLY MEAN COMPARING PEOPLE. IT MAY BE COMPARING OF

THINGS, COMPARING OF TWO PERSONS PROSPECTIVES ABOUT A THING, COMPARING TWO
DIFFERENT WEBSITES, PLACES OR COUNTRIES ETC… AS IT IS NOT SPECIFIC LETS SPEAK ABOUT THE
DEAREST TOPIC FOR MOST OF THE PEOPLE IN THE SOCIETY!

IT’S THE COMPARING OF OUR PEERS OR AGE MATES WHICH NORMALLY IS OUR PARENTS GAME. I
CALL IT A “GAME” AS MOST OF OUR PARENTS COMPARE JUST TO IGNITE SOME SPARK IN US AND
SEE IF WE ARE MOTIVATED BY WHAT THEY SAID AND FIND SOMETHING THAT CAN REALLY BE
IMPLIMENTED IN OUR LIVES TO ACHIEVE WHAT WE CALL AS SUCCESS. THIS GAME HAS ONLY ONE
WINNER WHO IS PARENTS. LET ME TELL YOU WHY! AS THERE ARE MILLIONS OF PEOPLE AROUND US
WHO KEEP ON IMPROVISING IN LIVING AND THEIR KNOWLEDGE WE NEVER RUN SHORT OF
COMPETITORS. EVEN IF WE ACHIEVED AND BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE THERE ARE THESE PEOPLE
FROM PAST LIKE RAMA , ANJANEYA , RAVANA AND MANY MORE WHOM WE CAN NEVER MATCH.
SO WHAT DOES SUCCESS MEAN TO SOMEONE WHO COMPARES YOU? GOT SOME QUESTIONS
RUNNING IN YOU MIND LIKE THIS? WELL THEN YOU ARE TRYING TO FIND AN ANSWER WHICH IS
NOT SAME IN EVERYONES PROSPECTIVE.GOOGLE SAYS SUCCESS IS AN AIM THAT WE ACHIEVE. WELL
MY AIM IS TO BECOME RULER OF ABU DABI. IS THERE ANY POSSIBILITY THAT I CAN DO IT? WELL IT
IS NOT IMAGINARY ATLEAST. SO THIS SHOWS ONE SHOULD KEEP AN AIM WHICH THEY FIND THEY
CAN ACHIEVE AND ATTAIN SUCCESS AND ENJOY IT IRRESPECTIVE OF THEY WERE COMPARED OR
NOT IN THE PAST. I FEEL SUCCESS IN NOT BUYING A BIG OR SMALL SOFA BUT ENJOYING IT AND
BEING HAPPY WHEN YOU SIT ON IT,IS IT TE SAME FEELING WHEN WE ARE ANGRY AND SIT ON A
SOFA AND WHEN WE ARE HAPPY WE SIT ON IT? THINK. COMPARISON IS DONE MOSTLY IN A
NORMATIVE WAY AS PEOPLE WHO COMPARE USUALLY COMPARE WITH THE ONES WHOM THEY
CANNOT MATCH IN THEIR ENTIRE LIFE TIME AND THEY DO HAVE THE GUILT ABOUT THAT.

MY WHOLE INTENSION IS TO MAKE YOU CLEAR THAT THERE IS ONE LIFE AS WE KNOW , SPEND IT
THE WAY YOU LIKE IT WITHOUT HARMING ANY OTHER PEERSON AROUND YOU AND TRY TO SEE
AND MAKE USE OF WHAT WE HAVE BEEN PROVIDED IN LIFE. MAKE YOUR PARENTS HAPPY BY
FULFILLING THEIR REQUIREMENTS WHEN THEY REALLY NEED YOUR HELP. LIFE IS A JOURNEY TO
ENJOY EVEN WITH COMPARING. EXAMPLE :- MY MOM SAYS BUFFELLOW IS FAR MORE BETTER THAN
ME AND THE HARD FACT ABOUT IT IS , I CAN NEVER BECOME ONE EVEN IF I DO SOMETHING ABOUT
IT. GUESS WHAT? SHE SAYS IT SERIOUSLY AND NOT JOKING.

LIMITATION OF MY WRITING :- THIS CONTENT IS NOT SATIABLE FOR THE PEOPLE WHO COMPARE
AND STILL CAN TAKE EVERYTHING IN A POSITIVE WAY. ( I SEE ME FALL IN THIS GROUP. SO ,DO U?).
YOU ARE ALWAYS WELCOMED.