CW RAPE, SEXUAL ASSAULT, URINE, ALCOHOL

I (Leo/@chomptoy) am writing this for Kip/sunniiside because right at the moment they’re still in
shock and uncomfortable, but feel like they should just be straightforward with what happened
tonight(July, 17th 2020) because Alex will not. This is about
Alex/Spongegasm/Spongegasmic/snoopingasusualisee(tumblr). I have full permission from Kip
to be writing this. Kip has just recently (4 months ago) turned 18, Alex just turned 22 in April.

Tonight me and a few friends, Kip and Alex included, were hanging out as we were celebrating
Kip potentially moving into the area. We intended to drink and have a good time together as we
were all very close and have done it before in a close, monitored environment so that Kip would
be safe as they are younger and it was their second time ever drinking, so they were still trying
to figure out what their limits were.

Things did however get a little out of hand and they ended up going over their limits alcohol
wise, as admittedly I and many others there did. Kip and Alex both had to use the restroom but
were tripping over each other, so they both ended up going in together. Alex commented that he
was too drunk to pee by himself and Kip would have to hold his genitals. Kip thought this was
weird, but trusted Alex and let him in to the bathroom with them. Kip used the restroom and Alex
made sexual comments about Kip’s genitalia. Kip left the restroom and when Alex followed, he
made a comment about drinking Kip’s urine. We all laughed thinking he was joking, but he then
insisted no, he wasn’t, and commented on how it tasted. Throughout the night he would
continue to insist it wasn’t in fact a joke. This obviously made all of us incredibly uncomfortable,
especially knowing that Alex has disclosed to most of us that he has a watersports fetish and his
intention was likely tied to that.

The night continued as normal, but Kip left at one point to go to their room and cry. I went to
comfort them and they told me they had slight feelings for Alex at the time and was scared that
what Alex did would break up his relationship with his then girlfriend of 8 years. Alex did not
seem to care that they had left, and had noticed and asked if they were okay but didn’t follow
them when they didn’t respond. I sat with Kip until they were okay and we rejoined the group.
They left multiple times upset by Alex and the situation, and Alex every time didn’t pay attention
at all. I had looked over at one point to see Kip crying in his arms as he gleefully sung along to
the musical we were watching and didn’t even notice.

The longer they sat together the more intimate Alex got with Kip. It went from them just sitting
together, to close cuddling, to spooning. Kip was scared his girlfriend would be mad, and Alex
asked her if cuddling was okay. She told him it made her a little anxious, but he continued. He
did not disclose anything other than that. It got to the point where he admitted he was getting
aroused, and at that point it became more sexual with Kip grinding up to him and Alex
reciprocating. At this point he was almost entirely sober, me and a friend who was there tested
him on it, with the whole walking in a straight line test, and he passed and insisted that he was
sober and I believe him. Kip however was still quite out of it and very drunk, and incredibly
impressionable and trusted Alex completely. I at that point had already left the room to talk to
Bengly (@kittengfs) about what to do about how uncomfortable the urine drinking incident had
made everyone, and that Alex was potentially taking advantage of Kip. Everyone else had
already gone home. We had no idea how far he would take it, or we would never have left them
alone.

Things escalated and he progressively started rubbing his hand against their breasts, and
began fingering Kip on and off. At that point he would consistently tell Kip he should stop, and
that he needs to think about his girlfriend. At that point Kip asked him if they should stop, or if he
wanted to go lay down so Kip could sober up. I at that point heard something suspicious, so I
entered the room to check on them and they stopped. I was upset and suspicious of him so I
insisted that he leave and he went home.

Bengly and I talked to Kip when he was gone and they disclosed everything to us. We reacted
quickly and removed him from our social circle immediately. He then posted this publicly, being
as vague as possible about the situation:

Here is a video showing him attempting to de-escalate the situation in his personal server:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1aXX-NjWMOSoyJCB3vFsv6rP653Qxgddh
(Fixed link sorry!)

Alex, if you’re reading this, I sincerely hope that you get help. What you did to Kip is absolutely
disgusting. They were your best friend and you took advantage of them when you knew they
had feelings for you and trusted you more than anyone in their life. At any point tonight you
could have stopped and said “I’m not in the right state of mind, and neither are you”, and gotten
me or Bengly and told us what was going on. This didn’t have to happen. It was a decision that
you yourself made, sober. Don’t hide behind alcohol because you WERE sober for the whole
thing. You said it yourself, you should have been thinking about Ess, and you weren’t at all,
were you? As for your apology, none of us will ever accept it or forgive you. The fact that you’re
more concerned with covering your own ass instead of apologizing personally to Kip for what
you did shows that.

For identification purposes, this is his fursona: