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Enjoying Paying For Value: % 3 Weeks Ago & 12 ' 5832 (1) Tynan
Enjoying Paying For Value: % 3 Weeks Ago & 12 ' 5832 (1) Tynan
Being frugal can be good. At it's best, being frugal is the practice of deciding
whether you actually need something or not, whether it will be worth it to you,
and carefully stewarding your money. Most people should probably be more
frugal.
Over time, however, I realized that my frugality had turned into something
different. I felt as though I didn't win unless someone else lost. When I went to
a buffet, it was important to me that I ate so much that the casino lost money
on me. Either I was the sucker or they were the sucker, and I didn't want it to
be me. One of the best things at the Bellagio buffet was the pesto mashed
potatoes, but I would only allow myself tiny amounts of them because I didn't
want to fill up on cheap potatoes.
I'm not sure what changed my mind on this. Maybe it was just a natural
product of maturation, maybe it had something to do with me selling things to
people, or maybe I just became less poor and had the luxury of not having to
fight for every penny.
A while back I was listening to a podcast and the host was talking about his
friend who owned a mechanic shop. It was an expensive shop that was known
for doing really good work. He had his guest guess how much money his
friend made. The answer? About $85,000 a year. That's a good income, but
that's not a ton of profit per customer. Due to how capitalism works, most
things are priced not far from their value. If car repairs are expensive, that's
because it costs a lot to make car repairs, not because it's an easy way to rip
people off.
Earlier this year our boat needed a whole new engine, which cost about $10k.
It sucks to have to replace an engine, of course, but I noticed that I didn't
really mind paying for my half of the repair. The marina pulled the boat to the
dock, trailered it, brought it to their repair shop, replaced the engine, and then
put it back in the slip when they were done. Instead of focusing on the cost, I
focused on the value. I couldn't build an engine. I couldn't even get the old one
out (in fact, thinking about it more, I have no idea how they pulled such a huge
engine out through the hole in the deck). And on top of all that, I didn't even
have to go down in person once to deal with it. That's a great compilation of
value, and I'm happy to pay it.
I'm still frugal and I still like to get a good value, but now I want the person
selling the good or service to me to get a good value, too. I pay for more
services now and I feel better buying things than I used to. I think of it as
collaborative-- I'll buy this product so that the seller is incentivized to keep
doing what they're doing and maybe even make better things down the road.
Maybe everyone reading this already thinks this way, but it took me a while to
get here and I find that it really reduces friction in how I think of spending
money.
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Photo is of the tea room of the tea school in Vegas. Classes just started again
and I'm really grateful to be able to take them again. Incidentally, it occurred to
me during the last class what an incredible value those classes are.
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