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Jack’s Dirty Talk Secrets

Dirty Talk Secrets

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Introduction ............................................................................................. 4
The basics of dirty talk ............................................................................. 6
Advanced Dirty Talk ............................................................................... 16
Dirty Talk That Makes Him Feel Dominanat And Powerful .................... 28
Punishment ........................................................................................ 28
Begging .............................................................................................. 31
Yes ...................................................................................................... 50
Compliment Talk .................................................................................... 56
How to Sound Genuine and How to Be Comfortable with Dirty Talk .... 62
Talking Dirty Before Sex – Why it Matters, and How to do it ................ 67
Dirty Talk on the phone ......................................................................... 69
Sexting Dirty Talk ................................................................................... 74
Dominance, Power, Ownership Texts ................................................ 78
Feeling Important and Desired .......................................................... 79
The Crap Women Say ............................................................................. 82

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Introduction
Now, before we embark on this dirty-‐talking journey, I have one, very,
very important thing to tell you:

NEVER, EVER listen to women’s advice on dirty talk. Please, just don’t. It
will backfire, and sound dumb, awkward, and might turn him off
completely.

I understand you are searching for the right “lines” and exact examples
of what you should say, but that is pointless if you don’t understand the
reason behind your words, and know what you want to accomplish
with them.

Again, don’t listen to what other women have to say about dirty talk.
Why? Because how could any WOMAN know what a MAN wants to
hear exactly? She could “kind of” know and get a few things right here
and there, but the chance of getting false advice and “lines” that
backfire is too high and not worth the risk in my opinion. I’ve glanced
through some magazines, both online and offline, to see what kind of
advice you are currently getting and all I can say is: I DON’T WANT TO
HEAR THAT CRAP. If a woman tells me 90% of that stuff I will LOSE MY
ERECTION or have an urge to slap her and tell her to just SHUT THE
FUCK UP and just let me fuck you.

I had women say the biggest crap ever in bed to me that was the
biggest turn off EVER and I instantly knew it is some damn shit line
some other “experienced” magazine columnist or girlfriend told her to
use. It’s a recited line, it sounds FAKE and doesn’t make me feel one bit
better – on the contrary, it just makes me think why on Earth did she
say that crap? And I try to brush it out of my head somehow so I don’t
lose my erection.

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Thinking is the enemy of good sex. If your words evoke LOGICAL
THINKING, they are bad. If they evoke the right EMOTIONS, they’re
good. Don’t make him think, make him feel.

The bottom line: don’t follow the advice you get in magazines. It’s
either not “dirty” at all or it’s counter-‐productive. If you do come across
anything, look for stuff MEN wrote. That will get you a slightly better
picture of what’s going on, but even that isn’t good enough because
very often men DON’T KNOW what they want to hear. It’s definitely
better than listening to women’s advice though, but still, far from what
will bring you the results you want.

Everything you think you know about dirty talk – FORGET ABOUT IT.
Turn a new page, and let’s start from scratch. The biggest problem is
not for you to learn new things but to unlearn the bad stuff you’ve been
thinking is right all along.

The second thing, after forgetting all you think you know, is to STOP
your quest for “lines” that you’ll memorize. As the Chinese proverb
goes: “Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish,
you feed him for life.” That’s what I want. To give you the tools and
teach you how to use them so you can construct your own “lines” and
say exactly what your man wants to hear. This way you’ll never need to
memorize any lines, they’ll come up naturally and you’ll ALWAYS SAY
WHAT’S RIGHT – without having to think much, or anything at all, about
it.

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The basics of dirty

talk

Below is a reply I gave to one eager blowjob student asking about dirty
talk. This email serves as a basic introduction for you on how to talk
dirty the right way (and a bit on how to get your guy to talk dirty to you
– so you know what his true desires are...)

Here’s my message copied:

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The main thing is that you are 100% congruent with whatever you say.
If you have this image of yourself of being classy and other people share
that image, then doing anything outside of that image may seem
unnatural to you; unreal and simply fake.

I assure you that it will only seem fake to him if it seems fake to YOU. I
suggest you take dirty talking step by step. Gradually build your comfort
zone, little by little, word by word.

First, you need to let him know that you like it when he talks dirty to
you. Simply say it... seem a bit shy and innocent -‐ that can be attractive.
Tell him how it turns you on when he says that dirty stuff... he'll say
more of it then.

Somebody has to take the initiative. You'll notice that guys can also be
very shy about dirty talk because they do not know how you will react,
they're afraid not to offend or lose you, so you are both just quiet

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during sex. You have to let go of your stupid beliefs. The bigger lady you
are on the streets the bigger SLUT you must be between the sheets.
The bigger the gap, the bigger his eruption-‐like orgasm.

So -‐ if you want him to talk dirty to you -‐ let him know. He needs to
know that it's okay and that he has permission to do it. He needs to feel
that he won't be judged. This will give him more confidence to open up
about it and tell you what he really wants to do to you – maybe it's
something he's afraid you won't like, like choking or slapping you,
dominating you, or cumming all over your slutty face. (remember: being
a slut is a good thing, so ''slutty'' should be viewed as a compliment)

You need to develop a "slutty" bedroom image. You can't be a lady on
the streets and a lady in the sheets -‐ that's not hot.

Instead, be sexy and make sure he knows that you are only like that
with HIM in bed, no just with anyone, and that he is the one that brings
the "bad girl" out of you. Below is a reply I sent to another reader
asking about dirty talk.

Blowjob Padawan:

"Jack I was wondering if you could provide some more examples
of talking dirty. You provided some nice basics in the book. (She refers
to Jack's Blowjob Lessons). I would love to get some more examples -‐
most notably before -‐ that would just knock my husband over."

Jack:

To answer your question... what have you tried so far? What are your
experiences with talking dirty? How did your husband react so far? Is he
already used to it (you talking dirty), or is it a new thing in your

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relationship? In the sense that... you never really did it that often and
now want to amp it up.

As I said in my guide, what you say isn't really as important as how you
say it. The crucial thing is that you say it with total belief and
confidence, and that you feel comfortable, not weird, when saying it. If
you've got that down, what you say is just a technicality.

Sometimes it can actually be irritating when you say anything, other
times it can be the breaking point -‐ the thing that sets him on fire, since
his orgasm happens in his brain first, then his body follows.

Here are some "lines" that you can try, depending on the occasion, of
course, you don't have to memorize them exactly, just modify them to
your own version, depending on what you're comfortable with.

Do you like it when... ?

... I lick your balls like this (lick, lick, lick, then a sexy smile.. then you put
your warm lips around his cock and go deep and moan mmmm)
... I lick your big cock...
... I put your big cock down my throat (then deepthroat)
... I suck your cock like a little slut... (the word ''little'' is to make him
feel big and powerful in comparison to you)
... I slap my face with your big cock (slap slap slap)

Just start the sentence with Do you like it when, and then add whatever
you are doing at the moment...

... you fuck my tight little pussy
... I'm dripping all over your cock
... you fuck my tight little ass

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... you fuck my mouth...

I love it when...

... you fuck my mouth
... you shove your big cock down my throat (then let him do it)
... you fuck me so hard
... you fuck me like I'm a little slut (slave)
... you treat me like (whatever you know he likes)
... you fuck me on the floor (location)

Do you want to... ?

... fuck my little pussy
... fuck my tight ass
... fuck me in the mouth
... cum all over my face
... cum in my warm mouth
... cum down my throat
... cum all over my body (tits)
... cum in my tight little ass
... fuck me hard

Please...

... fuck my ass
... cum all over me
... fuck the shit out of me
... fuck me harder, please
... don't stop fucking me
... let me suck your big cock
... fuck my mouth

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... spank me
... treat me like a whore
... do whatever you want to me

You like...

... fucking that little tight ass?
... fucking that wet pussy
... fucking me like a dirty little slut
... cumming in my tight ass
... cumming all over me
... pulling my hair

Now, I don't know whether you are into rougher stuff. (You should be):
spanking, gentle slap over the face, getting chocked and your hair
pulled etc. If you can take it and he loves it, maybe you'll like it when he
takes over charge and even slaps you a bit (gently, of course), or when
you kiss his toes as he's fucking you from behind. Have him put his
fingers in your mouth while fucking you, suck on his fingers passionately
and moan.

Either way, let him dominate you, maybe you'll both enjoy it. But I
assume you'll figure it out yourself, meaning, how far you can go and
what you're both comfortable with. Don't ask for it if you're not ready
to receive it.

In general, when you talk dirty to him... don't have any
restrictions. Talk as dirty as you want. Look into his eyes when you say
it. Point at your wide open mouth, show him your tongue and tell him
you want to eat his warm cum... it should be either a Questions,
Command or Statement.

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Question:
Do you like it when I suck your (big) cock?

Command:
Shove your cock down my throat.
Give me your cock.

Statement:
I love to put your cock deep down my throat.

Basically, you can say the same thing, in a different tone and as either a
question, statement, or a command. Over time you'll see what he likes
most. Sometimes, when I am in charge in bed, I DO NOT get turned on
by a command statement. Quite the opposite, if I'm in charge, I don't
take or get turned on by commands. It all depends how the sex starts ...
if he takes charge, you always use statements, even better questions or
BEGGING. The keyword is PLEASE.

On the other hand, if you start/initiate sex, then you're more in charge
from start -‐ and then you just worry about your own satisfaction -‐ so
you can make commanding statements. See what type of a guy your
husband is and then adjust your dirty talking to him.

Now... an interesting thing about dirty talk -‐ words are powerful and
they can produce magic. But something even better are
SOUNDS. Dirty SOUNDS is the name of the game. It's even better
than talking dirty. The problem with talking dirty is that it MUST sound
natural. If it's forced and something you do because you think that's
what you should be doing in order to turn him on -‐ then it's just not "it."

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And if he feels that it's forced/faked, even just a bit, it might be a TURN
OFF and it can backfire. Sometimes a guy is enjoying himself, and he's
just about to cum... then you say something that he interprets as "She's
only saying this because she wants me to cum faster, maybe she's
bored..." -‐ then he LOSES FOCUS and starts thinking. And that's it. Then
he can't cum. So you must make SURE that it comes across as natural
and you give off the right message. Messages can be interpreted the
wrong way. For example, you might be waiting for him to cum – maybe
you are not in a comfortable position, or something, or you need to
pee, or whatever – and you tell him ''cum, cum'' or anything that may
seem to him as if you want him to HURRY UP and finish already – that's
a total turn off and he just becomes self-‐consious and starts thinking
about his orgasm (which then becomes a struggle). Instead of saying
something like that – just MOAN LOUDER and display your enjoyment,
moan, scream, amplify how AMAZING his DICK feels inside you. That
will work much better than telling him (indirectly) to finish already.

The only way to make it 100% natural (besides being confident) is to
NOT THINK about it. Dirty talking shouldn't be a conscious thing... not
something you put effort into. It must be effortless and natural. That's
why it's important that you don't memorize lines, but, instead, have a
couple of patterns that you fill up... either it's a question, a statement, a
command, or begging ;) Depending on what your guy likes most.

Anyway, as I said -‐ a thing that's better
than dirty talking is dirty MOANING and sounds that you don't really
have to think about. Just do it louder. And sexier. How do you moan
sexily and, naturally, of course? Well -‐ the better he's doing his part, the
more you'll enjoy it -‐ just let the sounds go. Get more vocal.
Mmmmmm... fuck me,... fuck me... aaaaaaa. Open your mouth and
scream out in pleasure, almost as if you were in pain... Just don't make
weird faces, instead, appear as if you CAN NOT CONTROL yourself and

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as if you are giving your BEST NOT to be loud, but you just can't help
yourself... Aaaaahh. While he's fucking you grab his arm, hold it tight to
express your inability to control yourself. Even clench your nails (just a
bit) into his skin. Put your hands on his butt cheeks and help him pull
faster or fuck you stronger. If he's fucking you doggy style then spread
your hands or put them all in front and grab on the pillow so he sees
your hands holding the cover tightly almost ripping it apart.

So... scream loud, but appear as if you are giving your BEST to shut
yourself up. But you just can't, 'cause he's fucking you so fucking well
that your BRAIN is about to explode and you'll start squirting like
Niagara falls...

Make it fun also... and seductive. The TONE of your voice is important
when you talk dirty. During foreplay, it's sexual, sensual, seductive...
playful, naughty... kinky, innocent... then it grows to dirty, sluttly,
pornish... and then you moan so loud, you scream out of pleasure and
you love his cock so much that you CAN NOT utter out a single word, let
alone a sentence... you are getting fucked so well that you can not
THINK of a sentence, you just go back to animalistic basics, where there
was no language, just sounds, grumbles... nature. Jungle sex. Like
Tarzan and Jane.

That is when he has the most powerful orgasm of his life.

That INSANE orgasm, where he almost passes out... is the one where
it's pure ANIMALISTIC SEX, where you are both so turned on and insane
that nothing else EXISTS around you. Just the two of you, against the
world.

You totally lose a sense of time, space, and reality. You are 100% in the
here and now. You detach yourself from the world and attach yourself

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to fucking each other's brains out. In that Zone where you lose your
minds -‐ there's not much space for dirty talking, just sounds of nature,
where you can't control yourself how good it feels... you tune into
a deeper zone of consciousness .. which is just mind-‐blowing for both of
you. You feel like you are having orgasm after orgasm, after orgasm...

Unfortunately, you can't get into that zone every single time, and the
best way to get there is to go from a more conscious level – where
there is dirty talk – to a less conscious level – where there's mostly
animalistic sex filled with moans and pleasure-‐screams of Oh-‐my-‐God-‐
is-‐this-‐really-‐happening.

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Before I move on to tell you more about dirty talk let me just take the
most important parts out of these emails above:

1. It is WAY more important HOW you say something than what you
say.
2. It’s NOT a good idea to MEMORIZE LINES because they activate
the conscious-‐logical part of your brain. They make you think and
thinking is the biggest ENEMY of great sex.
3. When you don’t know what to say – just MOAN.
4. Make your shift from being a “Dirty Talk Nun” to a TOTAL SLUT
gradual. If you never talked dirty before to your husband of 20
years don’t just start talking crazy all of a sudden. Take it step by
step so he can get accustomed to the new and better you.
5. Encourage him to talk dirty to you and don’t judge him when he
says something. You lead the way by example. Be whatever he
wants you to be.
6. The essence of dirty talk is learning how to BEG. The words
Please and Thank You are the GOLDEN words. Be polite when
you talk dirty – beg and be grateful for that golden dick he’s
giving you. Look at it with fascination.

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7. When talking dirty make eye contact. Don’t just mumble things
into your boobs. Look at him and mean what you say.
8. Make it playful. Don’t worry about it too much and don’t force
yourself to say something you are not comfortable with saying –
because if you say it, and you are afraid it will sound fake – IT
WILL. Build it up until you are comfortable with dirtier stuff.
9. Make moaning seem as if you just can’t help yourself. Tap into
your inner slutty animal.
10.Make your voice sound playful, sexual, and feminine.
11.Have fun.

Now that we’re done with the basics, let’s get to some more serious
stuff to really make his brain melt.

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Advanced Dirty Talk

Even though I told you NOT to memorize lines, I know you are still
thinking “okay, but what exactly do I say?”

The point here, again, isn’t that you memorize a sentence and just say
it. That won’t get you far. It’s like studying for an exam and just trying to
cram stuff in your mind without understanding the meaning behind
what you are studying. I want you to understand what each word you
say does in his brain. Once you know that, it’s easy because you just
want to evoke certain emotions and the right words will pop-‐up before,
during, and after sex without you ever having to actually think about it
consciously. Just focus on how you want to make him feel.

We come back to the 5 emotions. DOPID. Dominance – Ownership –
Power – feeling Important and Desired. Your words need to evoke all or
some of these emotions to make his mind trigger the orgasm between
his legs. In earlier chapters we’ve mentioned how you can evoke these
emotions with your behavior, positions, lingerie, role play etc. That’s
just the tip of the iceberg. The atomic-‐bomb orgasm happens when the
magic words enter his ears. The things he wants to hear are things that
trigger the 5 (and a few more) emotions. Every “line” you come up with
serves a purpose of triggering one of those. Once you know their
purpose – nothing you say can sound wrong – because everything you
say serves a purpose.

Here are some “lines” for you to serve as an example but PLEASE DO
NOT work on memorizing them – just understand the concept and the
structure – but NOT the exact lines. Trying to recite lines makes you
think, thinking makes it seem FAKE instead of naturally spontaneous.

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Here we go...

OWNERSHIP
Words or sentences that evoke the emotion of ownership are necessary
to make him take over control and make him fuck like a beast. Find the
words that show that he OWNS your ass, pussy, mouth, face, titts –
your life. You surrender to his power and you prove that with the words
you say.

Use anything that starts with “I am your...” or “This is your...” and then
build on that to display ownership. As said in the email above you can
mix this up by making it a question, command or statement. The core
of the line will always be the word that shows ownership.

I’m your...
... little cock-‐sucker
... dirty little whore
... little slave

Take a look at the word “little” – you are little and he’s big. You are his
powerless slave and he’s your powerful Master with a Capital M. You
are “little” and everything about you is “little” and “tight” because you
want him to take over and dominate you. In ownership-‐mode its best to
use words like “whore” and “slave” because they TRIGGER him to
behave towards you as he would behave to a whore or a slave. This
only helps him tap into those emotions and into that ROLE that he can
now play with without restrictions. What would he do to a whore? He
would NOT give a DAMN about her pleasure and he would use and
abuse her sexually to his own satisfaction. He’d pin her down to the
ground, slap her, pull her hair, fuck her rough and then cum all over her
face and then push that cum back into her mouth and down her slutty
throat.

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Your ownership-‐inducing words give him permission to do to you what
he deep down desires but doesn’t dare to show until your words bring
that beast out of him and let his natural state – non-‐polluted with social
conditioning bullshit kick in.

The word “slave” in that combination evokes the same. Since you are
his slave, he can do anything he wants to you and you also get into that
role of submission. The words you say to him – you are actually also
saying this to YOURSELF and your subconscious then kicks in. Now,
many women think that surrendering themselves sexually to a man is a
sign of weakness – on the contrary. It’s the sign of pure strength. You
trust him to let go and be his. Not 50% his, not 90% his – but 100% his.
That requires strength because you manage to overcome your bullshit
beliefs about that kind of stuff being “demeaning to women.”

Now, the same thing “I am your...” can be put into different forms,
depending on the occasion. Instead of saying “I AM” just say “I’m” – talk
the way you’d normally talk, don’t take what I say word by word. Think
of it as a concept, not a rule.

As a command or question, the same thing would be:

Command & Question Combos

“Fuck your little whore”
“Is this your mouth? Fuck your little cock-‐sucking mouth”
“Is that your tight-‐little asshole? I love being your slave. Fuck your little
slave’s ass.”
“Am I your little cock-‐sucker?” (wait for his reply, when he says “yes” –
confirm it: “Yes I am your personal little cock-‐sucker...”)

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“Am I your little whore?” (when he says Yes, say “Yes I am... fuck your
whore however you want to”)

So, you can combine things... questions, commands, and statements.
Then you can create more than one emotion, not just ownership.

Now, another way to form the sentence is asking him if he likes
something that you know for sure he likes. The point is to get a “yes”
reply out of him, and then reinforce it with a statement or command.
So, you ask a question, get a confirmation, and then add on that. It’s
like a one-‐two punch to KNOCK HIM OUT of his mind.

We stay at ownership, but start with a “do you like?” and then an add-‐
on to seal the deal:

(REMEMBER: Your TONE is naughty, seductive, playful...)

“Do you like it when I’m your whore?”
Yes
“I love being your whore... please fuck me like your dirty little whore”

“Do you like fucking your slave like that?”
Yes
“I love being your slave. Fuck me however you want Master”

“Do you like fucking my throat?”
Yes
“Mmm... I love it when you make me gag and own my mouth... this is
yours, fuck it however you want to”

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The important thing is that – whatever he likes is what you LOVE. So
you frame the question with “like” – never with love – and you reply
that whatever he likes is what you LOVE. Something you can’t live
without basically because you are starving for his cum. This is the
frame:

property (you): Do you like ...
owner (him): Yes
property (you): I LOVE ... (whatever he likes)

This further shows how much his pleasure means to you and that your
ULTIMATE satisfaction is his pleasure. Nothing pleases you more than
his pleasure. Nothing. You are addicted to serving him. You have a
pleasing personality. That’s the main thing you must develop to become
the Sex Goddess he desires you to be. HIS Sex Goddess of course.

Now, another key phrase here is “however you want to” – this is a very
important phrase because it gives him permission of ownership. It’s like
a permission to be himself and do what he desires REGARDLESS of
whether you like it or not. Of course, you LOVE it, but still – the point
here is that you give him permission to use you however he desires.
This phrase is key because you show that you surrender to his desires.
That you are not important – just an OBJECT.

Actually, this is a selfish act by itself because you get pleasure from his
pleasure even though you make it seem here as if you want him to just
seek his own satisfaction. Say this phrase often because it gives him the
psychological freedom to let go of his “be a gentleman” and “be a nice
guy” social conditioning that his mother taught him. There is no chivalry
in the bedroom, it’s not a natural, caveman state.

Mankind has changed only in the last century or two, before... men

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were cavemen, hunters. You’d just get knocked in the head with a club,
pulled by your hair to his cave and get fucked. This kind of behavior is
hardwired in a man’s mind. Sure, you don’t have to go to that extreme,
but that’s what is in his genetics, you can simulate these NATURAL
feelings and desires of his with Ligth versions of slavery, compared to
how life used to be. He cannot change his natural state of being. It’s
hardwired into his system for thousands and thousands of years.

Think of it like this. Power is the greatest aphrodisiac. We are all
attracted to power. What represented power in the past? Physical
strength, muscle. The more muscle a man had, the more able he was to
provide, hunt, kill enemies and protect you from danger. Muscle was
power and that was attractive. It represented the best genes for
survival. Women sought out men that could help her and her children
survive thanks to good, muscular genetics. Today, muscle isn’t the
currency of power any more. It’s money. So men don’t go out to hunt
with muscles, but with their mind, to make as much cash as possible.
Now, even though, there is no big logic from an evolutionary standpoint
at least, for women to STILL be attracted by muscle, but they are.
Because it is hardwired and still PRIMAL. The same goes for men, even
though society teaches us that we have to be equals, men STILL want to
OWN you, dominate you and bang you silly and feel power over you.
And it will be like that forever. On the other hand, when a man can’t
feel POWERFUL next to you, he feels weak and domesticated. That’s
why men often have an inferiority complex and have a hard time dating
a woman that’s more successful than he is. That’s why men would
rather date a woman that’s under them, to some extent, in society, so
that she is eaiser to keep, “control” and own.

On the other hand, women will naturally, most of the time, look for a
man that is ABOVE them (so they can be in their natural state), and feel
protected in a way they cannot protect themselves.

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All I’m trying to say is this: get into your natural role. Forget about
equality in the bedroom. Just forget it.

Men, just like you, have a lot of negative social conditioning
condemning him who he REALLY IS and who he really wants to be. We
are a generation of men raised by women, and our mothers taught
many men to be “gentlemen” and “nice guys” – many men are now
afraid to express themselves freely sexually and bring this “nice guy”
bullshit to the bedroom.

By giving him verbal permission to OWN YOU – you LET HIM FREE – and
this is the MAIN THING that will make him love you, being who he
wants to be in bed, and being who YOU also want him to be. He will feel
sexually liberated more than ever before thanks to your openness and
thanks to your ability to dig deeper into your own true desires: to serve
him like a King and be owned and taken and fucked and be ridden of
any respect.

So go ahead and give him permission to be who he is deep down: an
animal. And animals don’t think – they just FUCK. That’s where you
want him to be, an animal that doesn’t think. That’s when he has the
most powerful orgasm. When you have his complete attention and he
is 100% present. (more about getting and keeping his attention later).

Another way to frame it is to use “this is” or “that’s” instead of “I am.”
Basically, instead of saying I am, just say “this is” or “is this?”

“This is your tight little asshole ... fuck it however you want to”
“This is your little pussy... do you want to fuck it hard?”

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“This is your mouth (point at your mouth with your finger, then open it
wide)... what are you going to do it? Are you going to fuck it hard?
Mmmm.... I Love when you fuck it deep... I love being your whore”

So, basically, whatever he loves and you know he loves, you say you
love it. You show your total desire of his cock. You make him feel like he
OWNS you and you give him permission to own you. You also put him in
a position of power, so he feels like he can do whatever he wants to
you.

Don’t command too much though. Find the perfect balance between
telling him to do something you know he wants and being bossy. Some
words like “harder” don’t really help anything because he already is
trying and you make him think he’s not doing it good enough or he’s
giving his best not to cum too fast. (more on how to make him last
longer later.) Commanding needs to be subtle because a SLAVE does
not give orders. A good thing is to “neutralize” a command by starting
with an “I love it when...command” – this way he still feels like he’s the
BOSS, but you still manage to get through to him what you enjoy when
he does.

Instead of saying “Fuck me harder” (which DOES NOT trigger ANY of the
5 emotions! just so you know)... you can say (if you want him to fuck
you harder): “I love if when you fuck me hard.”

Dont’ say “harder” because that indicates that the way he is fucking you
now is not hard (good) enough. Just say hard. “I love it when you fuck
me so hard like your little whore.”

The phrase “I love it when...” is what eases the command and makes it
seem more like a general statement, but, hidden within, there’s still a
subtle command and you are still managing to tell him what you enjoy –

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plus – you give him permission to do what he desires as well. Maybe he
does want to fuck you hard(er) and rough(er) but he’s afraid you’re not
okay with it. Don’t use words like “harder” or “faster” because they
don’t contribute to things at all – especially when they are combined
with a command. The worst thing you can say is something along:

“Fuck me harder” – One: you are clearly commanding and Two: you are
not getting fucked hard enough. So that’s not even close to a
compliment. It’s better to say “You are fucking me so well” – and then
when he fucks you harder you’ll moan more and he’ll know he’s doing
more of whatever you like. Men are too sensitive to being bossed
around in any way, especially in bed. Our fragile little egos get fucked
up with just 3 words – fuck me harder – nothing about that phrase is a
turn on. Nothing. Yet you see it all around, women saying it because
they saw it in a porno or because that’s exactly how they feel like –
their guy isn’t fucking hard enough – probably because he’ll cum in 5
second if he does. This just makes him self-‐consious. So you need to
learn how to speak in a language that will motivate him to do better
instead of making him feel less of a man or self-‐concious. That’s not
what you want to do.

Before you say anything – think about the emotions those words
trigger. It’s a lot better to just MOAN and say nothing instead of saying
something that’s counter-‐productive.

To finish with the “Ownership Dirty Talk” – let’s focus a bit on
verbalizing certain ownership-‐inducing actions. For example, telling him
to do this or that thing is a way to use words to your advantage by
giving him permission to do certain things. For example:

“Do you like pulling my hair?”

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Yes
“Mmm, I love it when you hold my hair by the base and pull it... and
fuck me like your little whore”

You just killed two birds with one stone.
1. You told him, subtly, what action he can take (pulling your hair)
and this action will make him feel more dominant and more like
he owns you.
2. You gave him permission to do what he wanted to do with you
anyway.
3. And you verbalized your submissive whore-‐ish status and you
verbalized his status of the Owner, Master, King, Ruler of your
ass.

That’s how you perform a perfect “Combo” that seals the deal.

Look for any other way to verbalize things and motivate him to take
ownership-‐actions like pulling your hair, slapping your ass, holding your
waist tight, pushing you against the wall or on the floor, slapping your
face, choking you, putting his fingers into your mouth (bite them), tying
you up, holding your cheeks and not letting you talk. The good thing
about ownership is also giving him permission to shut you up.

When he puts his fingers in your mouth, don’t just suck on them but
also bite (gently) and moan. The good thing with this is that you take
away physical focus from his cock to his fingers and this prolongs his
orgasm, believe it or not. It can be psychologically appealing, but
physically it takes away focus from one area to another.

The example above (Do you like pulling my hair?) can be changed by
putting in any other action that shows dominance, power or
ownership.

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Just put in another word.

“Do you like slapping that ass?”
“Do you like choking me?”
“Do you like having me on my knees, taking your cock in my throat?”
“Do you like fucking my asshole?”
“Do you like tying me up?”
“Do you like when I’m your slave?”
“Do you like it when I’m your whore?”

Remember: whatever he likes, you LOVE.

When you hear a confirming “Yes” reply with:

“Mmm, I love it when you hold my ass and slap it hard... put a finger in
there and later fuck it... that’s your little asshole”

“Mmm, I love it when you choke me and slap me... and fuck me like
your little whore”

“Mmm, I love to be on my knees and have you fuck my mouth... this is
your little mouth, fuck it however you want. You like it when I gag?”

“Mmm, I love it when you fuck my little asshole... fuck it however you
want to... it’s yours”

“Mmm, I love it when you tie me up and fuck me like your dirty little
whore”

“Mmm, I love being your slave – do whatever you want to me... ”

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“Mmm, I love being your dirty little whore – fuck me however you
wish...”

And that’s a solid one two BAM! and he is fucking OUT OF HIS MIND
crazy over you. After a combo like that, he’s out of his mind. Lost in
translation. He doesn’t know what the heck is happening over there. His
mind is overloading with pleasure. You combine questions, statements,
and subtle commands to trigger one of the 5 emotions. In this case:
ownership.

But there’s more. Here’s how to trigger power, dominance, importance
and desire. I tried organizing this in sections, but these emotions are
often hard to separate and will bleed onto each other, and that’s a
good thing. The more of them you can trigger the better, even though
you don’t have to have total focus on all of them every time. Most of
the time when you have sex it will usually be 1 or 2 emotions in total
focus. And that’s a good thing, because you also don’t want to make
him feel too confused, he’ll be overwhelmed and might get a heart
attack orgasm. I mean, don’t be shocked if he gets dizzy and passes out.

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Dirty Talk That

Makes Him Feel
Dominanat And
Powerful
The next batch of “lines” is anything that makes him feel powerful and
dominant. It’s in the same section because these two emotions are
quite similar. There is a difference, but it’s subtle.

Punishment

The easiest way to give him a dominant feeling is to give him a
dominant role. You set that by saying how you’ve been a “bad girl” and
you need to get punished for your misbehavior and taught a lesson.
“Punishment” is the cure for your bad behavior.

Simply say anything playful during foreplay to set the tone.

“You know I’ve been a very, very bad girl...”
“I’m sorry I said that today... I’ve been a bad girl. Don’t you think I
should be taught a lesson?”

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“Please don’t punish me for my bad behavior today... I shouldn’t have
said that... please don’t punish me” (say this in a begging, playful tone...
and he’ll know that’s actually what you DO want – to get punished)
“I’m sorry I said that today... I didn’t know what it will get me into...
now you’ll have to wash my dirty mouth with your dick... to teach me a
lesson”

The trigger words are:
- Punish
- I’ve been a bad girl
- I should be taught a lesson
- I “promise” I’ll never do it again... PLEASE “don’t” punish me

The good thing is to make it with a “Don’t you think I should be taught a
lesson?” – “don’t you think” – make it seem as if this is HIS idea and HIS
opinion, not yours.

“I’ve been a very, very bad girl... and I know you like doing dirty things
to me to teach me a lesson... I know you like to punish me... but please,
please don’t fuck my butt... I promise I’ll never misbehave again and I’ll
listen to whatever you say... I promise... just please don’t fuck my tight
little asshole... please” act all innocent as if you are begging for mercy
but actually you seek “punishment” because you were a “very, very bad
girl.”

The thing is that you beg him NOT to do something but your tone and
behavior make it obvious this is exactly what you want him to do. You
put him in a “Punisher” role. Even better, buy him a T-‐shirt with the
Punisher logo (It’s a movie, Google it.) Or buy yourself a t-‐Shirt with the
print “Bad Girl” or something like that.

Whatever you want him to do, to get him into that “punisher” role, just
verbalize it as something you don’t want him to do like:

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“I know I’ve been a very, very bad girl... will you tie me up and punish
me for being such a bad girl?” when he says “yes” and plays along, just
say “please don’t... I’ll do anything, really, anything, just don’t punish
me... I promise I’ll be better” – stress the word “anything” here. Again,
focus on getting him into the punisher role or the role that he “teaches
you a lesson.” He’ll say “anything?” ... “Anything” you reply. Give him
that naive, playful smile in a way so he knows this is an act and
invitation to the role you want him to play.

Make sure that you’ve been a “bad girl” for something totally irrelevant
and innocent – but make a bid deal out of it. This makes him seem even
more powerful because not even the slightest “misbehavior is allowed”
towards your master. Make it something so light it’s almost laughable.
Like... “Oh... I’m sorry, I put sugar in your coffee” (the coffee you made
him, and you know he drinks it without sugar...) ... “I’m so, so sorry... I
know you said you don’t like it like that, but I forgot... please forgive
me, please don’t punish me for being such a bad girl...” and then he
fucks the crap out of you so you never, ever put sugar in his coffee
again. Stuff like that can make it even more fun to put him in that role.

And then of course it can be something a lot more serious. Like, maybe
you really had a big argument that day and screamed at each other.
And now it’s time he “teaches you a lesson” and punishes you with his
cock. Make it fun and playful, he’ll love it. Just for fun, you can even
create an argument on purpose just to make him “punish” you later
that day.

All this dirty talk will make him feel powerful and dominant and put him
into a dominant role and you into a submissive role, which is perfect for
a super-‐powerful orgasm.

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Just for the record – you’ve bought this book because you want to learn
how to please HIM more (and, this way, you indirectly please yourself
more). So here, we only talk about his pleasure. A sane guy will
reciprocate the best he can after you give him such heavenly pleasures.
A guy that never bothers to reciprocate isn’t worth your attention.

Now that we’ve got that out of the picture, let’s see what’s next needed
to create the feelings of Power and Dominance.

Begging

We’ve talked about the physical aspects of begging, but not so much
about how you can verbalize it properly with dirty talk. Begging is an
art. An emotional roller-‐coaster for him. Who gets “begged.” Or even
just asked for help, mercy, understanding? Powerful people do. Anyone
with power is someone that people try to please in one way or another.
People seek approval from them, at the least, and, more often –
permission. Words that put him in a Position of Power are words that
mean you ask for his approval or permission, or anything, really. Who
do you beg? Kings and big Rulers, powerful people. Bosses. Anyone
above you, that has power over you. So, let him feel powerful by
begging, in front of him, on your knees. Really, begging.

As I said, begging is an art, and you should get good at it. Men want
power – and you become powerful – by making him feel powerful. The
reality is that most people lack the feeling of power or control or being
the decision maker. By begging, you put your guy in a position of power
where he feels amazing. He is psychologically satisfied, and that’s what
triggers him to orgasm. It’s an ego trip. In return, you become powerful
because you are the person with the ability to evoke this emotion in
him. It’s a win-‐win.

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Being begged is also a fantasy of men, a sexual fantasy basically. In the
world we live in – DICK IS FREE, and pussy costs money. If you are good
looking (and you should be! SO GO LIFT!), chances are, you can go out
there and get paid money to fuck, tonight. You have an “in demand
product” that you can sell immediately. While a relatively good looking
guy can have trouble fiding a chick to have sex with, let alone expect to
get paid for sex. I’d say the average vagina is worth 100 times more
than the average penis. You’ve got the pussy, you’ve got the power.
This is the average scenario, all else being equal.

So, the notion of “begging” isn’t quite realistic for “cock.” Usually men
will do the “begging” for pussy, more or less directly. He’ll try to court
you, show off, brag, tell you about all the “cool” stuff he’s doing and try
to pick you up to get into your pants. I mean, fuck it, it is a form of
begging. The question is – who’s chasing who. If he’s chasing you then
he’s in the “begging” role, even though it’s a lot more subtle than real
begging.

The average woman (usually NOT in a super-‐happy relationship)
behaves as if her pussy is GOLDEN and as if she’s giving this guy a “gift”
he should be grateful for. These are usually women suffering from the
“dead fish syndrome” in bed and the MAD COW syndrome outside of
bed. I can’t blame them. Men put her on a pedestal and she’s been
treated like a Queen since she was born. Now, when a “Jerk”
motherfucker comes a long, and fucks the crap out of her and then
doesn’t call her, she goes all crazy and can’t believe what the heck is
happening. Suddenly this guy’s cock becomes more valuable than what
she’s selling. And you have to have something more than just a vagina
to sell.

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But I’m going off-‐topic. The point is, men are definitely NOT used to
being openly approached by hot chicks and begged. Except if he’s a guy
with a GOLDEN cock (powerful, successful, rich, famous, some other
quality that gets women to approach him), nobody will approach him.
Sure, women will hit on a guy that is none of the above, BUT only after
she is already talking to him and discovers other qualities. The point is,
men are not used to being chased after (by women they’d like to be
chased by).

Now, the funny thing is that chasing a guy is connected to “begging” in
a few ways. When you chase a guy, this is usually a guy you are really
attracted to and you are willing to put your “a guy should approach/call
first” rule in the trash.

This also means that this is a guy that turns you on in some way and you
really, really want him to like you back, in every way possible – sex
included. You want this guy to want you too. And you’ll be eager to
please this guy, especially when there’s strong chemistry; strong sexual
attraction. The next step is that you let go of your negative social
conditioning and stop being afraid to be perceived “a slut” in bed. Now,
this guy may first find it a very big compliment that he is, subtly, being
hit on by you. A good sign for him already is that you play along if he
suggests meeting up sometime instead of being rejected.

And then we get to begging. It’s a wide concept and can go from “Light”
stuff to hardcore begging to get fucked hard and almost tortured (with
cock.) Begging is another level of sexual ecstasy for a man because it is
so unique and out of the ordinary in every way. Why? Because men are
used to being the one “begging” for pussy, and now suddenly, here’s an
awesome chick, begging for his hard cock? Is this really happening or is
he just dreaming? It must be a fantasy.

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But it’s not. You’re down their on your knees and you say the magic
word “Please.” It shouldn’t sound desperate – instead, it needs to
sound PLAYFUL and SEDUCTIVE, sexual – not like REAL BEGGING FOR
YOUR LIFE, but more like sexy, naughty begging, that is playful, fun,
naughty.

“Mm... your cock tastes so good down my throat... will you please feed
me your cum. I promise I’ll swallow every single drop.”

He will think he is DREAMING and might even laugh a bit in disbelief.
“What did you just say?”

“You heard what I said... ;) Please cum in my mouth. I want you all
inside”

And that’s where he is about to pass out.

Saying the word “please” just by itself is the CORE of the concept
behind begging. This is what separates you from all the other women.
While another chick won’t even swallow, ever, or will say “please tell
me before you cum so you don’t cum in my mouth.” – it’s probably the
WORST THING A MAN CAN HEAR. Holy shit. I know women that have
said this. I had women say this to me too. Of course, I never called them
again, ever. Why would I – when beautiful women are LINING UP to
happily swallow my love potion and be part of my life?

It’s an obvious choice. If I can choose between living the good life and
living the “ just okay” life, why the hell would I live “just okay?” And
that’s how every man thinks, every man with a choice that is. Don’t let
him have a choice. Your chances of keeping a man IN LOVE with you a
FAR GREATER if he needs to choose between two women that are equal

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(they both swallow or do x, y, or z thing he likes) than you, and a
woman that is you + X.

Never forget that there are other women out there more than willing
to satisfy his sexual desires, and if you are not ready to be that woman,
sorry, but sooner or later, he’ll start thinking about other women and it
will bother him, he’ll question whether he deserves more. Every
relationship is a trade and you’ll only stay together as long as you both
get what you’re worth. The same way – take initiative. Don’t expect to
get and think you deserve more when you give nothing or not much.
Always see what is it that you are contributing to your relationship and
how you can give more.

The receiving process begins with the process of giving. Naturally, find a
guy that will appreciate what you have to offer, and, all along,
continually improve yourself so you continually increase your leverage
by the power of what you have to contribute.

Back to dirty talk and begging. Basically, whenever you say “Please”
during sex you are asking for your GOD’S permission or approval. You
are begging him in some way and acknowledging his position of power.
The more powerful he feels about himself the more powerful his
orgasm will be. It’s THAT simple. All along think about what you can say
and do to make him feel more powerful?

The word that puts him into that position of power is “please.” It’s a
word he is NOT used to hearing in bed, ever. A simple, yet super-‐
powerful word creating life-‐altering orgasms.

Now, another important aspect of begging is fascination. You showcase
how much power he has over you and the pleasure you get. By saying
“please” you are telling him how valuable and GOLDEN his cock is and

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how much power it has over you. All along, while begging with words
and your behavior during sex, you show fascination. This is something
he must see in your eyes. You look at his cock and you admire how
rock-‐hard it is. You admire the veins, the size, shape, his girth. You start
sucking his cock like it’s the most delicious thing on Earth containing the
Elixir of life, the last drop of food on Earth. There is nothing more
important in your life than his cock in that moment. Nothing else exists,
existed before, or will exist in the future. There is only the present
moment. Even HE doesn’t exist, only YOU and his GLORIOUS, big, cock.
The most fascinating and important thing in the world. BOMBS could be
blowing up around you, but you still wouldn’t lose focus from Mr.
Dickalicious.

Imagine the human race is WIPED out and will never, ever exist again
without his dick. His cock is the ONE AND ONLY dick in the world
capable of producing new offsprings. All other men became sterile after
the “Zombie Apocalypse” and his cock is the magical antidote. The only
thing that can save mankind.

You have to SAVE THE WORLD and suck and fuck that BIBLICAL CUM
out, keep it safe and bring it down your throat or deep in your ass or
pussy (if you’re on the pill) where the laboratory for producing the
medicine to save MAN KIND is. You are on a cock-‐sucking mission to
save the world.

So, naturally, you look at his cock with fascination and love, you
CHERISH and WORSHIP that cock and give it the attention it deserves:
your all, and beyond.

“Please... fuck me...” – 3 simple words that express your ultimate desire
for his cock, you beg him, you say please, you need him, you need his
love-‐potion and you need it really, really bad. The world depends on it,

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after all. And the more “medicine” you can get out of his cock the
better! So you need to make it a MIRACLE fuck and basically empty him
out completely. Fucking like there’s no tomorrow.

You make him feel so powerful with this behavior and words that he
feels super-‐important. He gets an ego boost knowing that you desire
him so much that he’s a state of SHOCK. HE is being saught after instead
of him seeking you.

And that, in result, it what attracts him to you so much. The way you
make him feel about himself. This may be a shock for him and he might
feel a bit un-‐natural in this role at the beginning, so you have to take it
step by step. At first, beg a little, later – BEG A LOT. Make the word
“Please” a regular part of your sexcabulary.

Here are some exciting ways to beg and make him feel powerful and
put him in a dominant position:

‘Please don’t stop’
- it’s a very common one. 3 words saying all about how much
you enjoy getting fucked by him. Perfect.

Alternate all the word ‘please’ by making it a question, statement or
command. The good thing about ‘please’ is that it stops a command
sentence from sounding like a command at all, and a ‘Slave’ shouldn’t
be making orders anyway. So ease it with the word ‘please.’

The KILLER COMBO Example

Look at this KILLER COMBO, it fucks his brain up so bad it’ll melt in a
matter of seconds. It’s an emotional roller coaster. Here’s the killer
combo:

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-‐ -‐ -‐

‘Do you like to fuck my mouth?”
Yes
‘Please, keep fucking it, I love it when you hold my hair tight and fuck
my throat... will you please cum down my throat? I promise I’ll swallow
every single drop. Just don’t stop fucking my mouth”

Let me break that last one down for you so you see the emotions going
on in his head with every word you say.

“Do you like to fuck my mouth?”
She is letting me have so much control over her that I can abuse her
and fuck her mouth. Wow. Of course I fucking like it.

He mutters out a “yes”

“Please, keep fucking it”
She is begging me not to stop doing what I love doing, and what most
other women would never let me do. She enjoys gagging, it’s incredible.

“I love it when you hold my hair tight”
She enjoys it when I’m rougher. Great, so she doesn’t mind if I abuse
her a bit, she even likes it. No – she said she “loves it.” Great! Finally a
woman I’d take a bullet for.

“... and fuck my throat”

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Oh my God. Did she just say that? She loves it when I fuck her throat.
Oh, my, fucking, God. I am so going to get married. Let me hold that
hair by the base and fuck that throat and abuse it however I want to.

“will you please cum down my throat?”
No. She didn’t just say that. She wants me to cum down her throat? No
way. This is a dream. She loves my cock. And is willing to take it all. And
desires to take it all. She is begging me to cum down her throat? Fuck,
of course I will.

“I promise I’ll swallow every single drop”
Fuck. Every. Single. Drop. I better cum soon, she’s hungry. She’s
starving. I can’t let her down. I’m going to fill her pretty little mouth up
and cum down her throat just like she said. All of it. I can just keep
fucking her mouth however the fuck I want to, she’s loving it. She’s an
Angel sent from Heaven. I see the happiness in her eyes. Pure joy. Bliss.

“Just don’t stop fucking my mouth”
Her biggest worry in life is that I “just don’t stop” – that’s how much she
is loving my cock fucking her mouth. Oh my god. I think I will die if I
cum, the devil is EXITING me.

So, you can basically combine all the stuff we’ve talked about so far into
making dirty talk magic in his mind. In the “killer combo example” you
can just exchange the word “mouth” with any other word.

Here are a bunch of alternatives that produce equally powerful
orgasms:

Anal example 1:

‘Do you like to fuck my tight little ass?”

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Yes
‘Please, keep fucking it, I love it when you hold my hair like that and fuck
my ass... your cock feels so right in there... aaaaah... “

“Please don’t stop fucking it... Do whatever you want to it... it’s your
little ass”

[Make small pauses between lines so he has time to translate the magic
you say and enjoy it. Don’t just talk and talk and talk. Make pauses
where you moan, moan, and moan. And then say something again after
he digests the first info you said. His brain is slow at this point because
all the blood is in his dick. ]

“Will you please cum in there... deep in my butt? Just don’t stop fucking
it... I can’t wait to have it all inside me... ”

“Will you give me a big portion in there? I love it when you cum so much
and fill me up... it feels so tight in there”

Anal example 2:

‘Do you like to fuck my tight little ass?”

Yes

‘Please, keep fucking it, I love it when you push me against the wall and
fuck me like that... your cock feels so right in there, deep inside, all the
way baby... yes...yes... aaaaah... “

“Please don’t stop fucking it... that’s your little butthole, do whatever
you want to it... ”

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“Do you like it when I’m wearing high heels and you fuck my bum?”
“Do you like it when I’m your little buttwhore?”

“I love it when you take advantage of me.... fuck me however you want
to”

“Do you want me to kneel down, when you are ready to cum or do you
want to cum deep in my tight little ass?”

If he says he wants to cum in your butt:

“Just don’t stop fucking me... I can’t wait to have it all inside me... I love
it when you fill me up like a slut ”

“Will you give me all of your cum? I love it when you cum so much... it
feels just so right in there”

If he says you should kneel down:

“Just tell me when you’re ready... and I’ll get down so you can cum all
over my slutty little face...”

“Promise me you’ll cum all over my face, please... I love when you spray
all over me”

The crucial thing here is that you MOAN a lot, while he is cumming,
keep moaning, and moaning and moaning simultaneously with him as if
you are having an orgasm at the same time. He’ll faint.

We’ll talk more about anal sex later on in a separate chapter, but know
it’s that special thing that makes him feel ever more powerful and

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dominating sexually, so this is what can produce those extra-‐miracle
orgasms.

Another common phrase to express fascination is saying “Oh my God.”
You need to continually express your disbelief of how amazing his cock
feels inside you and all over you. This is a total ego boost. Whenever in
doubt, just say “Oh my God” as he’s fucking you. And truly, feel like you
are in disbelief. This is one of those phrases that just makes him feel
even more powerful.

Another simple word that can say so much is the word “Fuck.” There is
an endless amount of things you can describe with just those four
letters. “Fuck” can mean so many things depending on your tone of
voice and expression. Here, during sex, the word “fuck” is best
expressed in the same tone as “Oh my God” – basically, you are in
disbelief. In AWE. It’s your way of saying WOW – I can’t believe how
good this feels. You can basically spend the whole night just saying the
words “fuck” and “oh my god” or – to make it stronger -‐ “Oh my fucking
God.”

Swearing is an even stronger orgasm producer if you both come from
religious backgrounds. It makes things kinkier.

Anal example 3:

‘Do you like fucking my butt like that?”

Yes

‘Oh my God... I love it when you slide in like that... your cock feels so
right in there... aaaaah...Fuck. Please don’t stop fucking me”

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“Fuck your little whore however you want to... ”

“Do you like it when I’m your dirty little slut?”

“I love being your slut.... oh my god that feels so Fucking good”

“I can’t wait to taste you cum... will you Please cum all over me?”

“Just please keep fucking me... I can’t wait to have it all over me... I love
your cum all over me.”

“Tell me when you’re ready to cum... Oh my god... fuck... fuck... fuuuck!”

“Feed me”

Begging is almost always better phrased as a question because you are
asking for permission instead of just plain begging. So “Will you please
do xyz?” is more powerful than “please do xyz.”

Another way to talk dirty this way is to keep saying “I love it when” he
does whatever he does at the moment. So it’s more like a description of
what is happening now. Next is begging for what you hope he’ll be
doing. Things like “will you please cum down my throat?” is an outcome
he can then visualize in his mind and this visualization is what triggers
the orgasm into a soon to be reality.

You can further replicate the above anal pattern to anything else.
Getting tied up, spanked, slapped, choked, having your hair pulled, and
basically any other action. Keep using those powerful trigger words like
“please” for begging and “oh my god” and “fuck” to express how much
you are enjoying it.

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Make short breaks between your dirty talk, you don’t just want to make
it a monologue, but you also don’t want to be having a full on
conversation because he might be into the fucking so much that his
mind simply can’t utter out anything more than just a “yes” and a
“fuck.” So it’s a good idea to utter out short sentences, little by little.

The dirty questions you ask him during sex should be questions that
almost always trigger a YES reply, and nothing else. You shouldn’t
require him to give you a longer or more meaningful reply other than
just “yes” and “oh yeah baby” “Just like that” “oh my god” and “fuck.”
These are the only words you should expect to get out of him. If you
give him an A or B question such as “Do you want to cum all over me...
or in my tight little but” then that will be a 3 word reply “in your butt”
or “in your mouth.”

It’s a really tricky thing to keep logic out of the whole thing. This is why
most often dirty talk is short and sweet and is interrupted with a lot of
moans and one-‐word shots like “fuck.”

We’ve mentioned fascination above, that’s one concept – view his dick
like the thing that saves the world. The second concept and behavior
that makes him feel Powerful and Dominant is being WORSHIPPED.
Basically, he is your God, your KING, your master. You are his “slave to
the grave” ready to serve your Master.

Worshipping him can also be verbalized just like fascination.

Fascination would be verbalized with compliments such as “your dick is
so amazing” – if it’s not big, then say it’s “hard.” Show your fascination
by saying words that display your amazement. On the other hand,
worshipping is a bit trickier. It will be by displaying your attitude of
desire and LOVE of his cock.

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The words you’ll use more are “feels” and “I love.” So you are hitting on
his EGO while you worship his cock. You keep repeating in dirty talk
how amazing his cock feels and how much you LOVE it when he does X
or Y.

“I love it when your cock grows in my mouth...”
“I love it when you cum in my mouth... it’s so warm. I love to play
around with it in my mouth and then swallow it all.” / You worship his
love-‐potion.
“I love it when you slide in... oh my Godddd. your cock feels so good”
“I love it when you fuck my throat...”
“I love it when...”

and so on. The “I love it when” or “I love when you” phrase is a phrase
best used BEFORE having sex. This is perfect for Sexting your guy and
turning him on throughout the day before you meet up. It builds up
desire and tells him how hot he makes you and how you can’t wait to
worship him.

“I love being on my knees worshipping your cock”
“I love the feeling of you cumming down my throat while I’m looking up
at you”

Let him visualize those scenes that make him feel worshipped. You can
even use the word “worship” to make it clear what you love to do. “I
love worshipping your cock.”

We’ve covered dirty talk that makes him feel the emotions of
Dominance, Ownership, and Power. Next -‐ what to say to make him feel
Important and Desired?

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Dirty talk to make him feel Important and Desired

The above mentioned worshipping obviously also makes him feel
important. Powerful people are worshipped. When you look at his cock
with fascination in your eyes and have this “WOW” expression on your
face, of course he feels awesome about himself. But there’s more ways
to make his ego shoot through the roof. I like how nowadays every
other book is called The Power of Whatever; one day I’ll write a book
called The Power of Bullshit. I’ll keep you posted. Till then... I’ve got
something better for you.

The Power of Thank You

Here’s something that will make you totally unique, and have him
experience something above and beyond he ever did before sexually. If
you’ve read my first book, you already know about the Power of Thank
You. Saying “thank you” after he cums. Yes, you heard that right – thank
you.

Show your gratitude, girl.

He just gave you the source of Life. The last bit of food on Earth, the
cure all love-‐potion, medicine to save the world and mankind. You
should be grateful and honored to drink from his Majesty’s Dick, the
Holy Cock of eternal sunshine. You are one of the privileged few sex-‐
warriors that had the opportunity to drink from the fountain of youth.

Cherish each drop of glorious cum, either all over your body, or in your
belly now, after you’ve tasted that delicious, miracle-‐cumshot. The least
you can do is show your gratitude with a simple, yet powerful “thank
you.” Don’t underestimate these words because of their simplicity.

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Every guy will be in a state of shock when he hears you say these two
magic words. Thank you. Did she just say that, or am I just dizzy from
cumming? No, wait, she did say it. Holy shit. That will be his reaction.

You create a reverse scene and do the complete opposite of what he
expects and what he got in his previous relationships. By saying thank
you, you differentiate yourself from all the other Average women with
an average mindset, lacking the winning attitude.

Many women treat sex as a “gift” they give to men and expect the guy
to be grateful for “getting any.” They have no self-‐sacrifice or desire to
truly give, unselfishly, without expecting anything in return. On the
contrary, they think a guy should be happy and grateful for getting a
blowjob, or sex, or anything for that matter. This way of thinking won’t
get you far, or anywhere actually. At least not with the right guy.

Some women are not that extreme, but they still view sex as their “gift”
to men and show in some way that the guy got a better “deal” than she
did so he owes her a favor or something. This is a very negative energy
to come from and it will never make a guy love you. The problem is that
society brainwashed a lot of women into having this type of attitude
and it is precisly what is making women sad, single, lonely, and simply
never being able to find the right guy. Or, when you do find him, you
can’t keep him. This negative attitude is what’s keeping women
unsuccessful in relationships.

The general attitude is that, when a guy has a super-‐powerful orgasm,
he should be grateful and he should say thank you – maybe not in those
words, but at least express it in his behavior after sex. Since pussy is
more valuable than dick on the marketplace, men also have this way of
thinking and play along with it – they think it’s “OK” to get a blowjob
once in a Blue Moon and that he should be grateful.

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Now, guys like myself, that know their own value and have a lot of
choices, have absolutely no need to be grateful for sex. Women want to
have sex with me and I can choose, in a sense, my dick is more valuable
than a lot of vaginas out there, because of my attitude and overall value
on the marketplace. Still, hearing a woman say thank you is rare, but
when you do hear it, you are in a state of shock. She willingly reversed
the roles and gave you all the power.

Few women understand that by showing their own gratitude, in return,
a man will be infinitely more grateful and ready to return favors in one
way or another, than if you simply expect him to be grateful from start
and have a “you owe me one” for this “favor” I did for you. This bullshit
attitude is what’s keeping you from love.

So, from now on: instead of thinking he owes you anything (he doesn’t),
and showing this belief by the faces you make, and, instead of thinking
you did him a favor – turn the tables. Reverse the show. Make it look as
if HE is doing you a favor for letting you enjoy his glorious Cock with a
capital C, because you show infinite Respect for the Cock. You are
grateful you had the opportunity to enjoy his magnificent Cock. Not
only that, you are so grateful he did you a FAVOR of fucking you
however he desired to. You are grateful for every inch of cock he gave
you. It feels like a dream come true. It was your only wish to Santa and
the best present you could ask for in your life. His Cock.

You look up at him in fascination, you show him all the cum he gave
you, you play around with it a bit and he can see your eyes smiling.
Then you swallow his big, delicious load. You lick your lips, to make sure
it’s all gone and nothing is left behind. You give his cock another kiss
and a few gentle sucks to clean it up and suck him dry. And you say:

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“Mmmmm... that was delicious. Thank you”

Say it sincerely. Really mean it.

You are thanking him for fucking you so well. You are thanking him from
loving you and providing you with a rock-‐hard cock. You are thanking
him for acknowledging your beauty and rewarding you with the source
of life in his balls. Saying these two simple words tells him so much
about you. He feels appreciated on so many levels. He feels accepted.
He feels that you truly desire him and enjoy every bit of him. He feels
like you are an Angel sent from Heaven. He feels as if he is in a fantasy
or a dream where once in his life a woman is the one that is grateful.
You don’t expect anything in return because you have given nothing,
but you received everything from him.

You don’t expect anything in return and that is precisely why you you
will receive everything.

When he hears you say “Thank you” after swallowing his load or after
getting fucked and cummed all over your body, face, stomach, boobs,
ass, feet, wherever. You look him straight in the eyes and say a sincere
“thank you” – and at that moment, he is in disbelief. You did the exact
opposite of what he expected. He would have never expected you to
say that. Now he feels he is important and that he did something nice
to you, he rewarded you for your good behavior with a big load of cum
and you are grateful for it. He feels like a King. He is important,
cherished, valued. Nothing shows your desire of him more than sincere
gratitude at the end.

You can even send him a text message later on in the night if you are
not together, or a day later. “Thank you for fucking me so well last
night. I can’t wait to return the favor.”

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What the fuck? Is my phone going crazy? Did she just send that? Holy
shit. I think I’ll get married soon. And she even thinks ‘I’ did her a favor?
This is unreal. Love at first fuck.

Few women have discovered the power of gratitude for Cock and
saying the magic words – thank you – to make a guy’s mind melt. It’s
like a mental explosion after a physical explosion of cumming so hard
he’ll faint. Thank You just seals the deal. These two words are true
magic, and you need to try and discover them for yourself. They’ll make
him feel Important and Desired at the same time.

Now you know a bit more about tapping into those 5 emotions – DOPID
– to make his brain melt. But there’s more to dirty talk. Details take you
from great to mind-‐blowing. Here are some more ideas and details that
will take your game to the next level, beyond and above the best sex he
has and ever will experience. Again, no exact lines to memorize. Learn
the concepts and understand Why you should say something. Then you
can easily create your own sexcabulary most suitable for your guy’s
mind.

Yes

Whenever you’re not sure what to say, just say ‘yes.’ The main problem
with dirty talk, and where most women mess up, is either by talking too
much or saying the wrong stuff at the wrong time. You can even say the
right stuff, but have bad timing.

Dirty talk that induces logic and makes his brain work isn’t good. Dirty
talk that involves his mind and makes him need to think isn’t good. So,
the best way to talk dirty is to say something that does not require any

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thinking of his part, he can just process the words, but he doesn’t need
to involve any logic to interpret them.

That’s why I told you that whenever you put a line in a question form,
always make it something that evokes a simple Yes response. You want
him to keep saying yes. Most of the longer lines you say, maybe a
complete sentence, is best said during foreplay or during sex when
there is not too many things happening on a physical level. If there’s
more actual fucking happening then it’s best to keep to shorter words
or phrases, but not complete sentences.

For example... let’s say he’s playing around with your ass, sliding in a
finger here and there... at this point you can say something naughty and
longer. But if he’s already fucking you, you can stick to something
shorter. This isn’t a rule, but just a way to help you understand that
men have a slower, one-‐track mind.

Men have a hard time processing more than one thing at a time. Multi-‐
tasking is what we suck at, so having him process too many things at
once can be confusing and make him need to think. You don’t want him
to think. You want him to stay in his ANIMAL DESIRE level, the land of
emotions and motions, not logic.

So, one word that can say it all, just like the word “fuck” is the word
“yes.” How you say it can make it have many meanings and display your
emotional state. You can repeat “Yes” 50 times in a row and it won’t get
old. “Yes, yes, yes, ooh... yes... oh my god... yes. please don’t stop ...
fucking me... oh my god, yes... aaaa” You see, no complicated phrases
there, during sex itself. But when you are changing positions or slowing
down the pace or getting ready for a transition of some kind, then you
can use longer stuff because there is a short space during a transition

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that you can fill up and move from the physical pleasure to more
psychological pleasure.

Like, when you are transitioning, for example, from giving him a
foreplay-‐blowjob to having sex.

“Are you gonna fuck me now?”
Keep sucking his cock.
Him: Yes
“Mmm... I’ve been a bad girl ... Don’t you think I should be taught a
lesson?”
Keep sucking his cock.
Him: Yes
“Mmmm... you can do whatever you want to me”

Now he’ll put you in whatever position he likes and you’ll follow along.
Maybe he puts you on the floor on your knees.

“Yes... I love it when you fuck me like that...”

So, in this transition from a blowjob to sex, you have the space and time
to talk dirty more and tingle his imagination and give him permission to
do whatever he wants to you. You let him go kinky and control you and
fuck you however he desires, and he knows that by getting your
permission, he won’t be judged for his desires as a man. This is
extremely liberating.

In any type of transition of acts (hand jobs, blowjobs, positions, from
vaginal to anal, end game, finish) – in all of these transitioning
situations you can have space to make longer phrases work perfectly.
But while you are in a certain act, you can stick to shorter stuff, 2-‐3-‐4

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word phrases that almost surely won’t create any logic and are purely
expressions of desire and your winning attitude.

One of these shorter words that says a lot is simply saying YES. You can
say Yes for no reason at all, simply to approve whatever he’s doing.
You’ll mostly say YES while he’s fucking you to approve and show how
much you enjoy what he’s doing, or, if you are riding him, what you are
feeling. You can be even more expressive by making a combo with yes,
fuck, oh my god, and ecstatic moaning.

The other time you’ll use the word Yes, and this is when you’ll use it
most often, is in response to whatever dirty stuff he tells you. Guys can
also be completely clueless with talking dirty – but don’t worry about it
– you’ll lead the way (I’ll teach you how) and over time he’ll say exactly
what you like to hear. For now, even when he says something that may
not be a complete turn on for you, still, you can say Yes.

You’ll initiate things and once you give him psychological permission,
with your words, to do whatever he wants to you – he’ll feel liberated
to express his true desires. And his true desires will most often be the 5
emotions we’ve talked about all along. You’ll hear him say stuff like “are
you my little slut?” and he’ll keep complimenting you on what turns
him on. If you’ve done what I said, you’re already doing squats at the
gym and your ass is tight, so he’ll compliment you on whatever he
enjoys physically about you and say what he enjoys doing to you or
what he enjoys when you do to him.

Don’t view it as a bad sign if your guy isn’t too expressive with words.
As long as his cock is rock hard – that’s your compliment and clearest
sign he’s enjoying whatever you are doing. He doesn’t have any blood
left in his brain to think up more than an “Ooooh.” Accept this as a fact,
if men are dumb when they don’t have an erection, when they do have

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one, they’re at least twice as dumb. You can’t fight mother nature, it’s
pointless to get frustrated over things you have no control over, so just
accept it as a reality and use this knowledge to your advantage.

So, you’ll use the word Yes when he talks dirty to you. Yes will be your
most common reply.

Don’t go crazy here thinking that the more you say the better – it isn’t.
The right dirty talk is when you say the right stuff, and the right amount
of stuff, at the right time. Saying too much can be a bad thing, and
saying nothing is a bad thing as well. When just starting out with
opening up to talking dirty, the word Yes is your life-‐saver to help you
take off. Just by saying a few simple words, you are already doing a lot
better than millions of other women that can’t mutter out a single
fucking word and just lie there expressionless like a dead fish.

I’ve fucked women that kept silent all along and were in a state of
shock. Now, I know my dick is big, but it’s not THAT fucking big that
she’s lost in translation. I didn’t know whether I’m hurting her or if she
feels good. Later I figured she felt so fucking good that she was in a
state of shock or in disbelief how she’s getting fucked, either way, it’s
hard to bang when you have no signs on the road knowing whether
you’re going in the right direction or not. Naturally, you’ll also be
looking for signs on the road and you’ll look for some directions. My
book is your GPS, but still, you’ll have to use common sense and OPEN
YOUR EYES to observe your guy and create a tailor-‐made fuck-‐fest
specially designed for his sextisfaction.

The best way to liberate your guy and make him talk dirty to you the
way he wants to is by saying it yourself first and thus breaking the ice
of silence. He probably wants to pull your hair, choke you, and talk dirty
to you, but he’s afraid you’ll judge him or won’t like it. But if you say it

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first yourself, you just liberated him to be what he is, free of judgment.
When you say “do whatever you want to me” you liberate him. When
you say “Do you like pulling my hair?” “Do you like fucking me like a
little dirty slut?” you basically give him permission to keep saying it
himself, and then we he starts talking and opening up you’ll see what
his real desires are.

Keep saying yes as a reply and yes as an approval to whatever he is
doing right. This way, you’ll train him like a monkey, to fuck you the
way you enjoy being fucked. Help him help you.

Now, Yes is a simple and powerful, but lonely word. It says something,
but it can say so much more by using it in “Combos.” Just think of
combos as one-‐two punches. The first one makes him dizzy, and the
next one knocks him out of his brain.

The best word to pair up with Yes is Please. You approve and beg at the
same time. What more can a man ask for? Not much.

If he’s polite and asks you “can I come in your mouth?” – you, as a
polite girl and an avid swallower, won’t just approve, but you’ll also beg
for it. Of course you want him to cum in your mouth (or wherever he
desires, you desire as well). So you won’t just say “Yes” – that, by itself,
is weak. But a “Yes, please” is a lot more fun and inspirational. Not only
does she let me cum in her mouth (big plus) but she DESIRES it (very,
very unique)! It would be a crime NOT to fall in love with you!

The “yes please” reply to any question he asks when it’s kind of like
asking for permission is the perfect way to remind him that you are his
sex slave and that you are more than willing to do whatever he desires.
Not just willing, but that you want, whatever he wants. His wish is your
command.

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Compliment Talk

The next thing we need to cover are compliments. Talking dirty is
basically any talk before, during or after sex that has any type of sexual
context. It doesn’t necessarily need to be a “dirty” word, but it does
need to have a sexual context.

Compliments are the perfect ego boost. The point of each compliment
is to make him feel more like a MAN. What’s a man’s view of whatever
is manly? Anything that displays him as the leader, conqueror, king,
powerful dude that’s being worshipped. He wants to be THE MAN from
the movies, powerful, strong, driven. The guy women lust after. If you
can make him feel like THAT GUY (and you can), he’ll be amazed by you.
And you do that by being AMAZED by him and expressing your
amazement with your words and eyes. The expression on your face is
what often says more than your words. Your words are there not to
help convince him but to help convince YOURSELF about things – this
will then lead your face to make that sincere, appropriate expression of
being in AWE with him and his cock.

So, again, the purpose of compliments is to trigger one of the 5
emotions, and it needs to be anything with a sexual connotation. You
can compliment his cock, his body, chest, arms, ass, whatever you
want.

Though complimenting his ass won’t make him feel too manly, but still.
His chin, big shoulders, anything that is a “guy” thing. If he’s going to
the gym relentlessly working on getting those bigger biceps, then
complimenting that might be the perfect ego boost. It might be his
stomach, or the lines leading to his crotch. Of course, the biggest

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complement you can give him is a compliment about his dick. Men are
in need of constant reassurance. If his dick is even a bit bigger than
average, than a constant compliment towards the size of his cock is all
he needs to feel “man enough.”

Men that are satisfied with their dick’s size are basically fascinated with
their own cock, and what he wishes more than anything is having a
woman that’s as fascinated with it as he is. This is the biggest ego boost
a man can get basically. On the other hand, if his cock is smaller, or HE
thinks his cock is not big enough, then never falsely compliment his
cock’s size because you can’t sell him on an idea he is not sold already
himself. Instead, focus on telling him how much you LOVE his cock
inside you, and how much you LOVE sucking his cock etc. etc. this
would be your way of complimenting the functionality of his cock and
the pleasure it brings you.

In reality, the best compliment a guy can get is thinking that HIS Cock is
the best, and biggest thing you’ve ever seen or experienced in your life.
Telling him that “you sucked bigger dicks than his” isn’t going to get you
anywhere and will only make him feel insecure, even if he’s great in
bed. Men watch porn and also get used to seeing these outrageously
big dicks and compare themselves to it. It’s a huge industry: penis
enlargement, just like breasts. The only difference is that being insecure
about the size of your boobs is more openly accepted and justified by
society than being insecure about the size of your dick.

If your guy’s dick isn’t the biggest in the world but it is BIG ENOUGH to
satisfy you, then THAT is what you must focus on, making him feel MAN
ENOUGH and building up his confidence by making him know how
much pleasure his cock brings you. This kind of behavior can only work
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to surgery or a shrink and he’ll know, in a way, that you’re the one to
thank for building up his confidence.

Back to compliments. You can either compliment his physical features
by saying how “big his cock is” with fascination and total happiness in
your eyes, or you can tell him how “amazing it feels” when he does a
certain thing – in this case, you’ll be complimenting his actions, not just
his physical traits. Compliment the way he’s fucking you or any other
thing he does that you enjoy him doing. “I love it when you...” or “that
feels so good.” As long as that compliment makes him feel more like
THE MAN. “Oh my god... you fuck me so well, please don’t stop” – what
more can a man ask for than a compliment of his ability to please a
woman? Not much. Because the desire to make you happy is a man’s
true purpose, whether he wants to admit it or not.

And, of course, the biggest compliment is that you have an orgasm. A
big one. And more than one. Being able to please you is his deepest
desire, and knowing that you came is what makes him feel manly and
capable, desired, knowing that you enjoy him.

This is why it’s also important that you learn how to calibrate and PACE
the sex so you make sure he doesn’t orgasm before you. You can do this
by leading the show. We’ve talked about this before during foreplay,
how you can control his orgasm and build it up, little by little, always
keeping him close – but far enough – so that he takes longer to orgasm
and, once he does, he does it on your terms because you wanted him to
cum. This will take time and practice until you can basically have so
much power that you make him orgasm on command. Pace things, so
you can also work things in a way so you orgasm first, several times
perhaps. Having an orgasm is the best compliment you can give him.
You “talk” more with your actions this way than your words.

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Anyway, a well-‐placed compliment can do wonders, so feel free to
boost his ego until his cock ERUPTS like a volcano.

Just slip in a: Mmmm baby you have such a nice cock ;)

And then go deep.

Now, more stuff you should say during sex.

The Sweetest Word In the World

The longer you are with a guy, the less you start using each other’s
name and the more his and your name is changed by some nickname or
sweet word to call each other. It’s usually a name you just use between
each other and many couples use the same stuff. It can be “Honey” or
“Baby” or “Sweety” or anything else usually ending with a “Y” to make
it sweet and small. This is usually a word that men hope you don’t call
them in front of other people because it would be “lame” – but, most of
us have it and use it, some all too often. And at some point you can
overdo it. Now, that’s all fine, but the problem here is that his and your
REAL NAME fall out of the spotligth. That’s the problem. Why?

Because your name is the sweetest sounding word in the world – to
you. And HIS NAME, is the most beautiful word in the world – to HIM.
There is no word in the world he enjoys hearing more than his own
name. People love to be called. We are emotional creatures all looking
for attention – from the right people of course. If you go into any
crowded place and shout out any common name, JOHN, JOE, JACK,
JAKE, STEVE, there might be several guys out there and they’ll all
eagerly look up to see if someone’s looking for them. Our name is our
identity. You know the “Say my name” phrase you might see in movies
in bed, or a guy requesting a chick to say his name while they fuck.

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There is a reason for that. Hearing his name is a turn on. Anyone can be
“Baby” or “Honey,” but his name is his name, it’s something unique
about him. When you say his name while he’s fucking you he knows
that HE has your complete attention and that you are thinking of him
and enjoying HIM, and nobody else. This isn’t something guys think
about on a conscious level, it’s just a natural emotion. His name is the
sweetest sounding word in the world for him, so use it more often, not
just in bed, but also in your relationship.

If you do end up giving him a nickname, at least for sex, incorporate
some MANLY nickname. Definitely something a bit more manlier than
“baby.”

I personally love it when a woman keeps repeating my name in
moaning fashion while I’m banging her brains out. Jack, Jack, Jack. Fuck,
I’m trippin’ on that huge ego of mine and it’s just making me cum more
and more. It’s ME – JACK – and I AM the one making her feel that good.
That’s a huge ego boost and compliment just by itself.

Say my name girl. Say my fucking name.

Dirty talk is way easier than you thought. Say his name. Say yes, please,
yes please, and thank you. And moan a lot. The rest will handle itself
and the right “lines” will come to mind naturally, without force. And
that’s why they’ll sound just perfect – because they won’t be forced.

The Mirror Technique

Another quick dirty talk tip to make it easier for you is to mirror him.
You are, after all, whatever he desires. When you hear him say

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something (it may usually be a question), you can say “yes” and then
repeat whatever he said.

Him: Do you like it when I fuck you like that?
You: Yes... I love it when you fuck me like that.

Him: Are you my little whore?
You: Yes, I’m your little whore. Fuck your whore however you want to.

Him: Oh my God that feels so good.
You: Mmm... you like it when I suck your cock like that?

You don’t have to repeat the exact same sentence, but you can kind of
repeat what he said or make him reinforce whatever he said by making
him say it again. To his statement, you can reply with a question. And to
his question, you can reply with a statement.

Him: Your ass looks amazing baby...
You: Mm... do you like fucking me like that?

Him: Do you like that cock in you?
You: I fucking love that cock... please don’t stop fucking me.

And so on. The varieties are endless. Basically, just mirror the dirty talk
he says in order to confirm his desires.

“Are you my little slut?” “Yes, I’m your little slut? Please fuck me like
your slut.”

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How to Sound
Genuine and How to
Be Comfortable with
Dirty Talk

So far we’ve mentioned some ways that you can feel natural when you
say dirty stuff, but we’ve only scratched the surface. Comfort is a big
issue, and it’s not easy to get over your shyness. Saying a “line” is
worthless if you feel stupid while saying it. The rule is: if you feel it
sounds dumb – it does. So the only way you can make the stuff you say
sound perfect is by saying it with complete belief. Complete, 100%
confidence in every word you say is the way to make your words sound
real. If you believe what you say, so will he.

How do you achieve that realness? Here are my 5 steps:

1) Start small and build. You need to crawl before you can walk, and
walk before you can run. Don’t go from “Good girl” to “Superslut”
instantly. Take your time. Start with “light” dirty talk. Your sexcabulary
should contain simple stuff like:

-‐ Yes
-‐ Please
-‐ Compliments (expressed with sincere Fascination in your eyes: your
cock is so big, hard, tasty...)
-‐ I love it when (describe actions)

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-‐ Oh my God
-‐ Fuck
-‐ Say his name
-‐ Moaning (when in doubt about what to say, just moan)

Even a complete dirty talking beginner can do that. Once you are
comfortable with saying all of the above, you can then move to more
advanced talk: longer phrases, complete sentences, all the stuff that
triggers DOPID.

2) Let go of your bullshit beliefs. The main reason you are shy to talk
dirty is because you don’t want to come off as sounding like a “Slut.”
Forget about that crap. I, Jack, give you permission to be a COMPLETE
WHORE. I urge you to embrace your Inner Slut and Cherish that
heavenly cocksucker within you. Enjoy your sexuality and set yourself
free of the bullshit society made you believe. Enjoy being naughty and
sexual. Once you let go of that negative social conditioning, you’ll give
yourself permission to talk dirty without feeling guilty. Being a slut is a
GREAT thing. Not just great, but essential for making your guy feel
brilliant.

3) Use role-‐play. Role-‐play is the easiest way to talk dirty because you
are in a “role.” The “role” is doing the talking, not you. When you have a
role, you are not responsible for whatever the role says. You have an
alibi for being a “whore” and a “get out of jail free” kind of card. You
have no consequences to suffer because you didn’t do anything bad, it
was the role. Pick up any role that makes you feel comfortable in the
act of being free to say the kinkiest stuff. What are Dirty roles? You
could be a Stripper, but you can also be anything else. The good thing
about dirty talk is that the character gives you a sexy story to tell, and in
that role you are playing, the words you say are what creates the story
behind your character. If your role is being the Sexy Nurse (and you get

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a costume), all your dirty talk will be an act of that character. You can
talk about how your patient is feeling and how you could help with an
alternative medicine from the Far East. Maybe that could cure him. If
you are in the role of a secretary, you can Look for some files and try to
save some Data. Create a naughty story and sell him that story with
words. Paint a picture in his mind with your words.

Either way, role play makes it way easier for you to talk dirty and it is a
great way to Start your dirty talk journey. Later on once you get more
and more comfortable with dirty talk, you can let go of the roles and
just talk dirty by being the real you.

4) Don’t think. Thinking is the #1 enemy of sex. Thinking is what makes
your dirty talk sound “dumb” and “fake.” You think before you say
something, you worry whether it will sound dumb or fake, and then, if
you say it – you say it with hesitation and fear in your voice. This makes
you sound unnatural, as if it’s not you doing the speaking but you
memorized some lines you’ve read in Cosmopolitan. The way to
prevent this is to turn your mind off and let go. Focus on the moment.
Get out of your head and just BE. Enjoy each touch, kiss, thrust. Enjoy
his body and your closeness. Enjoy the sexual connection you make.
Distance your mind away and make it empty. Forget about the world
around you. Nothing exists other than the two of you. In this world of
deep connection, closer to “the Zone” – you can say anything. You don’t
think, you just say as you feel. You don’t judge him, or yourself. Because
you don’t try to live up to the caveman expectations of society. Tune
your inner thoughts out and tune in another type of sexual energy of
wildness, where you can be what you are, not pretend you are
someone else. Stop thinking of how you’ll come across.

5) Assume the pleasure. How you feel and what you believe is an
emotion that he can feel and read subconsciously. You have to start

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with the assumption that he enjoys hearing your voice and that he
enjoys it when you talk dirty to him. You understand the theory behind
DOPID. You understand the emotions he desires to feel and your words
serve those emotions. Thus, there is nothing to fear. Anything you say
in that direction will sound just perfect. What adds that extra punch to
your dirty talk’s power is assuming it sounds good. Believe that it
sounds good to him and assume his ears love what you say. Just keep
the assumption that whatever you say is pleasing to his ears.

And that’s it. Just practice, start small and build until you are totally real
with what you say. Believe it, and so will he.

Now that you know more about WHAT to say (DOPID) and HOW to say
it (with total belief), it’s time to work on the details. And, as you know,
details are what separates the good from the great and the great from
the best. The most important detail in dirty talk is WHEN you will talk
dirty. Most people think that dirty talk is something that’s only
important during the act of sex itself. It’s not. The best parts of dirty talk
happens BEFORE actual sex happens. Dirty talk works on his
imagination like magic. It is the perfect preparation for sex – the perfect
foreplay that will turn him on and keep him hot until he erupts all over
you.

Truth be told, there is not that much to say when you are actually
having sex. You’ll moan more, and talk less. Talking, by itself, evokes
logic. And logic kills pleasure. That’s why I continually stress that, in
order to enter the ‘Zone’ of total pleasure, you must tune your mind
out (and his!) and cut out thinking from sex and enter a stage of
animalistic, savage like, pure fucking. Of course, some dirty talk is
necessary during sex itself, you can and SHOULD talk dirty to trigger
DOPID during sex. That’s what makes him cum like crazy. But, what you

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say BEFORE sex is equally, and sometimes even more important, than
the dirty stuff you say during sex.

I suggest you make 70% of your dirty talk BEFORE penetration, and then
once you start having sex, you’ll have more shorter words like yes,
please, fuck, oh my god, and the like. Of course, during end game, you’ll
definitely say something longer to make him cum. But before actual
penetration, you can use dirty talk to fire up his imagination and tease
him to insanity.

The point here is to say more before sex and influence his subconscious
mind. This is what will communicate during sex, his subconscious. It’s
like planting a seed. You do the dirty talk job before sex, so once you do
have sex, the “talk” is more primal, more basic, because you don’t want
him to think with his conscious mind. The stuff you say during sex are
just triggers to access the subconscious parts of his mind where you’ve
planted your seeds before. The dirty talk during sex has only one point
– to ACTIVATE the seeds you’ve planted before. These seeds are now in
his subconscious during sex and need only a slight “push” with a few
words here and there to create a massive orgasm.

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Talking Dirty Before

Sex – Why it Matters,
and How to do it

Dirty talk before actual sex is mental foreplay and what sets the stage
for great sex later. Instead of limiting dirty talk to just during sex,
become open to talking dirty all the time. By turning your guy on
throughout the day or week, you keep turning him on and building up
his desire for fucking the life out of you. Words feed his imagination a
lot better when he cannot act on the desire. Because then the only
thing he is left to is his imagination. And you know how often men think
of sex. He might as well be thinking of you.

This is all connected to being sexual and feminine – your guy needs to
feel the DOPID emotions before sex. This makes him want you a lot
more once sex finally happens. You have to continually build up his
desire for you. You do it in two ways. First – by using dirty talking and
trigger words before sex , and second – by being absent and not seeing
each other for a couple of days. These two things help build up his
desire of you.

Your man wants you to be sexually open towards HIM (and only him).
He wants to feel as if he is the GOD you WORSHIP and desire so much
that you can’t control yourself but say it and show (grab his cock in a
semi-‐public place) or verbalize your desire of him (say how you can’t
wait for him to fuck you) – still, on the outside, maintain “Lady
behavior” towards other people, but, whenever you have the chance,
show your dirty side to him.

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I’ve mentioned that you should do 70% of your dirty talk before sex
(like, just before sex, when you are already together at your or his
place), but that’s just the dirty talk which happens 10-‐15 minutes prior
to sex, when you have actual, real foreplay. That’s one thing. Another
thing is the dirty talk you do BEFORE just before sex. This is what
happens hours or days before actual physical foreplay-‐contact. This is
the mental foreplay and game you play to build up his desire over a
couple of hours, the course of a day (from morning to night) or a few
days before.

You’ll mostly operate in 3 environments here: talking on the phone,
texting (or sexting as they call it) and in public places (when you are not
100% alone and other people might hear you).

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Dirty Talk on the

phone

Think of yourself as a phone sex/hotline service. Why do you think
millions of men (still) call these hotlines and jerk off to the voice of
some supposedly hot, but actually chubby/ugly woman? She describes
“herself” as having a bubbly butt, big boobs, blue eyes, blonde hair, full
lips, and a deep-‐throat. She is a master of captivating his imagination
and talking in pictures... creating images in his mind. You can do the
same. Just press call. You don’t have to just discuss day to day stuff on
the phone. This really depends on your relationship’s situation
(married, living together, or just hooked up, long distance?) – either
way, when you do talk on the phone, you can find ways to make things
more sexual. Get creative by saying stuff that isn’t directly “dirty” but
has a sexual connotation/message that both of you will “get.”

He may go to the store and you can call him to tell him to pick up a few
things for you on the way.

you: “Hey, could you buy some wet wipes and Vaseline/baby oil?”
him: “okay... :)”

Men think of sex all the time, so telling him to get wet wipes and baby
oil/Vaseline will immediately make him think of sex. Or if you remind
him to buy condoms.

So, here you are directly-‐indirect. It has a sexual connotation, he knows
what you need it for. To be a bit kinkier, you might call him during the
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have something special prepared for him. Say it in a sexy tone so it
sounds seductive and sexual. He’ll ask “what?” Answer: It’s a secret,
you’ll see ;)

Everyone loves secrets and mysteries (if they are good, of course).
Either way, he’ll be thinking of that special something all day. Especially
if it’s something you don’t do every time, maybe you’ll do some new
role-‐play, or prepare him a Steak and Blowjob, or you’ll prepare a
romantic bubble bath and then have him fuck you naked on the floor
after your romantic evening with a bottle of wine. The point is to
seduce his mind and play with his imagination.

Again, dirty talk on the phone is similar to regular dirty talk, you might
just be a bit more subtle unless you have time for a longer conversation
and you won’t see each other for a couple of days/weeks. You’ll aim at
the main emotions. Tell him about how you can’t wait for him to own
you, dominate you, and feed you his cum. Build it up from light dirty
talk and if he plays along, start telling him about what you Can’t Wait
he does to you and you do to him. This is the perfect way to tell him
what YOU enjoy in bed, on the phone – when you cannot do anything
about it. If you’d like him to eat you out more, then mention that along
while telling him what you’d like him to do to you and what you would
do to him. Focus on the “I Love it when... “ he does X or Y, or you do X
or Y dirty thing to him.

If he’s alone on the other end, he’ll tell you about his cock getting hard
and he’ll tell you about the stuff he’d like to do to you. Tell him to get
his cock out of his pants and IMAGINE...

“If I was there now... I’d get down on my knees, down, below. Really
down... I’d look up at you from down there admiring your big, fat cock
staring at me. You’d slap me with it gently... I would slowly start sucking

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on your balls. Licking them below... Mmmmm (moan). Your dick tastes
so good. I’d put my lips around your cock and gently suck on it... to
warm it up. And then it put it deep down my throat and make it so wet.
I’d drool all over your cock... then I’d open my mouth wide , I’d have a
pony tail and let you hold my hair and then fuck my mouth... Do you
like fucking my throat?... oh my god, I can’t wait for you to do that and
then just take it out and cum all over my dirty little face.”

Even though he didn’t cum yet, you can continually make him visualize
THE END because this will make him believe more and more how you
can get him to climax so quickly. This is best done with guys that claim
they “can’t cum from a blowjob” – so it’s important to train his
subconscious mind and his imagination to believe it can be done, he
needs to see this picture in his mind continually.

“You know what else I’d like you to do to me...? I’d like you to tie me up
and just abuse me. fuck me however you want. I love it when you hold
my little waist and fuck me from behind, pull my hair... slap me and
shut me up when I scream too loud. my pussy is just dripping wet. and
then when you are about to cum, you’ll pull me down and stick your
cock down my throat and cum all down my dirty little slutty mouth... I
just can’t wait to taste your cum, my lips are so wet now. Tell me what
would you do to me...”

This is key. You tell him what you desire him to do (and that is actually
what he desires according to DOPID emotions), and then you tell him to
jerk off and tell you what he would do to you. This is the perfect
moment to hear THE TRUTH about what makes HIM go insane. It’s
brilliant. He’ll open up and you’ll have a tailor made thing, you’ll hear
what his deepest sexual desire is of you and what he wants to do to
you. It might be fucking your tight asshole or pulling your hair, or
cumming all over your face, whatever dirty thing it is, you’ll hear his

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deepest desires and he will be open to share with you because you are
the first one that opened up. Whatever he says, keep saying Yes, Yes,
Yes, I love that, “Please do that when you come home” – and there you
go, now you have a perfect scenario to prepare once you finally meet.
He’ll cum so hard from jerking off, you’ll hear him moan. This is much
better than having him watch porn. You can take him all the way like
this – on the phone. And now isn’t it amazing to be able to satisfy him
just by using the power of your voice?

Now imagine what you’ll be able to do once he’s actually there,
together with you.

If you will see each other soon (the same day) and there’s no reason for
him to jerk off, then the phone dirty talk can just be short and sweet, to
give him something to think about throughout the day.
Don’t be afraid to show your slutty/naughty side. Just be playful about
it and make him open up first. “I can’t wait for tonight... I really want to
cuddle... and of course some other stuff ;)”

So far, the point of all of this is to turn him on and let him go – so he
doesn’t jerk off or orgasm and all day long he keeps thinking of you.
This is best done if, for example, you guys live together and you know
he won’t have WHERE to jerk off because afterwards he’ll probably
come home. This means that throughout the day he’ll be thinking of
you and preparing himself mentally for how he’ll rape you and fuck you
like his little whore once he comes home. All of this phone sex thing is
mental foreplay and often more important than the dirty talk you do
during actual sex. Having the power to turn your guy on just by using
your voice and words is extremely important. Just remember to focus
on DOPID emotions.

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Now, in case you live apart and are in a long distance relationship, or
you simply can’t see each other as often as you’d both like, then it’s a
great idea to go “all in” and move from the subtle to the hard fucking
core with your phone dirty talk. Take him all the way, from start to
finish. It’s always better to keep him thinking of you and jerking off
imagining you than watching porn or thinking of other women. Your
phone sex will always remind him what EPIC stuff is waiting for him
once he finally sees you. This builds up his desire of you throughout a
couple of days, weeks, or even months.

You start slow and then simply go all the way in describing DOPID
emotions of what you’d like him to do to you or what you would do to
him. Describe in detail how you’d suck his cock, everything. The more
turned on you are the more turned on your voice will sound and he’ll
hear the sound of desire in your voice. He has to HEAR and FEEL your
absolute LOVE for his dick. He needs to hear that you are ADDICTED to
his glorious, amazing cock and how you are STARVING to have it down
your throat tickling your heart.

Now, the important thing is that you don’t bullshit him with all these
nice images once you finally see each other. You need to DELIVER your
promises. So don’t make a promise you can’t keep. And, change
yourself – so that you expand your sexual horizons and be down for
ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that makes him forget his own name and
STAMP YOUR NAME on his forehead.

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Sexting Dirty Talk

Technology is amazing. Now you can text, or whatsapp, or viber or
whatever the fuck you’re using. You can send him dirty little slutty
messages throughout the day and keep him hot for you all along. You
can send him dirty pictures or short clips of yourself. Of course, don’t
get too carried away with this stuff – you can always go the old-‐
fashioned way and just put a Post It note on the fridge saying “Fucking
Me @ 9 PM” or “Epic Blowjob @ 8 PM” , or take his planner if he has
one or computer and put a note for him so he knows at what time is
epic sex waiting for him. You’ll suddenly see him be on time finally. It’s
extremely important that you continually remind your guy that your
place (home, apartment) is the Sacred Temple of Sex and that HOME is
a place where his dick is more than welcome.

Anyway, regarding texting. Don’t go to a point where every single text
you send is dirty talk and don’t over-‐do it simply because the more you
do it the more common it becomes and it loses the initial excitement.

On the other hand, a major problem with a lot of women is that over
time they lose connection with their sexual side. They get comfortable
with being on the couch and watching TV all day. Sure, you can say “but
MEN do that too!” – stop with the blame game. Here we’re talking
about making your guy feel like a KING, and having a woman that’s not
sexual and feminine is definitely not going to make him feel great about
his life. You need to constantly stay sexy. For him, and yourself. You
need to make yourself feel sexy by looking your best (SQUAT) and by
letting your sexuality flow.

Of course, timing is important. You should not dirty text him and be
overly sexual when it’s simply not the right moment for that. He might

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be extremely busy with something and diverting his focus can confuse
him and piss him off. Balance it out. It’s a good strategy also to simply
not text him for a couple of days, bother him less and wait for him to
initiate contact first.

Anyway, time your dirty texts at appropriate moments, see if he’s
responsive. The point with a text isn’t just to be sexual, but letting him
know in a subtle way that you are thinking of him.

you: “honey, I hope you’re having a good day. I’ll make it even better
for you when you get home ;)”

The key is the wink smiley ;) because it’s flirty. Now you may have all
those cool emotional smileys/graphics in your phone that could express
more emotions with pictures/signs instead of words. That’s also great.

Usually the best time to text him would be when you can’t do anything
about it. So, when you know that there’s a big enough time frame
before you can actually get down to deep-‐throating. The time-‐frame
should be long, but not too long (months). It could be that it’s night
time, or during the day, but you know you still have the entire day
before you see each other. This is ideal because you build up desire.
Text him how you can’t stop thinking of him. Or how last night was
amazing (the sex) and how you can’t wait to do it again, but this time
you’ll have something special for him. Keep it sexually mysterious so
you leave things to his imagination. What will it be? You might have this
new outfit, or you’ll do an enema to have a night long of amazing anal,
or you’ll have him cum all over your face (if it’s the first time.)

Now, tell him how you can’t stop thinking of something sexual. Like...

you: Last night was delicious ;)

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This is something you would text him if you know he came down your
throat. Or... start a chat to open up his imagination.

you: Last night was amazing. But, I could barely walk to work today ;)
him: hahaha [ it doesn’t really matter what he replies...]
you: I’m can’t focus on work... still thinking of last night. I can’t wait to
feel you inside me again.
him: me too... bla bla [ It doesn’t really matter ]
you: what will you do to me next time?
him: [ Now you can hear his imagination and then fire off ]

you: Yes, please ...mmmm. I can’t wait.
you: Will you tie me up and fuck me like your little whore?
you: you can do whatever you want to me. whatever... you... want. ;)

The lines are endless. You know the DOPID system and that’s what you
should focus on. Either way, start light and then see if he plays along – if
he does, this may mean he’s more relaxed and in a not-‐too-‐busy
environment (if he’s at work) so he has time to sit, text, and imagine
you. You can even tell him to go to the toiled and jerk off to you. You
can give him a call if he does go to the toiled and talk the nastiest stuff
in the world. Tell him all the dirty stuff you want him to do to you
tonight.

Text him how you’d love to be there now at his office, and just kneel
down under his table and suck his cock from 9 to 5. Or just give yourself
a quick dose of his love potion and then leave him be. The key thing is
knowing when to leave... That’s what will make a man love you.

Now, maybe you are with this guy in a new relationship or you guys are
still just hooking up. In this case, your texts could be flirtier and more

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suggestive but not actually sexual. So you can text in a suggestive way,
but not explicitly talking about sex, this is important before you actually
have more trust in this guy.

Focus on DOPID emotions continually. Let’s go through it again so you
understand suggestive dirty texts (and NOT the BULLSHIT you can read
in many online articles).

The Intro: you need to get into that “dirty” frame of mind of his so he
knows he won’t get rejected by you if he responds. This means you
need to take initiative in the process. The intro could be anything
suggestive of the past or future. What you did, or what you hope you
will do. So, you start with a text like (if you know when you’ll see each
other next time).

you: what do you want to do tonight?

him 1: Not sure, i’m a bit tired , I’d rather stay at home OR
him 2: Maybe we can grab a drink/dinner somewhere/watch a movie

you 1: I’ll make us dinner and a bubble bath, and then I have something
special for you ;) OR
you 2: Sure, i’d love to have some wine, then we can go to your
place/my place/home ... I have something special for you ;)

He’ll immediately WAKE UP from a something special response with a
smiley at the end knowing it’s something naughty. Then, after his
response, you can start tingling his imagination and go through DOPID
emotions.

The lead doesn’t have to be “what do you want to do tonight?” , it
really depends on the situation. You can start the lead reminding him of

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“Last night” because that immediately associates him of the sex you
had and then you can text him about the things you most enjoyed and
what you hope for next time.

Dominance, Power, Ownership Texts

“Will you tie me up next time ;)”
“I can’t wait for tonight... you can do whatever you want to me ;)”
“I’m so hungry... will you feed me tonight? ;)”
“What do you want me to wear tonight?” (this will trigger his
imagination)
“I love it when you push me against the wall”
“I love it when you pull my hair like that and hold me tight”
“I love it when you fuck my little dirty mouth”
“You know I’ve been a bad girl. Please don’t punish me tonight, I’ll do
anything ;)”
“Do you like it when I get on my knees in front of you? ;)”
“I’ll put my hair in a ponytail so you can get a better hold of my head
when I get on my knees for you ;)”
“I can’t wait for you to come home and decorate my face and mouth...
mmmm, hurry, I’m starving ;)”
“I love it when you choke me a bit”
“I’ve been a good girl. Please don’t punish me tonight ;)”
“Red or Black?” (he’ll reply maybe “what red or black?” , just ask again
“Red or Black ;)?” , and the smiley helps him understand it’s something
naughty, either it’s a red dress or red thongs.
“I know you like my booty... it’s yours. You can do whatever you want
to it.”

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Feeling Important and Desired

You can text him something about how fascinated you are with him, his
cock, or the way he does something to you. It usually starts with “It
feels so good when...” or “I love it when...” the point is to stroke his big
ego – that’s what makes him hard. If we could, we’d jerk off to
ourselves.

“I love looking up at you when I’m on my knees, you look so sexy”
“It feels so good when you are rock hard, deep inside me... anywhere
you want.”

“I get wet just from thinking of having you deep down my dirty little
throat.”

“I love it when you fuck me so damn hard I lose control completely”
“I can’t believe I’m texting you this, but... I can’t wait to have your cock
down my throat. It just feels so right there.”
“You turn me on so much, I can’t stop thinking of last night. I’ll have to
return the favor soon ;)”
“Thank you for fucking me so well last night. Please don’t stop ;)” (
adopt the attitude of gratitude – remember – his dick is a gift from God
and you worship that cock like the most valuable thing on Earth, the
source of life, water, air – his dick: the meaning of life.)
“I can’t wait to lick all over you... I’m starving to have you all over me,
wherever you wish”
“Are you gonna make me scream?”

In case he sends you a message of what he’d like and what he wants to
do you to, reply with:

“Your wish is my command ;)”

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or

“Yes, please ;)”

Now, an important element here is to incorporate ROLE PLAY even into
your sexting and phone sex conversations. It will be way easier for you
to be naughty when it’s a role. So when you pick up the phone you can
joke around, call him “Your Majesty,” play the role of his servant from
time to time, all of this will evoke DOPID emotions. You need to get
creative with this and make it fun. Use metaphors that he can associate
with sex. If it’s Christmas time or you are organizing a birthday party,
you can text him something like:

“Hey, you need to help me with decorating tonight”

And then when he comes home (ready to help), you’ll already have
everything ready.

“Oh, I didn’t mean decorating for the party/Christmas... there’s
something else you need to decorate... ;)” (then get on your knees so
he can decorate your face and mouth)

You need to tune into this slutty side and gradually become less and
less worried about being perceived as HIS SLUT. There’s a big difference
between being “a slut” and HIS SLUT, because every man wants you to
be his slut, but not “a slut” of the world.

Okay. So, all of this “dirty talk BEFORE sex” is very important to turn him
on throughout the day and keep his imagination active and get him to
open up to his sexual desires. The things you do over text, you can also
do via email, in case you don’t see each other for a couple of days. You

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can dress up in something super sexy and take a pic of your booty or
boobs, or yourself kneeling on the floor and then take a selfie looking
down at you, send him this and tell him “waiting for you ;)” Or a pic of
your booty, wearing thongs and high heels.

This is all mental foreplay and something that heats him up and
PREPARES him for the dirty, naughty stuff you will say just before and
during banging the life out of each other.

I think that pretty much covers all the things you need to know to say
and say it right. The stuff he actually wants to hear.

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The Crap Women

Say

Now, as a reminder: DO NOT listen to what women think men want to
hear. Some MORONS in an online magazine recommended women to
say the following crap during sex:

“I can’t imagine having sex with anyone else”
“I never want any other cock inside me”

Now, this may SOUND “good” to you, but it’s actually horribly stupid.
NO GUY wants to imagine ANY OTHER COCK near his girlfriend or wife.
Except a few men that like watching “their” woman being fucked by
another dude, but for men like that, the DOPID system doesn’t really
work. These men get turned on by being beaten up and LOSING power
instead of gaining it. Anyway, the type of guy you are probably with,
DOES NOT WANT TO EVEN IMAGINE another dick anywhere near you.
You THINK you are saying something along “honey, you are unique, you
are important to me, you are the best”

But what he is actually hearing is the following. This is what you say and
what he HEARS:

-‐-‐-‐> I’m having sex with someone else

-‐-‐-‐> Another cock inside me

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That’s the difference between what you say and what he hears. Never
associate another dick with you. What turns him on is OWNERSHIP,
complete ownership of your pussy. NOT sharing. So, when I tell you
NOT TO THINK of the RED APPLE, you can’t help the image of a red
apple popping up in your mind even though I told you NOT to think of
it. The same goes for “I never want any other cock inside me” – and you
shouldn’t! The thing is, that’s exactly what he’ll be thinking of...
another dick inside you. Put statements in a POSITIVE form, not a
negative. So there’s no “I don’t” or “can’t” or “never.”

Instead, use positive versions of the same thing so he doesn’t imagine
the bullshit women are suggested on these idiotic sites. Get creative
with the same message just get it across so it translates well in his
mind. For example, the bullshit you read online:


Could be:

“Please keep fucking me forever”

Or the other crap could be, instead of:


Say:

“Oh my god, your are my God of sex, keep fucking me please... being
fucked by you is my life’s purpose. Do whatever you want to me”

That’s way nicer to hear than “another dick inside me.”

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You need to stick to my DOPID system and know what PURPOSE your
words have and what RESULT you want out of your words. I taught you
how to fish and now you can create your own tailor made combinations
of words that make him FEEL great and his mind explode. And beyond.

A little gem I forgot to mention is your TONE of voice. Tune into your
feminine, sexual side. When you talk dirty, you won’t have a straight
face and robotic voice as if you are talking business. You’ll have to use
your seductive, girly voice – sometimes even innocent sounding voice.
Tune into it by moaning and getting turned on. Your voice is different
when you are turned on.

In the end, the most important aspect of dirty talk is that you LET GO.

Let go of your negative social conditioning towards being “a slut.” He
wants you to be a dirty little whore, but still, appear innocent in a way.
That’s sexy and naughty. The only way you can truly get used to dirty
talk is by DOING it, more and more, and over time you become
comfortable with it. But you can’t get to that stage unless you give
yourself permission to be his dirty little sexy cock-‐addicted slut. You
need to give yourself permission to do it. Say it out loud. “I give myself
permission to be free, kinky, and say whatever I feel and feel confident
and sexy while saying it. I believe in myself.” Repeat this, whenever in
doubt about your dirty talk confidence.

The next one you should repeat is:

“Every day I become more and more confident in all aspects of my life.”

(this includes dirty talk as well). This type of affirmation is crucial for
you to re-‐program your mind and turn you from a shy and confused
Hello Kitty into the Sluterella he wants you to be.

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Jack’s Dirty Talk Drills

Drill 1
And, finally, to end this already too long chapter on dirty talk. I have a
“dirty talk drill” for you. View it as an exercise. The only way you can get
better at talking dirty is by SAYING IT (or writing it, to practice your
sexting) more and more often. This is what I want you to do. I want you
to write me a dirty email , send it to jacktarzanic@gmail.com , the
longer, the better. And make it as dirty as you can, in your own words.
Describe something. Imagine I was your boyfriend, husband, lover,
whatever, some dude you fantasize about, some crush. Write me
anything naughty and dirty about your fantasy, or what you’d like to do
to that guy – but all along, imagine as if you were writing to HIM, have
that guy in mind. Give the email the subject name “My dirty letter” or
“My dirty little secret” or whatever other subject as long as it contains
the word dirty I’ll know it’s specifically made for this drill. I’ll rate your
letter on the level of it’s hotness and quality. Get into the details of
your imagination. Your deepest, dirties desires. It is completely
anonymous by the way, I’ll never share your letter, name, email, or
anything with anyone. I take your privacy extremely seriously. If you are
worried, you can even use a new/fake email address just for this
purpose. The only time I might share your letter (without revealing any
personal info) is when you give me permission to share it (and that’s
usually when it’s a testimonial). SO – I urge you to be open, free, and
speak your mind, your deepest desires and thoughts. Each month I’ll
select one Winning Dirty Letter and if your letter is the Winner I’ll have
a special goodie prize for you. I’ll also comment on each letter and
maybe give you some tips on what improvements you can make. I want
you to describe everything in detail, the emotions, everything. It can be
a complete story that incorporates dirty talks here and there. Create a
fantasy – plan out a sex scenario with whoever you want with, from

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start to finish and make it as slutty and as dirty as possible, think of a
role, whatever you’d like. This is a preparation for you and your guy so
that you can imagine and plan things out and make it seem
spontaneous to him, but actually perfectly planned and executed. You
can also tell me of any “dirty” moment you did in the past. I want you
to associate good feelings with this slutty side of you that you’ve been
hiding from the world, and your guy.

Let the competition begin and the best letter win!

Drill 2
Now, the second drill is that you take that letter, and record your voice.
Read it out loud and make your tone sexy, seductive, slutty – as much
as you can. The best is that you feed your imagination as much as you
can and tune into your “turned on” voice. Your voice is different when
you are turned on. Record your letter, or parts of if, the dirtiest parts.
And send me that recording as well so I let you know how good it is.
Also, each month there will be a winning dirty recording I’ll select and
you’ll also get some prizes. If you are not on my VIP CONSULTING
services, the prize might be that I give you a 6 month VIP Consulting
service so you can ask me anything about sex, relationships, dating,
whatever. I might give you a sneak-‐peak into some tips from my next
book Jack’s Relationship Secrets (the guide to keeping a guy, besides
being a goddess in the bedroom). Just like the letter, get creative here
and say what you want your guy to do to YOU. Open up with the ways
you want to be fucked by him and how you want him to behave.

I want you to write it, and SAY it, and get used to saying it as often as
you can and these drills can help you LET GO and relax. You’ll also get
some feedback from me so we can tune and tweak your dirty talk skills
so his mind melts. These drills will help you let go. So get creative with it
and tell me the dirtiest stories you can think of.

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Think of it as a porn audition or a hot line audition.

The key here is that you get naughty and start to enjoy talking dirty
instead of being intimidated by it.

I’ll be waiting for your dirty letter and get back with some feedback
soon.

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